{"id":15517,"date":"2020-11-01T16:01:46","date_gmt":"2020-11-01T16:01:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15517"},"modified":"2022-02-22T16:03:55","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T16:03:55","slug":"lodio-fatto-meraviglia-non-era-abbastanza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lodio-fatto-meraviglia-non-era-abbastanza\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti odio perch\u00e9 mi hai fatto chiedere perch\u00e9 non ero abbastanza"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sai quanto ti ho amato. Sai che ero una persona che avrebbe spostato le montagne per il tuo bene e sapevi che la tua felicit\u00e0 era sempre la mia priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, there were times when you tried to accuse me that I didn\u2019t love you enough but deep down, you always knew how great my love for you was.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, questo potrebbe essere uno shock per voi, ma sono qui per dirvi che <strong>I don\u2019t love you anymore. And not only that\u2014I hate you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dopo tutto l'amore che ho provato per te, dopo tutti gli anni che abbiamo trascorso insieme e dopo tutti i momenti che abbiamo condiviso, posso dire di odiarti.<\/p>\n<p>Probabilmente pensavate che vi avrei amato per sempre, indipendentemente da come mi avreste trattato. Ma ti sbagliavi.<\/p>\n<p>Hai ucciso tutto l'amore che provavo per te e sei riuscito a trasformarlo in odio.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121840\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-grass.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa seduta sull&#039;erba\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-grass.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-grass-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/odio-mi-allontano\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ti odio per aver ucciso la ragazza innocente che ero prima di conoscerti.<\/a>. E ti odio per averla trasformata nella donna amara che sono ora.<\/p>\n<p>Invece di mostrarmi cosa fosse l'amore, mi hai mostrato che ero capace di odiare. Ti odio per il fatto che non sei mai riuscito a impegnarti.<\/p>\n<p>Con te, non sapevo mai da che parte stare. Continuavi a lasciarmi e a tornare da me, a tuo piacimento. Non hai mai voluto parlare del futuro, non hai mai voluto etichettare le cose tra noi.<\/p>\n<p>Although we\u2019d been together for years, I always felt like I was just a casual fling to you.<\/p>\n<p>E questo mi ha fatto chiedere perch\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-non-sono-mai-abbastanza\/\">I wasn\u2019t enough<\/a> per pensare di passare al livello successivo.<\/p>\n<p>Ti odio per tutte quelle altre ragazze. Ti odio per tutte le volte che<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomo-ha-lasciato-il-pavimento-implorando-di-restare\/\"> mi hai lasciato<\/a> per qualcun altro e ti odio per tutte le volte che hai <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/il-ragazzo-delle-lettere-ha-imbrogliato\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mi ha tradito<\/a> e ha cercato di nasconderlo.<\/p>\n<p>I hate you even more for all those times when you didn\u2019t even try to deny your affairs. Even when you were with me, I always felt like I needed to compete with every other girl in the room.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121843\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-alone-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"donna seduta da sola nella natura\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-alone-in-nature.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-alone-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-alone-in-nature-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-alone-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-alone-in-nature-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-alone-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-alone-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-sitting-alone-in-nature-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mi sentivo come se mi stessi paragonando a tutte le ragazze che ti circondavano sempre, desiderando che tu fossi con una di loro invece che con me.<\/p>\n<p>Non mi hai mai guardato come se fossi speciale per te. Ti odio per avermi fatto sentire come se non fossi mai abbastanza per essere la tua unica persona.<\/p>\n<p>Ti odio perch\u00e9 non mi dai abbastanza attenzione. Ti odio perch\u00e9 mi fai elemosinare le briciole del tuo amore.<\/p>\n<p>Ti odio perch\u00e9 mi hai sempre fatto sentire come se fossi la tua ultima opzione, perch\u00e9 mi hai fatto sentire come se non fossi mai importante. Ti odio perch\u00e9 mi hai fatto sentire come se non fossi mai abbastanza per essere la tua priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Ti odio per aver cercato di cambiarmi. So che ho i miei difetti, ma non mi hai mai accettato per quello che ero veramente.<\/p>\n<p>Tutto quello che hai sempre voluto \u00e8 stato cambiarmi, in modo che potessi soddisfare i tuoi standard immaginari. Mi hai fatto desiderare di cambiare l'essenza del mio essere, solo per potermi amare di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>Per te ero troppo emotiva, troppo sensibile e troppo debole.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121842\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-with-a-serious-expression-on-her-face.jpg\" alt=\"donna con un&#039;espressione seria sul viso\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-with-a-serious-expression-on-her-face.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-with-a-serious-expression-on-her-face-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-with-a-serious-expression-on-her-face-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-with-a-serious-expression-on-her-face-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-with-a-serious-expression-on-her-face-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-with-a-serious-expression-on-her-face-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-with-a-serious-expression-on-her-face-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-with-a-serious-expression-on-her-face-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I hate you for making me insecure. Before I met you, I was full of confidence. I don\u2019t think I was cocky, but I knew my value.<\/p>\n<p>Ma tu sei riuscito a cambiare le cose. Hai giocato con la mia autostima, cercando di convincermi che dovevo essere grata di averti al mio fianco e dicendomi che nessun altro uomo mi avrebbe voluta.<\/p>\n<p>You spent years trying to convince me that I wasn\u2019t enough and I almost believed you.<\/p>\n<p>I hate you because you made me feel that I wasn\u2019t beautiful enough, smart enough, or successful enough.<\/p>\n<p>Ti odio per avermi sminuito, per avermi insultato e per avermi convinto di essere un buono a nulla. Non importava cosa facessi e quanto mi sforzassi di compiacerti, per te non era mai abbastanza.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theodysseyonline.com\/open-letter-guy-feel-good\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">You made me feel I wasn\u2019t enough<\/a> e mi hai fatto domandare perch\u00e9 fosse cos\u00ec. Ed \u00e8 per questo che ti odio di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-121841\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-confident-young-brunette-woman.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna bruna seria e sicura di s\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-confident-young-brunette-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-confident-young-brunette-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-confident-young-brunette-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-confident-young-brunette-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-confident-young-brunette-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-confident-young-brunette-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-confident-young-brunette-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-confident-young-brunette-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mi ci \u00e8 voluto molto tempo per capire che in realt\u00e0 non c'era nulla di sbagliato in me.<\/p>\n<p>Ho capito che non dovrei essere abbastanza per qualcuno che non mi apprezzer\u00e0 mai e per qualcuno che non mi amer\u00e0 mai veramente.<\/p>\n<p>And then it hit me\u2014<strong>you weren\u2019t enough for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You were the one who didn\u2019t know how to love me enough. You were the one who felt intimidated by me and that is why you always tried to put me down.<\/p>\n<p>You were the one who had to deal with his own issues and that is why you tried to make me feel insecure. You were the one who didn\u2019t deserve me.<\/p>\n<p>E <strong>sei tu che non mi riavrai mai indietro.<\/strong> <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122027\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/I-Hate-You-Because-You-Made-Me-Wonder-Why-I-Wasnt-Enough-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ti odio perch\u00e9 mi hai fatto chiedere perch\u00e9 non ero abbastanza\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/I-Hate-You-Because-You-Made-Me-Wonder-Why-I-Wasnt-Enough-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/I-Hate-You-Because-You-Made-Me-Wonder-Why-I-Wasnt-Enough-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/I-Hate-You-Because-You-Made-Me-Wonder-Why-I-Wasnt-Enough-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/I-Hate-You-Because-You-Made-Me-Wonder-Why-I-Wasnt-Enough-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/I-Hate-You-Because-You-Made-Me-Wonder-Why-I-Wasnt-Enough-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know how much I loved you. You know I was someone who would move mountains for your sake and you knew that your happiness was always my priority. Yes, there were times when you tried to accuse me that I didn\u2019t love you enough but deep down, you always knew how great my love&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121839,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15517","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/I-Hate-You-Because-You-Made-Me-Wonder-Why-I-Wasnt-Enough-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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