{"id":156795,"date":"2022-08-09T12:21:50","date_gmt":"2022-08-09T12:21:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=156795"},"modified":"2022-08-19T06:10:54","modified_gmt":"2022-08-19T06:10:54","slug":"come-salvare-un-matrimonio-quando-solo-uno-ci-prova","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-salvare-un-matrimonio-quando-solo-uno-ci-prova\/","title":{"rendered":"Come salvare un matrimonio quando uno solo ci sta provando"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nessuno si sposa con l'intenzione di divorziare, ma la triste verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che i matrimoni spesso falliscono. Tuttavia, avere la possibilit\u00e0 di divorziare \u00e8 di gran lunga preferibile all'essere condannati a una vita di infelicit\u00e0<\/strong>bloccati in un matrimonio che vi sta rendendo infelici.<\/p>\n

Marriages, like other relationships, can reach a point where they become damaged beyond repair. Clearly, you don\u2019t want your marriage to reach this point, otherwise you wouldn\u2019t be here. If you\u2019re wondering how to save a marriage when only one is trying, you\u2019re already ahead. <\/strong>Until both partners have given up, there\u2019s hope.<\/p>\n

Saving your marriage will be hard work, but it\u2019s not impossible. As long as you\u2019re determined to do whatever needs to be done to mend your relationship, you have reason to keep going.<\/p>\n

Ecco alcuni consigli utili per rendere i vostri sforzi pi\u00f9 facili e con maggiori probabilit\u00e0 di successo.<\/p>\n

Come salvare un matrimonio quando uno solo ci prova?<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

When one partner wants to leave a troubled marriage and the other one desperately wants to save it, it may seem that there is a rift between them that\u2019s impossible to repair. How to save a marriage when only one is trying?<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 ogni relazione \u00e8 diversa, there isn\u2019t a one-size-fits-all kind of solution<\/strong>. Still, the following tips should lead you towards defining the exact steps to take as long as you\u2019re willing to do your best.<\/p>\n

1. Chiedetevi perch\u00e9 volete salvare il vostro matrimonio<\/h3>\n

Salvare un matrimonio con la piena collaborazione di entrambi i partner \u00e8 difficile. Salvare un matrimonio da soli \u00e8 un compito enorme.<\/strong> Your first step should be to make sure you\u2019re determined to do this for the right reasons.<\/p>\n

Ask yourself, \u201cWhy do I want to save my marriage?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Is it the vows you\u2019ve taken?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Do you want to stay together for the kids?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Is it that you don’t want to go through divorce?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Are you ashamed of your marriage failing?<\/p>\n

All of these reasons are wrong because if you think this way, your heart isn\u2019t in it. The only real reason you should endure in your efforts to save your marriage is se voi e il vostro coniuge vi amate e credete che sia possibile un matrimonio felice tra di voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you believe that you must stay married for any reason that isn\u2019t about choosing your spouse as someone to share your life with, happiness will always be out of reach. Nessuno di questi fattori esterni pu\u00f2 compensare la mancanza di amore e di impegno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You should be with someone who chooses to love you, even if at this point they\u2019re not taking part in salvare il vostro matrimonio.<\/a><\/p>\n

Pensate se entrambi vi siete mai impegnati a fondo nel vostro matrimonio e avete dato il massimo. Se lo avete fatto, dove sono andate male le cose e cosa dovreste fare per risolverle?<\/p>\n

2. Pensate se il vostro matrimonio pu\u00f2 essere salvato<\/h3>\n

After you\u2019ve thought about your reasons for saving your marriage and decided that you want to keep going, you must ask yourself se il vostro matrimonio pu\u00f2 essere salvato o meno<\/strong>, especially since you\u2019re the only one who is trying.<\/p>\n

I problemi coniugali si verificano in ogni matrimonio, ma se avete una relazione sana, possono essere risolti.<\/strong> A toxic marriage can’t be saved. Sure, it can be patched, but it would take a lot of effort on both sides to really heal it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Is your relationship toxic or has it simply started dissolving from neglect?<\/strong> Anche piccoli problemi irrisolti per troppo tempo possono trascinarsi e contaminare altre parti della vostra relazione. Per capire se il matrimonio pu\u00f2 essere salvato, bisogna iniziare a considerare se i problemi possono essere risolti.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Is your partner even aware that your marriage is failing?<\/strong> If your partner isn\u2019t paying attention, they might not even be aware that you feel like your marriage is in danger.<\/p>\n

Marriages don’t end only in explosions \u2013 sometimes they fade away until they stop being marriages. When things come this far, things end or go on without being a real marriage for years, making both partners miserable.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If your partner explicitly wants out, do you know why?<\/strong> Is it something you\u2019ve done or a change in their feelings? If either of you is constantly criticizing the other or showing contempt, you might be moving from a troubled towards unhappy marriage.<\/p>\n

Why ask all these questions and think about it so much? Because it\u2019s important to establish whether your marriage gives you more happiness than misery. No relationship is always harmonious, but il bene deve essere superiore al male, in modo che il vostro matrimonio diventa degno di essere salvato.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Identificare i problemi reali<\/h3>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

To be able to solve marriage problems, you must learn what they are in the first place. When insignificant little things you disagree about turn into fights with your loved one, there must be underlying causes you\u2019re either not aware of or not acknowledging.<\/p>\n

Ci sono due tipi di problemi in un matrimonio:<\/p>\n

1. Problems that can\u2019t be solved.<\/h4>\n

Questi problemi sono spesso legati a differenze nei valori o nelle azioni di uno o entrambi i partner.<\/strong> If your non-negotiables \u2013 core values you can never budge on \u2013 don\u2019t match or if either of you has betrayed the other in ways that can\u2019t be forgiven, it\u2019s nearly impossible to have a happy relationship.<\/p>\n

For example, if one of you has dreamed about being a parent and can\u2019t part from that dream, but the other one can\u2019t have children, potete trovare un modo per trovare un compromesso su questo tema?<\/strong><\/p>\n

These are some problems which are either impossible or difficult to solve. If you\u2019re facing these, there\u2019s a high chance that il vostro matrimonio potrebbe finire con un divorzio.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u2022 Abusive behavior on either side.<\/strong> Se uno dei due ricorre a maltrattamenti emotivi o arriva a sottoporre l'altro a maltrattamenti fisici, i vostri problemi potrebbero essere troppo difficili da risolvere.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Money issues.<\/strong> I problemi finanziari possono danneggiare gravemente un matrimonio. Le differenze di reddito, i debiti, le abitudini di spesa, le decisioni di fare grandi acquisti, ecc. possono avere un effetto negativo sul matrimonio.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Communication problems.<\/strong> Se non iniziate a lavorare sulle vostre capacit\u00e0 di comunicazione, il vostro matrimonio rimarr\u00e0 su gambe traballanti.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Lack of affection and intimacy.<\/strong> La perdita dell'intimit\u00e0 emotiva e fisica fa sentire il matrimonio freddo e poco accogliente. Questo spesso porta all'infedelt\u00e0 e ad altri comportamenti offensivi.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Fighting all the time.<\/strong> Litigare continuamente senza trovare una soluzione \u00e8 segno di problemi di comunicazione e di scarsa volont\u00e0 di affrontare i problemi.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Different values.<\/strong> Unless you agree on your most basic values, it\u2019s difficult to understand each other.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Substance abuse.<\/strong> When either partner has a problem with drugs or alcohol, they come first. Until this is dealt with, it\u2019s impossible to work on the relationship.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Sexual incompatibility.<\/strong> Se, ad esempio, una persona \u00e8 avventurosa e l'altra preferisce la routine, la mancanza di compatibilit\u00e0 sessuale potrebbe spingerla a cercare compagnia sessuale altrove o a non essere soddisfatta della propria vita sessuale.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Difference in goals.<\/strong> I sentieri su cui camminate devono essere allineati, altrimenti si divider\u00e0 in due e vi porter\u00e0 con s\u00e9.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Mental health and personal problems.<\/strong> Getting help from your loved ones is useful when struggling with mental health issues, but marriage problems can\u2019t be dealt with at the same time.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Problems with each other’s families.<\/strong> Hating each other\u2019s families can cause conflict in multiple ways.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Infidelity.<\/strong> Un coniuge che tradisce l'altro una volta \u00e8 gi\u00e0 abbastanza grave, ma una relazione pu\u00f2 rovinare il matrimonio ancora pi\u00f9 facilmente. Restare insieme dopo l'infedelt\u00e0 \u00e8 possibile<\/a>ma ci vogliono dedizione e duro lavoro.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Choosing something over each other.<\/strong> Ad esempio, scegliere un lavoro in un'altra citt\u00e0 mentre il coniuge non pu\u00f2 seguirvi \u00e8 segno che lo apprezzate pi\u00f9 di lui.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Falling out of love.<\/strong> Unfortunately, it happens when both spouses aren\u2019t focused on making the marriage thrive. Unless you\u2019re making an effort and working on your marriage every day, passionate love of the early days won\u2019t have a chance to turn into stable love and partnership, but it will simply fade away.<\/p>\n

RELATIVO: 10 errori comuni di riconciliazione matrimoniale da evitare dopo un'infedelt\u00e0<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Problemi che possono essere risolti<\/h4>\n

Questo tipo di problemi comporta disaccordi su qualcosa su cui \u00e8 possibile trovare un compromesso. Sono problemi normali, spesso causati dallo stress, che si verificano in tutte le relazioni sane, non solo nei matrimoni in crisi.<\/p>\n

Lavorare su problemi che possono essere risolti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Often, a number of small problems accumulate over a long period of time and create a distance between spouses. No matter how seemingly small these issues are, they still can\u2019t be ignored.<\/p>\n

Luckily, solving these kinds of problems doesn\u2019t take too much hard work \u2013 as long as you decide you want to change this, it only takes a little effort. Se condividete i valori e vi amate, salvare il vostro matrimonio \u00e8 possibile.<\/strong><\/p>\n

4. Realize what won’t help<\/h3>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Forcing your partner to stay will just push them away quicker. Any method which makes your spouse feel tricked or coerced into staying won\u2019t give you the happy marriage you should have. Trying to force reconciliation won\u2019t work.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, you deserve to be with someone who\u2019s with you because they want to be and not because you made them stay.<\/p>\n

I seguenti metodi non funzionano mai:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Manipulation.<\/strong> Lying, guilt trips, pressure, and controlling behavior will push your partner away even sooner. Don\u2019t allow yourself to be manipulated either.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Desperation.<\/strong> Fare tutto quello che vuole la moglie o il marito, implorare, essere appiccicosi e altri tipi di comportamento per ricattare emotivamente il coniuge.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Involving other people.<\/strong> Apart from your marriage counselor, no one should be involved in your relationship, especially while you\u2019re trying to save it. Friends, in-laws or family will always be biased and only make the situation more difficult.<\/p>\n

RELATIVO: 10 modi per riconquistarlo (senza sembrare disperate)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

5. Lavorare su se stessi<\/h3>\n

Entrambi i partner hanno un ruolo nella maggior parte dei problemi di coppia. Invece di dare tutta la colpa al vostro coniuge, accettare la propria parte di colpa.<\/strong> Don\u2019t only think about your marriage problems as something you need to change your spouse\u2019s mind about, but consider in what ways you should change your behavior to help.<\/p>\n

Own your role and figure out what you\u2019re doing that hurts your marriage<\/strong>. Find out how you\u2019re responsible for your situation instead of thinking about how your partner has to change. You\u2019re powerless in that regard, but you can do a lot by focusing on yourself.<\/p>\n

Become aware of your own feelings. Don\u2019t indulge in negative thoughts and blame your partner internally.<\/p>\n

Cambiate ci\u00f2 che deve essere cambiato per farvi piacere di pi\u00f9 quello che siete.<\/strong> Tornate a essere quello che siete come persona, senza considerare la vostra vita sentimentale e senza aspettative nei confronti del vostro coniuge.<\/p>\n

Work on yourself first and focus on becoming yourself \u2013 coincidentally, it\u2019s la persona di cui il vostro coniuge si \u00e8 innamorato<\/strong>. Spostando l'attenzione dal coniuge a se stessi e apportando cambiamenti positivi, anche il loro comportamento inizier\u00e0 a cambiare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Comunicare con il coniuge<\/h3>\n

Se i vostri problemi sono arrivati a questo punto, sicuramente avete un problema di comunicazione nel vostro matrimonio. La mancanza di capacit\u00e0 di comunicazione potrebbe avervi impedito di risolvere diversi problemi che avrebbero potuto essere affrontati facilmente se solo aveste saputo come affrontarli.<\/p>\n

Se non avete mai parlato dei vostri problemi o non abbastanza o non nel modo giusto, per quanto piccoli possano sembrare, continuano a persistere, causando ulteriori problemi.<\/strong> It\u2019s possible that your spouse doesn\u2019t even realize how far your problems have gone, so they can\u2019t help you save your marriage even if they wanted to.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Good communication skills start with seeking to capire prima e farsi capire poi<\/strong>. Try to understand each other\u2019s perspective instead of proving a point or being defensive.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Listen actively,<\/strong> making your spouse feel heard. When they do, they\u2019ll be more eager to talk to you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don’t focus on blaming each other<\/strong>, but on solving your problems. Righting every wrong isn\u2019t important, your relationship is.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t insult your spouse<\/strong>, don\u2019t be condescending and don\u2019t make your spouse think that you feel contempt for them. Be accepting and understanding, showing empathy and willingness to forgive.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Learn to fight productively and fairly<\/strong>. Fighting is normal, but it\u2019s important that you know how to fight.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t raise old issues<\/strong> which have lost their meaning by now. If you keep rehashing the same issues, however, it means that there\u2019s an underlying problem. Il risentimento uccide i matrimoni.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t focus on the negative<\/strong> \u2013 instead, be kind and considerate, giving your partner a sign of your good will and love.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Make sure your spouse knows that you\u2019re being honest<\/strong>. if you\u2019re completely open with them, they\u2019ll understand you better and might decide to join you in saving your marriage.<\/p>\n

7. Prendete tempo e date loro spazio<\/h3>\n

When a married couple mentions the word \u2018separation\u2019, it might seem like a signal that they\u2019re giving up and getting ready for a divorce, but it\u2019s not true \u2013 it doesn\u2019t have to mean that il vostro matrimonio \u00e8 finito.<\/a><\/p>\n

While you don\u2019t have to move out and get separated fully, dare spazio al coniuge pu\u00f2 aiutare a salvare il matrimonio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Creare una distanza allo scopo di avere e dare spazio permette al coniuge di pensare a voi e alla vostra relazione da solo e di prendere decisioni al proprio ritmo. Siate pazienti e lasciate che il vostro coniuge faccia ci\u00f2 che deve fare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You might feel like you\u2019re running out of time if your spouse has decided to stop trying. There\u2019s a ticking clock somewhere, it\u2019s running fast and you can\u2019t see it. If you\u2019re lacking time, let your spouse know<\/strong>. Dite loro che avete bisogno di pi\u00f9 tempo per affrontare tutto.<\/p>\n

Usate questo tempo non solo per affrontare i problemi del vostro matrimonio, ma anche per concentrarvi sui vostri obiettivi e cambiare il vostro comportamento.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it because of the expectations you\u2019re placing on your spouse, but for your personal development. By becoming someone you like more, you\u2019re giving your spouse a chance to appreciate you more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re both willing, make time for each other to talk or to reconnect to each other.<\/p>\n

8. Ricollegarsi al coniuge<\/h3>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Relationships are alive and need nurturing. Being happily married needs work every day to maintain the relationship. If you\u2019ve been neglecting your relationship, it\u2019s reasonable to expect that it\u2019s going to weaken.<\/p>\n

To save your marriage, you must make your spouse want to try again. If you\u2019ve been working on yourself and learning how to communicate, after giving your spouse space, try to reconnect with them when they\u2019re ready.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Decide to start fresh<\/strong>. Talk about your problems and work on solving them, but leave behind grudges and thinking about who\u2019s to blame.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Try to understand their point of view.<\/strong> Quali problemi personali ha il vostro coniuge? Siate accettanti e gentili.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Be honest and transparent.<\/strong> Communicate openly: honestly and fully tell your spouse how you feel. Tell them everything \u2013 don\u2019t omit thoughts and feelings or avoid talking about actions you wish you could ignore. Complete honesty is necessary when you\u2019re rebuilding trust.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Take it step by step.<\/strong> Piccoli passi avanti nel tempo vi avvicineranno di nuovo, cos\u00ec come piccoli problemi vi hanno allontanato. Mostrate apprezzamento per ogni passo avanti.<\/p>\n

- Concentratevi sugli aspetti positivi.<\/a><\/strong> La base del lavoro per salvare il vostro matrimonio \u00e8 lavorare sui vostri problemi e trovare soluzioni che vi rendano entrambi felici.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, invece di concentrarvi completamente sugli aspetti negativi della vostra relazione, dovete concentrarvi sulle cose buone che ancora vi separano: l'amore e la volont\u00e0 di avere una vita insieme.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Learn to love each other again<\/strong>. Relive your most precious memories with each other, not by lamenting the way things were, but to remember the feelings you once showed each other freely. Remember why you\u2019re in the relationship.<\/p>\n

The intensity and flavor of yours or your spouse\u2019s feelings might have changed, but as long as there is love between you, keeping your marriage alive is possible. Show your love, through words and actions.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Reawaken attraction.<\/strong> Gli esseri umani sono attratti l'uno dall'altro: quando l'attrazione fisica ed emotiva \u00e8 ad alti livelli, ci innamoriamo. Riconnettetevi l'un l'altro costruendo di nuovo una connessione tra di voi.<\/p>\n

9. Andare alla consulenza di coppia<\/h3>\n

Visiting a couples therapist is useful even if your spouse refuses to attend. It\u2019s your best shot of finding the best solution to your relationship problems. La consulenza individuale fornisce un aiuto al matrimonio tanto quanto la consulenza di coppia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Affrontatelo come un modo per imparare e lavorare su voi stessi, invece di trovare la risposta su come convincere il vostro coniuge a rimanere. Un esperto di relazioni \u00e8 in grado di guidarvi anche nel vostro percorso personale, incentrato in particolare su come vi sentite e vi comportate nel vostro matrimonio.<\/p>\n

RELATIVO: 10 domande da porre al coniuge prima di andare in consulenza matrimoniale<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

10. Accept it if you don\u2019t succeed<\/h3>\n

Whether you\u2019re the only one trying or you\u2019re both working on your marriage, sometimes it just isn\u2019t meant to happen. When couples therapy doesn\u2019t help, when communication problems can\u2019t be overcome and you can\u2019t reach each other, if it comes to it, accettare la fine.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se dopo aver fatto tutto il possibile per riparare un matrimonio in crisi<\/a> things don\u2019t work out and you decide to end things, keep in mind that divorce is a far better option than being trapped in a loveless and unhappy marriage.<\/p>\n

Alcuni motivi per smettere di provare sono:<\/p>\n

\u2022 If your marriage is nothing but struggle.<\/strong> Quando il male supera il bene, potrebbe essere il momento di smettere.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you think your spouse’s reasons for distance are wrong.<\/strong> If you disagree with the reason they feel this way, you might have some issues which can\u2019t be fixed.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If your spouse thinks your attempts at fixing it are ridiculous.<\/strong> This means that they don\u2019t intend to try at all and the very idea is laughable to them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you’re not friends any longer.<\/strong> Spouses are supposed to be best friends, but if they\u2019re not friends at all any more, the distance has grown too far.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If thoughts of the future fill you with dread.<\/strong> If you can\u2019t smile while thinking about where you and your partner will be in a year\u2019s time, you\u2019re not looking forward to spending time with them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you never have sex.<\/strong> Salvo problemi di cui entrambi siete consapevoli e che accettate, la mancanza di intimit\u00e0 con il coniuge<\/a> \u00e8 motivo di preoccupazione.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you’re close to someone else.<\/strong> Se uno dei due si sta avvicinando a qualcun altro, probabilmente le vostre priorit\u00e0 si sono spostate dalla relazione.<\/p>\n

Conclusione<\/h2>\n

How to save a marriage when only one is trying before it\u2019s too late?<\/p>\n

First, make sure you know why you want to save it and be honest to yourself whether it\u2019s worth saving or not.<\/strong> Sometimes people stay married for the wrong reasons, but if you\u2019ve decided that your marriage must survive, you have a difficult task ahead of you.<\/p>\n

La consulenza matrimoniale dovrebbe essere uno dei primi passi da compiere<\/strong>. Indipendentemente dal fatto che il vostro partner partecipi o meno, un professionista pu\u00f2 guidarvi verso l'identificazione dei veri problemi del vostro matrimonio e aiutarvi a trovare delle soluzioni.<\/p>\n

Lavorare su se stessi e migliorare la comunicazione con il proprio coniuge far\u00e0 molto di pi\u00f9 di quanto si possa pensare per il proprio matrimonio.<\/strong>. Accettate il vostro interlocutore e cercate di vedere il suo lato per rendere possibile il riavvicinamento.<\/p>\n

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