{"id":156433,"date":"2022-07-27T19:20:52","date_gmt":"2022-07-27T19:20:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=156433"},"modified":"2022-07-27T19:20:54","modified_gmt":"2022-07-27T19:20:54","slug":"dovrei-seguire-la-mia-cotta-su-instagram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/dovrei-seguire-la-mia-cotta-su-instagram\/","title":{"rendered":"Dovrei seguire la mia cotta su Instagram? 14 pro e contro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dovrebbe <\/b>Seguo la mia cotta su Instagram<\/b>? I think no one in this world hasn\u2019t struggled with this question. I know I have, and the good news is that I\u2019ve come up with a solution.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you read on, you\u2019ll find the answer to this and other related questions.<\/p>\n

Dovrebbe <\/b>Seguo la mia cotta su Instagram<\/b>?<\/b><\/h2>\n

I\u2019ll be honest with you: there is no universal answer to this question. It all depends on different factors, including the nature of your relationship and many other things.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean I won\u2019t help you resolve this dilemma. In fact, I\u2019ll give you 14 yays and nays for doing it.<\/b><\/p>\n

8 Reasons It\u2019s A Good Idea<\/h2>\n

Se vi riconoscete in molte di queste cose, seguire la vostra cotta su Insta \u00e8 un must:<\/p>\n

1. You\u2019ve met in real life<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Voi due vi conoscete gi\u00e0 nella vita reale. It doesn\u2019t matter if they\u2019re your coworker, someone you hang out with in the same crowd, or just someone you\u2019ve met once. In these cases, there is absolutely nothing wrong with adding them on <\/b>Insta<\/b> su altri <\/b>piattaforme di social media<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re safe from looking like a stalker if you send them a friend request, even if their account is private. You\u2019re not behaving like a groupie, and it doesn\u2019t have to mean that they\u2019re your crush.<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re just expanding your network, or they came up as a suggested friend.<\/p>\n

Of course, it would be better if you two were good friends. In that case, it doesn’t really matter who followed whom first. They\u2019ll definitely accept your follow request.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re not sure whether they remember you or not and you see that they\u2019re not accepting your request, don\u2019t <\/b>non seguire<\/b> subito. Basta scivolare nei loro <\/b>DM<\/b> e ricordare loro chi siete.<\/b><\/p>\n

Questo pu\u00f2 essere utile se il vostro profilo \u00e8 privato, il vostro nome utente non corrisponde al vostro nome reale e la vostra foto del profilo \u00e8 poco chiara.<\/p>\n

2. Avete molti amici in comune<\/h3>\n

Don\u2019t ask yourself, \u201cShould I follow my crush on Instagram?\u201d if you two have a bunch of mutual friends. The answer is undoubtedly yes!<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t know many of these people in person, your crush is likely to accept you and follow you back if they see that you have a lot of mutual followers.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9? Beh, this is proves that you\u2019re not a fake profile trying to catfish them. What are the chances that so many people they know friended you if they didn\u2019t know who you were?<\/b><\/p>\n

Also, they\u2019ll assume that they know you \u2013 they just can\u2019t remember you clearly. It would be best if these mutual friends could be grouped in a way.<\/p>\n

Che cosa significa? Questi seguaci reciproci devono essere collegati.<\/p>\n

For example, if you have a lot of friends from high school, your crush will assume that you went to high school with them as well, and they\u2019ll follow you back without hesitation.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a pro tip: Even if you\u2019re trying to follow someone you don\u2019t know, make sure to follow some of their followers before. Some of them will accept you, and you\u2019ll give your crush a better first impression when they get a request from you.<\/p>\n

3. Vi seguite a vicenda su altri account di social media<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s another sign you should definitely follow your crush on Insta: voi due siete gi\u00e0 amici su altri <\/b>piattaforme di social media<\/b>. Li avete su <\/b>Snapchat<\/b>, Facebook, Twitter o TikTok.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quindi, non c'\u00e8 assolutamente nulla di male ad aggiungerli anche su Instagram. Dopo tutto, sappiamo che \u00e8 l\u00ec che c'\u00e8 tutto il divertimento e il succo.<\/p>\n

Su una cosa non ci sono dubbi: they\u2019ll accept your request and follow you back right away<\/b>. Tuttavia, questa non \u00e8 la migliore notizia che si potesse sperare.<\/p>\n

Odio dover essere io a dirtelo, ma questo \u00e8 probabilmente un segno che don\u2019t have a crush on you<\/a>. Altrimenti, avrebbero sfruttato questa opportunit\u00e0 e vi avrebbero seguito secoli fa.<\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean the situation can\u2019t change in the future, now that you have this powerful tool (Instagram) in your hands!<\/p>\n

4. Sapete che anche loro seguono il vostro profilo<\/h3>\n

Some people will watch your Instagram stories, reply to them, and even slide into your DMs from time to time. However, they won\u2019t try following you.<\/p>\n

Pensano che non abbia senso, soprattutto se il vostro account \u00e8 pubblico. Possono vedere tutto ci\u00f2 che vogliono.<\/p>\n

Besides, they\u2019re probably obsessed with the number of people they\u2019re following. They\u2019re scared that you might not send them a <\/b>seguiteci<\/b>o semplicemente hanno la politica di non seguire mai nessuno per primi.<\/b><\/p>\n

Foolish, I know. But if your crush is one of these people, be braver than them. Make the first move, and send them a follow request. I promise that you\u2019ll get a follow back the very next day!<\/p>\n

5. They\u2019ve asked for your Instagram<\/h3>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

What if your crush specifically asked for your Instagram username IRL but never sent you a follow request? Well, on the one hand, you should wait for a notification from them because they\u2019re the one who brought the subject up.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, if you\u2019re too impatient to wait for it, just be the first one to follow them. <\/b>Don\u2019t worry, it won\u2019t make you look desperate. On the contrary, it will show them that you\u2019re not in the mood for mind games.<\/p>\n

6. Avete parlato dei vostri profili sui social media<\/h3>\n

Lo stesso vale per le situazioni in cui si parlava solo di Instagram o di altri profili di social media. Maybe your crush mentioned the vacation they went on last summer and told you they\u2019d captured some amazing <\/b>foto<\/b> per <\/b>Insta<\/b>. O forse vi hanno chiesto un consiglio su un <\/b>Didascalia Insta<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

If that isn\u2019t an invitation to follow them, I don\u2019t know what is.<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t it obvious? They\u2019re clearly beating around the bush because they\u2019re too shy to ask for your Insta profile directly or to follow you first.<\/p>\n

This is another situation where you should take the lead and take things into your own hands. Show them that you\u2019re not scared to take the initiative.<\/p>\n

7. Il vostro istinto ve lo dice<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

You keep asking yourself, \u201cShould I follow my crush on Instagram?\u201d But that\u2019s not the end of it. You ask all of your friends the same question. You toss coins and look for signs that they\u2019re thinking about you<\/a> anche.<\/p>\n

But despite everything, you can\u2019t seem to come up with an answer. The moment you decide to follow them, something inside of you stops you from actually hitting that button.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when you think you\u2019ve given up on the idea, a tiny voice appears in the back of your head, telling you that you should have done it.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, alla fine della giornata, il vostro istinto vi dice di farlo! Non solo: il vostro <\/b>sensazione istintiva<\/b><\/a> is also telling you that you two should be together. And that\u2019s what you should listen to!<\/b><\/p>\n

Il vostro intuito raramente sbaglia e se vi dice di seguirli, probabilmente c'\u00e8 una ragione pi\u00f9 profonda. Aspettate e vedrete!<\/p>\n

8. Cosa c'\u00e8 da perdere?<\/h3>\n

Let me ask you the most important question regarding this issue: what is the worst thing that can happen? I won\u2019t lie to you, it\u2019s possible the\u2019ll decline your request, not follow you back, or even worse \u2013 follow you just to see who you are and then unfollow you immediately.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, sono tutte paure ragionevoli. Ma cosa succede se tutte queste cose accadono? \u00c8 la fine del mondo? Assolutamente no!<\/b><\/p>\n

I mean, what is there to lose? No, you won\u2019t lose your dignity because you\u2019ve followed someone who didn\u2019t follow you back.<\/b><\/p>\n

Remember that this is the virtual world, not real life. It\u2019s not like you\u2019ve shown up in front of their house. You weren\u2019t begging them to be with you \u2013 you\u2019ve tried following their Instagram account, and that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n

Trust me, it\u2019s not such a big deal. BTW, even if the worst-case scenario happens, at least you\u2019ll know you tried.<\/p>\n

6 motivi per non farlo<\/h2>\n

Ecco cinque segnali che indicano che inviare una richiesta di follow alla vostra cotta \u00e8 la peggiore idea in assoluto:<\/p>\n

1. Non hanno idea di chi siate<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

This person is completely unaware of your existence. I\u2019m sorry to say it like this, but it\u2019s only the truth.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t know who you are, you two don\u2019t have any <\/b>amici comuni<\/b>, they\u2019ve never watched your <\/b>Storie di Instagram<\/b>, they\u2019ve never sent you a <\/b>messaggio diretto<\/b>e voi due non avete mai parlato <\/b>IRL<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

In that case, the answer to the question: \u201cShould I follow my Crush on Instagram?\u201d is \u201cNo, you shouldn\u2019t.\u201d Or at least, it wouldn\u2019t be a good idea to do so.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll just think of you as one of their stalkers and ignore your Insta existence completely.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s some relationship advice: do your best to capture your crush\u2019s attention<\/a> nella vita reale prima di aggiungerli sulle piattaforme di social media.<\/p>\n

2. Il loro profilo \u00e8 privato<\/h3>\n

Le persone contrassegnano i loro account come privati per un motivo: they don\u2019t want to give the entire world the opportunity to gain insight into their lives. <\/b>They don\u2019t want to rack their brains trying to figure out if their ex is trying to stalk them or if someone is just trying to be nosy.<\/p>\n

Basically, what I\u2019m trying to say is not to send your crush a follow request if their account is private. You\u2019re risking your request being denied \u2013 especially if your profile is private too.<\/p>\n

3. … and they don\u2019t have a lot of followers<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

There is nothing worse than seeing that someone follows exactly the same number of people following them. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 there is absolutely nothing wrong with this type of account. However, it does send you a certain message.<\/p>\n

If you can relate this kind of Instagram behavior to your crush, one thing is for sure: you\u2019re dealing with a private person. They use Instagram to stay in touch with their closest friends and family members, and that\u2019s about it.<\/b><\/p>\n

I mean, they\u2019ve definitely received tons of requests. Nevertheless, it\u2019s more than clear that they don\u2019t accept ones they don\u2019t know.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t even follow their favorite celebrity, so why would you be an exception?<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019ve already tried following them, and it didn\u2019t end well<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re wondering, \u201cShould I follow my crush on Instagram?\u201d ask yourself this as well: \u201cIs this the first time I\u2019m sending them a request?\u201d<\/p>\n

If the answer is yes, there is no problem. On the other hand, if you\u2019ve already tried following them, but it didn\u2019t end well, don\u2019t do it again, even if your life depended on it.<\/p>\n

Forse hanno rifiutato la vostra richiesta o hanno semplicemente scelto di non seguirvi. In questo caso, accettate la sconfitta e soffrite in silenzio.<\/b><\/p>\n

What do you think will change this time? They won\u2019t suddenly realize they have a crush on you, will they?<\/p>\n

I hate to break it to you, but in this case, you\u2019ll have to find another way to get closer to them and far s\u00ec che vi piacciano<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I know what you\u2019re thinking right now: \u201cThey might not have seen my request the last time. I should probably send it again.\u201d Wrong! If you keep following and unfollowing them, you\u2019ll just seem like a lunatic who is stalking them.<\/p>\n

5. They\u2019re in a committed relationship<\/h3>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest with you: you have no business following someone who is in a serious, committed relationship. Of course, they\u2019re allowed to have friends, and there is nothing wrong with that.<\/p>\n

However, the truth is that you\u2019re not trying to be their friend, are you? We\u2019re talking about your crush here, and your primary goal is to far s\u00ec che gli piaccia di nuovo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Prima di tutto, \u00e8 ingiusto nei confronti del partner. Come vi sentireste se qualcuno stesse perseguitando il vostro fidanzato o la vostra fidanzata? Scommetto che <\/b>sarebbe<\/b>\u2019t be pleasant.<\/b><\/p>\n

But what is more important is that you\u2019ll look desperate. I mean, you\u2019re hitting on someone who is involved in a serious relationship.<\/p>\n

Besides, even if you eventually get them to cheat on their SO, what will that tell you about them? Who says they wouldn\u2019t do the same to you?<\/p>\n

Non so, ma se fossi in voi, lascerei perdere finch\u00e9 non si lasceranno con il loro attuale partner.<\/p>\n

6. You\u2019ll come out as a stalker<\/h3>\n

At the end of the day, it doesn\u2019t really matter what people think or say. However, if you know there is the slightest chance your crush will think of you as a stalker, you shouldn\u2019t follow them on Insta.<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re dealing with the type of person who can\u2019t wait to tell the world that you\u2019re their number one fan. Of course, that is a huge sign of their<\/b> immaturit\u00e0 emotiva<\/b><\/a> e una bandiera rossa per fuggire dalla propria vita.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, before you answer the question \u201cShould I follow my crush on Instagram?\u201d make sure to look at things as realistically as possible.<\/p>\n

If there are more cons than pros, you know this move isn\u2019t a good idea.<\/p>\n

Come convincere la vostra cotta a seguirvi su Instagram?<\/h2>\n

Seguite questa guida passo passo e la vostra cotta vi seguir\u00e0 in men che non si dica:<\/p>\n

1. Guardare le loro storie<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t follow your crush, and their account is not private, you can still watch their stories. No, don\u2019t watch every story of theirs, and don\u2019t do it the minute they post one. If you do, it\u2019ll look like you\u2019re obsessed.<\/p>\n

Ma di tanto in tanto, rendeteli consapevoli della vostra presenza. Questo \u00e8 un ottimo modo per afferrare il vostro <\/b>crush\u2019s attention<\/b> and make them wonder who you are. I\u2019m sure that they\u2019ll follow you right away.<\/b><\/p>\n

2. Inviare risposte e reazioni appropriate<\/h3>\n

Un altro buon consiglio per farsi seguire dalla propria cotta su Instagram \u00e8 quello di rispondere alle loro storie. Ma prima di questo, potete inviare un paio di reazioni.<\/p>\n

Once again, don\u2019t come out looking like a boring stalker who replies to every one of their stories. Just do it from time to time and make sure to come up with witty responses.<\/b><\/p>\n

Potete inviare loro un'emoji o un meme appropriato. Entrambe le cose sono incredibili spunti di conversazione per i messaggi di testo<\/a>. If your crush is interested, they\u2019ll reply, and voila, you two will start texting!<\/p>\n

3. Come alcune delle loro vecchie foto<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

The moment your crush posts a new selfie, your first impulse is to like it right away. Well, don\u2019t do it!<\/p>\n

Why? Let me tell you the truth: they won\u2019t notice. They\u2019re getting a bunch of likes now, and yours will likely get lost among the others.<\/p>\n

Utilizzate invece una di queste due opzioni: potete aspettare un paio di giorni finch\u00e9 la foto non diventa vecchia.<\/b> That way, your notification will be the only one. At the same time, they won\u2019t realize that you\u2019re spending all of your free time refreshing their page and waiting for some kind of update.<\/p>\n

But what if they\u2019re not posting anything new? In that case, L'opzione numero due \u00e8 quella di mettere casualmente \"like\" a qualche loro vecchio <\/b>foto<\/b>.<\/b> Don\u2019t go crazy \u2013 a couple will be more than enough.<\/p>\n

Make sure to like the ones with the least reactions. Yes, they\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve been going through their profile, but so what?<\/p>\n

4. Usare gli amici comuni come spalla<\/h3>\n

If you have a bunch of mutual friends, it\u2019s time to use that to your advantage. No, don\u2019t won\u2019t ask them to hook you up.<\/p>\n

Ma inizierete a comparire nelle loro storie, nei loro post e nei loro commenti. All of a sudden, your crush will feel like they\u2019re following you because you\u2019re on their feed all the time.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even if they didn\u2019t intend to do so, they will surely follow you.<\/p>\n

5. Rendere pubblico il proprio profilo<\/h3>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Devo seguire la mia cotta su Instagram? O devo aspettare che mi inviino una richiesta di follow?<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019ll be straight with you: they\u2019re unlikely to follow you out of the blue if your account is private. This is especially true if your profile picture is unclear or you have a funny username that has almost nothing to with your real name,<\/p>\n

Quindi, sarebbe bello rendere pubblico il proprio profilo per aumentare le possibilit\u00e0 di essere seguiti!<\/b><\/p>\n

6. Stuzzicateli con i vostri post e le vostre foto<\/h3>\n

Once you\u2019re sure that your crush can see your profile, it\u2019s time to start teasing them with selfies and posts. Keep in mind that they\u2019re more likely to see your feed than your <\/b>Insta<\/b> quindi assicuratevi di pubblicare tutte le vostre foto migliori sul vostro feed.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be too provocative, but don\u2019t post every bit of nonsense that pops into your mind either.<\/p>\n

And here\u2019s the most important part of the process: make sure your I selfie hanno didascalie straordinarie<\/a>!<\/p>\n

7. Condividere i loro interessi<\/h3>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Vi svelo un piccolo segreto: Instagram ha algoritmi speciali che mettono in contatto persone con interessi simili. Ecco perch\u00e9 dovete scoprire cosa piace e non piace alla vostra cotta.<\/p>\n

Seguite le pagine che loro seguono, mettete \"mi piace\" ai loro post e pubblicate musica simile a quella che pubblicano loro. Sarebbe ancora meglio se poteste visitare gli stessi luoghi che visitano loro.<\/p>\n

That way, Instagram will connect the two of you, and you\u2019ll likely show up as a suggested friend to your crush. When they open your profile and see all the shared interests you two have, they\u2019ll assume <\/b>you\u2019re their soulmate<\/b><\/a> subito!<\/b><\/p>\n

Per concludere:<\/b><\/h2>\n

When I was wondering, \u201cShould <\/b>Seguo la mia cotta su Instagram<\/b>?\u201d these pros and cons helped me a great deal. And I hope they\u2019ll do the same for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

But at the end of the day, the choice is all yours. If you want to do it, go for it. On the other hand, if you think this might look desperate, find another way to grab your crush\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 importante \u00e8 non pensarci troppo. Fate quello che vi sembra giusto in quel momento!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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