{"id":15601,"date":"2018-03-02T11:11:34","date_gmt":"2018-03-02T11:11:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15601"},"modified":"2022-10-03T10:29:36","modified_gmt":"2022-10-03T10:29:36","slug":"7-segni-che-bloccano-il-tempo-di-una-cattiva-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segni-che-bloccano-il-tempo-di-una-cattiva-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"7 segni che siete bloccati in una cattiva relazione (ed \u00e8 ora di lasciarla)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sembra quasi superfluo cercare i segni di una cattiva relazione. Ma in realt\u00e0, rimaniamo in una cattiva relazione molto pi\u00f9 a lungo di quanto dovremmo. Uno dei motivi principali \u00e8 che siamo talmente abituati a che le cose vadano male, che anche il male diventa normale. L'altro motivo, ancora pi\u00f9 forte, \u00e8 che amiamo la persona e continuiamo a sperare che le cose si possano aggiustare e che l'intera situazione possa cambiare in meglio.<\/p>\n<p>We have to realize that getting used to being unhappy is not a solution. You need someone whose main objective is to make you happy as yours is to make him happy. We also have to realize that sometimes love isn\u2019t enough although it\u2019s the most important. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.marcandangel.com\/2013\/04\/15\/9-things-your-relationships-need-from-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Le relazioni hanno bisogno di<\/a> trust, honesty, respect, mutual efforts and constant work. Otherwise, love can\u2019t survive.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why sometimes we need a little bit of help and signs that will open our eyes and see the harsh reality of things:<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">1. Il vostro partner \u00e8 troppo dispotico.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>You feel like you lack freedom. He is watching your every move and doesn\u2019t allow you to breathe. In these situations, you are dealing with a toxic manipulator or with a highly jealous person. Relationships with any of them will suffocate you, alienate you from your friends and inevitably cause you pain. Relationships are built on trust and both partners should have their own space and time. If you don\u2019t have trust, respect, and freedom, it\u2019s time to say the final goodbye.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">2. Traveste gli insulti in battute.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s a joke.\u201d, \u201cDon\u2019t be mad.\u201d ,\u201cWhy do you take everything so close to heart?\u201d are some of the sentences he uses as cover for plain insults. But you know that it\u2019s not a joke if you both aren\u2019t laughing. Don\u2019t allow him to put you down or treat you like a joke.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">3. La vostra comunicazione si riduce agli scontri.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Fighting from time to time can be constructive and make a relationship grow, but that can\u2019t be your only form of communication. If fights become a part of your daily routine, you are in trouble. You and our partner clearly can\u2019t find the same language and you are unable to solve anything. The best thing to do here is to realize that you simply fail to understand each other and in spite of your feelings, you shouldn\u2019t stay with him.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">4. You can\u2019t remember why you are together to begin with.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>You lack everything in your relationship. Simple gestures of kindness and affection are not existent. You try holding on to the \u2018good old days\u2019 but they are so far behind that you can\u2019t recall them clearly anymore. You ask yourself how did you end up here and why are you putting up and tolerating everything. But the real question is why aren\u2019t you packing your bags? Life is too short to be with someone who makes you unhappy.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">5. Si rimane per abitudine.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Questa \u00e8 la trappola di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-motivi-che-causano-la-fine-di-una-relazione-a-lungo-termine\/\">relazioni a lungo termine<\/a>. People stay together for so long that they, themselves, are not sure if they are staying in a bad relationship out of love or out of habit. Sure you have feelings after such a long time but is that person standing next to you really somebody you can see your entire future with? Are they ready to work on things and fix things that can be fixed? Are they the ones for you? If the answer is \u2018no\u2019, the sooner you end things the better for both of you.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">6. \u00c8 violento.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Whether it\u2019s physical or emotional abuse there is no reason at all to stay. Period. The person you are with should treat you with respect and tenderness. It should never cross their minds to use or abuse you in any way. If their love is true, they wouldn\u2019t even think of harming you. Leave immediately.<\/p>\n<h1><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">7. Avete gi\u00e0 provato a sistemare le cose pi\u00f9 volte di quanto possiate contare.<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Avete gi\u00e0 provato tutto quello che vi viene in mente. Avete avuto i vostri alti e bassi. Il vostro partner di solito ci prova per un periodo di tempo pi\u00f9 breve e poi torna alle sue vecchie abitudini. Se le cose nella vostra relazione si sono rotte in modo irreparabile, \u00e8 inutile restare. Il tentativo di riparare le cose non fa che prolungare l'inevitabile fine.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-15617 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/12211-1.jpg\" alt=\"7 segni che siete bloccati in una cattiva relazione (ed \u00e8 ora di lasciarla)\" width=\"467\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/12211-1.jpg 467w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/12211-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/12211-1-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems almost redundant to look for the signs of a bad relationship. But in reality, we stay in bad relationships way longer than we should. One of the main reasons is that we are so used to things going bad, so even bad becomes normal. The other even more powerful reason is that we&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":15615,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15601","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/brooke-winters-579062-unsplash-2.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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