{"id":15837,"date":"2020-06-06T12:27:49","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T12:27:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15837"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:09:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:09:38","slug":"le-ragazze-spezzate-sbocciano-guerriere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-ragazze-spezzate-sbocciano-guerriere\/","title":{"rendered":"Le ragazze spezzate si trasformano in guerriere"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I thought you and I would last a lifetime and I really believed in our love. Even when you weren\u2019t treating me the way you should have, I was always justifying your behavior because I wanted for us to succeed.<\/p>\n<p>Volevo che restassimo insieme e ho fatto di tutto per trattenerti. Mi hai manipolato facendomi credere che avevi bisogno di me nella tua vita e che tutti i problemi che avevamo erano solo colpa mia.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ero pronto a portare il peso del mondo sulle mie spalle per il tuo bene.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ma tu non hai mai corrisposto ai miei sforzi. Mi sono data completamente a te e invece di apprezzarlo, ti sei approfittato di me.<\/p>\n<p>Per te, il nostro rapporto non \u00e8 mai stato cos\u00ec importante come lo \u00e8 stato per me. Ti piaceva avere qualcuno sempre a tua disposizione, qualcuno che ti mettesse sempre al primo posto.<\/p>\n<p>E quando mi hai lasciato, non ti sei mai voltato indietro, come se non fossi mai esistito.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104362\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che lascia una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-leaving-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Quando te ne sei andato, ho pensato che fosse la cosa peggiore che potesse capitarmi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Some may say I am exaggerating but the pain you put me through was stronger than anything I\u2019d experienced before. It was even stronger than the love I felt for you.<\/p>\n<p>I felt like my heart and soul were tearing into pieces. I was even feeling physical pain \u2014 I thought I couldn\u2019t live or breathe without you.<\/p>\n<p>Soon, I became a wreck of the woman I used to be. I was ruined and there was nothing I could do about it. It was simple \u2014 I wasn\u2019t complete without you by my side anymore.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/you-broke-me\/\"> Mi hai spezzato <\/a> e non c'era nessuno che mi aiutasse a rimettere insieme i pezzi.<\/p>\n<p>After everything I\u2019d been through, after more sleepless nights than I could count, after all the tears I cried for you, I realized <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/melissa-remo\/2016\/01\/when-you-feel-like-youre-waiting-for-something-that-will-never-happen\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> Aspettavo qualcosa che non sarebbe mai arrivato<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104364\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste con pensieri profondi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ho capito che ero l'unica che poteva salvarmi. Ero l'unica che poteva rimettermi insieme.<\/p>\n<p>That is when my path to recovery started. After all I\u2019d been through, I finally saw my true worth.<\/p>\n<p>Era come se mi guardassi chiaramente per la prima volta. Ho visto quanto ero bella e intelligente. Ho visto tutto ci\u00f2 di cui ero capace. Ma soprattutto, <b>Ho visto quanto ero forte e potente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Cos\u00ec, invece di pensare alla nostra rottura come a una mia sconfitta, ho deciso di osservarla come una preziosa lezione di vita e di trarne il meglio.<\/p>\n<p>If you hadn\u2019t left me, I would never have known what love shouldn\u2019t look like. I would never have realized that a man who could never <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/youre-not-ready-love-let-go\/\"> amare tutto di me <\/a> didn\u2018t deserve me.<\/p>\n<p>Non avrei mai capito di essere vittima della sua manipolazione emotiva.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104367\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che piange\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you hadn\u2019t walked away from me, I would never have known my true worth. You tried very hard to destroy my confidence and you almost succeeded.<\/p>\n<p>Mi hai quasi convinto di essere un buono a nulla e questo mi ha reso molto pi\u00f9 facile da spezzare. Se fossi rimasto al mio fianco, sarei ancora grato di averti avuto e non avrei mai visto i tuoi veri colori.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you hadn\u2019t left me, I would never have known how much I could take.<\/b> Non avrei mai saputo quanto fossi forte e coraggiosa.<\/p>\n<p>Non avrei mai saputo di essere in grado di vivere la mia vita da sola. Non avrei mai <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/time-embrace-single-life\/\"> abbracciato la mia vita da single <\/a> n\u00e9 mi sarebbe piaciuto.<\/p>\n<p>If you hadn\u2019t left me, I would never have become the woman I am today. I would forever be an insecure, little girl who couldn\u2019t picture her life without you.<\/p>\n<p>Non sarei mai diventata la donna forte e indipendente che sono oggi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104369\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna che respira aria fresca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pretty-woman-breathing-fresh-air-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I would never have learned that I was the only one who could make myself happy and I would never have known that I don\u2019t need a man in my life to make it complete.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you hadn\u2019t left me, I would never have become the warrior I am today.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>So, this is for all of you girls out there. I know you think that you\u2019ll never recover from the pain some guy has caused you.<\/p>\n<p>But trust me \u2014 you will. I know you think your heart is broken forever, but here is something that might help you mend your broken heart: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hypnosisdownloads.com\/grief-loss\/broken-heart\" rel=\"noopener\">Riparare il cuore spezzato e ricominciare a godersi la vita<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Although you don\u2019t believe me now, trust me \u2014 you\u2019ll get out of this stronger than ever. Sooner or later, all broken girls blossom into warriors.<\/p>\n<p>E quando lo fanno, non c'\u00e8 niente e nessuno che possa fermarli. \u00c8 solo quando questo accade che si rendono conto di dover lottare solo per se stessi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-104359\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Broken-Girls-Blossom-Into-Warriors-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Le ragazze spezzate si trasformano in guerriere\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Broken-Girls-Blossom-Into-Warriors-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Broken-Girls-Blossom-Into-Warriors-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Broken-Girls-Blossom-Into-Warriors-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I thought you and I would last a lifetime and I really believed in our love. Even when you weren\u2019t treating me the way you should have, I was always justifying your behavior because I wanted for us to succeed. I wanted for us to stay together and I did everything in my power to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":104373,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15837","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Broken-Girls-Blossom-Into-Warriors.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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