{"id":15303,"date":"2020-11-26T14:21:34","date_gmt":"2020-11-26T14:21:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15303"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:05:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:05:10","slug":"8-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-non-dovrebbero-fare-le-difficili","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-non-dovrebbero-fare-le-difficili\/","title":{"rendered":"8 motivi per cui le donne non devono fare le difficili"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To be honest, I don&#8217;t believe in playing games right from the start when it comes to relationships. I mean, a relationship is hard as it is, right?<\/p>\n<p>There are two people trying so hard to find a balance and to communicate properly, so why make it harder by faking your feelings? It&#8217;s much easier to be upfront about how you feel than to calculate how many minutes you need to wait before you text him back.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why, for all my lady friends out there who think that playing hard to get is going to bring them success in their love life, here are some reasons to rethink that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Most men don&#8217;t &#8216;love the chase&#8217;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123379\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo insoddisfatto che guarda una donna\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re crushing on a guy who is ambitious and has plans for his life, he won&#8217;t want to waste time chasing a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themodernman.com\/blog\/why-do-women-play-games.html\" rel=\"noopener\">girl who&#8217;s playing games with him<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Vuole una donna che sappia quello che vuole e lo insegua. Le ragazze giocano, le donne agiscono.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;ll be more interested<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123380\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia sorridente che parla al ristorante\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>L'altro giorno mi sono seduto con un paio di amici maschi e mi hanno detto che se vedono una donna interessata a loro, iniziano a interessarsi di pi\u00f9 a lei. Significa che lei ha visto qualcosa in loro che l'ha fatta innamorare.<\/p>\n<p>So playing hard to get only drives them away. It&#8217;s like knowing that she&#8217;s not interested enough to actually start a conversation.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It&#8217;s different<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123381\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna sorridenti che parlano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Siamo tutti d'accordo che gli uomini amano le donne che si distinguono dalla massa, <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/holden-desalles\/2014\/10\/15-guys-on-the-one-irresistible-thing-women-do-that-make-them-stand-out-from-the-rest\/\" rel=\"noopener\">donne diverse dalle altre<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So men are used to being the pursuers, that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s a challenge to meet a girl who doesn&#8217;t play hard to get. It&#8217;s interesting and it&#8217;s something new and it makes them want her even more.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Lui ti vuole davvero<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123382\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia sorridente in un caff\u00e8 di strada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he&#8217;s interested in you just because he can&#8217;t have you, he will be pursuing someone else the moment he sees that he has obtained your heart.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re honest about your feelings and he returns the favor, then you will know that he really does want you and he&#8217;s not playing games with you either.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It doesn&#8217;t make you less feminine<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123383\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che parla nel parco\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If a man plays the pursuer it means that he holds all the cards and that he\u2019s the dominant one, right? Wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Saying how you feel and being honest about what you think of someone isn&#8217;t a game of power. It&#8217;s about honesty.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Opportunit\u00e0 mancate<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123384\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di una ragazza alla luce dello schermo dello smartphone\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve been daydreaming about that guy\u2019s butt for weeks but he can&#8217;t seem to take the hint that you&#8217;re interested in him, right? Well, how could he if you&#8217;re calculating how much time needs to pass between dates?<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t just sit around<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-giochi-mentali-che-gli-uomini-tossici-fanno-nelle-relazioni\/\"> giochi mentali<\/a> with him, go out and get that butt! Otherwise you will miss out on so many wonderful men who are ready to love you, just because you weren&#8217;t able to show enough interest.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Rispettano anche se stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123385\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo confuso che guarda la telecamera mentre tiene in mano un telefono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not taking their side, but men do have a lot of self-respect. If they need to run after you for weeks, maybe even months because you are too insecure to say that you&#8217;re interested, then they will just walk away. It&#8217;s that easy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Essere se stessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123386\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo e una donna siedono e parlano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quand'\u00e8 che piacere a qualcuno \u00e8 diventato un crimine? Divertitevi, divertitevi! Siate onesti sui vostri sentimenti e su chi siete!<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no one out there who&#8217;s even nearly as wonderful as you are, so embrace it!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123388\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 motivi per cui le donne non devono fare le difficili\" width=\"1587\" height=\"2245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest.jpg 1587w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1587px) 100vw, 1587px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To be honest, I don&#8217;t believe in playing games right from the start when it comes to relationships. I mean, a relationship is hard as it is, right? There are two people trying so hard to find a balance and to communicate properly, so why make it harder by faking your feelings? It&#8217;s much easier&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":123387,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15303","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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