{"id":15468,"date":"2020-07-28T13:52:08","date_gmt":"2020-07-28T13:52:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15468"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:54:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:54:57","slug":"non-si-puo-salvare-un-uomo-che-non-vuole-essere-salvato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-si-puo-salvare-un-uomo-che-non-vuole-essere-salvato\/","title":{"rendered":"Non si pu\u00f2 salvare un uomo che non vuole essere salvato"},"content":{"rendered":"

What we want for others doesn\u2019t work unless they want it for themselves. – Bryant McGill<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Purtroppo, ci sono cos\u00ec tante persone distrutte in questo mondo e cos\u00ec tante persone che hanno bisogno di essere salvate o almeno guidate. Ci sono tante persone che vogliono guarire ma non hanno idea di come farlo.<\/p>\n

I think that we\u2019re all a little bit broken. We\u2019ve all been through hell at some point <\/strong>di le nostre vite e siamo caduti cos\u00ec in basso da diventare cos\u00ec disperati e da permetterci di pensare che non ci fosse via d'uscita. <\/strong><\/p>\n

La conclusione \u00e8 che tutti noi abbiamo attraversato l'inferno e siamo sopravvissuti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Forse a causa del pesante cammino che siamo stati costretti a percorrere nella nostra vita, sentiamo il bisogno di alleggerire il percorso per coloro che amiamo.<\/p>\n

Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che tutti abbiamo bisogno di camminare con le nostre verit\u00e0<\/a> e destini, in modo da poter crescere ed essere preparati per le cose pi\u00f9 grandi della nostra vita.<\/p>\n

A volte, quando la vita mette le persone di fronte a troppe prove, scelgono di non combatterle e si lasciano andare al flusso.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

But if you allow the things you go through in life determine what your life is going to look like, then what are you living? It\u2019s your task to take care of yourself and make sure you\u2019re happy.<\/p>\n

Purtroppo, non sono in molti a volerlo fare.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s even worse than letting life carry you like the breeze carries the fallen leaf is this idea that people plant in their minds about how they can save everyone.<\/p>\n

Okay, yes, there are some people worth saving, there are people who need just a little bit of guidance, but not everyone can be saved and that\u2019s the ugly truth.<\/p>\n

Those who don\u2019t want to be saved can\u2019t be convinced into saving themselves.<\/p>\n

They say that you can only love broken people and hope they\u2019ll respond to that treatment. But sometimes even love can\u2019t make a man heal if he doesn\u2019t want to change.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Se si rifiuta di vedere che c'\u00e8 qualcosa di sbagliato in lui, chi siete voi per convincerlo del contrario?<\/strong><\/p>\n

We\u2019re all aware of ourselves and if he thinks that there is nothing wrong with him, if he thinks he\u2019s okay, you\u2019ll just lose yourself in trying to convince him that he\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n

Se gli piace il posto in cui si trova, chi sei tu per cercare di cambiarlo?<\/strong> Perhaps he doesn\u2019t know better, but perhaps he doesn\u2019t want better.<\/p>\n

It can be the case he\u2019s settling for less, but it can also be that he\u2019s perfectly happy with the place where his mind is at.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t want to be saved, who are you to save him?<\/strong> There are people who are okay with their toxicity; there are people who\u2019d rather look away than face the truth.<\/p>\n

Ci sono persone che vogliono continuare a scappare da ci\u00f2 che le fa soffrire piuttosto che affrontare il dolore e quindi farlo sparire.<\/p>\n

And there isn\u2019t a person whose loving or caring in this world who could change that.<\/p>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re scared but you need to superare la paura di perdere qualcuno<\/a> who isn\u2019t good for you.<\/p>\n

And you need to stop giving all of you to someone who\u2019s toxic.<\/p>\n

Because if there is something wrong with him and he\u2019s refusing to acknowledge it, there is a high probability you\u2019ll get sucked into the vortex of his toxicity, too.<\/p>\n

Indipendentemente da quanto amate quella persona, dovreste mettere voi stessi al primo posto. Dovreste sempre prendervi cura di voi stessi. Perch\u00e9 potrebbe non esserci nessuno a salvarvi quando ne avete bisogno, sapete?<\/strong><\/p>\n

And you need to stop believing that story about how life has been too harsh on someone. It has been too harsh on all of us, but that\u2019s not an excuse to just go with the flow and be an asshole towards others.<\/p>\n

Tutti quelli che incontriamo stanno combattendo una battaglia interiore. E anche se sarebbe pi\u00f9 facile arrendersi, siamo stati messi al mondo come combattenti.<\/p>\n

Quindi lasciare andare la negativit\u00e0<\/a> and the futile battle of trying to save a man who doesn\u2019t want to be saved.<\/p>\n

\"Lite<\/p>\n

If your love doesn\u2019t make him want to change, if having you next to him doesn\u2019t changes things, if your efforts are in vain and he\u2019s oblivious to his state, it\u2019s not your task to save him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You should never lose yourself in trying to save others. You should love them and if love isn\u2019t enough, then there isn\u2019t much more you can do.<\/p>\n

Ernest Hemingway ha detto: La cosa pi\u00f9 dolorosa \u00e8 perdere se stessi nel processo di amare troppo qualcuno e dimenticare che si \u00e8 speciali.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Don\u2019t allow anyone, regardless of how much you love them, break you or change who you are.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let other people\u2019s pain make your spark shine a little less. Don\u2019t lose yourself in the process of trying to save a man who doesn\u2019t want to be saved. Save yourself.<\/p>\n

You cannot make someone understand a message they aren\u2019t ready to receive.<\/em> – May this be the lesson you\u2019ll remember for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

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What we want for others doesn\u2019t work unless they want it for themselves. – Bryant McGill Unfortunately, there are so many broken people in this world and so many people who need saving or at least guidance. There are so many people who want to heal but have no idea how to get there. I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":95951,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15468","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/You-Can\u2019t-Save-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-Want-To-Be-Saved.jpg",800,547,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15468","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15468"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15468\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95951"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15468"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15468"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15468"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}