But what if \u2013 after a lot of self-reflection and effort \u2013 you realize that who you are isn’t rare?<\/strong> What if being special is always just out of reach, but you can\u2019t accept it? When it\u2019s impossible to stand out among the innovators, the visionaries and the trailblazers, how can you become the main character instead of being a NPC in a side quest?<\/p>\n La risposta \u00e8 semplice: dovete essere assolutamente, completamente, inequivocabilmente fedeli a voi stessi. There’s only one of you, so you’re the most unique when you’re genuine.<\/strong> When you\u2019re living your most authentic life, you\u2019re a rare species. When you\u2019re real, that\u2019s when you are out of the ordinary.<\/p>\n Someone who\u2019s unusual in a good way is known as a rare breed. But isn\u2019t this just someone\u2019s opinion?<\/strong> Maybe someone else wouldn\u2019t see this apparently rare person as anything special because they\u2019ve met someone similar already or their views of what positive personality traits are is different.<\/p>\n But whose judgment is correct? There aren\u2019t really any objective ways to determine this with complete certainty. But if you had to choose who to believe, you\u2019d pick the person whose values align with your own and you\u2019d be inclined to trust their views.<\/strong><\/p>\n Perci\u00f2, lasciate perdere l'intermediario e decidete da soli: che cosa considerate straordinario ed eccezionale? E soprattutto, come essere rari in modi che siano significativi per voi, in modo che possiate sentirvi bene con il vostro posto nel mondo.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sapete di avere di pi\u00f9 da dare al mondo, ora dovete trovare il vostro superpotere, la cosa pi\u00f9 rara di voi che vi separa dalla massa.<\/p>\n You’ve heard this a million times. This aphorism is believed to have been inscribed at the Temple of Apollo at Delphi at least 4000 years ago, so it\u2019s no wonder it\u2019s become overused to the point that it sounds meaningless. Repeating this phrase without explanation is of no use \u2013 come conoscere davvero se stessi?<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s hard, but you must start here. The challenge doesn\u2019t lie in the process, but in what you will find.<\/strong> Siate onesti con voi stessi.<\/a><\/p>\n Se ci fosse una semplice lista di controllo di preferenze e antipatie, paure e desideri, o speranze e sogni da completare senza dover sperimentare il significato di tutto ci\u00f2, sarebbe facile. Ma Per conoscere se stessi, bisogna affrontare se stessi.<\/strong><\/p>\n Se volete scoprire le vostre qualit\u00e0 rare che vi rendono non comuni, dovete affrontare i vostri difetti e la vostra vergogna<\/strong>. If you\u2019re honest with yourself, you\u2019ll find a lot. All of those things you don\u2019t like about yourself that you pretend don\u2019t exist. The insecurities you try to make up for. The distorted beliefs you hold for better self-image.<\/p>\n No one wants to be mean, prejudiced, or arrogant, so we like to assume that we\u2019re not. We find excuses for our actions that don’t align with what we believe about ourselves.<\/strong> For example, if you consider being rude a true flaw \u2013 and not one of those faux-flaws that are really strengths \u2013 you’ll find a way to justify it to yourself every time you act in a rude manner.<\/strong><\/p>\n Lei, come tutti, si illude in qualche misura: si sminuiscono i propri difetti e si esaltano le qualit\u00e0 desiderabili che si vogliono possedere.<\/strong> \u00c8 semplicemente la natura umana.<\/p>\n Recognizing when someone else’s actions are problematic is not a problem, because li si giudica in base all'effetto delle loro azioni<\/strong>. Al contrario, ci si giudica in base alle proprie intenzioni. Poich\u00e9 si vuole essere buoni, si presume di esserlo.<\/p>\n So how to challenge these self-concepts that might be holding you back? Start by asking the people who know you to tell you what you\u2019re like.<\/p>\n Our loved ones often see us the most clearly and understand us on a level that\u2019s unique to them.<\/strong> They\u2019ve seen us in a variety of situations, so they\u2019re not making a superficial judgment. On the other hand, their perception isn\u2019t clouded by il bisogno di compiacere l'ego<\/a> come il nostro.<\/p>\n La vostra famiglia e i vostri migliori amici vi vedono dall'esterno, ma a differenza di chi ha una sola impressione di voi, loro hanno molte informazioni.<\/strong> They don\u2019t know your motivations, but they know a lot of things that you don\u2019t, such as your body language, your expressions and your reactions. They can give you a clearer picture of what you\u2019re like.<\/p>\n Fate un passo indietro per ritrovare voi stessi. L'introspezione, il diario, i libri di auto-aiuto o i podcast di approfondimento sono utili, ma se si utilizza solo questo tipo di approccio, si rischia di perdersi nella propria testa. Sapete gi\u00e0 qualcosa di voi stessi.<\/strong> You know what you\u2019re lying to yourself about and what you want to appear as.<\/p>\n Per poter osservare se stessi senza che la vista sia offuscata dai sentimenti, \u00e8 necessario lasciar andare l'analisi praticando la mindfulness. La mindfulness non \u00e8 altro che vivere nel momento, lasciando che le cose siano cos\u00ec come sono senza attribuire loro un valore.<\/strong> If you don\u2019t place moral judgment on your thoughts, they become more acceptable.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re able to look at yourself as you are and not as you wish to be, you\u2019ll realize your own uniqueness.<\/strong> Getting rid of society\u2019s expectations that make people chase the next milestone they\u2019re supposed to reach will set you free.<\/p>\n Perch\u00e9 \u00e8 importante conoscere se stessi? Se volete lasciare un segno nel mondo e distinguervi, i vostri obiettivi devono provenire da un luogo di passione.<\/strong> Otherwise, even if you reach what you set out to achieve, you will never stand out because your heart wasn’t in it.<\/p>\n Once you’re able to pinpoint your true desires, you won’t waste time on what other people have made you think you want and you can set goals that are actually important to you. Ispiratevi a voi stessi<\/a>.<\/p>\n Culture diverse hanno idee diverse su ci\u00f2 che costituisce il successo, ma if your personal motives don’t correspond to what you’ve been taught to reach for, you’ll spend your entire life living someone else’s dream.<\/strong><\/p>\n Lavorare sodo in una carriera che porta soldi e potere non significa nulla se il vostro sogno \u00e8 trovare una cura per una malattia rara o essere cofondatori di una colonia artistica con il vostro partner. Conoscere se stessi \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che aiuta a prendere decisioni migliori e a diventare una persona migliore alle proprie condizioni.<\/strong><\/p>\n Solo allora \u00e8 possibile alzarsi e fare la differenza, e questo \u00e8 davvero raro.<\/p>\n Are you bored of hearing this? If you\u2019ve ever read anything about personal development, the only thing that\u2019s talked about more than knowing yourself is finding your passion and purpose.<\/strong> So why repeat it once (three times) again, considering we just spoke about recognizing your heart\u2019s desire?<\/p>\n Because it\u2019s just that important.<\/strong> It\u2019s the second condition for standing out. When you know who you are and what you want, only then can you be authentic \u2013 and essere autentici \u00e8 il modo per essere rari.<\/strong> Tutto nella vita pu\u00f2 essere fatto se ci si tiene.<\/p>\n Think of something that most people consider difficult that you managed to achieve easily. Something that was so easy, in fact, that you don\u2019t want to admit to people how not big of a deal it was. Sapete perch\u00e9 ci siete riusciti? Perch\u00e9 lo volevate.<\/strong><\/p>\n On the other hand, you probably failed at something much easier simply because you didn\u2019t really care.<\/p>\n La volont\u00e0 \u00e8 sottovalutata. Il desiderio d\u00e0 una spinta che fa sembrare lo sforzo un divertimento.<\/strong> You want something badly, passionately, with all your heart? You\u2019re going to get it; because taking steps to achieve it is nothing compared to your end goal. Rendere la realt\u00e0 migliore dei vostri sogni<\/a>.<\/p>\n This is why it\u2019s so important to know who you are and what you want \u2013 once you do, you\u2019re halfway there.<\/p>\n I limiti sono restrizioni. They tell you what\u2019s possible and what isn\u2019t, they tell you what\u2019s acceptable and what isn\u2019t.<\/strong> It\u2019s not important who came up with these limits and why, although the answer to both of these questions is almost always \u2018whoever benefited from them\u2019.<\/p>\n La maggior parte delle persone non mette mai in discussione i limiti che gli vengono imposti, ma ha l'ardire di guardare dall'alto in basso chi li rifiuta.<\/strong> They take certain things as a given and anyone who refuses to follow what they\u2019ve been told to follow is considered a fool, weird or inappropriate.<\/p>\n If you\u2019ve ever been told that you\u2019re too short or too weak to play a sport, too young or too old to do or accomplish something, too pretty, too ugly, too fat, too poor, that it\u2019s not for women, for someone with your background, level of education, experience or any other convention you\u2019ve been led to believe is true, sapete quali sono i veri limiti: il pregiudizio.<\/strong><\/p>\n Rifiutate di essere determinati da ci\u00f2 che qualcuno ritiene accettabile per voi e che non ha senso. Don’t accept things as a given and don\u2019t apologize for following your dreams.<\/strong><\/p>\n L'unico concetto peggiore delle limitazioni immaginarie sono le regole senza sostanza. Don’t misunderstand \u2013 breaking rules doesn’t mean breaking laws.<\/strong> Significa rompere gli schemi, le abitudini e i ranghi. Significa uscire dal guscio e fare l'inaspettato.<\/p>\n Regole che proteggono le persone, come la regola d'oro<\/em> \u2013 always treat others as you would like others to treat you \u2013 are those that make sense.<\/strong> Ognuno di noi \u00e8 una specie rara, tutti preziosi e unici nel loro genere e nessuno ha la precedenza su un altro.<\/p>\n Le regole che mirano a imporre conformit\u00e0 e obbedienza sono quelle da infrangere.<\/strong> Don\u2019t accept it when you\u2019re told things like, \u2018that\u2019s the way it is\u2019 or \u2018it\u2019s how we\u2019ve always done it\u2019. Rare people don\u2019t accept complacency.<\/strong><\/p>\n Vivere per se stessi<\/a> e fare le cose a modo vostro: superare i limiti e ridefinire le regole. \u00c8 cos\u00ec che si innova e si arricchisce il mondo.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re authentic, have a dream, and refuse to be told that you can\u2019t do something, nothing can stop you.<\/strong> Continuate a leggere per scoprire cos'altro c'\u00e8 da sapere.<\/p>\n Trust your feelings. This is another reason why it\u2019s important to start things with getting to know yourself: Essere consapevoli dei propri punti di forza, dei propri difetti, delle proprie motivazioni e delle proprie paure permette di avere fiducia in se stessi.<\/strong><\/p>\n While you\u2019re lying to yourself and thinking in terms of how things should be, you\u2019ll never have real confidence that isn\u2019t informed by self-doubt or arrogance, but by knowledge and security.<\/p>\n Feelings aren\u2019t something to be suppressed<\/a> o nascosto.<\/strong> Occorre invece comprenderli affinch\u00e9 possano lavorare per voi. Dedicate un po' di tempo ad aumentare la vostra intelligenza emotiva<\/strong> so that you\u2019re able to make sense of and manage your own feelings and the feelings of others.<\/p>\n Gli istinti sono una combinazione di ragione ed emozioni.<\/strong> They tell you everything you need to know that you don\u2019t notice consciously. Your experience, observations and feelings come together and reach a conclusion \u2013 there\u2019s no need to go through the trouble of trying to figure something out when your subconscious has already done it for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n Most people tend to doubt their instincts because they doubt themselves, but if you\u2019re secure in yourself, you won\u2019t have trouble accepting what your gut tells you. Be a rare person by unconditionally trusting yourself.<\/p>\n Being rare doesn\u2019t come without its challenges and people trying to bring you down is one of them. When you say ‘no, thanks’ to limits, when you do things your way instead of following the rules, when you’re unapologetically free and present, negative reactions are inevitable.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019ll be shocked by how many people have something hateful to say when you live the way you want. People will come at you for many reasons.<\/p>\n Some of them will be offended that you’re ignoring what they consider unbreakable rules, but are really rules that exist perch\u00e9 va bene per loro o perch\u00e9 non sono d'accordo con i vostri valori.<\/strong> Some will envy you because you’re successful or you dare to do what they don’t.<\/p>\n If you’re living your life and following your path without harming anyone, their disapproval isn\u2019t your problem.<\/strong> La cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 ignorarli ogni volta che potete e fare le vostre cose. Investite tutte le vostre energie nelle persone che vi amano, vi accettano e vi sostengono.<\/p>\n RELATIVO: Citazioni sugli haters: Gli haters sono i miei motivatori<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Most people settle, but you\u2019re a rare breed \u2013 you don\u2019t accept anything that isn\u2019t exactly what you want. Stabilite un obiettivo alto e impegnatevi a raggiungerlo.<\/strong><\/p>\n Siate 100% sinceramente dediti a ci\u00f2 che volete ottenere. If you\u2019re passionate and driven when it comes to it, you must do your best and be the best.<\/strong> And as you\u2019ve already learned, if you find what you love, your effort will never seem like a chore.<\/p>\n Pu\u00f2 sembrare un concetto astratto, ma la passione per tutto ci\u00f2 che si fa \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che separa i rari dai comuni. Il vostro obiettivo pu\u00f2 essere qualsiasi cosa: qualcosa legato alla vostra carriera, alla crescita personale o a una causa, as long as it\u2019s something you can\u2019t live without.<\/strong><\/p>\n Lavorateci ogni giorno. Apprezzate ogni piccolo successo ottenuto e lasciatevi motivare. Siate pazienti e coerenti.<\/strong> Imparate tutto quello che potete su di esso. Non accontentatevi mai. Dite di s\u00ec. Trovate opportunit\u00e0 e imparate dai vostri errori. Creare la propria realt\u00e0.<\/a><\/p>\n If it\u2019s meaningful for you, if it changes you and makes you get out of bed in the morning, and you get to do it, you\u2019re as rare as it gets.<\/strong><\/p>\n Let’s say you’re a musician, but you don’t have a way to distribute or promote your music. You have no money to pay for a studio to record your songs, let alone print a physical medium. A fundraiser isn’t an option and you have no sponsors. All you have are some subscribers on social media where you sometimes post the music you recorded in your room.<\/p>\n Volete realizzare il vostro sogno di diventare grandi, ma questo lo scenario sembra impossibile<\/strong>, doesn\u2019t it? There are too many musicians who want the same thing, in the same situation. Why would it be you who succeeds?<\/p>\n Vedetela in questo modo: perch\u00e9 wouldn\u2019t<\/em> Sei tu?<\/strong> Avete passione, determinazione e credete nella vostra musica e in voi stessi. Questo vi d\u00e0 tutti gli strumenti necessari per il successo. Lo desiderate cos\u00ec tanto che il duro lavoro vi sembra una ricompensa. La vostra musica \u00e8 autentica e reale.<\/p>\n Ma si fallisce pi\u00f9 e pi\u00f9 volte. Si pu\u00f2 scegliere se continuare a provare o rinunciare. If you\u2019re a rare breed, you\u2019ll keep going.<\/strong> Rifiutate la sconfitta e continuate ad andare avanti per tutto il tempo necessario. Quando credi in te stesso e nel tuo lavoro, puoi farcela.<\/strong><\/p>\nHow To Be Rare When You\u2019re Just You (In 8 Steps)<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Conoscere se stessi<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Be honest<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Face yourself<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Ask around<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Get some distance<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Find your heart\u2019s desire<\/h4>\n
2. Passione, passione, passione<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Ignorare i limiti<\/h3>\n
4. Infrangere le regole<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Ascoltare l'intuizione<\/h3>\n
6. Ignorare gli odiatori<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Essere i migliori in quello che si fa<\/h3>\n
8. Rifiutare la sconfitta<\/h3>\n
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