{"id":154410,"date":"2022-06-27T17:53:47","date_gmt":"2022-06-27T17:53:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=154410"},"modified":"2022-06-27T17:53:47","modified_gmt":"2022-06-27T17:53:47","slug":"segni-che-non-piacete-ai-vostri-vicini","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-non-piacete-ai-vostri-vicini\/","title":{"rendered":"11 segni di antipatia verso i vicini (+come gestirli)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ogni agente immobiliare vi dir\u00e0 la stessa cosa: the neighborhood you\u2019re moving into is just as important as all the other factors you pay attention to when buying a property<\/strong>. Vivere in una zona in cui non si \u00e8 benvoluti \u00e8 tutto fuorch\u00e9 facile, ma purtroppo sempre pi\u00f9 persone si trovano ad affrontare questa situazione.<\/p>\n

So, what are the signs your neighbors don\u2019t like you? What is the best way to handle this issue? And even more importantly \u2014 is it possible that you\u2019re the annoying neighbor and that their dislike has a motif?<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you read on, you\u2019ll find all the answers you need!<\/p>\n

Signs Your Neighbors Don\u2019t Like You<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Here are the most common signs your neighbors can\u2019t stand your guts. Can you relate to any of them?<\/p>\n

1. Evitare le conversazioni<\/h3>\n

La prima bandiera rossa dei vicini odiosi sta nel fatto che these people do everything in their power to avoid talking to you. It\u2019s not that they won\u2019t talk about some serious issues only \u2014 they avoid the small talk as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you greet them or ask them how they\u2019ve been, they give you a one-word response or ignore you completely. None of your conversation starters work and breaking the ice with your neighbors seems impossible .<\/p>\n

At first, you thought that you were dealing with introverts who simply don\u2018t enjoy talking that much. But if you look at things closely, you\u2018ll see that you\u2018re the only one your next-door neighbors don\u2018t communicate with – they have no problem chit-chatting with everyone else in the neighborhood.<\/p>\n

2. Nessun contatto visivo<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re looking for signs your neighbors don\u2019t like you, the thing you should pay attention to is their body language. And eyes are the first on that list. After all, they are the windows to the soul, aren\u2019t they?<\/p>\n

Anche se i vostri vicini si sforzano di nascondere la loro antipatia per voi, i loro occhi riveleranno la verit\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cosa succede quando li incontrate all'ingresso? Sono pi\u00f9 che felici di salutarvi? Oppure evitano a tutti i costi il contatto visivo?<\/p>\n

If it\u2019s the latter, you already know they can\u2019t stand you. Maybe they think of you as the annoying neighbor they want to stay away from or are just never in the mood for chit-chatting.<\/p>\n

Basically, if your eyes don\u2019t meet, it\u2019s easier for them to avoid talking to you!<\/p>\n

3. In disaccordo con tutte le vostre proposte<\/h3>\n

When all of the homeowners or a group of neighbors meet at a neighborhood or HOA meeting, this person always works against you. It doesn\u2019t matter what your suggestion is about\u2014 they\u2019ll always disagree with it. They vote against all of your proposals.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that most of the time, they don\u2019t have any arguments to support their claims. It\u2019s not that they truly dislike your proposals\u2014 they simply vote against them because you\u2019re the one who made them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A questo punto, tutto questo \u00e8 diventato abbastanza personale.<\/p>\n

4. Lamentarsi di tutto ci\u00f2 che si fa<\/h3>\n

Look, I get it. If you\u2019re a bad neighbor who is mowing in the dawn, not picking up dog poop, or whose loud music can be heard miles away, there is nothing unusual about the fact that your next-door neighbors complain about you. After all, you\u2019re making their life more difficult.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if you\u2018re not doing any of these things but they\u2018re still picking holes with you, it\u2018s one of the signs your neighbors don\u2018t like you. Tutto ci\u00f2 che fate li infastidisce, compresi i campanelli a vento, il rumore della vostra auto o il modo in cui il vostro cane abbaia di tanto in tanto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2018s like they\u2018re just looking for an excuse to tell on you – as if you were still in kindergarten. However, now, the consequences can be more severe.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re renting the place, they call your homeowner all the time to whine about every little thing you do.<\/strong> But sadly, they don\u2019t stop here.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s enough for you to have a couple of friends over and they\u2019ll call the police immediately to tell them that you\u2019re throwing a party and that your loud music keeps them awake.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re not invited to their parties<\/h3>\n

I bet you feel awful when your neighbors throw a barbecue or a little get-together without inviting you and your family. Of course, this wouldn\u2019t be an issue if they didn\u2019t invite the entire street when they\u2019re throwing a party. To be exact, everyone but you.<\/p>\n

So you end up just sitting at your front door, listening to their music and watching everyone having the time of their life while you\u2019re excluded<\/strong>. E non avete idea del perch\u00e9 di tutto questo.<\/p>\n

6. Parlare male di voi<\/h3>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Any neighbor can have an issue with you\u2014 no relationship is perfect. But the crucial difference between a bad and a good neighbor is in the way they address these potential issues.<\/p>\n

Un buon vicino si presenter\u00e0 alla porta di casa e parler\u00e0 apertamente delle sue antipatie.<\/strong> If you\u2019re a new neighbor, they\u2019ll come to say hi and introduce you to the rules. If your loud music bothers them, they\u2019ll ask you to turn it down before calling the police.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, neighbors who don\u2019t like you will never have the decency to behave like this<\/strong>. Instead, they\u2019ll use every chance they get to badmouth you through the entire neighborhood. It\u2019s like they want to get everyone \u201con their side\u201d and convince the entire neighborhood not to hang out with you.<\/p>\n

But you know what\u2019s the worst thing about this? It\u2019s not that they keep on talking trash about you\u2014 it\u2019s their fake smiles when they run into you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gli altri vicini continuano a raccontarvi i pettegolezzi che si inventano, ma ogni volta che vi vedono fingono di apprezzarvi!<\/p>\n

7. Nessun confine<\/h3>\n

Your next-door neighbors can become your best friends or your worst nightmare\u2014 it all depends. If you\u2019re dealing with people who have no concept of personal boundaries, you may have a long-term problem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

These people are nosy and they want to know everything about your life. Yes, this is one of the signs your neighbors don\u2019t like you because they\u2019re digging through your life just so they could badmouth you and expose your secrets.<\/p>\n

But they don\u2019t stop there. These people literally dig through your trash cans and Amazon packages. That\u2019s not all: they\u2019re also trespassing without respecting the property line, they\u2019re eavesdropping on you and your family, and they are frequently at your front door uninvited.<\/strong><\/p>\n

8. Ignorarvi completamente<\/h3>\n

One of the not-so-subtle signs your neighbors don\u2019t like you is the fact that ti ignorano<\/a>. They\u2019re not doing anything to harm you – they simply act as if you don\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, this is always better than them harassing you or bad mouthing you. However, being ignored without a proper reason isn\u2019t comfortable either.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you say hi, they don\u2019t reply. You send them a friend request on social media but they decline it.<\/p>\n

When you invite them to a party or bring them some homemade cookies, they don’t open the door even though you heard they were in the house.<\/p>\n

When you confront them, they tell you that they\u2019re busy. Well, remember that le persone trovano il tempo per ci\u00f2 che vogliono!<\/a><\/p>\n

9. Le espressioni facciali e il linguaggio del corpo dicono tutto.<\/h3>\n

Sorrisi finti<\/a>, eye-rolls, arms crossed, feet pointed away from you, always being at distance… All of this seems irrelevant but psychologically, these are actually all warning signs of unresponsive body language.<\/p>\n

Simply put, if your neighbors are displaying these body language signs, they don\u2019t like you very much. However, they\u2019re polite enough not to say it out loud and they\u2019re obviously trying to hide their negative emotions from you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

10. Non accettano mai i vostri inviti<\/h3>\n

You\u2019ve noticed that your neighbors are not very fond of you so you have decided to make some changes. But these people don\u2019t return your calls nor do they ever accept your invitations for lunch or a party. Even if they say they will show up, they annullare all'ultimo minuto!<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

One thing is clear: these people don\u2019t want to hang out with you. And I\u2019m sorry to break it to you but it seems that there is not much you can do about it.<\/p>\n

11. Lo si sente e basta<\/h3>\n

Finally, your intuition is never wrong. Even if your neighbors aren\u2019t displaying any of these signs they can\u2019t stand you, il vostro istinto<\/a> knows that they\u2019ll never be friendly.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a human being, not a robot, and it\u2019s natural that you feel someone else\u2019s vibe. The fact is that these people send off negative energy whenever you run into them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even when they\u2019re doing their best to be nice and polite, you can see right through their fake smiles\u2014 they can\u2019t fool you.<\/p>\n

Quali sono i segni di un vicino geloso?<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

If your neighbors are guilty of these behaviors, they\u2019re jealous of you!<\/p>\n

1. Copiano tutto ci\u00f2 che fate<\/h3>\n

Persone gelose<\/a> sono i pi\u00f9 grandi copioni del mondo. They want to become you so desperately that they are not even aware that they\u2019re copying everything you do.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you do any work around the house, expect your neighbors to follow. If you mow your lawn, they\u2019ll start doing the same immediately after. If you put some Christmas lights on your house, they\u2019ll do the same.<\/p>\n

But they\u2019ll always try doing a better and bigger job than you. If you buy a new car, they\u2019ll buy a more expensive one, even if that means taking an unnecessary loan!<\/p>\n

2. Complimenti a rovescio<\/h3>\n

These people won\u2019t insult you openly. Instead, they\u2019ll give you backhanded compliments and hide them behind their fake smiles.<\/strong><\/p>\n

For example, they\u2019d tell you that your house remodeling looks great. But they\u2019ll also add that it was about time you did it and that they don\u2019t know how you could have lived in such an ugly house before.<\/p>\n

When they come over, they won\u2019t tell you that your living room is a mess. But they will try to be nice and offer you their help since they see that you obviously don\u2019t have enough time to tidy up.<\/p>\n

The examples are endless but I\u2019m sure you get the picture. If your neighbor makes these comments, they don\u2019t like you and they\u2019re doing their best to make you feel bad.<\/p>\n

Why? Well, simply because they\u2019re jealous!<\/p>\n

3. Si vantano dei loro successi<\/h3>\n

Did you ask your neighbors about their paycheck? Did you show any interest in their fancy house renovations? No, you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, that didn\u2019t stop them from bragging about their successes all the time. It\u2019s like they\u2019re not doing anything nice in their life for their own sake\u2014 their only goal is to rub it all in.<\/strong><\/p>\n

4. …while diminishing yours<\/h3>\n

Allo stesso tempo, nulla di ci\u00f2 che fate \u00e8 abbastanza buono. They\u2019re doing their best to diminish your worth and to point out all the ways you could have done something better.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 sono cos\u00ec? Perch\u00e9 they\u2019re envious<\/a>!<\/p>\n

If you put up your decorations, they will tell you how you could have arranged them differently. If you\u2019re mowing your lawn, they\u2019ll offer advice on the mower you should buy. If you\u2019re repairing your house, they have an opinion on the color you should have chosen.<\/p>\n

Of course, you never ask for their opinion. However, that doesn\u2019t stop them from giving it to you over and over again!<\/p>\n

5. Vi spiano<\/h3>\n

A jealous neighbor will always spy on you. That\u2019s the only way they can gather intel on your life so they can be better than you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t act all surprised when you see them snooping around your house or going through your mail. Of course, if you confront them about this, they\u2019ll tell you that they\u2019ve heard some noise and that they were just checking in to see if everything was okay.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t believe them, especially if something like this happened more than once!<\/p>\n

How do you deal with neighbors that don’t like you?<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Is there anything you can do when you see all the signs your neighbors don\u2019t like you? What is the best way to handle this tricky situation besides farli muovere<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Let me tell you a little secret; my neighbors didn\u2019t like me either. They were meschino con me<\/a> ed ecco cosa ho fatto al riguardo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Provate l'approccio amichevole<\/h3>\n

Before jumping to conclusions and being hostile, try the friendly approach. Maybe your neighbors just need some more time to get to know you (especially if you\u2019re new in the neighborhood) or maybe they\u2019re just introverts who don\u2019t open up as easily.<\/p>\n

Either way, the best thing you can do is to invite them over or to take them a homemade cake. This way, they\u2019ll notice that you mean well and that you want to be on good terms with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they\u2019re reasonable people, this kind of approach will do the trick. They\u2019ll admit that they were wrong about you and they\u2019ll change their ways in no time.<\/p>\n

2. Ask them what\u2019s bothering them<\/h3>\n

Another good idea when you notice signs that your neighbors don\u2019t like you is to be an adult about it. Instead of going around the street, looking for information, or coming up with your own scenarios, just go to them and ask for answers.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be aggressive about it. Just tell them that you couldn\u2019t help but notice that they feel strong animosity towards you and you want to know what\u2019s wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead of acting as if you are ready to fight, make sure they realize that you\u2019re ready to hear them out and that you want to know what\u2019s bothering them. Are you the bad neighbor? Did you do something to offend them?<\/p>\n

Se volete raggiungere un compromesso e migliorare la vostra relazione, questo \u00e8 il modo per farlo!<\/p>\n

3. Cambiare le cattive abitudini<\/h3>\n

However, you don\u2019t have to wait for your neighbors to tell you what you\u2019re doing wrong. Some things are common sense and signs of good manners.<\/p>\n

Pensateci da soli: se foste il vostro vicino di casa, alcune delle vostre abitudini vi darebbero fastidio?<\/strong> Turn down your loud music, don\u2019t throw parties all the time, and take care of your front yard.<\/p>\n

Greet your neighbors when you see them, be considerate about their schedule, don\u2019t mow your lawn in the middle of the night, respect their privacy and property line and never show up on their front door unannounced.<\/p>\n

Se i vostri vicini cambiano strada dopo che voi avete cambiato le vostre cattive abitudini, evidentemente avevano una ragione. di non piacerti<\/a> da sempre.<\/strong> S\u00ec, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che sarebbe stato meglio se fossero stati aperti al riguardo invece di essere passivi-aggressivi. Ma almeno ora sapete qual era il problema.<\/p>\n

4. Ignorarli<\/h3>\n

You\u2019ve tried practically everything. You are nice to your neighbors, you follow all the Regolamenti HOA<\/a>, and you\u2019ve offered them your friendship. You\u2019ve become a neighbor everyone would want to but even that didn\u2019t open the path to their hearts.<\/p>\n

Allora, cosa si pu\u00f2 fare? Beh, purtroppo niente! L'unico modo per sbarazzarsi di queste persone tossiche<\/a> \u00e8 ignorarli.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let their nasty looks and comments get to you. Guess what: you don\u2019t have to react to everything that\u2019s bothering you<\/a>! Remember: it\u2019s their loss!<\/p>\n

\u00c8 scortese ignorare i vicini?<\/h2>\n

Yes, ignoring your neighbors, especially the older ones, is quite rude and is a sign of bad manners. Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you have to become best friends with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not obliged to invite them over for coffee or to mow their lawn when they\u2019re not around. Nevertheless, greeting them when you run into each other or giving them a hand when they need help would be nice.<\/p>\n

However, not all of your neighbors deserve the same treatment. If you\u2019re dealing with nosy neighbors who badmouth you or ones who clearly can\u2019t stand you, ignoring them is the best way to go!<\/p>\n

Cosa rende i vicini fastidiosi?<\/h2>\n

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I hate to break it to you but if you do some of these things, you\u2019re the annoying neighbor!<\/p>\n

1. Sconfinamento<\/h3>\n

Oltre a essere maleducato e scortese, lo sconfinamento \u00e8 anche illegale. A friendly neighbor can mow your lawn or water your flowers when you\u2019re out of town (and this is only acceptable if you agree to it). But they\u2019re certainly not allowed to snoop around your property.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esiste una cosa chiamata confine di propriet\u00e0 e tutti devono rispettarla. In caso contrario, avete il pieno diritto di denunciarli alle autorit\u00e0!<\/p>\n

2. Rubare il wi-fi<\/h3>\n

Se i vostri vicini di casa continuano a rubare il vostro wi-fi, li classificate come vicini fastidiosi.<\/p>\n

I mean, these people were your guests once and you gave them your wi-fi password. Nevertheless, this wasn\u2019t an invitation to cut off their Internet and to permanently connect to yours just because the signal is stronger.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, you can always agree on splitting the Internet bill if both of your houses have good reception. And if your neighbor has a hard time connecting to their Internet, you should definitely give them access to your wi-fi at that time. Nevertheless, it\u2019s one thing if they asked!<\/p>\n

3. Rumore<\/h3>\n

There is nothing that screams \u201cannoying neighbor\u201d more than constant noise. Even though you don\u2019t actually live together with your neighbors, you should all still respect each other\u2019s schedules.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Listening to loud music in the middle of the night or yelling all day is definitely not acceptable – especially if you live in an apartment complex when you\u2019re just one wall away from your neighbors.<\/p>\n

Se qualcuno vuole essere libero e il pi\u00f9 rumoroso possibile, trasferirsi in una grande tenuta senza nessuno intorno \u00e8 l'unica soluzione possibile!<\/p>\n

4. Animali domestici<\/h3>\n

Your neighbors are allowed to have pets. However, they\u2019re not allowed to have a farm of chickens who wake you up every morning.<\/p>\n

Lo stesso vale per cani e gatti. Non c'\u00e8 nulla di male nel possedere uno o anche pochi cani e gatti. Ma se il loro cane abbaia in continuazione o se i loro animali domestici fanno molto rumore o se il loro odore vi colpisce, non va bene.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And don\u2019t even get me started with the dog poop. Every dog owner must collect after their dog!<\/p>\n

5. Non rispettare i regolamenti della HOA<\/h3>\n

HOA regulations deal with all sorts of things, such as landscaping, front yard, decoration restrictions, pet limits, and so on. Annoying neighbors are the ones who don\u2019t respect these rules<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re the ones who never mow their lawn, so you just wait for a real-life crocodile to appear on your property line. The ones who put up bright lights at Christmas that you can\u2019t sleep at night and the ones who destroy the image of the entire neighborhood.<\/p>\n

6. Parcheggio abusivo<\/h3>\n

I vostri vicini non possono parcheggiare nel vostro cortile o davanti alla vostra porta di casa, a meno che non abbiate dato loro esplicitamente il permesso di farlo. Lo stesso vale per i parchi e gli spazi verdi.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not your problem that they don\u2019t have a garage or enough parking space! Don\u2019t tolerate illegal parking but please, take legal action against it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even think of cutting their tires or something like that. Instead, warn them and if this doesn\u2018t work, call the cops on them!<\/p>\n

Per concludere:<\/h2>\n

You\u2019ve seen all the signs your neighbors don\u2019t like you and you\u2019ve done everything in your power to change this. However, nothing happened\u2014 they didn\u2019t become your number one fans overnight.<\/p>\n

E adesso? These people are not your friends and they most certainly don\u2019t have a legal obligation to like you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing if they\u2019re trespassing or doing other illegal things or are making your life more difficult. In that case, you should definitely take action against their behavior.<\/p>\n

However, if they just openly dislike you, without doing anything to you, I\u2019m sorry but you\u2019ll have to deal with it!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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