{"id":157489,"date":"2022-08-31T07:27:42","date_gmt":"2022-08-31T07:27:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=157489"},"modified":"2023-03-23T05:57:25","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T05:57:25","slug":"perche-il-mio-amico-mi-ignora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-il-mio-amico-mi-ignora\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 il mio amico mi ignora? 20 ragioni e soluzioni"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Le amicizie si differenziano dalle relazioni sentimentali per un aspetto significativo: possono sopportare molto pi\u00f9 facilmente la distanza e la mancanza di contatti. <strong>I vostri amici intimi fanno parte della vostra famiglia allargata.<\/strong> \u2013 these kinds of relationships don\u2019t follow the same progression as the one with your partner, so the expectations are different.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean these relationships are unimportant, but there\u2019s an understanding about<strong> le vostre vite si muovono separatamente fino a quando non convergono di tanto in tanto e avete la possibilit\u00e0 di passare del tempo insieme.<\/strong> Incontrare vecchi amici pu\u00f2 riaccendere l'amicizia e non sentire il proprio migliore amico per una settimana non \u00e8 mai un motivo di preoccupazione.<\/p>\n<p>Still, when your friend fails to call you back more than a couple of times in a row and leaves your texts on read so often that you start to wonder, \u201cWhy is my friend ignoring me?\u201d there might be problems in your friendship with this person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Potrebbe trattarsi di voi, di loro o di nulla.<\/strong> Let\u2019s take a close look at all of these possibilities and figure out what to do in each case.<\/p>\n<h2>Perch\u00e9 il mio amico mi ignora? 20 motivi e come affrontarli<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157492\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call.jpg\" alt=\"donna in attesa di una chiamata\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When your best friend isn\u2019t answering your phone calls or replying to your texts, you can\u2019t help but wonder why. Your first reaction is probably to worry that something might have happened to them, but then you check and see that they\u2019ve been online an hour ago, so you start to worry for entirely different reasons.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you usually keep in touch with your friend regularly, it\u2019s understandable if you\u2019re confused and frustrated.<\/strong> You need to know what\u2019s going on because you care for your friend and being kept in the dark by them is worse than being ghosted by someone you\u2019ve been dating.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of sitting around going crazy, thinking, \u201cWhy is my friend ignoring me?\u201d your best choice is to think closely about what\u2019s been going on with the two of you before they started ignoring you. <strong>Il vero motivo sar\u00e0 evidente se esaminerete onestamente e attentamente la vostra relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ecco alcune domande da porsi che potrebbero indirizzarvi verso la risposta.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Is it the first time this has happened or is there a pattern of behavior?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>C'\u00e8 stata una discussione o \u00e8 successo all'improvviso?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Has your friend been having problems \u2013 personal, relationship, work?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Il vostro amico ha problemi di salute mentale che potrebbero causarne il ritiro?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Is your friend usually an outgoing person or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-mia-migliore-amica-e-unintroversa-e-non-potrei-chiedere-una-persona-migliore\/\">un introverso che ha spesso bisogno di stare da solo?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>- <strong>La sua amica ha iniziato a frequentare qualcuno di recente?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Have either of you done something that might hurt the other person?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>\u00c8 sempre uno di voi a iniziare il contatto o a mantenere l'amicizia?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Has your friendship been rocky recently?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Siete entrambi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amici-falsi-e-amici-veri-2\/\">amici veri e propri<\/a> l'uno all'altro?<\/strong> Potrebbe essere difficile da affrontare, ma conoscete la risposta.<\/p>\n<p>After you\u2019ve thought about these questions and gone through the list below, you\u2019ll have an idea of what\u2019s going on and how to deal with it. Once you do, you can decide how to address the issue.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Your friend isn&#8217;t actually ignoring you<\/h3>\n<p>Most people are closer to their dearest friends than to most of their family members \u2013 after all, close friends are the family you\u2019ve chosen. <strong>It\u2019s not unusual to feel that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-aperta-migliore-amica-non-sorelle-sangue-cuore-sorelle\/\">la tua migliore amica \u00e8 la tua sorella del cuore<\/a> o tuo fratello in tutti i modi che contano.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, if you need your friend at the moment but they\u2019re not available, you might feel like they\u2019re ignoring you even when they\u2019re not. When you\u2019re feeling vulnerable and looking for the person you can trust and confide in, it\u2019s easy to feel ignored if they don\u2019t respond in the way you want them to.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Iniziate a considerare l'intera situazione nel suo contesto. <strong>How different is your friend\u2019s behavior from the baseline?<\/strong> If you talk every day and you haven\u2019t heard from them for two, is it a reason to worry?<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s your mental and emotional state like?<\/strong> Consider if you might be overthinking things because you\u2019re feeling needy. Before you confront your friend, ensure that they\u2019re actually ignoring you and not simply unavailable because they have to attend to their own needs.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Il vostro amico \u00e8 occupato<\/h3>\n<p>Le amicizie degli adulti sono diverse da quelle che si avevano da bambini o da studenti delle scuole superiori. In quei periodi della vostra vita, fate amicizia con persone che vi sono vicine ogni giorno e la cui vita quotidiana \u00e8 simile alla vostra.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando si cresce, ci si deve concentrare sulla propria vita e le amicizie cambiano.<\/strong> They\u2019re no longer based on the amount of time you spend together, but you realize that your true friends are people who <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/al-mio-migliore-amico-che-mi-e-stato-vicino-quando-nessun-altro-lo-faceva\/\">sono al vostro fianco quando ne avete bisogno.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If your friend seems to be ignoring you, they might just be busy with something in their own life and don\u2019t have time to focus on you. This doesn\u2019t mean that they don\u2019t care about you, but that, at the moment, they\u2019re simply too busy to give you time.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Even if you think that a true friend should never be too busy to at least send a \u201cttyl\u201d text because that\u2019s what you would do, take a moment and remember a time when you were swamped at work or too engrossed in a new job or a big project, or even just overwhelmed with daily life.<\/p>\n<p>On days like those, time flies and it\u2019s easy to forget about everything that isn\u2019t the problem at hand. Give your friend the benefit of the doubt, but<strong> let them know that you\u2019d like them to acknowledge you when you contact them next time you talk to each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>3. Your friend has problems they can&#8217;t share with you<\/h3>\n<p>Your friend might have problems that they don\u2019t feel like they can talk to you about or that are too personal to share with anyone at all. This could include marriage problems that they need to work on with their spouse, health issues they\u2019re facing or money problems.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re the kind of person who likes to share your burdens, it might seem like your friend doesn\u2019t trust you, but that\u2019s not true.<\/strong> Semplicemente preferiscono mantenere certe cose private o tra coloro che ne sono interessati. Potete essere certi che il vostro amico verr\u00e0 da voi se o quando potr\u00e0.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Respect your friend\u2019s boundaries. Don\u2019t ask your mutual friends if they know what\u2019s going on \u2013 let your friend come to you when they\u2019re ready. <strong>Text them something that tells them that they can count on you and don\u2019t push.<\/strong> Don\u2019t try to make them feel guilty or like they have to talk to you.<\/p>\n<h3>4. They&#8217;re hiding because they&#8217;re going through something<\/h3>\n<p>Some people withdraw when problems arise and they don\u2019t talk to others until they\u2019re okay with what they\u2019re going through.<strong> I problemi pi\u00f9 comuni che possono indurre una persona a non parlarne sono quelli che mettono in discussione le sue convinzioni e i suoi valori o la sua immagine di s\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Non farvi entrare non \u00e8 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-il-vostro-amico-non-si-preoccupa-di-voi\/\">a sign your friend doesn&#8217;t care about you<\/a>ma che si trovano in difficolt\u00e0 con alcuni problemi. Pu\u00f2 essere difficile capire quando questo potrebbe essere il motivo per cui il vostro amico vi ignora, e <strong>la risposta sta nella loro personalit\u00e0 e nella loro storia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>If your friend doesn\u2019t like talking about certain issues or if they\u2019re prone to depression and avoidant moods, <strong>they might be hiding until they\u2019ve dealt with a problem, so pushing won\u2019t give you the result you want.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The only thing you can do is make sure that your friend knows that they can come to you if they need to \u2013 if that\u2019s how you feel \u2013 and to be understanding if they can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Il vostro amico \u00e8 appena innamorato e si concentra sul suo interesse amoroso.<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157493\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend.png\" alt=\"donna ignorata dall&#039;amica\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-300x199.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1024x678.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-768x509.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-960x636.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1080x716.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1200x795.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1536x1018.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-735x487.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-335x222.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-347x230.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-520x345.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-640x424.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-150x99.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Molte persone diventano un po' ossessionate dal proprio partner all'inizio di una nuova relazione. <strong>When you\u2019re newly in love, the last thing on your mind is thinking about how anyone else is feeling and your whole focus is on your new girlfriend or boyfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quando si tratta di scegliere tra il vostro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-vostro-migliore-amico-contro-lamore-della-vostra-vita\/\">best friend vs. the person you\u2019re dating<\/a> to give your attention to, early in the relationship everyone hopes their friends can understand that they\u2019re just a distraction at that moment.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>If your friend has been mentioning someone they like a lot and then suddenly gone missing, chances are that they found out the other person feels the same and they\u2019re too busy for anything except their new love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s up to you how you approach this when you talk to your friend, but be sure not to argue with them about this or make them feel that they\u2019ve done something bad.<\/strong> Fate sapere al vostro amico che vi manca senza costringerlo a scegliere.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Your friend thinks you&#8217;re mad at them<\/h3>\n<p>Il vostro amico ha un motivo per pensare che siate arrabbiati con lui? <strong>If you argued before they went missing, they might think you\u2019re angry and don\u2019t know how to talk to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Facing your loved ones when you believe they\u2019re mad at you can be extremely difficult if you don\u2019t know how to deal with it. If there is unsolved conflict between you, your friend could simply be afraid.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>If you\u2019re not angry with your friend, make sure they know it. Text them something funny or plainly tell them that you\u2019re good. In case you are angry, but you\u2019d still like to talk to them, be honest about that as well.<\/p>\n<h3>7. They&#8217;ve had enough of your behavior<\/h3>\n<p>Maybe your friend is ignoring you because you&#8217;ve pushed them too far. If you repeatedly do things that your friend dislikes, it\u2019s possible that they\u2019ve had enough.<strong> You might not even know what it is, if you lack self-awareness or if you don\u2019t communicate with each other effectively.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This can be a dangerous situation if you\u2019re both stubborn and unwilling to back up. If your friend feels that your friendship isn\u2019t worth it because they doubt that you\u2019re willing to change and become a better friend, they might refuse to even try, so they\u2019re ignoring you.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>\u00c8 necessario che ci sia una conversazione per affrontare la questione e che siate disposti ad accettare la possibilit\u00e0 che il vostro comportamento abbia causato una frattura. <strong>If your friendship is important to you, don\u2019t be defensive if your friend points out something you do that they dislike.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pensate invece a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-trattare-i-vostri-migliori-amici\/\">come trattare i vostri migliori amici<\/a> e coltivare la vostra amicizia.<\/p>\n<h3>8. La vostra amicizia \u00e8 tutta per voi<\/h3>\n<p>If your friend feels that you\u2019re self-absorbed and that their only role is to be an audience to your monologues, they might have decided they\u2019re not doing it anymore. Finding out if this is the case can be difficult because your friend might not think that they can tell you how they feel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You must examine yourself, your behavior and your friendship closely and openly and honestly ask yourself, \u201cIs it me?\u201d<\/strong> If your friend feels like you\u2019re not interested in them and what\u2019s going on in their life, you might come to a point where they don\u2019t want to be friends any longer.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>When a friend starts to pull back because they\u2019re unhappy in the friendship, you must figure out if this is true by being completely honest with yourself. You already know if you\u2019ve been using them not to feel lonely or to have someone to go out with and not because you care for them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se si vuole risolvere questo problema, \u00e8 necessario imparare a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-segni-che-dimostrano-che-hai-trovato-il-migliore-amico-della-vita\/\">essere un buon amico<\/a> che presta attenzione e offre sostegno.<\/strong> If you don\u2019t particularly care, still consider changing it and deepening your friendship because you can experience things you can\u2019t in a superficial one.<\/p>\n<h3>9. You&#8217;re holding them back<\/h3>\n<p>One of the reasons why your friend might be pulling away and ignoring you is if you\u2019ve been unsupportive and they feel like you\u2019re holding them back from what they want in life. This can often happen in friendships that begin early in life and continue for years.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you\u2019re used to your friend being in the same situation as you, you might hold them back when they try to move forward.<\/strong> Ad esempio, potreste scoraggiarli dal trasferirsi quando in realt\u00e0 sarebbe un bene per loro, perch\u00e9 volete tenerli vicini. Un altro esempio \u00e8 se entrambi conducete uno stile di vita non sano, potreste farli sentire in colpa per aver cercato di cambiare.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Has your friend been trying to change and you\u2019ve been trying to make them feel like they can\u2019t because then it will only be you who\u2019s not working on yourself?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Riflettete sulla vostra relazione senza pretese e siate onesti su ci\u00f2 che ne ricavate.<\/strong> If it\u2019s validation of your own negative behaviors, consider doing things that will improve your emotional state or your mental health.<\/p>\n<p>Scegliete di essere di supporto e lasciate che il vostro amico vi ispiri invece di trattenerlo.<\/p>\n<h3>10. You&#8217;re too demanding or clingy<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1.jpg\" alt=\"donna in piedi vicino a una finestra che scrive al telefono\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you often demand attention, time or something else from your friend and you\u2019re used to getting it? If you often depend on your friend and get frustrated when they prioritize their own life, <strong>it\u2019s possible that they\u2019re ignoring you because they can\u2019t deal with you at the moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p><strong>Imparare a soddisfare le proprie esigenze e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-smettere-di-essere-appiccicosi-e-bisognosi-8-modi-per-farlo\/\">smettere di essere appiccicoso<\/a> to stop making your friend feel like they\u2019re not a good friend if they choose themselves.<\/strong> Questo pu\u00f2 rovinare le amicizie, quindi se ci tenete al vostro amico, dovete lavorarci su.<\/p>\n<p>If your friend ignores you instead of being able to tell you that they can\u2019t help you at the moment, they feel like you won\u2019t take it well so they\u2019re not even trying.<\/p>\n<h3>11. La vostra amicizia \u00e8 diversa da quella che credete<\/h3>\n<p>Se credete di aver trovato un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/vera-anima-gemella-amicizia\/\">anima gemella amicizia<\/a>ma il vostro amico pensa raramente a voi al di fuori del lavoro, delle riunioni di gruppo o di altri ambienti in cui vi vedete abitualmente, <strong>le vostre aspettative potrebbero essere troppo alte.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes when you meet someone you like and want to be friends with, you might start moving too fast and trying to quickly create a connection. If you and the other person aren\u2019t in the same place, they might find it overwhelming.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Volete uscire di pi\u00f9 con loro, ma sembrano sempre sorpresi quando li contattate e raramente accettano?<\/p>\n<p>Pensate a quanto tempo conoscete questa persona e se la mancanza di contatti \u00e8 significativa per lei come per voi.<strong> Se pensate a loro come a un amico intimo e loro pensano a voi come a un conoscente, potrebbe essere il momento di accettare la realt\u00e0 e di rallentare o andare avanti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>12. Il vostro amico \u00e8 geloso di voi<\/h3>\n<p>If your friend doesn\u2019t like who they are, they might be jealous of you and avoid you because you remind them of their own shortcomings. If they\u2019re<strong> sentirsi insicuri con voi<\/strong> because you\u2019re moving forward or because you\u2019re doing things they can\u2019t, they don\u2019t want a reminder so they might be distancing themselves.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean that your friend means to hurt you, but it\u2019s a sign that they\u2019re unhappy with themselves.<strong> Se si sa come dire <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-sei-confuso-su-chi-siano-i-tuoi-veri-amici-leggi-questo\/\">chi sono i tuoi veri amici<\/a>, you\u2019ll be able to decide if this friendship is worth fighting for.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Help your friend if you believe that they\u2019re going through a rough patch, but if you know that they\u2019re just toxic, it\u2019s best to let them ignore you and go about your own life.<\/p>\n<h3>13. They&#8217;ve been a fake friend all along<\/h3>\n<p>People can always tell when they\u2019re involved in relationships that aren\u2019t good for them, but there are reasons why we stay in those relationships.<strong> If you\u2019ve been ignoring your intuition and accepted a one-sided friendship, this might be your chance to change things.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Ci sono molti <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-di-un-falso-amico\/\">segni di un falso amico<\/a> that can tell you if someone you care for doesn\u2019t have your best interests in mind.<strong> Se questa persona non \u00e8 mai stata un'amica per voi, la sua distanza potrebbe essere proprio ci\u00f2 che vi serve per scegliere voi stessi e andare avanti.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>14. Il vostro amico \u00e8 tossico<\/h3>\n<p>Uscire con un amico vi lascia spesso esausti? Usano tecniche di manipolazione come il trattamento del silenzio o il senso di colpa per ottenere ci\u00f2 che vogliono da voi? Vi fanno complimenti a rovescio?<\/p>\n<p>If the answers to these questions are \u2018yes\u2019, you\u2019re dealing with a toxic friend.<strong> Se questo tipo di persona vi ignora, potrebbe essere un gioco di potere e un tentativo di ottenere qualcosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Use this chance and turn things around \u2013<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-prendere-le-distanze-da-qualcuno\/\"> prendere le distanze<\/a> from someone who isn\u2019t good for you and decide to let go of this friendship because it\u2019s only hurting you.<\/strong> If you\u2019ve stuck with them because you feel lonely, now you\u2019ll have the motivation and the emotional space to connect with someone else.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Siete tossici<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157495\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship.jpg\" alt=\"due donne in un&#039;amicizia tossica\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You might think that you\u2019re besties, but are you really as good of a friend as you think?<\/p>\n<p>Are you critical, dismissive or controlling? Do you only contact them when you need something or when you\u2019re bored? Do you think of them as competition? <strong>Se \u00e8 cos\u00ec, potreste essere voi l'amico tossico in questa relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re ignoring you because they\u2019re tired of playing along and need space.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Most people don\u2019t decide to be toxic in relationships, but it happens because of insecurities and self-esteem problems.<strong> Lavorate su voi stessi e cercate di sviluppare la <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/qualita-di-un-migliore-amico-10-caratteristiche-essenziali-da-ricercare-in-un-amico-del-cuore\/\">qualit\u00e0 di un migliore amico<\/a><\/strong> desiderate in un'altra persona e rendetevi conto che le relazioni sono a due facce.<\/p>\n<h3>16. You&#8217;ve done something to hurt them<\/h3>\n<p>Maybe you said something without thinking or you did something that you knew would cause your friend pain, but if you\u2019ve hurt your friend, they might not want to talk to you for a while or at all.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Of course, intent matters, but even if you didn\u2019t mean to hurt them, it still happened and your friend is either done with you or needs time to deal with it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Chiedere scusa faccia a faccia e con convinzione.<strong> \u2018I&#8217;m sorry\u2019 without genuine honesty and regret is nothing.<\/strong> Assumetevi la responsabilit\u00e0 delle vostre azioni e siate determinati a non ripeterle se volete salvare la vostra amicizia.<\/p>\n<h3>17. They&#8217;ve done something that would hurt you if you found out<\/h3>\n<p>Perhaps your friend feels guilty about something they\u2019ve done, so they\u2019re avoiding you. If they did something that they know would cause you pain if you knew, it might be the reason why they\u2019re ignoring you \u2013 <strong>il tuo amico ha paura che tu lo scopra.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Ad esempio, se il vostro amico inizia a frequentare il vostro ex che amavate, sa che questo vi rattrista, o sa che qualcosa di simile vi ferisce.<strong> Una volta scoperto di cosa si tratta, \u00e8 necessario considerare attentamente i propri sentimenti e le proprie azioni.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pensate se l'hanno fatto pur sapendo che vi avrebbe ferito, se hanno avuto la possibilit\u00e0 di non farlo e come vi sentite al riguardo.<\/p>\n<h3>18. They&#8217;ve replaced you<\/h3>\n<p>Your friend stopped replying to your texts, so you\u2019re worried and you check their social media to see if they\u2019re around, only to find out that they\u2019re having a blast with new friends doing something you talked about doing together.<\/p>\n<p>Some people are flaky and easily change without consideration of other people\u2019s feelings. <strong>Per persone come queste, gli altri non sono altro che intrattenimento e non sono importanti per loro.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>Se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-il-vostro-amico-non-vi-rispetta\/\">your friend doesn\u2019t respect you<\/a> enough to let you know when they change their mind and leave you hanging, you\u2019re better off without them. It\u2019s important not to accept their excuses if they offer any because this is a sign of not being able to rely on them.<\/p>\n<h3>19. They don&#8217;t want to be friends any more<\/h3>\n<p>Essi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-ragazza-usato-migliore-amico\/\">era il tuo migliore amico<\/a>, but recently it feels like they\u2019re never around. When you contact them, they\u2019re curt and eager to get away.<\/p>\n<p>They might not be rude to you, but you feel like they\u2019d rather do anything but spend time with you.<\/p>\n<p>It might be something related to your actions, something connected with what\u2019s going on in their lives or something completely different \u2013 whatever the reason,<strong> vogliono porre fine alla vostra amicizia.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>You can\u2019t force anyone to like you and if someone is not interested in being your friend any longer, let them go. <strong>Approach it the same way you\u2019d approach a breakup of a romantic relationship and protect your feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>20. You&#8217;re drifting apart<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"due amici che parlano in un caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A volte arriva un momento in cui le differenze di stile di vita, il cambiamento delle priorit\u00e0 o semplicemente il fatto di essere persone diverse causano la fine dell'amicizia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When both of you are slowly drifting apart, you might be trying to preserve what you\u2019ve had, but it\u2019s not working.<\/strong> Cercare di costringere le cose a rimanere invariate pu\u00f2 finire con l'amarezza e il risentimento.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLUZIONE:<\/h4>\n<p>If you\u2019ve been friends for a long time, it might be difficult to accept that you\u2019re not the way you used to be, but instead of thinking in all-or-nothing terms, think of it as a change.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to explicitly end things or forget about this person, but<strong> stop thinking of them as your best friend and someone who\u2019ll be there when you need them and vice versa.<\/strong> Fate un passo indietro in <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/diversi-livelli-di-amicizia\/\">sviluppo dell'amicizia,<\/a> accept that you\u2019re less close and let things go.<\/p>\n<h2>Conclusione<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s natural to miss your friend when they\u2019re not talking to you and to be hurt and if you don\u2019t know why it\u2019s happening. The easiest way to figure out the answer to the question \u201cWhy is my friend ignoring me?\u201d would be to ask them, but even if they\u2019ve locked you out completely, there\u2019s still a way to pinpoint the reason.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c8 necessario essere consapevoli e onesti con se stessi e riflettere sulla propria amicizia.<\/strong>. Usually, if there\u2019s a problem, all the signs are already there. In some cases, you\u2019ll have to accept that your relationship has come to an end and that the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on.<\/p>\n<p>If it was your behavior that caused your friend to distance themselves, this could be the motivation you need to think about it and decide how it should change. If your friend is going through something, let them know that they can rely on you and come to you when they\u2019re ready.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Perch\u00e9 il mio amico mi ignora? 20 ragioni e soluzioni Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162642\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Friendships are different from romantic relationships in one significant way: they can withstand distance and lack of contact far more easily. Your close friends are a part of your extended family \u2013 these kinds of relationships don\u2019t follow the same progression as the one with your partner, so the expectations are different. This doesn\u2019t mean&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":157497,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-157489","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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