{"id":157451,"date":"2022-08-30T11:01:19","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T11:01:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=157451"},"modified":"2023-03-24T07:05:58","modified_gmt":"2023-03-24T07:05:58","slug":"10-svantaggi-di-sposare-un-uomo-anziano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-svantaggi-di-sposare-un-uomo-anziano\/","title":{"rendered":"10 svantaggi di sposare un uomo anziano (+ benefici)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Older men are known to be more responsible, reliable, and experienced (and uhm, better in bed?). If you\u2019ve been disappointed by younger men, players, or guys who are masters of immaturity, I totally understand your preference for older men.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I mean, who wouldn\u2019t choose a man you can count on and who knows how to make a real meal (not only eggs), right?<\/strong> Who wouldn\u2019t fall for a man who values you and takes good care of you?<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, dovete sapere che ci sono alcuni svantaggi quando si tratta di sposarne uno. In effetti, la differenza di et\u00e0 \u00e8 importante e pu\u00f2 influenzare molti aspetti della vostra vita di coppia.<\/p>\n<p>Per esempio, i ragazzi pi\u00f9 grandi non amano le feste e possono diventare eccessivamente possessivi. <strong>Now, I\u2019m not saying that you shouldn\u2019t marry an older man, BUT you should definitely consider these 10 disadvantages of marrying an older man!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No need to worry, we\u2019ll also go through the advantages of marrying an older man. It\u2019s easier to make the right decision when you know what awaits you.<\/p>\n<h2>10 svantaggi di sposare un uomo anziano<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157459 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna e uomo anziano che camminano all&#039;esterno\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-walking-outside-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Essere possessivi, non essere disposti a cambiare le proprie abitudini e non essere amanti delle feste sono alcuni degli svantaggi che potreste sperimentare se scegliete di sposare un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano. Ecco i 10 svantaggi di sposare un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano:<\/p>\n<h3>1. I vostri genitori potrebbero essere contrari<\/h3>\n<p>Let\u2019s be realistic here. No matter how old you are, your family is still free to express their own opinions regarding your love life, which doesn\u2019t mean you should agree with them.<\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, sapere che i vostri genitori e altri membri della famiglia potrebbero essere contrari al vostro matrimonio con un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano pu\u00f2 essere frustrante.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If they don\u2019t approve of marriages with a huge year age gap, you can expect to be asked the following and similar questions from them:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Why don\u2019t you date and marry someone your own age?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Sar\u00e0 in grado di giocare con i vostri figli dopo qualche anno?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Cosa succede se si diventa vedovi poco dopo essersi sposati?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sappiamo tutti che i nostri genitori e familiari (beh, la maggior parte di loro) vogliono il meglio per noi, ma a volte esagerano.<\/strong> If you\u2019re happy with your man and believe in your marriage, you shouldn\u2019t worry about what they have to say.<\/p>\n<p>RELATIVO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cosa-attrae-un-uomo-piu-anziano-in-una-donna-piu-giovane\/\">Cosa attrae un uomo anziano in una donna giovane? 11 cose rivelate<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>2. Gli uomini pi\u00f9 anziani possono essere possessivi<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/13-segni-di-relazione-possessiva\/\">Essere in una relazione possessiva<\/a> \u00e8 qualcosa che ognuno di noi dovrebbe evitare, giusto? Inutile dire che questo \u00e8 uno dei maggiori svantaggi del frequentare un partner anziano.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m pretty sure this greatly stems from their insecurity that you might change your mind and fall for a younger man instead.<\/strong> Older men can be possessive because they\u2019re not all confident in their age.<\/p>\n<p>Alcuni pensano inconsciamente che la moglie pi\u00f9 giovane meriti qualcuno pi\u00f9 giovane di loro o che possa essere attratta da un uomo pi\u00f9 giovane.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Per questo motivo, iniziano a vedere ogni giovane intorno a loro come una minaccia.<\/strong> La gelosia e la possessivit\u00e0 sono i due pi\u00f9 grandi killer di ogni relazione\/matrimonio.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Non amano le feste<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157458 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna e uomo anziano che parlano all&#039;esterno\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-talking-outside-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Contrariamente ai giovani, tutti sappiamo o presumiamo che gli uomini anziani non sono animali da festa. Una minoranza di loro ama andare alle feste, bere eccessivamente e comportarsi in modo selvaggio.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re a party goddess, then this might be one of the cons of dating an older man (unless your older man is still interested in partying).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, there are also some women who don\u2019t mind their men being calmer and enjoying more peaceful settings for entertainment. <strong>Ma se queste donne esprimono il desiderio di continuare a fare festa con le loro amiche, i loro uomini potrebbero non essere d'accordo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Compromise is the key here, and again, not many older men are willing to compromise with their partners. You\u2019ll find the answer to this in the following sign.<\/p>\n<h3>4. It\u2019s not easy to change the mind of an older man<\/h3>\n<p>Di questi 10 svantaggi del matrimonio con un uomo anziano, questo \u00e8 probabilmente uno dei pi\u00f9 impegnativi.<strong> Un grande divario di et\u00e0 pu\u00f2 anche significare difficolt\u00e0 quando si tratta di compromessi, che \u00e8 uno dei lati positivi quando si tratta di sposare un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Given that they are more experienced in life, older men feel more responsible when it comes to decision-making. Not many of them are willing to accept their younger partner&#8217;s perspective because they rely solely on their own wisdom and experiences.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Therefore, if you\u2019re thinking of changing the mind of an older man or compromising on something, know that this won\u2019t happen easily.<\/strong> Contrary to younger men, older men can be really stubborn at times. If this is something that doesn\u2019t bother you, then feel free to ignore it.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Potreste trovarvi in fasi di vita diverse<\/h3>\n<p>Il quinto dei 10 svantaggi di sposare un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano \u00e8 quello di trovarsi su uno spettro diverso per quanto riguarda la vita. <strong>Un matrimonio tra un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano e una donna pi\u00f9 giovane \u00e8 spesso destinato a subire molte discussioni, incomprensioni e altri inconvenienti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Questo accade quando una donna pi\u00f9 giovane e un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano non sono sulla stessa lunghezza d'onda. Ecco alcune situazioni in cui una coppia con un divario di et\u00e0 pu\u00f2 trovarsi in fasi diverse della vita:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Not sharing the same values<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Having different preferences<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Different expectations of marriage<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Having different lifestyles<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2022 Having different outlooks on life<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Imagine that your older man prefers a home-cooked meal instead of going to a restaurant, or he wants to have children now while you\u2019re still not ready for that. These and similar things in a marriage can be the cause of constant arguing.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Uomini pi\u00f9 anziani = pi\u00f9 bagaglio<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157456 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna e uomo anziano in posa per una foto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-and-older-man-posing-for-photo-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Given that older men have had more relationships and\/or marriages in the past, they\u2019re bound to have more baggage. Not every single one of them is ready for a new relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Se ha ancora dei problemi irrisolti legati alle sue relazioni passate, \u00e8 probabile che lascer\u00e0 che questi problemi interferiscano con il vostro matrimonio. <strong>Per esempio, potrebbe iniziare a paragonare tutto quello che fate con quello che faceva il suo partner precedente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tuttavia, non tutte le speranze sono perse. Alcuni uomini hanno solo bisogno di pi\u00f9 tempo per affrontare questo bagaglio e poi si trasformano in ottimi partner.<\/p>\n<p>RELATIVO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/bandiere-rosse-quando-si-esce-con-un-uomo-anziano\/\">20 segnali di allarme quando si esce con un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>7. Gli altri potrebbero non prendervi sul serio<\/h3>\n<p>Conosco una ragazza che ha sposato un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano, e spesso vedo altre persone che lasciano commenti scortesi sulle sue foto con lui sui social media.<strong> Well, she\u2019s an influencer, and she probably anticipated that this would happen to her and all the others who are in age gap relationships.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>La stessa cosa vale per<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alluomo-piu-giovane-piace-una-donna-piu-anziana\/\"> uomo pi\u00f9 giovane-donna pi\u00f9 vecchia<\/a> relationships. I\u2019m wondering why people do that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who gives them the right to comment on someone\u2019s choice of partner?<\/strong> Do they think that they know better than them? Here\u2019s a better question: <strong>Pensano che alla gente interessi la loro opinione?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, the truth is, other people might not take you seriously and make fun of you, but if you can master not giving a damn about what others think, then you\u2019re good.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Possono essere condiscendenti con i loro partner pi\u00f9 giovani<\/h3>\n<p>A causa della loro esperienza di vita, gli uomini pi\u00f9 anziani possono diventare condiscendenti con le loro partner pi\u00f9 giovani. Ci\u00f2 significa prendere decisioni per la partner pi\u00f9 giovane, non prendere in considerazione le sue opinioni e pensare che loro (i partner pi\u00f9 anziani) ne sanno di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non tutte le donne sono d'accordo con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/marito-dominante-10-modi-per-essere-lalfa-nel-vostro-matrimonio\/\">avere un marito dominante<\/a> e lasciare che sia lui a gestire il loro matrimonio.<\/strong> La maggior parte delle donne desidera un matrimonio paritario in cui entrambe le parti possano esprimere le proprie opinioni e trovare insieme una soluzione.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re one of those women, then being with an older man might be challenging for you.<\/p>\n<h3>9. Il vostro matrimonio potrebbe essere privo di emozioni<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157452 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date.jpg\" alt=\"donna e uomo anziano all&#039;appuntamento\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-older-man-on-date-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/che-cosa-vogliono-gli-uomini-di-50-anni-in-una-donna\/\">Cosa vogliono gli uomini di 50 anni in una donna?<\/a> Excitement, of course! They crave it from the first date. Why? Because it\u2019s something they lack.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Basically, they\u2019ve seen everything, they\u2019ve experienced everything, and not much can keep their excitement levels high<\/strong>. Ma questo significa che loro stessi sono noiosi?<\/p>\n<p>It could mean that. And this state of mind can reflect in your marriage as well. Being married to someone who lacks excitement in life doesn\u2019t sound inviting.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s a different side to it. Many older men are bound to experience <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sintomi-della-crisi-di-mezza-eta-maschile-matrimonio\/\">sintomi della crisi di mezza et\u00e0 nel matrimonio<\/a><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/sintomi-della-crisi-di-mezza-eta-maschile-matrimonio\/\">.<\/a> It\u2019s when the need for adventure kicks in, and when that happens, who can guarantee that he will stay faithful to you?<\/p>\n<h3>10. Alcuni uomini pi\u00f9 anziani hanno gi\u00e0 dei figli e\/o una ex moglie<\/h3>\n<p>I\u2019ve never dated a man with kids, but one of my friends has. So, she said that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-da-tenere-a-mente-quando-si-esce-con-un-uomo-con-figli\/\">uscire con un uomo che ha figli<\/a> non \u00e8 stato cos\u00ec facile come pensava.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando il vostro uomo ha dei figli, dovete accettare il fatto che faranno sempre parte della sua vita.<\/strong> Sometimes, he\u2019ll choose to spend time with them instead of you. Or he will have to cancel plans with you if his child gets sick.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Then there\u2019s his ex-wife, who will still be in contact with him regarding their children.<\/strong> Does all this sound okay to you? If yes, then dating an older man with kids and an ex-wife shouldn\u2019t be much of a big deal for you.<\/p>\n<h2>Quali sono i vantaggi di sposare un uomo anziano?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157457 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside.jpg\" alt=\"donna bionda e uomo anziano seduti fuori\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/blonde-woman-and-older-man-sitting-outside-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Older men have more life experience, they are better in bed, and they don\u2019t have commitment issues. Along with the 10 disadvantages of marrying an older man, there are also 10 advantages when it comes to marrying an older guy:<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Older men are more experienced in life<\/h3>\n<p>Uscire con uomini pi\u00f9 anziani significa uscire con qualcuno che ha esperienza sia nella vita che nella vita sentimentale. Sa come corteggiare una donna, dire le parole giuste ed essere un vero gentiluomo.<strong> Sa come affrontare i problemi perch\u00e9 lo ha gi\u00e0 fatto pi\u00f9 volte in passato.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, gli uomini pi\u00f9 anziani sono dieci volte pi\u00f9 cauti quando si tratta di prendere decisioni. Ci pensano due volte prima di scegliere di investire in qualcosa o prima di scegliere di sposare qualcuno.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They want to make sure that everything will function in the long run because they can\u2019t afford to make mistakes and make their lives miserable.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Being with such a man means having someone by your side who will not give up at the first obstacle and someone who will make sure that everything flows smoothly. They will make sure that your relationship works and that you\u2019re happy.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 They\u2019ve mastered pleasing a woman in bed<\/h3>\n<p>When it comes to their sex life, older men have mastered pleasing a woman in bed and giving her exactly what she needs. Don\u2019t get me wrong. <strong>Anche i giovani possono essere bravissimi a letto, ma l'esperienza gioca un ruolo fondamentale in questo senso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>An older man will push the right buttons, never make you feel neglected, and he will make sure that your satisfaction comes before his. Here\u2019s the thing:<strong> La maggior parte degli uomini pi\u00f9 giovani si concentra esclusivamente sul proprio piacere.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gli uomini anziani vedono le cose in modo diverso. <strong>Si concentrano sul soddisfacimento di una donna perch\u00e9 questo porta loro la soddisfazione finale.<\/strong> Sono orgogliose di essere grandi amanti e s\u00ec, non hanno nulla in contrario a che tu dica alle tue amiche che uomo fantastico hai.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Responsibility is one of their strongest traits<\/h3>\n<p>S\u00ec, gli uomini pi\u00f9 anziani sono pi\u00f9 responsabili quando si tratta dei loro obblighi, della loro vita sentimentale e di altre cose. Hanno l'esigenza di avere il controllo sulle cose che possono cambiare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They feel responsible for other people\u2019s happiness as well, and they are careful about their words and actions.<\/strong> They know that a single bad word can hurt a person, so they choose carefully what they\u2019re going to say.<\/p>\n<p>Il senso di responsabilit\u00e0 \u00e8 alla base del loro essere.<strong> Si fidano pi\u00f9 di se stessi che degli altri, il che a volte pu\u00f2 essere un problema.<\/strong> Per esempio, potrebbero avere difficolt\u00e0 ad affidarsi al partner perch\u00e9 si sentono obbligati a essere sempre la persona su cui gli altri fanno affidamento.<\/p>\n<p>Se si vuole <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-farsi-desiderare-da-un-uomo-piu-anziano\/\">Farsi desiderare da un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano<\/a>Permettetegli di prendersi cura di voi. Inoltre, ricordategli di tanto in tanto di fare affidamento su di voi.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 They have great communication skills<\/h3>\n<p>Proprio come nella vita amorosa, le persone anziane hanno grandi capacit\u00e0 di comunicazione grazie all'esperienza. In altre parole, pi\u00f9 si fa l'amore e pi\u00f9 si comunica con gli altri, pi\u00f9 si diventa bravi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ricordo quando una delle mie amiche usc\u00ec per la prima volta con un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano.<\/strong> She couldn\u2019t believe how mature and wise he was when it came to communicating.<\/p>\n<p>Con lei iniziava sempre conversazioni profonde su qualsiasi cosa. Ogni volta che vedeva che lei si sentiva fuori luogo, iniziava lentamente a farle delle domande.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He was a master at saying the right thing at the right time, and that\u2019s what she liked most about him.<\/strong> Se volete stare con un uomo del genere, allora sposate un uomo pi\u00f9 anziano!<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 You can learn a lot from them<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157454 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo.jpg\" alt=\"donna e uomo in posa per una foto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-and-man-posing-for-photo-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Innamorarsi di un uomo che ha pi\u00f9 esperienza di vita significa anche stare con qualcuno da cui si pu\u00f2 imparare molto. <strong>Pu\u00f2 insegnarvi la pazienza, la responsabilit\u00e0, i meccanismi di coping e l'importanza di circondarvi di persone stimolanti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Given that he\u2019s already dealt with tons of toxic people and been through various difficult situations, he\u2019s bound to have become wiser and bolder. If your older man sees that you\u2019re struggling with something, he will not only help you with it but also teach you ways to cope with it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Prima di proporvi una soluzione, vorr\u00e0 prima conoscere la vostra opinione.<\/strong> That\u2019s the best way to learn lots of valuable things from an older man. This will make you more confident and more successful.<\/p>\n<p>RELATIVO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-sono-attratta-dagli-uomini-piu-anziani\/\">Perch\u00e9 sono attratta dagli uomini pi\u00f9 anziani? 20 ragioni sorprendenti<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 They have better coping mechanisms in stressful situations<\/h3>\n<p>We all have our own ways of dealing with stressful situations. Some of us freeze and do nothing, some start compulsively eating, while others don\u2019t sleep and eat for days.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gli uomini anziani non sono cos\u00ec. Hanno meccanismi di gestione delle situazioni di stress migliori rispetto agli uomini pi\u00f9 giovani.<\/strong> Sanno che devono proteggersi dai danni dello stress e trovare tecniche calmanti invece di perdere la calma.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve learned that nothing is more important than their health. Therefore, they don\u2019t freak out when it comes to the little things in life. Also, they are great at dealing with bigger problems at hand.<\/p>\n<p>They live day by day and don\u2019t force anything. <strong>Sono felici se riescono a risolvere un problema, ma sono anche pronti ad accettare una situazione su cui non hanno alcun controllo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve learned to count to ten or focus on their six senses when a panic attack strikes them. Focusing on being in the moment is their favorite remedy for stressful situations.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Older men don\u2019t have commitment issues<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-motivi-per-cui-molti-uomini-soffrono-di-problemi-di-impegno\/\">Molti uomini soffrono di problemi di impegno<\/a>che \u00e8 diventato un problema enorme. <strong>If you\u2019re not interested in trivial romances but in serious relationships that will lead to marriage, then older men are the right choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After all, you don\u2019t want to be with someone who \u201cloves you\u201d one second and forgets about you the next. If you want stability and a real connection, then being with an older man is what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 They are great with kids<\/h3>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that younger guys are not good with kids, but older men are simply better with kids. Perhaps they have their own kids, or they spend a lot of time around their family\u2019s kids.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Another reason for that is the fact that older guys are more responsible and stable, which means they\u2019ll make sure your kid has everything.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dall'amore incondizionato ai migliori giocattoli per favorire la loro crescita, il vostro uomo penser\u00e0 a tutto. Inoltre, trascorrer\u00e0 pi\u00f9 tempo possibile con i bambini perch\u00e9 sa che crescono cos\u00ec in fretta.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 They are generally more wealthy<\/h3>\n<p>S\u00ec, gli uomini pi\u00f9 anziani sono generalmente pi\u00f9 ricchi perch\u00e9 hanno avuto abbastanza tempo per impegnarsi nella loro carriera e per raggiungere un obiettivo nella vita.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco che arriva la famosa domanda controversa: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-uomo-dovrebbe-aiutare-finanziariamente-la-sua-ragazza\/\">Un uomo dovrebbe aiutare finanziariamente la sua donna<\/a>? <strong>Just because a woman allows her man to take care of her doesn\u2019t mean that she\u2019s automatically a gold digger.<\/strong> Just because a woman is dating an older man doesn\u2019t mean she has daddy issues.<\/p>\n<p>Questi e altri stereotipi simili non dovrebbero pi\u00f9 essere di tendenza. <strong>Ma ecco una ragione psicologica per cui le donne pi\u00f9 giovani sono attratte dagli uomini pi\u00f9 ricchi:<\/strong> <em>\u201cWomen who were attracted to older men fared well and produced healthy offspring since older men tended to have resources.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Questa frase \u00e8 stata pronunciata da Darren Fowler, psicologo clinico di Halifax e coautore dello studio sui problemi dei pap\u00e0.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 Older men provide stability<\/h3>\n<p>Sono interessati a relazioni a lungo termine invece che a scappatelle, e si assicurano di sottolinearlo sui loro profili di incontri online. <strong>Garantiscono una vita stabile alle loro famiglie e si divertono a essere le persone su cui gli altri possono contare.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/intl\/blog\/why-bad-looks-good\/201908\/why-many-young-women-may-prefer-be-older-men\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Psicologia oggi<\/a> ci fornisce alcuni dati interessanti tratti dallo studio di Sara Skentelbery e Darren Fowler (2016) sull'attaccamento relazionale e l'et\u00e0:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cIn their study of 173 women, 44 of whom were dating men at least approximately 10 years older, the stereotype of women choosing significantly older paramours as a result of \u2018daddy issues\u2019 was unsupported. Further, Skentelbery and Fowler found no significant difference in attachment styles between women in similar-age relationships and women in age-gap relationships. In fact, they found that 74 percent of the women in age-gap relationships enjoyed a relationship within which they were securely attached.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Conclusione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-157453 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna che bacia uomo anziano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-kissing-older-man-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Allora, cosa ne pensate? I 10 svantaggi di sposare un uomo anziano superano i 10 vantaggi di sposare un uomo anziano?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s my personal conclusion:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ogni uomo \u00e8 diverso dall'altro, il che significa che gli uomini anziani non possono essere classificati in un'unica categoria. Ci sono sempre delle eccezioni, quindi questi svantaggi e vantaggi servono come guida generale quando si tratta di sposare un uomo anziano.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Per decidere se sposarne uno o meno, \u00e8 necessario prendersi il tempo necessario per conoscerlo meglio.<\/strong> That way, you\u2019ll see whether you\u2019re compatible and whether you have a chance at establishing a happy and healthy marriage.<\/p>\n<p>Qualunque cosa decidiate di fare, vi auguro buona fortuna! Alla fine della giornata, l'unica cosa che conta \u00e8 come vi sentite quando passate del tempo con loro. ?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 svantaggi di sposare un uomo anziano (+ benefici) Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162653\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Older men are known to be more responsible, reliable, and experienced (and uhm, better in bed?). If you\u2019ve been disappointed by younger men, players, or guys who are masters of immaturity, I totally understand your preference for older men. I mean, who wouldn\u2019t choose a man you can count on and who knows how to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":157455,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-157451","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/10-Disadvantages-Of-Marrying-An-Older-Man-Benefits-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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