{"id":153980,"date":"2022-06-22T12:48:55","date_gmt":"2022-06-22T12:48:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=153980"},"modified":"2022-12-01T11:46:53","modified_gmt":"2022-12-01T11:46:53","slug":"la-mia-cotta-ha-un-ragazzo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-mia-cotta-ha-un-ragazzo\/","title":{"rendered":"La mia cotta ha un ragazzo: Cosa fare e come affrontare la situazione"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m not an actual relationship expert but I\u2019ve helped so many people and couples throughout my life that I can really be called so. One of the most common issues I come across with my \u2018clients\u2019 is \u2018my crush has a boyfriend\u2019.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s really a heart-devastating situation to be loving someone who may never be able to reciprocate it to you because they\u2019re in love with someone else.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, we all know that we can\u2019t give orders to our hearts. It simply wants what it wants and no matter how hard we try, we can\u2019t change it.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t have to be a lost cause. Maybe your girl will break up with her partner and maybe you\u2019ll manage to win her over. To make it happen, continue reading my tips below.<\/p>\n

La mia cotta ha un ragazzo: 11 cose da fare<\/h2>\n

You\u2019re in a very difficult position and I completely understand you. However, I\u2019ll help you become a part of her life and with a little bit of luck, you\u2019ll conquistarla definitivamente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t make any direct moves<\/h3>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

In the beginning, you need to be low-key. Don\u2019t flirt with her, don\u2019t give her signs that you\u2019re into her, don\u2019t talk to others about her… Simply, don\u2019t do anything that might reveal your feelings towards her.<\/p>\n

Devi avere rispetto per il suo stato di coppia e per il suo partner. You can\u2019t just interfere in someone\u2019s relationship.<\/strong> Immaginate come vi sentireste se qualcuno facesse lo stesso con voi.<\/p>\n

Puoi starle vicino, ma cerca di mantenere la calma.<\/em>. Naturalmente, Sii il migliore di te stesso<\/a> but don\u2019t make any sudden or direct moves like flirting or seducing her. You\u2019ll have to armarsi di pazienza<\/a> infatti.<\/p>\n

2. Scoprire di pi\u00f9 sulla sua relazione<\/h3>\n

Prima di passare a conquistarla, dovreste concentrarvi sulla ricerca di ulteriori informazioni sulla sua attuale relazione. \u00c8 una relazione a lungo termine? Hanno progetti seri per il futuro?<\/p>\n

If they’ve been dating ever since high school, of course, it\u2019ll be more difficult to win her over because their love is probably very strong.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, if it\u2019s not a long-term relationship, maybe she doesn\u2018t have strong emotions for him and you can manage to make her fall in love with you.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 una relazione sana o litigano spesso? Il loro legame \u00e8 forte<\/i><\/a> o si lasciano di tanto in tanto? Tutte queste informazioni possono aiutarvi conquistarla<\/i><\/a> pi\u00f9 veloce.<\/em><\/p>\n

Also, you should try to learn more about your \u2018competition\u2019. Ask around about the guy she\u2019s dating and maybe you\u2019ll find out some things that might help you later.<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re allowed to hang out with her<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Of course, even though you have to be low-key at the beginning, you can still hang out with her. Although, you\u2019ll need to keep it on a friendly basis.<\/p>\n

La prima volta che la vostra cotta inizia a dubitare dei vostri sentimenti, potrebbe allontanarsi da voi per il bene della sua relazione.<\/strong> She\u2019ll see you as a danger to their relationship and she might cut off all communication with you.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should only be friends with her and nothing else. And you know how they say, the most successful and happy couples started out as friends.<\/p>\n

4. Cercare di conoscerla meglio<\/h3>\n

Frequentarla vi permetter\u00e0 di conoscerla a un livello pi\u00f9 profondo. Chiss\u00e0, magari con il tempo si creer\u00e0 un forte legame e lei si innamorer\u00e0 di voi.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t just question her about her life, talk about yourself and your own life, too. Open up to her – perhaps that will encourage her to open up to you.<\/em><\/p>\n

Also, as you get to know her better you may realize that your crush isn\u2019t the woman you thought she was and maybe you won\u2019t look at her the same again. Perhaps, it\u2019ll make you realize that you\u2019ve just fallen in love with the illusion you had of her.<\/p>\n

5. Prestare attenzione al suo linguaggio del corpo<\/h3>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

The next step is to try to figure out if your crush likes you too. The best way to do that is to pay close attention to her body language when she\u2019s around you.<\/p>\n

If she becomes too nervous, if her voice is shaking while you two talk, if she plays with her hair while you\u2019re standing next to her, if she keeps eye contact with you for a moment then looks away and smiles….<\/em><\/p>\n

Tutti questi sono i body language signs she \u2019s into you<\/a>anche.<\/p>\n

Quando si riconoscono questi segni che le piaci<\/a>Potete considerarlo un segnale di via libera per iniziare a conquistarla. Quindi potete iniziare a flirtare e a sedurla in modo sottile.<\/p>\n

6. Sviluppare un rapporto stretto con i suoi migliori amici<\/h3>\n

If you manage to get close to her best friends, it\u2019ll make things so much easier for you. By becoming friends with her friends, you\u2019ll find out more things about her and maybe ask her friends to help you win her over.<\/p>\n

Her friends will have to choose between you and her current boyfriends, and she\u2019ll need to do the same at some moment<\/strong>. If you put effort into establishing a great relationship with them, I\u2019m sure they\u2019ll choose you and encourage their friend to do the same.<\/p>\n

So, you need to be the best version of yourself and prove to them that you\u2019re a better choice for their friend than her current partner.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, tengono alla loro amica e tutto ci\u00f2 che vogliono \u00e8 una persona che la tratti nel modo pi\u00f9 speciale e migliore possibile.<\/p>\n

7. Don\u2019t go around talking about your feelings<\/h3>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Like I said, you need to be low-key at the beginning. This also means that you shouldn\u2019t tell anyone that you\u2019re into her.<\/p>\n

When it comes to such delicate things, you really need to be careful whom you\u2019re confiding in. Of course, you can talk with your best friend just to let it all out and soothe your soul but you need to be sure that they\u2019re indeed your best friend, the person your secret is safe with.<\/em><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 ve lo dico? Semplicemente perch\u00e9 queste informazioni potrebbero finire nelle mani sbagliate o lei potrebbe scoprirle e questo potrebbe spaventarla.<\/p>\n

So, before you make sure that she\u2019s into you, don\u2019t talk about her and your feelings with anyone except your closest friend.<\/p>\n

8. And DON\u2019T even think about separating her from her boyfriend<\/h3>\n

You simply can\u2019t do that; no matter how much you like her. It\u2019s a very bad thing to do and just imagine how you would feel if someone does it to you.<\/p>\n

After all, you don\u2019t even know if she loves that man. You will only end up hurting her and I\u2019m sure that\u2019s the last thing you want to do.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Also, don\u2019t forget that karma is a bitch. If you do this to them right now, someone will do the same to you in the future.<\/em> Quando ci si innamora di qualcuno, la terza persona arriva e vi separa, il che vi far\u00e0 vivere un vero e proprio colpo di fulmine<\/a>.<\/p>\n

9. Flirtare e cercare di conquistarla in modo sottile.<\/h3>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Quando vedrete che anche voi le piacete, dovrete iniziare a flirtare con lei. In questo modo le darete anche il segno che siete interessati a lei.<\/em><\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t be too pushy. If you notice at any moment that your flirting is making her uncomfortable, you should stop.<\/p>\n

I know that a lot of people don\u2018t quite know how to flirt in a subtle way. If you\u2018re one of those people and you want to know how to be a pro at flirting, you should check out this article; Come flirtare sottilmente come un professionista: Una guida completa<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

10. Inoltre, date suggerimenti sui social media<\/h3>\n

You also need to give signs you\u2019re into her in real life, too. However, at the beginning, it would be better to throw some over social media only.<\/p>\n

If she likes you, she\u2019ll get your message. On the other hand, if she\u2019s in love with her boyfriend, she\u2019ll consider you\u2019re throwing those hints for another girl.<\/p>\n

11. Remember, it\u2019s her decision with whom she\u2019ll be<\/h3>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

The truth is, you can\u2019t force anything. She\u2019s the only one who has the right to decide with whom she wants to be.<\/p>\n

Non importa quanto vi piaccia, se la vostra cotta sceglie qualcun altro, dovete accettarlo e rispettare la sua decisione.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t control her wishes and emotions. Just hope that she\u2019ll choose the man she honestly loves because that would be the best and most fair thing for all three of you.<\/p>\n

Come si fa a dimenticare qualcuno che ha un fidanzato?<\/h2>\n

Innamorarsi \u00e8 facile. D'altra parte, disinnamorarsi sembra una missione impossibile per alcune persone.<\/strong> Here, I\u2019m going to show you that it\u2019s possible indeed and you\u2019ll learn come dimenticare la cotta<\/a> che \u00e8 gi\u00e0 stato preso da qualcun altro.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Accept the truth<\/h3>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Non essere scelti fa pi\u00f9 male che affrontare una rottura<\/a> but that pain can and will be overcome one day. You\u2019ll move on from it and forget that it ever happened.<\/p>\n

However, that won\u2019t be possible if you keep sticking to it. Accettare il fatto che non potrete mai averla e concentrarvi su andare avanti con la propria vita<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s easier said than done but you really need to have faith that you\u2019ll be able to let go of it one day because I\u2019m sure you will.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t allow her to friend zone you<\/h3>\n

Se le permetti di metterti in la zona di amicizia<\/a>, you may never forget her. You\u2019ll never have her in the way you want and that will be breaking your heart every single day.<\/p>\n

Se la tua cotta sceglie l'altro ragazzo, devi tagliarla completamente fuori dalla tua vita.<\/strong> You aren\u2019t aware of how heartbreaking it is to be friends with someone you love in a romantic way.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Confide in your good friend<\/h3>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t share it with your co-worker or a person you know for only a few days. You can open up and confide your emotions only in your best friend.<\/p>\n

That one person you know that will keep your secret forever if it\u2019s needed. You need to open up to someone otherwise it will eat you up inside.<\/em> However, don\u2019t share it with too many people because it may complicate things in the strongest possible way.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Focus on your emotional and mental health<\/h3>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Right now, I\u2019m sure your emotional well-being is a complete mess, which also has bad consequences on your mental health.<\/p>\n

Per andare avanti, \u00e8 necessario concentrarsi sul miglioramento del proprio benessere generale.<\/strong> Don\u2019t blame yourself, don\u2019t blame God or anyone else… Look at it as a huge lesson and try to rejoice at the (so much better) things that are coming your way.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Remember that time heals<\/h3>\n

You need to back off before you completely break your heart into a million pieces. It\u2019ll still hurt but at least you\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve given everything you could and it simply wasn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

And do you know why? It\u2019s because God had another person for you on His mind. La vostra anima gemella<\/i><\/a> is still somewhere out there and some day, you\u2019ll meet her.<\/em><\/p>\n

In questo momento, tutto ci\u00f2 che dovete fare \u00e8 mantenere la vostra fede in Dio e nel tempo.<\/strong>. Time will heal your wounds and time will bring you your forever person. Just focus on moving forward and don\u2019t ever, ever lose hope that you\u2019ll meet true love one day.<\/p>\n

Quando si deve rinunciare a una cotta?<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Dovreste rinunciare<\/a> on your crush the moment you realize that all hope is lost. When you realize that there is really no chance that you\u2019ll ever be together.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t waste your entire life on someone who will never be with you. Actually, you shouldn\u2019t waste a minute of your time on a person like that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they\u2019re already taken by someone else, just come to terms with the fact that you\u2019ve come late and let it go.<\/em><\/p>\n

The comforting thing you should know is that it only means that person never was your soulmate because if they were, you would meet at the right time. That\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n

You deserve to be loved and you\u2019re worthy of someone who\u2019ll be able to give you the most honest and precious kind of love. And trust me, one day, that person will come.<\/p>\n

In conclusione<\/h2>\n

Avere una cotta per qualcuno che ha una relazione di coppia<\/a> can be heartbreaking. Even though you\u2019re absolutely convinced that it\u2019s the right person, you have no other choice but to accept the unfortunate fact that it\u2019s the wrong time.<\/p>\n

I still feel for each and every single one of you with the same \u2018my crush has a boyfriend\u2019 issue. However, just because the girl you like is currently taken, it doesn\u2019t mean it can\u2019t change in the future.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you really like her, you shouldn\u2019t lose hope that one day she might be yours.<\/strong> Trust the power of time and never stop hoping that you\u2019ll be together someday in the future.<\/p>\n

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