{"id":15798,"date":"2020-03-06T10:39:59","date_gmt":"2020-03-06T10:39:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15798"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:26:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:26:53","slug":"10-omaggi-in-faccia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-omaggi-in-faccia\/","title":{"rendered":"10 indizi che indicano che ti sta mentendo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mentire fa male<\/a>. There is no doubt about it, even if it\u2019s a little white lie.<\/p>\n

Eventually, it\u2019s bound to break someone\u2019s heart, especially if someone is lying straight to your face. And if it happens to be that that someone is your significant other, it hurts even more.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like he is punching you in the gut and throwing away the trust you worked so hard to build. Because trust and love both take time.<\/p>\n

Richiedono dedizione, cura e impegno. Buttare tutto all'aria per la cosa pi\u00f9 banale \u00e8 davvero, onestamente non ne vale la pena. Quindi, per capire quando vi sta mentendo, cercate questi segnali.<\/p>\n

1. Evita il contatto visivo<\/span><\/h2>\n

If he\u2019s avoiding eye contact while talking to you or instantly looks away when you ask him a question, that could be a sign that he is about to tell a lie.<\/p>\n

There is a good reason our parents used to ask us to look them in the eye when we were answering questions. An honest person doesn\u2019t have any problem keeping eye contact while telling a story, because they\u2019re doing nothing wrong.<\/p>\n

But liars try to hide the fact that they\u2019re lying, so they will avoid eye contact in order to avoid the feelings of blame and guilt.<\/p>\n

2. I dettagli sono praticamente inesistenti o esagerati.<\/span><\/h2>\n

He will either avoid giving out any details of the story, so it\u2019s easier for him to remember it and think of it while he\u2019s talking or he will go over the top.<\/p>\n

You will soon find yourself hearing about the crazy colors of three strands of hair that showed up on a nun\u2019s forehead while she was crossing the street. It\u2019s a true story bro, he saw it with his own eyes. Sure.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t buy his stories just because of his looks. If he\u2019s lying<\/a> all'inizio, immaginate cosa potrebbe mentire in seguito.<\/p>\n

3. Cambiamenti nel suo modo di parlare<\/span><\/h2>\n

Regarding his usual speech pattern, if he is talking too fast or too slow, that\u2019s also a sign he might be lying.<\/p>\n

If he\u2019s going too fast, he\u2019s just trying to get it over with. But if he\u2019s taking his time while talking, he could still be working on the story in his head.<\/p>\n

Prestate attenzione al suo comportamento abituale e al suo modo di parlare. Se qualcosa sembra strano, di solito lo \u00e8.<\/p>\n

4. Sembra nervoso<\/span><\/h2>\n

One of the greatest signs of lying is nervousness. It\u2019s simple; he\u2019s so nervous about getting caught, about knowing that he\u2019s doing the wrong thing, that his heart is racing and he starts sweating.<\/p>\n

You will notice the difference in his breathing too, as if his breath is running short, he could be hiding something. Unless you\u2019re discussing kinky topics, blushing is also a sign of lying.<\/p>\n

5. La storia ha l'incredibile capacit\u00e0 di cambiare ogni volta che la si ascolta.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Every time he tells a story, there are new details and events that lead to the ultimate end of the story. And even when you notice that the story is changing, he will make an excuse like he forgot one part, you weren\u2019t paying attention, he already said it, he had no time to tell you everything, etc.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think he will admit that the story is changing, instead, it\u2019s your fault that you\u2019re not listening carefully enough.<\/p>\n

6. Esita nel dare informazioni<\/span><\/h2>\n

When we are honest and someone asks us about details, we don\u2019t stop and think about them for a while; we start talking and even if there are some things we don\u2019t know, we still make sure the story is complete once we\u2019re done talking.<\/p>\n

Ma i bugiardi non saranno mai in grado di cambiare argomento e rispondere subito, perch\u00e9 i bugiardi sono noti per essere egoisti e chiusi.<\/p>\n

7. Il linguaggio del corpo<\/span><\/h2>\n

A sudden head movement when you ask him a question, crossed arms, twitching or sitting completely still\u2014it all depends on his usual behavior. Any changes that will tip you off that he’s nervous more than usual can tell you that he\u2019s lying.<\/p>\n

While sometimes nervousness can be a sign of attraction, together with other signals on this list it\u2019s a straight giveaway of someone lying to your face.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/strong>7 sottili segnali del linguaggio del corpo che ti sta mentendo (e tu te la bevi)<\/a><\/p>\n

8. Si ripete<\/span><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s not just because he wants to convince you, it\u2019s because he wants to convince himself of the lie too. He will often repeat phrases and parts of the story, so you can remember it pretty well.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also a technique a liar tends to use to gather his thoughts. He will stutter and repeat certain words a few times until his brain catches up.<\/p>\n

9. Toccando e coprendo sia la bocca che i punti vulnerabili<\/span><\/h2>\n

Si tocca e si copre la bocca per evitare di rispondere a una domanda o a una proposta. Inoltre, quando gli uomini dicono bugie, tendono a coprirsi i punti pi\u00f9 vulnerabili, quindi la gola, il petto, l'addome o la testa.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s something he does instinctively because he will always take care of himself first. Lying goes hand in hand with being selfish, because he will always mettere se stesso al primo posto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

10. It seriously doesn\u2019t make any sense<\/span><\/h2>\n

Even if he has no other signs, the story still makes no sense. Something seriously seems off, even if you have nothing to point to. But if he\u2019s usually shy and in his stories, he is this badass fuckboy who can have any woman out there, he\u2019s lying.<\/p>\n

Or he\u2019s known as a fuckboy and suddenly he\u2019s talking about this shy, gorgeous girlfriend you all need to meet \u2013 but you never do \u2013 then do you need any other sign?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Lying is hurtful. There is no doubt about it, even if it\u2019s a little white lie. Eventually, it\u2019s bound to break someone\u2019s heart, especially if someone is lying straight to your face. And if it happens to be that that someone is your significant other, it hurts even more. It\u2019s like he is punching you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":15807,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15798","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/jd-mason-500379-unsplash.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15798","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15798"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15798\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15807"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15798"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15798"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15798"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}