{"id":15813,"date":"2020-08-06T11:41:05","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T11:41:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15813"},"modified":"2022-01-24T12:50:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T12:50:20","slug":"gli-ex-tornano-6-motivi-principali-per-cui-vuole-tornare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/gli-ex-tornano-6-motivi-principali-per-cui-vuole-tornare\/","title":{"rendered":"6 veri motivi per cui gli uomini tornano quasi sempre indietro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ogni donna ha vissuto la stessa situazione almeno una volta nella vita.<\/p>\n

Avevate un ragazzo, c'era chimica, vi chiamava sempre e vi mandava messaggi, forse vi siete anche frequentati per un po' e poi \u00e8 sparito nel nulla.<\/p>\n

Era sparito, come se fosse scomparso dalla faccia della Terra.<\/p>\n

Sentirsi rifiutati pu\u00f2 ridurre al minimo la fiducia in se stessi. Il pensiero che qualcuno se ne vada per allontanarsi da te ti fa riflettere: “What did I do wrong?”<\/em><\/p>\n

Like the feeling of being unwanted isn’t enough, he also left without an explanation, without a closure.<\/p>\n

Picchiato a terra, rifiutandosi di credere di nuovo nell'amore, deve passare attraverso la fasi di guarigione emotiva<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Dovete passare l'inferno di dimenticare che lui esiste per potervi dare un'altra possibilit\u00e0 di amare.<\/p>\n

Dovete piangere nel vostro letto, arrabbiarvi con il mondo e con voi stesse per esservi innamorate di un uomo emotivamente non disponibile. Dovete imparare a sorridere di nuovo e a perdonarvi per aver commesso un tale errore.<\/p>\n

This seems like a lot of work to do and it is. It’s a process every person has to go through at least once in a lifetime. You wish you don’t, but most of us do.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, alla fine si impara a superare tutto questo. Si impara a guarire e a perdonare. Si impara a lasciarsi il passato alle spalle.<\/p>\n

Dopo aver finalmente trovato la pace, indovinate chi torna a bussare alla vostra porta?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Oh yeah, it\u2019s him. Now, all of a sudden that you\u2019ve dealt with the fact you are not together anymore, he comes back.<\/p>\n

Si presenta come se non fosse successo nulla, come se foste in pausa perch\u00e9 dovevate affrontare i vostri problemi.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 i ragazzi lo fanno? Perch\u00e9 decidono di tornare<\/a> right that moment when you’ve finally moved on?<\/em><\/p>\n

Sono soli<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll probably text you first, using the excuse that they just want to see how you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n

Il fatto \u00e8 che si sentono soli e abbattuti e hanno bisogno di sapere che vi interessa ancora, che almeno qualcuno si preoccupa per loro.<\/p>\n

E il modo migliore per ottenerlo \u00e8 quello di ricontattarvi.<\/p>\n

Ora, alcune donne credono a loro e al loro improvviso cambiamento di cuore e pensano che gli uomini come loro vogliano davvero tornare insieme, e si sentono lusingate dal fatto che un uomo si faccia avanti per primo, ma nella maggior parte dei casi non \u00e8 questo il motivo per cui vi hanno contattato.<\/p>\n

They probably contacted you just because they are lonely and in fact, they don’t need anything other than a lousy text back from you.<\/p>\n

Vogliono sentirsi importanti e vogliono sapere che ci sono ancora.<\/p>\n

Vogliono il comfort<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Stanno attraversando un periodo difficile e hanno bisogno di sostegno emotivo.<\/p>\n

Ora, lei \u00e8 l'ultima cosa che aveva e, nonostante vi siate lasciati, avevate una sorta di legame emotivo e di comprensione reciproca.<\/p>\n

Vuole approfittarne. Ti rivuole solo perch\u00e9 ha bisogno di conforto, di una spalla su cui piangere.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably vent out all of his problems on you and disappear again, like he did the first time.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t fall for that, especially after you\u2019ve been through hell and back to get over him. Men like him never change.<\/p>\n

Hanno bisogno di conferme sulla loro autostima<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Being single can provoke some nasty feelings in you. You can feel unwanted and ugly when the truth is far from it but somehow you can\u2019t shake off that lousy feeling.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 uno dei motivi per cui il vostro ex vi rivuole. Probabilmente si sente una merda, la sua autostima \u00e8 sotto zero e vuole un po' di convalida.<\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 posto migliore per trovarlo che con voi, che tornare a qualcosa che gi\u00e0 conosce.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fall into this trap because this is a selfish act. He doesn\u2019t want you back for you, but for himself, to make himself feel better.<\/p>\n

Hanno dimenticato il motivo per cui si sono lasciati.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

There was a reason people break up. He was unhappy, and maybe he told you what the problem was, maybe he didn’t but it doesn\u2019t matter anyway.<\/p>\n

Il fatto \u00e8 che your relationship didn\u2019t work out<\/a> per qualche motivo.<\/p>\n

Ma ora, all'improvviso, ti rivuole indietro. Sai cosa succede di solito?<\/p>\n

Dopo un po' di tempo, la solitudine e la mancanza di sostegno emotivo vi portano a pensare alla vostra relazione passata e a quanto \u00e8 stata bella.<\/p>\n

Time heals all wounds, that\u2019s true, but it also idealizes the past.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what he is doing. He is remembering only the good things in your relationship and he is probably wondering why you broke up in the first place.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s the trick; then you get back together, and after the initial thrill of the new relationship wears off, the old problems come barging in and you remember why you broke up.<\/p>\n

This, of course, leads to yet another break-up, where you\u2019ll have even bigger problems to deal with.<\/p>\n

Vogliono solo sesso<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

This one is easy. Men like him only want to get back with you because they want sex. He\u2019s stuck in a bit of a dry spell and he wants some action on the side.<\/p>\n

Logically, you are the first person he\u2019ll come running to because he thinks you give in easily since you are probably still emotionally attached to him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stoop that low because he\u2019ll just use you and toss you away like he did the first time.<\/p>\n

Si sono resi conto di aver commesso un errore<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

This is the least probable one, but we’ll give it a try. Maybe he truly realized he made a mistake and he regrets his past actions and he davvero<\/em> ti rivuole indietro.<\/p>\n

Maybe he was completely miserable from the moment he broke up with you but he didn\u2019t know how to get you back.<\/p>\n

If you see that his intentions are true, if you see that he is not broken, insecure or just lonely, then he’s probably come to his senses and he wants to admit what a jerk he was for letting you go.<\/p>\n

But in the end, you are the one who decides whether you\u2019re going to give him another chance or not. you have to be damn sure about him if you take him back.<\/p>\n

if you’re not, you’re risking another heartbreak, some more tears and a long healing road ahead.<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>\n

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