{"id":15322,"date":"2020-07-27T09:21:28","date_gmt":"2020-07-27T09:21:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15322"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:01:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:01:36","slug":"6-modi-in-cui-chi-tradisce-fa-la-vittima","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-modi-in-cui-chi-tradisce-fa-la-vittima\/","title":{"rendered":"6 modi per affrontare un traditore che fa la vittima"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 gi\u00e0 abbastanza brutto essere traditi, ma essere dipinti come cattivi e accusati di essere la causa del loro tradimento \u00e8 un altro livello di cattiveria.<\/p>\n

And the worst part is that most of us know how it feels to be blamed for someone\u2019s cheating, how it feels to feel guilty for it.<\/p>\n

Affrontare un traditore<\/a> is bad as it is but when you\u2019re planning on doing it, you need to get ready for his victim card playing as well.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him convince you that you are the one to blame, don\u2019t let him guilt-trip you into apologizing. Follow these steps when confronting him and get him out of your life as quickly as possible.<\/p>\n

Sadness doesn\u2019t justify cheating\u2014make sure he hears it loud and clear<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Non importa quanto siano difficili le situazioni in cui vi trovate, il tradimento non \u00e8 mai la soluzione. Se c'\u00e8 un problema, risolvetelo insieme. Se manca qualcosa, trovatela insieme.<\/p>\n

Andare alle tue spalle per trovare quello che gli manca \u00e8 il peggior tipo di tradimento.<\/p>\n

Sure, it\u2019s easier to go around fucking others and blaming it on your relationship but if you truly want your relationship to make it, you stay and you fight.<\/p>\n

Noi don\u2019t give up on people easily but sometimes they\u2019re just not worth the fight<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Digli come ci si sente<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid of sharing your emotions; tell him all about it. He went on a cheating spree because he was down? Then let him know how you feel now.<\/p>\n

Let him know how it feels to be broken by the one person who\u2019s supposed to hold you together.<\/p>\n

Ditegli come ci si sente quando l'unica persona che pu\u00f2 impedirvi di piangere \u00e8 la persona che vi ha fatto piangere.<\/p>\n

Quando eri gi\u00f9, sei rimasto fedele<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Everyone has rough days, everyone has days when they don\u2019t think they can make it out of bed. But it still doesn\u2019t mean that you cheat on him because that\u2019s not what love is about.<\/p>\n

Since when is it okay to cheat just because you\u2019re missing something in your relationship? It\u2019s not. Nor will it ever be.<\/p>\n

Assicuratevi che lo sappia. Assicuratevi che lo ricordi bene perch\u00e9 siete insieme in quella relazione.<\/p>\n

Se a lui mancava qualcosa, mancava anche a voi, eppure siete rimasti fedeli.<\/p>\n

Farlo riflettere sulla situazione inversa<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

There is a possibility that he actually feels like a victim, so ask him how he would feel if you cheated on him. He won\u2019t be feeling like a victim much longer, trust me.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9, a prescindere dal problema, se volete risolverlo, potete farlo. Il tradimento \u00e8 un vero e proprio omicidio della relazione.<\/p>\n

Utilizzate le prove, se le avete<\/h2>\n

\"fidanzata<\/p>\n

Se avete prove di un suo tradimento, usatele. Se avete una foto di lui che si gode la compagnia di un'altra donna, usatela contro di lui.<\/p>\n

The happy-looking man on the photo sure as hell doesn\u2019t look like a victim.<\/p>\n

Lo so, fa male vedere qualcuno che ami con un'altra persona, ma che lui giochi la carta della vittima con te \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 doloroso.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t listen to him<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 davvero qualcosa che pu\u00f2 dire per rimediare a ci\u00f2 che ha fatto? C'\u00e8 qualcosa che possa riparare il vostro cuore spezzato e la vostra fiducia?<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 solo ferirti di pi\u00f9 e farti sentire peggio per il suo tradimento. Caro, nulla gli impedir\u00e0 di seguirti se lo desidera veramente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Just because he is incapable of loving and committing to you, doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not worthy of being loved.<\/p>\n

If you already made up your mind about walking away, don\u2019t waste another second on him. He\u2019s not worth it anyway.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s bad enough to be cheated on but to be portrayed as a villain and accused as the reason for their cheating is a whole other level of bad. And the worst part is that most of us know how it feels to be blamed for someone\u2019s cheating, how it feels to feel guilty for…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":97299,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15322","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15322"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15322\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97299"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}