1. Perdita delle relazioni primarie<\/h3>\n
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La fine della maggior parte delle relazioni sentimentali significa anche la fine delle relazioni primarie. Soprattutto se alla fine la relazione viene scoperta.<\/p>\n
Potrebbe essere un impegno,<\/b> relazione a lungo termine<\/b><\/a> o addirittura un matrimonio.<\/b> However, some people simply aren\u2019t able to perdonare il partner per il tradimento<\/a> su di loro e decidono di porre fine alla loro relazione\/matrimonio dopo aver scoperto la relazione.<\/p>\n Se il partner della vostra relazione sentimentale era un collega di lavoro o un buon amico, sicuramente lo perderete come amico una volta che lo avrete perso anche come amante.<\/p>\n It\u2019s simply difficult to stay friends with someone you had an affair with, especially if one of you still has feelings for the other one.<\/b> Anche se non ci sono sentimenti, c'\u00e8 ancora il legame emotivo che avete condiviso e tutte le cose che avete tenuto segrete per tutto questo tempo.<\/p>\n Maybe you weren\u2019t friends before you indulged in the affair but you built a friendship throughout the affair. <\/i>Well, you shouldn\u2019t expect that friendship to continue once you porre fine alla vostra relazione<\/a> e ad essere onesti, sarebbe un po' imbarazzante se rimaneste amici dopo tutto.<\/p>\n Ogni storia di relazioni extraconiugali ha quattro facce, e almeno due di queste parti rimarranno con il cuore spezzato. Probabilmente sar\u00e0 il <\/b>relazione primaria<\/b> partners, once they find out about their partner\u2019s betrayal.<\/b><\/p>\n Inoltre, i coniugi\/partner che tradiscono<\/a> may get their hearts broken because, after all, they\u2019ll lose two people they sincerely cared for and still care for.<\/p>\n Come finisce la maggior parte delle relazioni sentimentali? La conseguenza pi\u00f9 comune \u00e8 la coscienza sporca dei coniugi traditori.<\/a><\/p>\n They feel bad about their betrayal and they\u2019ll feel even worse once they figure out their partners really didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/b> In realt\u00e0, il loro senso di colpa \u00e8 probabilmente il motivo principale per cui hanno deciso di porre fine alla loro relazione.<\/p>\n Queste lotte con la loro coscienza li divoreranno dentro. <\/i>Sooner or later, they\u2019ll probably realize that it\u2019s best to admit everything to their partners and let them choose whether they want to stay with them or not.<\/p>\n La maggior parte degli uomini e delle donne sposate decide di rimanere sposata dopo il tradimento. Ci sono diverse ragioni per farlo, ma l'unica ragione giusta per restare con qualcuno \u00e8 l'amore. Tutto il resto \u00e8 follia.<\/p>\n The truth is, if you were happy in your marriage\/relationship, you wouldn\u2019t cheat on your partner in the <\/b>primo posto<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n Rimanere in quella matrimonio infelice<\/a> solo perch\u00e9 vi dispiace per il vostro partner o perch\u00e9 la vostra coscienza sporca vi spinge a farlo, \u00e8 la cosa peggiore che possiate fare a voi stessi e al vostro partner.<\/p>\n An emotional affair doesn\u2019t only include two people, it includes four people because the primary relationship partners can count there, too. And when the affair ends and gets exposed, all of those people deal with different emotions.<\/p>\n Unfortunately, all of those emotions are very bad ones and for most of them, it\u2019s very difficult to cope with those feelings.<\/i><\/p>\n Dalla tristezza al dolore, dalla delusione all'odio. Le conseguenze di queste montagne russe di emozioni danneggiano il benessere emotivo e il cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n Sulle montagne russe delle emozioni prosciuga la loro energia emotiva<\/a> completamente. They\u2019re left numb and they aren\u2019t able to start a new relationship for a long time.<\/i><\/p>\n Hanno bisogno di tempo per ricaricare l'energia. <\/b>Questi sentimenti di logoramento emotivo si ripercuotono anche sulle altre relazioni della loro vita e cambiano il loro modo di creare legami emotivi con le nuove persone che entrano nella loro vita.<\/p>\n When you break up with your emotional affair partner, you\u2019ll be left without their emotional support. They won\u2019t be there for you anymore and you won\u2019t be able to go to them every time you have an emotional crisis.<\/p>\n Also, you\u2019ve probably kept your affair secret and that means there is nobody else you can talk to and you definitely can\u2019t talk with your partner about it.<\/i> That leads us to the next conclusion… You\u2019ll lack emotional support completely and as days go by, you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re all alone in this world.<\/p>\n Il vostro partner sentimentale probabilmente soddisfaceva i vostri bisogni emotivi cos\u00ec come voi soddisfacevate i suoi. Ebbene, considerate tutto ci\u00f2 scomparso una volta terminata la relazione.<\/p>\n Your partner will probably still try to fulfill your needs but because of the distance between you two, they simply won\u2019t know what your emotional needs are anymore. You two will seem like two strangers and both of you will be deeply unhappy in that relationship.<\/p>\n You can end the emotional affair, but you can\u2019t shut la tensione sessuale<\/a> down just like that. It\u2019ll be there and every time you see that person, you\u2019ll feel that fire burning between you two.<\/p>\n Anche se ci si imbatte nel loro profilo su <\/i>social media<\/i> may awaken that tension and you won\u2019t be able to stop thinking about them. <\/i>You\u2019ll be picturing them all the time and all the amazing moments you two spent together.<\/p>\n When an emotional affair gets revealed, so many sides get hurt. Being cheated on by a person you sincerely love changes you and deep down you know you\u2019ll never be the same.<\/p>\n All'inizio, si comincia a pensare che sia stato tutto un tuo errore e si inizia a colpevolizzarsi e a fare molta pressione su di s\u00e9. <\/b>Questo distrugge completamente la vostra autostima e influisce sulla vostra salute emotiva e mentale.<\/p>\n The person spends time recovering from it all and works hard on boosting their self-esteem. And until they get back on their feet, they\u2019re simply unable to forgive their cheating partners or engage in a new relationship.<\/p>\n Quando il coniuge traditore rompe con il partner della relazione sentimentale e decide di tornare con il partner, pu\u00f2 iniziare a evitare l'intimit\u00e0 fisica.<\/p>\n I sentimenti che hanno colto per il partner della relazione e la <\/b>legame emotivo<\/b> they share now simply don\u2019t allow them to make love to their spouse\/partner. <\/b>Forse amano ancora il loro partner, ma l'amore che provano per il loro partner \u00e8 sicuramente pi\u00f9 intenso.<\/p>\n Se la mancanza di intimit\u00e0<\/a> continues, that is, if the couple doesn\u2019t work on fixing it, their relationship will be doomed or they\u2019ll turn back to their affair partner.<\/p>\n Come finisce la maggior parte delle relazioni sentimentali? Con terapia di coppia<\/a>Naturalmente, se la coppia decide di continuare la propria relazione dopo il tradimento.<\/p>\n Sarebbe molto difficile per una coppia combattere da sola. <\/b>E le possibilit\u00e0 di andare avanti e di salvare la loro relazione<\/a> sarebbe davvero minimo.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why most of them choose to visit a <\/i>terapeuta delle relazioni<\/i> e li aiuta sicuramente a sistemare la loro relazione.<\/i><\/p>\n If you were cheating on your spouse with a mutual friend or someone you both know, you\u2019ll probably need to keep seeing each other even after you break up. You might think that it\u2019s a good idea to stay just friends but it\u2019s actually the worst thing you can do.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve developed feelings for each other and you\u2019ve ended your relationship because you understood it\u2019s wrong to be cheating on your partners. <\/b>And you\u2019re absolutely right, it\u2019s very wrong.<\/p>\n However, it\u2019s also wrong to force yourselves to be just friends when both of you want something more. It may work for some time but sooner or later, you\u2019ll stop resisting your feelings.<\/p>\n As I said, ending an emotional affair isn\u2019t easy. One person will be left with a broken heart and that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n That will leave them with deep emotional wounds that won\u2019t be cured that easily. <\/b>Anche dopo la guarigione di quelle ferite, le cicatrici rimarranno per sempre, perseguitandoli e ricordando loro il dolore che hanno vissuto.<\/p>\n Purtroppo, queste ferite possono rappresentare un ostacolo quando si tratta di intraprendere nuove relazioni sentimentali.<\/i> They might fear getting hurt again and that\u2019s why they might start avoiding getting back into that dating pool.<\/p>\n I know it\u2019s hard to move on after ending an emotional affair. You\u2019ll be left with a million questions in your head and you simply won\u2019t know how to deal with them all.<\/p>\n Ho alcuni consigli da darvi che vi aiuteranno a lasciarvi alle spalle la relazione e andare avanti<\/b><\/a> da soli.<\/b><\/p>\n You\u2019ve betrayed your long-term relationship partner and fell in love with someone you had an affair with. It\u2019s completely normal that you feel a real rollercoaster of emotions.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, \u00e8 necessario riconoscerli e accettarli tutti, quelli buoni e quelli cattivi. If you don\u2019t deal with your emotions properly, if you try to suppress them <\/b>in profondit\u00e0<\/b>, it\u2019ll only block your way to moving forward.<\/b><\/p>\n If you accept your emotions, on the other hand, you\u2019ll be able to deal with them and, eventually, move on.<\/p>\n Trascorrere del tempo da soli vi aiuter\u00e0 a capire le vostre emozioni e a ripensare a tutto quello che \u00e8 successo. Dovete riflettere su voi stessi e pensare a tutto ci\u00f2 che avete fatto per entrambe le persone con cui avete condiviso i sentimenti.<\/p>\n Dovete anche pensare a cosa vi ha fatto quella relazione. You\u2019ll probably need plenty of time to recover and completely heal from it and taking some alone time is the first step to it.<\/b><\/p>\n Most importantly, you need to figure out a way you\u2019ll move on. You\u2019ve already decided you want to move forward by yourself and it\u2019s completely okay but you need to think about the way you want to lead your life from now on.<\/p>\n Grief is also one of the stages of an emotional affair. You\u2019ll probably deal with different kinds of grief and if you don\u2019t go through them the right way, you\u2019ll be stuck with those unpleasant feelings forever.<\/p>\n The first kind of grief you\u2019ll feel is losing two people you deeply cared for.<\/b> Avevate un legame profondo<\/a> with both of them, and now you\u2019re left without it all.<\/p>\n The second type of grief is the one you\u2019ll feel for hurting the person you were with for so long and shared so many wonderful memories with. <\/i>That\u2019s one of the things you\u2019ll never be able to forgive yourself.<\/p>\n If you decide to continue your primary relationship…<\/strong><\/p>\n Surprisingly, about 70% of married couples actually choose to stay together after an extramarital affair. So, if you choose to stay with your spouse\/partner, it\u2019s also a good thing.<\/p>\n However, you\u2019ll need to put effort into making things work between you again. La prima cosa da fare \u00e8 parlare con il proprio partner e raccontargli tutto ci\u00f2 che riguarda la propria vita.<\/b> infedelt\u00e0 emotiva<\/b><\/a>naturalmente, lasciando il pi\u00f9 <\/b>dettagli intimi<\/b> fuori.<\/b><\/p>\n This is something almost every marriage and family therapy expert would advise you to do. It\u2019s simply impossible to continue with your relationship pretending that none of it ever happened.<\/p>\n This goes without saying. You can\u2019t just ask your partner to forgive you and expect it\u2019ll solve all of your problems because it won\u2019t and they definitely won\u2019t forgive you just like that.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll need to prove to them you\u2019re truly remorseful and that you don\u2019t plan on repeating your mistake ever again.<\/b> Only when they get assured that you truly regret your actions, will they forgive you and you\u2019ll be able to work on saving your relationship.<\/p>\n Capisco che si trattava di una cosa sana, relazione impegnata<\/a>che amavate profondamente il vostro partner prima di commettere questo enorme errore, ma \u00e8 davvero ancora cos\u00ec? Amate ancora allo stesso modo?<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t, if you\u2019re in love with your affair partner, then there is no point in getting back together with your partner.<\/b> You\u2019ll only hurt them more that way.<\/p>\n If you still love them, and if your feelings for the affair partner aren\u2019t and weren\u2019t so deep, then you have my blessing and I really hope you\u2019ll be able to keep them in your life.<\/p>\n Una volta conclusa la relazione sentimentale e deciso di tornare dal partner principale, \u00e8 necessario lasciare la relazione nel passato per sempre. Dovete interrompere ogni contatto con il vostro partner.<\/p>\n Dimenticatevi di loro e di tutto quello che \u00e8 successo tra voi. <\/b>If they try to make any kind of contact with you, block their attempts and make sure they know you\u2019re serious and that you don\u2019t want to see them ever again.<\/p>\n It\u2019s hard to move on from an emotional\/physical affair. You simply think that your relationship can never be the same, no matter the love you have for each other and really try to leave it all behind.<\/p>\n Ma pu\u00f2 farlo. Anzi, pu\u00f2 essere anche meglio. Consideratela solo una tentazione di Dio per la vostra relazione. Forse stava solo mettendo alla prova il vostro amore. Utilizzate questa esperienza come una lezione che vi aiuter\u00e0 a costruire un rapporto ancora migliore e pi\u00f9 forte.<\/i><\/p>\n Whether you\u2019re married or only dating, you need to take relationship\/marriage counseling if you truly want to save your relationship. A <\/i>terapeuta delle relazioni<\/i> vi aiuter\u00e0 a risolvere i vostri problemi e a lasciarvi alle spalle questa terribile esperienza.<\/i><\/p>\n There is so much couples counseling can do for you and your relationship. In the end, if it doesn\u2019t help (and trust me, it will), it won\u2019t hurt your relationship either.<\/p>\n Well, this is a hard one. In most cases, they definitely don\u2019t end well because they can\u2019t end without consequences, that is, without anyone getting hurt.<\/p>\n Anche se i loro partner scoprire la loro relazione<\/a>I traditori, o almeno quelli che hanno colto forti sentimenti, serberanno rancore nei confronti dell'altro. Sooner or later, they\u2019ll do something that would expose their affair totally and all 4 parties will end up hurt.<\/i><\/p>\n D'altra parte, il <\/b>partner di relazioni sentimentali<\/b> potrebbero accettare di porre fine alla loro relazione solo per evitare che il partner si faccia male. <\/b>However, they\u2019ll keep suffering because they won\u2019t be happy in those relationships and their hearts will ache for each other.<\/p>\n Of course, if the partners from their primary relationships find out about their significant other\u2019s emotional infidelity, it\u2019s clear why it doesn\u2019t end well in that case.<\/p>\n Most relationship experts agree that emotional affairs last approximately six to eighteen months. It\u2019s mostly because that period is considered enough to find out whether it\u2019s infatuation or true love.<\/a><\/p>\n That\u2019s the period of that famous fase di luna di miele<\/a> where the couple doesn\u2019t think about anything else except their love. They\u2019re infatuated with one another.<\/p>\n Dopo un po' di tempo, uno o entrambi possono avere una crisi di coscienza e cominciare a pensare alla loro <\/b>relazioni primarie<\/b> e il dolore che i loro partner proverebbero se scoprissero la loro relazione.<\/b><\/p>\n Tuttavia, possono durare anche fino a tre o pi\u00f9 anni. Oppure, proprio come la maggior parte delle relazioni extraconiugali, durano semplicemente fino a quando non vengono scoperte, lol?<\/p>\n Ogni relazione o rapporto che coinvolge l'intimit\u00e0 emotiva \u00e8 difficile da terminare. Ci\u00f2 implica che una o entrambe le parti hanno colto dei sentimenti e che la fine della relazione li ferirebbe.<\/b><\/p>\n If it\u2019s <\/i>infedelt\u00e0 sessuale<\/i>, that is if that\u2019s only a <\/i>relazione sessuale<\/i>, it\u2019s easier to end it. <\/i>Both sides engaged in the affair only to please their physical needs and it\u2019s not hard for them to end it because they can always find another person to have fun and please their needs.<\/p>\n Also, in an emotional relationship, the couple has connected emotionally and those kinds of bonds are always hard to end. Those kinds of breakups don\u2019t go without painful consequences.<\/p>\n Both lovers are probably aware that their relationship is wrong, that they\u2019re hurting other people with it, but it\u2019s still hard for them to end it because they know it would break their hearts.<\/p>\n The fact is, emotional affairs hurt and they hurt much more than casual, sexual affairs. It\u2019s simply because there are emotions included and the wounds on the heart are the ones that hurt the most.<\/p>\n Quando si indulge in una relazione occasionale<\/a>\/affair with someone, you do it only to get physical pleasure, you don\u2019t include your emotions there.<\/p>\n2. Perdita di un'amicizia intima<\/h3>\n
3. Troppi cuori infranti<\/h3>\n
4. Coscienza sporca<\/h3>\n
5. Rimanere in una relazione infelice<\/h3>\n
6. Affrontare le montagne russe emotive<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n7. Energia emotiva prosciugata<\/h3>\n
8. Mancanza di supporto emotivo<\/h3>\n
9. Bisogni emotivi insoddisfatti<\/h3>\n
10. Cercare di controllare la tensione sessuale<\/h3>\n
11. Danneggiamento dell'autostima e della salute mentale<\/h3>\n
12. Mancanza di intimit\u00e0 fisica nella relazione primaria<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n13. Seguire una terapia di coppia<\/h3>\n
14. Rimanere solo amici di una persona che significa tanto per voi<\/h3>\n
15. Affrontare ferite emotive profonde<\/h3>\n
Cosa fare dopo aver chiuso una relazione sentimentale? 9 Suggerimenti<\/h2>\n
1. Don\u2019t try to silence your emotions<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Prendersi un po' di tempo da soli<\/h3>\n
3. Elaborare il lutto nel modo che si desidera<\/h3>\n
1. Ammettere tutto al partner<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Guadagnare il loro perdono<\/h3>\n
3. Assicuratevi di amarli ancora allo stesso modo<\/h3>\n
4. Bloccare ogni contatto con il partner della relazione sentimentale<\/h3>\n
5. Considerate questa lezione e lasciate che rafforzi il vostro rapporto.<\/h3>\n
6. Seguire una consulenza di coppia<\/h3>\n
Le relazioni sentimentali finiscono mai bene?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nQuanto dura la maggior parte delle relazioni sentimentali?<\/h2>\n
Le relazioni sentimentali sono difficili da chiudere?<\/h2>\n
Perch\u00e9 le relazioni sentimentali fanno cos\u00ec male?<\/h2>\n
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