{"id":15624,"date":"2020-03-02T12:34:30","date_gmt":"2020-03-02T12:34:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15624"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:26:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:26:13","slug":"5-cose-che-esitano-in-un-travestimento-da-manipolatore-emotivo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-esitano-in-un-travestimento-da-manipolatore-emotivo\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fa queste 5 cose, \u00e8 un manipolatore emotivo sotto mentite spoglie"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve heard this story millions of times before. A girl meets a boy, the boy is perfect, the girl falls helplessly in love, the boy reveals his true face, and the girl is heartbroken.<\/p>\n

I bet not only you\u2019ve heard this before, but you\u2019ve been through this shit and you got hurt. You got hurt badly.<\/p>\n

You probably don\u2019t want to have anything to do with men anymore. You\u2019re disappointed and you\u2019re angry with yourself. You\u2019re frustrated because you let yourself fall for his tricks.<\/p>\n

You let him deceive you and lie to you. You\u2019re furious because you didn\u2019t see it in time. You abbassare la guardia<\/a> e si \u00e8 intrufolato nel tuo cuore.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to move on after someone takes your heart and tears it into thousands of shreds. The pain is enormous.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You want to smile\u2014you have to smile because you don\u2019t want anyone to see how much you\u2019re hurting.<\/p>\n

Ma ogni tuo sorriso ti fa ancora pi\u00f9 male. Ogni sorriso forzato sul tuo viso ti trafigge il cuore.<\/p>\n

Ma dovete sapere che nessuno ha questo tipo di potere su di voi. Nessuno ha il diritto di controllarvi e manipolarvi.<\/p>\n

He did, for a moment, but you\u2019ve seen it and you got out.<\/p>\n

This time, it was too late to save yourself from all the pain, but hopefully, by reading these signs, you won\u2019t make the same mistake next time.<\/p>\n

Vi far\u00e0 sentire in colpa<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

He will make you feel like shit in anything that you do. You\u2019ll have the constant feeling that your every move is completely wrong.<\/p>\n

Il senso di colpa \u00e8 la sua pi\u00f9 grande arma contro di voi per ottenere ci\u00f2 che vuole.<\/p>\n

Se volete fare qualcosa per voi stessi, ve lo permetter\u00e0, ma con occhi da cucciolo triste.<\/p>\n

Far\u00e0 la vittima<\/a>, so you feel sorry for him and once more choose to ignore your feelings to force you to be with him and take care his feelings don\u2019t get hurt.<\/p>\n

He would be perfectly fine if you didn\u2019t stay with him, but his ego would be hurt because things didn\u2019t play his way.<\/p>\n

He will respect you \u2013 in the beginning<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why his act is so brilliant. He will be perfect from the beginning.<\/p>\n

He will give you the world. He will respect you and move mountains for you. He will be the man you\u2019ve always dreamed of being with.<\/p>\n

Prester\u00e0 attenzione a tutto ci\u00f2 che dite, ma non perch\u00e9 gli interessi, bens\u00ec perch\u00e9 \u00e8 uno stronzo che vuole manipolarvi per farvi fare tutto ci\u00f2 che vuole, per farvi comportare come vuole lui.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think he is listening to you because yes, he is that perfect of an actor, when actually, he is just a manipulator in disguise, lying and deceiving to get what he wants.<\/p>\n

He will promise you the world and do\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"Coppia<\/p>\n

Niente! Dalla sua bocca escono solo parole vuote e patetiche false promesse.<\/p>\n

All'inizio ti promette tutto e sai cosa ottieni? Non ottieni nulla e lui non ha mai avuto intenzione di darti nulla.<\/p>\n

He will always say one thing to get your hopes up and then he\u2019ll walk all over his words and do whatever he was planning to do anyway.<\/p>\n

Your feelings don\u2019t matter\u2014they never mattered.<\/p>\n

His \u2018help-mask\u2019 is on<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be gentle, sweet. He\u2019ll be the stranger on the street that helps you get your things together after someone knocked you over in a hurry.<\/p>\n

He will be your \u2018Hollywood moment\u2019 of love at first sight.<\/p>\n

Only your story won\u2019t have a happy ending. Your story will be heartbreaking and painful. And he?<\/p>\n

Andr\u00e0 avanti, trover\u00e0 un'altra vittima con cui giocare a fare il benefattore.<\/p>\n

Lui \u00e8 la vittima<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Il suo preferito tattica<\/a> per manipolarvi, la sua arma pi\u00f9 forte. Queste persone sono molto intelligenti e astute.<\/p>\n

Sanno esattamente cosa dire e quando. Sanno come volgere ogni situazione a proprio vantaggio, perch\u00e9 sanno come mentire proprio in quel momento, quando ne hanno bisogno.<\/p>\n

He will play the victim every time he wants something and he sees he can\u2019t have it.<\/p>\n

Fate attenzione se vedete questo: ogni volta che state vincendo una discussione in cui lui ha la posizione peggiore perch\u00e9 ha torto, all'improvviso, vi ritrovate a provare pena per lui e vi sentite una merda.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because he played you and made himself a victim.<\/p>\n

At the end of every situation similar to this one, you will feel bad because you\u2019ve hurt him and you\u2019ll forget why you were mad in the first place\u2014what he\u2019s wanted all along.<\/p>\n

La manipolazione emotiva \u00e8 terribile perch\u00e9 le ferite guariscono, i lividi svaniscono, ma le parole dure e i trucchi psicologici lasciano la mente temprata e una volta che la mente \u00e8 temprata, l'intero assetto \u00e8 stato cambiato, la personalit\u00e0 non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 la stessa.<\/p>\n

Quel dolore rimane per sempre e ti lascia cauto e spaventato per il resto della tua vita.<\/p>\n

You can heal, but you\u2019ll never forget. You can tell yourself that you are okay, but you are not.<\/p>\n

Non finch\u00e9 non deciderete di perdonare voi stessi e di perdonare lui. Non finch\u00e9 non deciderete di andare avanti.<\/p>\n

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