{"id":15670,"date":"2018-03-05T07:56:05","date_gmt":"2018-03-05T07:56:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15670"},"modified":"2022-06-06T15:39:13","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T15:39:13","slug":"10-segnali-di-allarme-che-fanno-di-lui-un-pessimo-fidanzato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segnali-di-allarme-che-fanno-di-lui-un-pessimo-fidanzato\/","title":{"rendered":"10 segnali di allarme per un fidanzato orribile"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La maggior parte dei fidanzati di merda sono facilmente individuabili nelle prime fasi di una relazione, basta prestare molta attenzione al suo comportamento verso di voi e verso le persone che vi circondano.<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, ci sono manipolatori che hanno perfezionato la loro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-giochi-mentali-che-gli-uomini-tossici-fanno-nelle-relazioni\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">giochi mentali<\/a> so well that they\u2019re so hard to figure out until it becomes too late.<\/p>\n<p>Ma anche loro possono essere individuati attraverso questi segnali che possono dirvi se sar\u00e0 un fidanzato orribile e terribile. Il vostro accompagnatore \u00e8 in questa lista?<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. He can\u2019t make time for you<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>La sua agenda \u00e8 cos\u00ec fitta di impegni che i vostri appuntamenti vengono concordati in anticipo e sono programmati esattamente in base al tempo che lui ha a disposizione.<\/p>\n<p>You feel like you need to beg him for his time and that\u2019s not something any woman should settle for. If he wants to see you and spend time with you, he\u2019s supposed to make sure that he clears his schedule for you.<\/p>\n<p>Altrimenti, questo \u00e8 il segno di un uomo egoista che apprezza se stesso e il suo tempo al di sopra di chiunque altro.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Gli interessano solo le cose fisiche<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Non ci sono conversazioni profonde o curiosit\u00e0 di conoscervi a un livello pi\u00f9 profondo. Tutto \u00e8 incentrato sul limonare, baciare e fare l'amore.<\/p>\n<p>That kind of man is good for a short-term fling, a one-night stand or a summer affair. Other than that, he\u2019s as good for a relationship as Nutella is for a curry.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. D\u00e0 per scontati voi e il vostro tempo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s like he expects you to put everything aside the moment he calls and for you to care for him and be kind. Love, just like respect, needs to be earned.<\/p>\n<p>If he has done nothing for you to respect his needs, his time or basically him, he can\u2019t expect you to do it. And still he does and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cosmopolitan.com\/sex-love\/news\/a44479\/signs-your-boyfriend-is-taking-you-for-granted\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">d\u00e0 per scontati tutti i tipi di gesti<\/a>, like he\u2019s some gift from the heavens.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. He\u2019s a closed book<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Vi tiene a distanza, si tiene emotivamente chiuso e riservato. Questo di solito \u00e8 segno di una persona emotivamente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segni-mortali-di-un-uomo-immaturo\/\">uomo immaturo<\/a> who is afraid of letting someone in or he simply doesn\u2019t know how to.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not up to you to change him and help him with it, because that\u2019s a decision he needs to make on his own and that\u2019s a path he needs to walk alone. Being with this kind of man will only leave you both emotionally and physically drained.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. All you ever talk about is\u2026 him<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Ah, l'egocentrico. Questo \u00e8 facilmente riconoscibile, perch\u00e9 vi troverete a un appuntamento in cui parlerete di lui, e intendo solo di lui.<\/p>\n<p>Se anche solo iniziate a parlare di voi, lui ricorder\u00e0 immediatamente una storia in cui ha vissuto qualcosa di simile e finirete per parlare di nuovo di lui. Anche questo \u00e8 il segno di un narcisista e la cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 scappare per salvarsi.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. The word \u2018sorry\u2019 isn\u2019t in his vocabulary<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If he\u2019s late, he won\u2019t apologize. Not because he doesn\u2019t know how to, it\u2019s because he truly believes he has no need to do so. I mean, you\u2019re lucky he even showed up at all. And no matter what he does, he will never apologize.<\/p>\n<p>If he said something to upset you, he won\u2019t take the blame. Instead, it will be you who should have warned him about it and he will always find a way to blame it on you or somebody else. It\u2019s never him.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. He\u2019s a liar<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>You even caught him in a lie, but he still doesn\u2019t stop nor does he feel guilty. He will simply change the subject and move on. He will tell lies about the most mundane things, and even if those lies are hardly believable, he just won\u2019t stop.<\/p>\n<p>All'inizio pu\u00f2 sembrare divertente, ma credetemi, le piccole bugie si trasformano in bugie pi\u00f9 grandi e una relazione senza fiducia non vale la pena di essere vissuta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-segnali-rivelatori-di-un-appuntamento-con-un-bugiardo-compulsivo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">6 segnali rivelatori di una frequentazione con un bugiardo compulsivo<\/a><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">8. Allarme appiccicoso<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>He\u2019s blowing up your phone with messages, instantly follows you on all your social media accounts and it seems like he\u2019s everywhere. He wants to talk to you 24\/7 and wants to spend every single second of his free time with you.<\/p>\n<p>We get it, it\u2019s amazing when you meet someone you really like and it\u2019s completely natural to want to spend time with them and get to know them better.<\/p>\n<p>But there are certain boundaries and lines need to be drawn. If he makes you nervous, don\u2019t think it\u2019s you, as it could definitely be him.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">9. Gioco del caldo e del freddo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u00c8 molto imprevedibile e non sai mai dove ti trovi con lui. Un giorno ti manda in tilt il telefono e il giorno dopo ti ignora.<\/p>\n<p>Parler\u00e0 del vostro futuro per una settimana e sar\u00e0 chiuso la settimana successiva. Questo tipo di uomo ha bisogno di capire le cose da solo prima di venire da voi.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, he\u2019s not the type of man you should fall for.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">10. Tutte le sue ex sono puttane pazze<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to have bad relationships and some are worse than bad. It\u2019s okay if your ex is an idiotic asshole but if each and every one of his exes is a crazy bitch, that is not okay.<\/p>\n<p>Dice solo che c'\u00e8 qualcosa di sbagliato in lui, perch\u00e9 l'unica cosa che tutte queste relazioni hanno in comune \u00e8 lui.<\/p>\n<p>Anche questo \u00e8 un segno di un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/5-segni-di-immaturita-emotiva-di-un-ragazzo-madre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">uomo emotivamente immaturo<\/a> who doesn\u2019t know how to handle emotions and how to put any effort into the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Vuoi davvero essere l'ennesima stronza pazza della lista?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-15677 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pexels-photo-572463-1.jpg\" alt=\"10 segnali d&#039;allarme per un fidanzato orribile\" width=\"469\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pexels-photo-572463-1.jpg 469w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pexels-photo-572463-1-201x300.jpg 201w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pexels-photo-572463-1-685x1024.jpg 685w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 469px) 100vw, 469px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most shitty boyfriends are easily spotted in the early stages of a relationship, all you have to do is to pay close attention to his behavior toward you and the people around you. Of course, there are manipulators who have perfected their mind games so well that they\u2019re so hard to figure out until it&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":15676,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15670","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pexels-photo-572463-1.jpeg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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