Between men and women, men are more likely to cheat on their long-term relationship partners. Here are the common reasons 3 types of men have affairs, as well as tips on recognizing the signs when it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n
Quali sono i 3 tipi di uomini che hanno una relazione?<\/h2>\n
Tutti gli uomini tradiscono? Pi\u00f9 precisamente, tutti gli uomini tradirebbero, se ne avessero l'opportunit\u00e0?<\/p>\n
Secondo un Indagine sociale generale <\/a> e analisi dei dati demografici sull'infedelt\u00e0 negli Stati Uniti, gli uomini sposati sono pi\u00f9 probabile<\/em> than married women to cheat, but the gap isn\u2019t as wide as you\u2019d think: 20% of men and 13% of women reported that they\u2019d had extramarital affairs.<\/strong><\/p>\n Even assuming that some men lied and didn\u2019t admit to unfaithfulness in the above-mentioned survey, it still doesn\u2019t mean that all men cheat.<\/p>\n In realt\u00e0, solo 3 tipi di uomini hanno relazioni: uomini che si sentono non amati e che hanno paura di lasciare le loro mogli, narcisisti e uomini immaturi<\/b><\/a> che vogliono avere entrambe le cose.<\/strong><\/p>\n Things are more complex than that, of course, so let\u2019s take a closer look at these 3 types of men who have affairs.<\/p>\n Calling him a coward might be harsh, but it\u2019s not as bad as him cheating on his wife. This type of cheater is usually a married man who has become disconnected from his wife but doesn\u2019t have the courage to end the relationship or work on repairing it.<\/strong><\/p>\n Things aren\u2019t always black and white. A man in an unhappy relationship isn\u2019t the only person to blame for the things that aren\u2019t working.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, aveva problemi di intimit\u00e0 <\/a> e ha scelto di affrontare i problemi della sua relazione tradendo il suo compagno quando altre soluzioni avrebbero potuto portare a risultati diversi.<\/strong><\/p>\n Il problema di queste altre soluzioni, come affrontare il partner e comunicare apertamente, \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 difficile. Richiede vulnerabilit\u00e0 emotiva e impegno<\/b>. It\u2019s far easier to start over and look for closeness elsewhere, potentially forcing the relationship to end.<\/p>\n Cosa succede qui? Queste sono le fasi che attraversa.<\/p>\n \u2022 Something is missing from his relationship and his marriage<\/strong>. La vita \u00e8 andata avanti e lui e sua moglie si sono allontanati. La quantit\u00e0 di amore e di affetto che riceveva dalla moglie si \u00e8 affievolita con il tempo.<\/p>\n \u2022 His wife isn\u2019t who she used to be.<\/strong> She\u2019s not as loving, as caring, or as sexy as she once was. She doesn\u2019t give him the attention he needs. He feels like she no longer cares about his emotional and sexual needs or what’s going on with him.<\/p>\n \u2022 The mancanza di intimit\u00e0 emotiva e sessuale<\/a><\/strong> lo porta a provare risentimento nei confronti della moglie e a disilludersi sul suo matrimonio.<\/p>\n \u2022 He misses being desired.<\/strong> He wishes his wife would meet his needs, but he\u2019s afraid to talk to her. Maybe she\u2019s a nag or a bully, or she\u2019s kind and sweet. Either way, he\u2019s unhappy with her and fantastica su qualcun altro <\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 He decides to turn to affairs to fulfill his needs<\/strong>. He\u2019s looking for someone who seems interested in him as a person. He wants validation. He needs his ego stroked and for his sex life to become more exciting.<\/p>\n \u2022 The marriage is crumbling<\/strong>. Instead of communicating with his partner and working on his relationship or, if they can\u2019t work out, ending things, he decides to cheat. When he\u2019s caught, it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n \u2022 It\u2019s much easier to cheat to end his relationships<\/strong> instead of dealing with the issues directly. Even if they stay together, they won\u2019t be the same married couple they were before he had an affair.<\/p>\n Questo tipo di comportamento equivale a rinunciare al matrimonio senza informare la moglie, con l'aggiunta di ferirla e tradire la sua fiducia.<\/strong><\/p>\n In poche parole, narcissists are people who are so selfish that they completely disregard other people\u2019s importance.<\/strong> This doesn\u2019t mean that they\u2019re ignaro<\/em> of other people\u2019s needs and feelings, only that they\u2019re completely irrelevant to them unless they can be used.<\/p>\n Una persona affetta da disturbo narcisistico di personalit\u00e0 si sente in diritto<\/strong> \u2013 to admiration and attention, to things and people \u2013 and he gets upset when he doesn\u2019t get what he believes he deserves.<\/p>\n Manipolare e danneggiare gli altri <\/a> gli viene naturale. He doesn\u2019t think about the impact of his behavior<\/strong> on other people \u2013 because other people aren\u2019t important.<\/p>\n This leads to behaviors that hurt his partner, and he doesn\u2019t see what the problem is.<\/p>\n He\u2019s capable of emotional compartmentalization and separates love from sex.<\/strong> In his case, separating love and sex doesn\u2019t mean that he can have sex with people he doesn\u2019t love, which isn\u2019t a problematic behavior in itself \u2013 it\u2019s that he considers sex completely inconsequential.<\/strong><\/p>\n Come si applica all'imbroglio?<\/p>\n \u2022 He doesn\u2019t consider sex a matter of consequence<\/strong> and doesn\u2019t get why his partner would take his cheating to heart. He\u2019s capable of having sex with anyone without feeling anything, not only about the person but also the repercussions.<\/p>\n For example, he wouldn\u2019t understand why his one-night stand might hurt his primary relationship any more than simply having a conversation with another woman would. This doesn\u2019t excuse him \u2013 he still knows it\u2019s wrong, but he simply doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n \u2022 Sex in the affair means nothing to him<\/strong> \u2013 it just happens. When he sees an opportunity, he takes it. If a woman is open to his sexual advances, he sees no reason he shouldn\u2019t pursue an encounter or affair with her. It\u2019s just sex, after all, and instead of being a big deal, it\u2019s simply available.<\/p>\n Questo potrebbe anche portare alla dipendenza dal sesso.<\/p>\n \u2022 Because sex is such a casual thing<\/strong> per lui, sottovaluta quanto pu\u00f2 ferire il partner con il suo comportamento. La sua mancanza di empatia per gli altri e il suo approccio distaccato e opportunistico al sesso possono portarlo a tradire con pi\u00f9 partner.<\/p>\n When he\u2019s involved in several affairs, he\u2019s using the women he\u2019s cheating with to meet his needs without considering theirs. Ha bisogno di continue attenzioni da parte delle donne <\/a>e sceglie ci\u00f2 che gli piace da ognuno di loro, creando un rapporto su misura.<\/p>\n \u2022 Even though he has no moral qualms<\/strong> Questo tipo di adultero \u00e8 ancora consapevole del fatto che \u00e8 sbagliato e che avr\u00e0 determinate conseguenze. Non ha rimorsi, ma si eccita a comportarsi male.<\/p>\n He sees himself as a thrill-seeker, and the risk of getting caught makes him enjoy his affair even more. He likes it that he could get caught, but the fact that it\u2019s a chance to screw up his whole life doesn\u2019t matter to him.<\/p>\n This kind of cheater is in a relationship or marriage with someone he doesn\u2019t see as a partner but as a caretaker. In a way, vede la moglie come la sua mamma e doesn\u2019t have the maturity<\/b><\/a> di lavorare sui suoi problemi.<\/strong><\/p>\n Vuole avere entrambe le cose: una relazione stabile a casa con qualcuno che si prenda cura di lui e una relazione eccitante al di fuori del matrimonio. Per questo motivo, si comporta come un adolescente o, pi\u00f9 precisamente, an immature mama\u2019s boy <\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 He says he’s in love with his wife, but he really likes the convenience<\/strong> and what he gets from her. He behaves like an adolescent: he\u2019s looking for independence, but he still wants his \u201cmom\u201d (his wife) to take care of him at home.<\/p>\n He enjoys the sneaking around that comes with cheating \u2013 he sees it as rebelling against the rules that his mom-wife has imposed<\/strong>. Tutti gli sforzi e le trame necessarie per avere una relazione segreta gli danno il brivido di farla franca.<\/p>\n \u2022 To him, cheating is also a way of taking control.<\/strong> Because he sees his wife as someone responsible for him who does so much for him, making a decision without her feels like he\u2019s in charge. He\u2019s seeking validation and trying to increase his self-esteem by proving that he exists outside of his marriage.<\/p>\n \u2022 He doesn\u2019t like his daily life.<\/strong> He might be married to a wife who makes him feel inadequate, or he simply sees her that way because he doesn\u2019t like that she reacts when si comporta in modo immaturo<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 If il partner ha un basso desiderio sessuale<\/a> or isn’t interested in sex<\/strong> come lui, potrebbe finire per provare una frustrazione sessuale che cerca di affrontare al di fuori del matrimonio. Invece di parlare con la moglie e cercare di risolvere il problema, decide di tradire.<\/p>\n \u2022 He\u2019s another kind of cheater who compartmentalizes his sex life.<\/strong> He separates people into those he loves and those he has sex with, or more accurately, he thinks that there\u2019s \u2018wife sex\u2019 and \u2018lover sex,\u2019 or believes that his moglie \u00e8 per l'amore e la sua partner per il sesso.<\/strong><\/p>\n He judges people by their sexual behavior, and he\u2019s ashamed of some of his desires.<\/strong> Because he doesn\u2019t want to be married to a woman who does certain things and behaves in a certain way, he\u2019d never talk to his partner about his desires or ask her to fulfill them.<\/p>\n Questo porta a un sesso noioso e insoddisfacente con la moglie.<\/strong>. Se a ci\u00f2 si aggiunge che vede la moglie ogni giorno in una variet\u00e0 di contesti tutt'altro che sexy, la relazione con la sua partner sembra un pasto a tradimento durante una dieta.<\/p>\n The woman he\u2019s cheating with seems like a glamorous, sexual being who wears lingerie and perfume and is willing to do that thing he\u2019d never ask his wife to. Il sesso con lei \u00e8 fantastico per la sua mancanza di inibizioni con l'aggiunta dell'aspetto della fantasia e della trasgressione.<\/strong><\/p>\n Gli uomini che hanno relazioni mostrano molte bandiere rosse e segnali che possono essere facilmente trascurati. Sometimes the person who\u2019s being cheated on subconsciously turns a blind eye and plays ignorant on purpose.<\/strong><\/p>\n Keeping up with an affair isn\u2019t simple \u2013 trying to keep it hidden means lots of acting, strategizing, and remembering to keep his story straight. Still, when you don\u2019t want something to be true, it becomes easy to ignore the warning signs that he\u2019s cheating<\/a>.<\/p>\n When a man displays several of the following signs, there\u2019s a chance that he\u2019s engaging in an affair.<\/p>\n \u2022 Lack of interest in sex<\/strong>. If he\u2019s suddenly less interested or not interested in sex with his wife at all, it can mean that he\u2019s getting what he needs elsewhere.<\/p>\n \u2022 Different sexual behavior.<\/strong> When you do have sex, he does things he\u2019s never done before, even if he\u2019s not usually the experimental type.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suspicious phone use.<\/strong> Some examples are: hiding his phone, always keeping it on silent, not answering when you\u2019re around, always texting, being unable to reach him on the phone at certain times, change in use of social media apps, and receiving calls he says are from the wrong number, etc.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suspicious computer use.<\/strong> Potrebbe nascondere l'uso del computer, spegnere il computer o ridurre a icona una finestra quando vi avvicinate, usare il computer a tarda notte mentre dormite, cancellare la cronologia del browser, smettere di usare i dispositivi condivisi ecc.<\/p>\n \u2022 Sudden interest in his appearance<\/strong>. Se inizia a vestirsi meglio, a indossare l'acqua di colonia, a farsi un nuovo taglio di capelli, a fare ginnastica o a seguire una dieta, potrebbe essere a warning sign that he\u2019s cheating on you<\/a> e vuole apparire migliore per il suo partner.<\/p>\n \u2022 Works longer hours,<\/strong> ma quando gli si chiede come vanno le cose al lavoro, ha solo risposte vaghe.<\/p>\n \u2022 Starts going out with friends.<\/strong> If he says that he\u2019s meeting friends more often than he used to, he might not be meeting them at all.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suddenly can\u2019t account for his time.<\/strong> He might pick up new hobbies or interests that require his time but doesn\u2019t want to talk about it.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suspicious money issues.<\/strong> He suddenly spends more money but doesn\u2019t talk about it, or he stops making plans that would require you to spend a higher amount of money, such as going on vacation together.<\/p>\n \u2022 You stop doing things together.<\/strong> You don\u2019t hang out, visit other people together, or spend time with family. You feel like he avoids you.<\/p>\n \u2022 You know he lies to you.<\/strong> He obviously lies or acts secretive. He\u2019s anxious when you ask him questions.<\/p>\n \u2022 He behaves oddly.<\/strong> Something is off in his behavior. He\u2019s negative, defensive, distant, and critical. He picks fights and has mood swings.<\/p>\n \u2022 Gaslighting.<\/strong> He gets angry if you ask him about cheating. He tells you you\u2019re imagining things, or he accuses you of cheating.<\/p>\n \u2022 Your gut feeling says he\u2019s cheating.<\/strong> Even if you don\u2019t acknowledge the things you\u2019ve noticed out loud, if you pick up suspicious changes in his everyday behavior, your intuition will tell you that something is going on. Trust your instincts.<\/p>\n L'unica vera risposta \u00e8 perch\u00e9 hanno scelto di farlo.<\/p>\n Ci possono essere un milione di scuse per il tradimento, un milione di modi per giustificare il fatto che era l'unica cosa che poteva fare, ma nessuna di queste \u00e8 la vera ragione. Ci sono molte cause di fondo che possono portare al tradimento, ma alla fine, le persone imbrogliano<\/b> perch\u00e9 scelgono di farlo<\/b><\/a>.<\/p>\n He might claim that he\u2019s not built for monogamy, that he has mental issues that caused it, or it was in the heat of the moment. Yes, there\u2019s always a problem with the relationship or a problem with the person that leads to cheating, but il motivo per cui gli uomini hanno delle relazioni \u00e8 semplice: <\/strong>perch\u00e9 decidono di imbrogliare e lo fanno.<\/strong><\/p>\n Il fatto \u00e8 che most men don’t stop cheating because they feel guilty or because they don’t want to be that person anymore but because they get caught<\/strong> vi dice tutto quello che c'\u00e8 da sapere su ci\u00f2 che gli uomini che hanno una relazione pensano davvero del tradimento.<\/p>\n Men who don\u2019t cheat are men who have chosen not to cheat.<\/strong> Instead, they deal with the problems that cheaters claim are what lead them to having affairs in emotionally mature and productive ways that don\u2019t cause their wives pain.<\/p>\n Esistono diversi tipi di relazioni perch\u00e9 le persone cercano cose diverse al di fuori delle loro relazioni primarie. There are things that some people don\u2019t even consider cheating, while they can cause heartbreak in others.<\/strong> Ecco alcuni esempi di tipi di imbroglio<\/a> che le persone intraprendono.<\/p>\n Una relazione emotiva<\/a> non ha un'intimit\u00e0 sessuale, ma implica un legame emotivo con un'altra persona. Pu\u00f2 svilupparsi tra colleghi, amici o conoscenti e, col tempo, pu\u00f2 creare danni duraturi alla relazione con il partner tradito.<\/p>\n At first, it can be justified as being \u2018just friends,\u2019 but the emotional intimacy involved in this kind of relationship often oversteps the boundaries of friendship.<\/strong> When he\u2019s closer and more fond of his \u2018just friend\u2019 than his wife, conta come imbroglio <\/a>, and it can\u2019t be denied that it\u2019s an affair.<\/p>\n Una relazione romantica pu\u00f2 nascere da una relazione sentimentale o perch\u00e9 un uomo intraprende una relazione romantica e sessuale con un'altra donna. It\u2019s a love affair that would be considered normal if he didn\u2019t have a wife who he is knowingly hurting by being in another relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n He can try to justify it by blaming it on the magic of falling in love or claiming that his wife doesn\u2019t understand him as much as the other woman. This type of affair often lasts for a long time and can be on and off.<\/p>\n Una relazione puramente sessuale, come un'avventura o un'avventura di una notte, raramente avviene una volta sola. Un uomo che tradisce la moglie in questo modo spesso sviluppa un modello di comportamento e continua a impegnarsi in questo tipo di relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n In molti casi, non ci sono problemi nel suo matrimonio, ma il motivo per cui si dedica al sesso extraconiugale \u00e8 che ha un'opportunit\u00e0 e la sfrutta.<\/strong> A volte si pente di queste relazioni e cerca di smettere, ma alla fine ci ritorna.<\/p>\n Questa \u00e8 la relazione quando un uomo vuole sia rimanere sposato che continuare la sua relazione per molto tempo. Quando un uomo vuole essere rapporti con la moglie e con il partner della relazione<\/strong>, he\u2019ll jump through hoops to keep his affair hidden.<\/p>\n Vuole tutti i vantaggi che entrambe le relazioni offrono.<\/strong> His affair partner doesn\u2019t understand that he\u2019s using her <\/a>. She often believes that he\u2019ll eventually leave his wife, but if forced to choose, he\u2019ll stay with his wife.<\/p>\n Questo \u00e8 il tipo di relazione in cui il traditore vuole ottenere qualcosa avendo una relazione.<\/strong> Uno dei motivi potrebbe essere quello di vendicarsi della moglie che lo ha tradito.<\/p>\n Another situation is if he\u2019s trying to get caught and cause the end of his marriage. If he doesn\u2019t have the courage to leave his wife, he might get her to leave him by cheating on her and making it easy for her to find out.<\/p>\n1. Il codardo trascurato<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Il narcisista opportunista<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n3. The immature mama’s boy<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nQuali sono i segnali di allarme di un traditore?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPerch\u00e9 i ragazzi tradiscono anche se ti amano?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nQuali sono i diversi tipi di affari?<\/h2>\n
1. La relazione emotiva<\/h3>\n
2. La relazione romantica<\/h3>\n
3. La relazione sessuale occasionale<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. The \u2018mistress\u2019 affair<\/h3>\n
5. The \u2018make a point\u2019 affair<\/h3>\n
It\u2019s All About Choices<\/h2>\n