{"id":157462,"date":"2022-08-30T11:25:05","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T11:25:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=157462"},"modified":"2023-03-24T07:01:38","modified_gmt":"2023-03-24T07:01:38","slug":"10-conseguenze-del-matrimonio-con-un-miscredente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-conseguenze-del-matrimonio-con-un-miscredente\/","title":{"rendered":"10 conseguenze dello sposare un miscredente (+5 consigli)"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’ve been dating a non-believer for some time now and the relationship is getting serious? You\u2019re thinking about marrying them and a million questions are popping up in your head every day because of it?<\/em><\/p>\n

First of all, let me tell you that I get you and I hope you\u2019ll get answers to all of those questions. I\u2019ll help you with that a bit and introduce you to living a life with an unbelieving spouse.<\/p>\n

Prima di accettare davvero la loro proposta di matrimonio o di chiedere loro di sposarvi, ecco 10 conseguenze del matrimonio con un miscredente che dovreste conoscere.<\/p>\n

10 conseguenze dello sposare un miscredente<\/h2>\n

So, if you\u2019re thinking about marrying a non-believer or if you\u2019ve already decided to take that step, here are some things you should be aware of.<\/p>\n

1. Pu\u00f2 mettere alla prova la vostra fede<\/h3>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll probably want to know the reasons why your partner chose to be an unbeliever. What made them lose the right tracks in life…<\/p>\n

La loro storia potrebbe confondervi e potrebbe addirittura farvi mettere in discussione la propria fede.<\/a><\/strong>Oppure, potreste semplicemente accettare le loro (non) convinzioni nel tempo.<\/p>\n

In the worst-case scenario, your partner might ask you to leave your faith as a token of your love for them but if you\u2019re a true believer, you\u2019ll know that the love for our Savior needs to be bigger and stronger than all the other loves we have.<\/em><\/p>\n

2. You\u2019ll need to arm yourself with patience, understanding, and tolerance<\/h3>\n

These 10 consequences of marrying an unbeliever are actually proof of how difficult these relationships can be. I\u2019m sure you\u2019re aware of it, too.<\/p>\n

However, just because something is difficult, it doesn\u2019t mean that it\u2019s impossible. \u00c8 possibile costruire un matrimonio sano<\/a>, you\u2019ll just need to have a lot of patience and understanding for your differences.<\/em><\/p>\n

Maybe you won\u2019t be able to have a Christian marriage but it\u2019ll be a healthy one and God, just like your loved ones, will have no other choice but to accept it eventually.<\/p>\n

3. Il compromesso diventer\u00e0 la parte pi\u00f9 importante del vostro matrimonio.<\/h3>\n

You\u2019ll also need to be ready to compromise a lot. Potreste anche dover scendere a compromessi su alcune cose che giurereste di non fare mai, per quanto vi innamoriate di qualcuno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019ll all be needed for the sake of keeping your relationship healthy. Of course, the other side will have to make the same compromises because otherwise, they\u2019ll lose your respect and most probably, your love too.<\/p>\n

4. Non ci si pu\u00f2 mai aspettare una piena comprensione da parte dell'altra parte.<\/h3>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Even though you\u2019ll try to understand your partner, you can never be sure you\u2019ll get the same amount of understanding from them, too.<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll affect your relationship for sure and with time, it may even make you start questioning your relationship\/marriage.<\/strong> Non sentirsi rispettati e compresi dall'altra persona \u00e8 sicuramente una delle cose peggiori e niente pu\u00f2 danneggiare il legame tra i partner pi\u00f9 di questo.<\/p>\n

5. Trovare un terreno comune sembrer\u00e0 impossibile<\/h3>\n

Sometimes, finding the common ground will seem like a mission impossible. And, that\u2019s one of the reasons why compromise is so important in your relationship.<\/p>\n

However, if you truly want to make things work between you, you\u2019ll need to try to compromise as much as possible, especially on some important things.<\/em> Your different religious beliefs don\u2019t need to be a problem between you but all the things that come with it can and probably will.<\/p>\n

6. Potreste non ricevere il sostegno dei vostri cari<\/h3>\n

Quando le giovani donne e gli uomini si innamorano, vengono completamente accecati. Cominciano subito a immaginare la loro vita futura insieme e si precipitano troppo presto in una relazione seria.<\/p>\n

In most cases, their loved ones don\u2019t support them but they just don\u2019t care about their consent because their love is everything that matters to them.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ottenere il sostegno della famiglia \u00e8 troppo importante perch\u00e9 prima o poi la coppia si sentir\u00e0 divisa tra i genitori, i suoceri e la relazione sentimentale.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, se credete veramente nel vostro amore e se la vostra relazione \u00e8 sana<\/a>e i vostri genitori continuano a negare il loro consenso, in questo caso, dovreste scegliere il vostro amore.<\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s said in the Bible; \u201cTherefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.\u201d Ephesians 5:31-32 ESV<\/em><\/p>\n

After all, those are the people that love you both the most and, sooner or later, they\u2019ll have to come to terms with your relationship and accept you two as a couple.<\/p>\n

7. You may have issues about the way you\u2019ll raise your kids<\/h3>\n

This may also be the biggest problem in your marriage. That\u2019s why it\u2019s very important to talk about this before you actually get married.<\/p>\n

You need to agree on your parenting style and the way you\u2019ll raise your kids together.<\/strong> If you aren\u2019t able to agree on these things right now, you definitely won\u2019t be able to compromise on them later, too.<\/p>\n

La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che anche i vostri figli potrebbero esserne colpiti e potrebbero subire traumi infantili.<\/em> I\u2019m sure that\u2019s the last thing you want, so take this seriously and have a talk about it before you indulge in a marriage.<\/p>\n

8. Pu\u00f2 far sentire disconnessi<\/h3>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sometimes, you\u2019ll feel disconnected. You\u2019ll feel like you can\u2019t get through to one another and if you don\u2019t focus on strengthening your connection, it\u2019ll harm your relationship deeply.<\/p>\n

You need to find a way to reconnect again, every time when you feel like you\u2019re losing that connection.<\/strong> Above everything else, healthy communication can help you maintain that connection and through it, you\u2019ll always keep your bond strong and deep.<\/p>\n

9. You\u2019ll always struggle with your differences<\/h3>\n

And you simply need to come to terms with that. Your different religious beliefs will create many differences between you and you\u2019ll never be able to deal with some of them.<\/p>\n

Non vi resta che una scelta: accettarli.<\/strong> Don\u2019t try changing those different things between you, focus on finding the magic between them because there is a hidden beauty behind those differences, you just need to find it.<\/p>\n

10. Ci saranno molte scelte e rinunce.<\/h3>\n

You\u2019ll need to choose and renounce so many things in order to compromise with your non-believing spouse. No matter how much you love your partner, you\u2019ll always regret some of those things you had to renounce in the name of your love.<\/em><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 bene sapere che amore vero<\/a> ne vale la pena. Vi pentirete di pi\u00f9 di aver perso la persona che amate, perch\u00e9 l'amore \u00e8 l'unica cosa a cui non si dovrebbe mai rinunciare nella vita.<\/p>\n

5 importanti consigli matrimoniali per sposare un miscredente<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

If you choose to marry that person after all because sometimes it\u2019s really impossible to go against yourself and your own feelings, here are some tips and advice that you may find helpful:<\/p>\n

1. Love is respect, so you\u2019re ought to respect their (non) beliefs<\/h3>\n

Uno dei fondamenti pi\u00f9 importanti di una relazione sentimentale sana \u00e8 il rispetto. Senza di esso, ogni relazione \u00e8 destinata a fallire.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t accept your partner\u2019s beliefs and perspectives, no matter how much they differ from yours, it\u2019s a clear sign you don\u2019t respect them.<\/strong> If you truly love your SO, you\u2019ll accept them for what they truly are and you\u2019ll never try to change them.<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t even think about trying to convert them<\/h3>\n

Just because you aren\u2019t okay with their religious beliefs, it doesn\u2019t mean you have the right to make them change them. Every person needs to have the freedom to think freely and to choose their religious beliefs.<\/p>\n

Even if they convert, in the name of the love they carry for you, they\u2019ll regret doing it sooner or later.<\/strong> Se una persona sceglie di fare un passo cos\u00ec grande, deve essere una sua decisione, deve decidere da sola di farlo.<\/p>\n

3. Continue being a good believer and maybe they\u2019ll follow your example<\/h3>\n

Basta seguire la parola di Dio e continuare a vivere secondo il Signore Ges\u00f9. That way, Satan won\u2019t be able to reach you and make you change your religious beliefs and, more importantly, your significant other may finally see the light and start following your example.<\/em><\/p>\n

Chiss\u00e0, forse un giorno voi due avrete un vero matrimonio cristiano.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They\u2019ll accept Christ as their true lord and savior, you\u2019ll both be devoted believers, attend Bible studies, go to church regularly, give tithing, raise your children under the Lord Jesus\u2019s rules and accept the commitment to the living God.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t keep avoiding talking about the future<\/h3>\n

You won\u2019t be able to hold off the talks about the future forever. You\u2019ll need to have those family and married life talks sooner or later.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have to agree and compromise on many things because of your different religious beliefs.<\/strong> For example, you\u2019ll need to agree on your parenting style and the way you\u2019ll raise your future kids.<\/p>\n

Also, those talks could help you understand whether it\u2019s really the best decision to get married.<\/p>\n

5. Teneteli nelle vostre preghiere<\/h3>\n

As it\u2019s said in Galatians 5:22-23, \u201cBut the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.\u201d… You just can\u2019t go against your heart.<\/em><\/p>\n

After all, it was God\u2019s will for you to fall in love with a non-believer and that\u2019s how you should look at it. My own husband doesn\u2019t have the same religious beliefs as me and we decided to get married despite that.<\/p>\n

Per qualche tempo ho lottato anche perch\u00e9 temevo di commettere un peccato che mi sarebbe costato l'ingresso nel regno dei cieli un giorno.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ho capito che devo accettare i miei sentimenti, lavorare per rafforzare la mia fede e pregare Dio per il mio partner. E lo stesso dovreste fare voi.<\/p>\n

Cosa dice Dio sul matrimonio con un miscredente?<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Secondo la Bibbia, ogni cristiano deve trovare un partner, l'anima gemella, e non deve condurre una vita solitaria. Ma cosa succede quando un cristiano si innamora di un non cristiano? Anche il partner, l'anima gemella, deve essere cristiano?<\/p>\n

Well, it\u2019s definitely a great thing to marry a person with the same religious beliefs, so you can live in the light of God\u2019s presence and glorify Jesus Christ together, but it also can\u2019t be considered a sin to marry a non-believer.<\/p>\n

Actually, it\u2019s our duty to make connections with unbelievers, read the scripture regularly, pray to the Holy Spirit for them to find the light and encourage them to convert.<\/strong> However, if a person marries an unbeliever, they aren\u2019t obliged to persuade them to become a Christian.<\/p>\n

Come scrive l'apostolo Paolo in Corinzi 7:12-14: \u201c\u2026If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

However, the opinions about this topic are greatly divided and some Christian theologians share my opinion, and it is that it\u2019s not a sin to marry an unbeliever, while there are others who are strongly against it and find it one of the biggest sins.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, they also have a reason to believe so because it\u2019s said in The New Testament, Corinthians 6:14 ESV: \u201cDo not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Inoltre, c'\u00e8 una parte del libro del Deuteronomio 7 che lo dimostra:<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen the Lord your God brings you into the land you are entering to possess and drives out before you many nations\u2014the Hittites, Girgashites, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizzites, Hivites and Jebusites, seven nations larger and stronger than you and when the Lord your God has delivered them over to you and you have defeated them, then you must destroy them totally. Make no treaty with them, and show them no mercy. Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons, for they will turn your children away from following me to serve other gods, and the Lord\u2019s anger will burn against you and will quickly destroy you.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

In conclusione<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

You\u2019re now aware of the 10 consequences of marrying an unbeliever and what do you think about it? Are you still ready to enter the holy matrimony with a person who has no religious beliefs?<\/p>\n

Just so you don\u2019t get me wrong. Sincerely, my intention wasn\u2019t to talk you out of the idea of marrying a non-believer, I just wanted to introduce you to some possible consequences.<\/p>\n

If you aren\u2019t ready to deal with these things, then you should take some time to think about getting married.<\/em> Whatever you decide, just don\u2019t turn away from God\u2019s path because you know it\u2019s the ONLY right path in life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I hope you\u2019ll follow your heart in the end because I always root for love, especially if that is the sincere, deep, and soulmate type of love. Dio vi benedica<\/a> voi e il vostro partner.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

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