{"id":15493,"date":"2020-04-01T09:01:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-01T09:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15493"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:16:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:16:32","slug":"10-segnali-inequivocabili-che-vogliono-qualcosa-di-serio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segnali-inequivocabili-che-vogliono-qualcosa-di-serio\/","title":{"rendered":"10 segni inequivocabili che lui vuole qualcosa di serio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Relationships are hard. And I mean, really hard. You are doing your best, trying to find a way to make it work, but sometimes, regardless of how hard we try, it just doesn\u2019t work out: he is not interested in a relationship; he is a player; there is no chemistry.<\/p>\n

There are countless reasons, but let\u2019s face it girls\u2014almost relationships and commitment phobes are the worst of them all.<\/p>\n

Ti fanno sentire la donna pi\u00f9 fortunata del mondo e spariscono quando le cose si fanno serie.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not because something is wrong with us; it\u2019s because they are not ready to commit.<\/p>\n

E ci lascia domandare se tutti gli uomini l\u00e0 fuori sono uguali; ci lascia domandare se forse siamo noi a non essere amabili.<\/p>\n

E fare in modo che qualcuno sentirsi non amabili<\/a> \u00e8 la cosa peggiore che si possa fare alla persona.<\/strong> Credetemi, lo saprei.<\/p>\n

\"fidanzata<\/p>\n

We have all found ourselves stuck in front of the wall called \u2018what the hell do I do now?\u2019.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the point of a relationship where you are no longer dating casually, but you\u2019re still not sure if he is interested in getting serious.<\/p>\n

E gli appuntamenti sono gi\u00e0 difficili di per s\u00e9, senza doverci chiedere se siamo compatibili o meno.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se non siete pronte per una conversione seria e imbarazzante e per aiutarvi a risolvere questo problema, abbiamo raccolto i segni che lui vuole qualcosa di serio.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t find any of these, feel free to walk away. No one deserves your time, unless they are willing to give you theirs.<\/p>\n

Trova il tempo per te<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t mean that kind of time where he comes to you late at night to have some action or that kind of time where you have to let him know days in advance, so he can fit it in his schedule.<\/p>\n

Cambia i suoi piani per voi perch\u00e9 gli piace davvero passare del tempo con voi.<\/p>\n

Lui \u00e8 in giro con i suoi amici e si accorge che non vi sentite al meglio e, prima ancora che ve ne accorgiate, \u00e8 l\u00ec accanto a voi, a tenervi compagnia finch\u00e9 non vi riprendete.<\/p>\n

Cancella i suoi programmi gi\u00e0 fatti per poter passare la notte con te. E rispetta comunque il vostro tempo libero e i vostri limiti.<\/p>\n

Il fase di luna di miele<\/a> is amazing, we all know it. But even when it is over, he is still there\u2014making plans and going out of his way to make you happy.<\/p>\n

This is a sure sign he wants something serious with you because he already made you a part of his life even if he didn\u2019t say it to you. Sometimes, actions can tell so much more than words do.<\/p>\n

Ti mette in mostra<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Ovunque e con chiunque. I giocatori vi metteranno in mostra nei ristoranti di lusso o al bar, ma non vi porteranno mai fuori con i loro amici.<\/p>\n

Oppure, passeranno tutto il tempo a casa con voi perch\u00e9 c'\u00e8 una grande possibilit\u00e0 che lui abbia altri agganci.<\/p>\n

Ma l'uomo che vede un futuro con voi non vi nasconder\u00e0 mai. Vi porter\u00e0 ovunque possa, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 davvero orgoglioso e felice di avervi al suo fianco.<\/p>\n

Vi presenter\u00e0 ai suoi amici e alla sua famiglia o continuer\u00e0 a vantarsi di voi con loro, insistendo sul fatto che non vedono l'ora di conoscervi.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s a good sign he is up for a long-term relationship and not just che ti prende per i fondelli<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If introducing you to his family is something he can\u2019t wait to do, there is no reason for you to worry anymore about him being serious.<\/p>\n

Vi porta nei suoi luoghi preferiti<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Tutti noi abbiamo dei luoghi preferiti in cui andiamo quando abbiamo voglia di contemplare e pensare, luoghi in cui andiamo quando siamo tristi e luoghi in cui andiamo quando vogliamo divertirci.<\/p>\n

Sharing those places with someone new in our lives is like sharing something deeply personal; it\u2019s like taking them to our childhood home. You don\u2019t take just everyone there.<\/p>\n

Si vuole essere certi che il cliente sia presente a lungo termine e che sia effettivamente il tipo di persona con cui vogliamo condividere la nostra casa.<\/p>\n

If he took you to his favorite bar, appreciate the gesture, because it\u2019s kind of like letting you into his heart.<\/p>\n

Si sentiva abbastanza a suo agio con te da condividere qualcosa di cos\u00ec intimo.<\/p>\n

And even if his favorite bar isn\u2019t the type of place you would go to, trust me: his love for it and enthusiasm for bringing you there will make you see it in a whole new way.<\/p>\n

Non sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 il bar dietro l'angolo, ma un posto solo per voi due. Una specie di angolo di paradiso tutto vostro.<\/p>\n

Mostra iniziativa<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Se si tratta di pianificare appuntamenti o di comunicare, non ha problemi a essere lui a dare il via.<\/p>\n

You regularly wake up to the \u2018good morning\u2019 texts and there is no way you can go to sleep if he doesn\u2019t send you \u2018good night\u2019.<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 sembrare che lo faccia con tutti e che sia solo educato, ma credetemi: lo fa perch\u00e9 lo vuole. dimostrarvi che si preoccupa per voi<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No man will text multiple times without an answer if he isn\u2019t seriously hooked up to you.<\/p>\n

And with all of these ghosting trends, he makes sure that you don\u2019t have to worry about him disappearing.<\/p>\n

Si assicura che vi sentiate desiderati e speciali, perch\u00e9 lo siete davvero.<\/p>\n

E quando si tratta di appuntamenti, riesce sempre a sorprendervi. Se non avete voglia di uscire, si presenter\u00e0 a casa vostra con gelato, vino e una lista di film da guardare.<\/p>\n

Se gli avete detto quanto volete andare al cinema, vi sorprender\u00e0 con i biglietti.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because he listens to you when you are talking and even when what you are saying seems like nonsense, he will still remember it.<\/p>\n

Condivide con voi il suo passato<\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here, no one feels like talking about their past with just anyone.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, parliamo dei ricordi del liceo, delle cotte e di alcune cose banali, ma quando le cose si fanno profonde, teniamo la bocca chiusa finch\u00e9 non conosciamo l'altra persona.<\/p>\n

And sometimes, not even then do we decide to open up because they show us that they\u2019re not really worthy of sharing.<\/p>\n

Ma se condivide con te il suo passato, e intendo il passato degli amanti, delle paure e dei sogni pi\u00f9 grandi, vuol dire che fa sul serio con te.<\/p>\n

Men don\u2019t usually open up, but if he opened up to you, that\u2019s the only sign you really need.<\/p>\n

Unless he did it like on the first date because that is a whole new level of seriousness. I\u2019m thinking more like seriously messed up.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t really want that kind of man who is too pushy and too eager about getting serious.<\/p>\n

Amore e impegno<\/a> richiedono tempo e un po' pi\u00f9 di un solo appuntamento.<\/p>\n

Quando siete insieme perdete la cognizione del tempo<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Che siate in un ristorante di lusso, in un'escursione o semplicemente a casa, il tempo vola.<\/p>\n

You genuinely enjoy each other\u2019s company and you make memories every step of the way.<\/p>\n

La conversazione scorre e non ci sono silenzi imbarazzanti, perch\u00e9 il silenzio piace anche a voi quando potete condividerlo.<\/p>\n

He makes it all look so easy because he is truly interested in everything you have to say\u2014including your opinions, your memories and fears.<\/p>\n

He is all ears when you are talking and it seems like it\u2019s all he ever wanted to do.<\/p>\n

Vuole sapere di pi\u00f9 su di voi e non solo come \u00e8 andata la giornata. Vuole conoscervi pi\u00f9 a fondo e aprirsi con lui \u00e8 come parlare del tempo.<\/p>\n

And he has no problem with opening up to you, too. This is a sign that spending time with you is something he wants to do for a longer run and he wouldn\u2019t mind if it ends up being a lifelong commitment.<\/p>\n

Vi prende in considerazione quando prende delle decisioni<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Se avete riconosciuto questo segno, congratulazioni! Avete trovato un uomo che vi ama e che vuole tenervi con s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Prender\u00e0 sempre in considerazione i vostri desideri e le vostre esigenze quando far\u00e0 dei progetti, perch\u00e9 vuole che anche voi siate felici.<\/p>\n

Even if it\u2019s deciding when to take days off, he will ask you about it, because he wants to spend them with you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just another way of him showing how much he cares about you and how much he is actually serious about being with you.<\/p>\n

Gli uomini che non sono presenti per un periodo pi\u00f9 lungo non vi prenderanno mai in considerazione, perch\u00e9 si preoccupano solo di loro stessi.<\/p>\n

They will do as they please and just let you know what they decided. And, sometimes, they won\u2019t even do that.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s definitely not the type of man you want to have in your life because no matter how much you love them and how hard you try, they will never change.<\/p>\n

Sono veri narcisisti<\/a> who only care about themselves. He will convince you otherwise and make you believe that he is truly there for you, but if you failed to find any of the signs from this list, I\u2019m afraid that he\u2019s only there for himself.<\/p>\n

Chiede spesso la vostra opinione e la rispetta.<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

The foundation of the strongest relationships is respect. It\u2019s the mutual admiration and trust we have in each other and without it, it\u2019s hard for a relationship to work out.<\/p>\n

If he asks for your opinion quite often and actually listens to what you have to say, you have his respect and it\u2019s a great sign of you two making it together.<\/p>\n

And if he changes his own opinion because of yours, it\u2019s even better.<\/p>\n

Significa che non \u00e8 un egocentrico che crede di essere il migliore in circolazione.<\/p>\n

It means that he respects your knowledge and isn\u2019t afraid to admit that he is not the smartest person on the planet.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be real girls, we have all met someone like that. But if your man is truly amazed with your passions and the way you think, \u00e8 innamorato di lei veramente, follemente e profondamente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m not talking just about your body; I\u2019m talking about the whole package here. Body, heart AND mind.<\/p>\n

Non ha problemi a parlare del futuro<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Un ottimo modo per capire cosa diavolo gli passa per la testa \u00e8 chiedergli del futuro, e non del futuro della vostra relazione.<\/p>\n

Ask him about his plans for work, about holidays and stuff like that. If he\u2019s already counted you in those plans, you don\u2019t have to look any further for signs of getting serious. He already is.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s truly amazing if you don\u2019t have to ask him about the future. If he talks about it with you and makes plans for a longer run, he already made up his mind.<\/p>\n

To him, it\u2019s no longer casual dating and it\u2019s not questionable if he is going to stay or not.<\/p>\n

He is sure of his feelings and all he does now is make sure you\u2019re on the same page with him. It\u2019s making you feel loved and safe in the relationship.<\/p>\n

\u2018YOU\u2019 and \u2018I\u2019 became \u2018WE\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

He no longer talks about \u2018his\u2019 wishes and needs and there is no \u2018I\u2019. It\u2019s \u2018we\u2019 and you can actually feel he means it.<\/p>\n

He already sees you as one because that\u2019s what love is truly about. You are two individuals who are pieces of art for themselves, but together you make one hell of a masterpiece.<\/p>\n

Together you create something so much more than just two people being together, and that\u2019s something he already feels and makes sure you feel it too.<\/p>\n

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