{"id":15613,"date":"2018-03-02T11:18:18","date_gmt":"2018-03-02T11:18:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15613"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:18:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:18:25","slug":"lamore-vale-la-pena-di-essere-combattuto-non-sei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lamore-vale-la-pena-di-essere-combattuto-non-sei\/","title":{"rendered":"L'amore vale la pena di essere combattuto, ma tu no"},"content":{"rendered":"

Come siamo finiti qui? Come diavolo siamo diventati l'esempio di una relazione sbagliata? Dal fatto di avere obiettivi di relazione<\/a>, to this. From being the happiest people to miserable and lonely roommates in the hell we created. From living our lives to the fullest to doing nothing but reliving old memories. I can\u2019t even remember the last time I heard you say, \u2018I love you\u2019<\/em>. I can\u2019t even remember the last time you kissed me with that crazy passion you used to kiss me with. With that passion that used to set my lips on fire and burn my soul. That passion that was driving me crazy and getting me high. I can\u2019t even remember the last time you smiled at me. It\u2019s not that you don\u2019t smile at all. It\u2019s just that you do it for someone else.<\/p>\n

Love is worth fighting for, but I can\u2019t keep on fighting alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ti ricordi come ci siamo conosciuti? Ci pensi spesso come faccio io? Ti sei avvicinato a me con quel sorrisetto sul viso e quello sguardo negli occhi che mi ha denudato fino all'anima. E con la sicurezza di tutti gli dei lass\u00f9 hai detto, \u2018Wanna try my Irish coffee? They say it\u2019s so good that it brings people back from the dead. But it\u2019s probably because I forget the coffee.\u2019<\/em> You were both fierce and gentle, strong and vulnerable. From the first moment there was some kind of a force between us, but I can\u2019t remember the last time I felt it. From the first moment, my heart was drawn to yours, but you\u2019re so distant that I can\u2019t even feel you. You\u2019re right next to me in bed and yet I feel so damn lonely. This was the pain I always hoped to avoid. But our hopes and dreams are not what we get. Loving someone doesn\u2019t mean they will love us back.<\/p>\n

Love is worth trying hard, but not if I\u2019m only one trying.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t keep on doing this. I can\u2019t keep on fighting alone, when we\u2019re supposed to fight together. I can\u2019t keep on thinking why you don\u2019t fight for me, when I used to be the only thing you ever cared about. I can\u2019t keep on wondering what the hell went wrong for me to lose you. But it\u2019s not losing you that hurts. It\u2019s knowing that you don\u2019t think we\u2019re worth fighting for. It\u2019s knowing that you\u2019re ready to throw away years of memories, hundreds of Irish coffees without coffee, hundreds of kisses and hugs, because you no longer care about them. You no longer care about us.<\/p>\n

Love is worth living for, but I\u2019m dying next to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vorrei che tu fossi un uomo migliore<\/a> di amarmi come hai promesso di fare. Vorrei che tu fossi un uomo di parola, l'uomo che ha promesso di esserci nella buona e nella cattiva sorte. Ma hai finito per essere il mio peggio. Hai finito per svuotarmi dell'amore, della speranza e della fede. Hai dimenticato la tua promessa. L'hai buttata via proprio come hai fatto con le nostre vite e i nostri ricordi. Proprio come hai fatto con il mio cuore.<\/p>\n

Love is worth trying hard, love is worth fighting and living for. But not if I\u2019m fighting alone, not if I\u2019m only one trying, not if I\u2019m dying next to you and you\u2019re too blind to see me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re so lost in your own hell that you can\u2019t see that you\u2019re mine. You\u2019re so lost in your own pain that you can\u2019t see me holding your back and taking it all in. But I can\u2019t keep on taking care of you. I can\u2019t keep on holding you while I\u2019m the one that\u2019s falling apart. I can\u2019t keep on mettere la mia vita in attesa<\/a>, so you can live yours the way you want. That\u2019s not what we vowed; that\u2019s not what we agreed to do. But it seems like you forgot our vows. It seems like you forgot we promised to be each other\u2019s solid ground and the wind under each other\u2019s wings. It seems like you forgot we promised to pick each other up and walk together hand in hand to the last page of life. It seems like you forgot me.<\/p>\n

L'amore vale tutto, ma voi non lo siete pi\u00f9.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"L'amore<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How did we end up here? How the hell did we become the example of a bad relationship? From having relationship goals, to this. From being the happiest people to miserable and lonely roommates in the hell we created. From living our lives to the fullest to doing nothing but reliving old memories. I can\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":15621,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15613","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pexels-photo-57687.jpeg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15613","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15613"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15613\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15621"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15613"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15613"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15613"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}