But the real question is: Why do guys like situationships? What\u2019s in it for them?<\/strong> Perch\u00e9 un uomo medio oggi dovrebbe scegliere gli incontri occasionali piuttosto che il vero affare? Ecco cosa ho capito:<\/p>\n I talked to some of my male friends and asked them, \u201cWhy do guys like situationships?\u201d Everything they told me can be summed up in these 14 answers:<\/p>\n Men are natural hunters. You know what guy likes you the most? The one who knows he can\u2019t have you. Or, to be exact, the one who has to inseguirti.<\/a><\/p>\n When you get into a real relationship, there is no more chasing. What a relief, you must think. Well, it\u2019s like that for mature people. On the other hand, immature boys are addicted to the thrill of the chase.<\/strong><\/p>\n And that\u2019s exactly what they never stop getting in an Relazione di tipo FWB<\/a>. Non sanno mai cosa accadr\u00e0 dopo e cosa porter\u00e0 il domani.<\/strong><\/p>\n L'adrenalina mantiene un ragazzo attaccato a voi. In questo modo, le farfalle non scompaiono praticamente mai.<\/p>\n If a man is being honest, this is probably one of the most common answers he\u2019ll give to the question of \u201cWhy do guys like situationships?\u201d As complicated as it might seem, it\u2019s actually one of the simplest things in the world: si divertono a ottenere tutto senza dare nulla in cambio.<\/strong><\/p>\n In pratica, you\u2019re giving a guy all the benefits of a relationship without him actually calling you his girlfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re there when he wants to go out on a date, he has someone to text whenever he feels like it, someone to travel with, and someone to call in the middle of the night when all of his friends are busy.<\/p>\n He has a girl to cuddle with, a girl to sleep next to, a girl to kiss, and, let\u2019s face it, most importantly, a girl he has at his disposal as a chiamata di cortesia<\/a>. Questo ragazzo ha qualcuno che lo ama, si prende cura di lui e svolge tutti i compiti della fidanzata.<\/p>\n And what does he give you in return? That\u2019s right: one, big, nothing. You have no right to nag him or be jealous.<\/p>\n When you call him out for not giving you enough attention or forgetting your birthday, he just tells you that you\u2019re not in a serious relationship. He doesn\u2019t have to show up to change your flat tire, nor is he obligated to be your plus one at important events.<\/p>\n Has it ever occurred to you that you\u2019re dealing with problemi di relazione<\/a> with someone you\u2019re not in a relationship with?<\/p>\n Alcuni uomini sono terrorizzati dall'idea che impegnarsi in una relazione significhi perdere tutta la loro libert\u00e0. Questi uomini sono chiamati \"fobici dell'impegno\" e passano da una relazione all'altra.<\/p>\n They prefer casual dating over the real deal because they don\u2019t feel any responsibility until they actually definire la vostra storia d'amore<\/a>.<\/p>\n La cosa pi\u00f9 divertente \u00e8 quando un fobico dell'impegno<\/a> si comporta come il tuo ragazzo. Ti manda sempre messaggi, si diverte a passare del tempo con te ed \u00e8 persino geloso degli altri ragazzi della tua vita. In pratica, voi due avete una relazione, ma non le avete mai dato un vero titolo.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tuttavia, quando gli si chiede di rendere le cose ufficiali, si d\u00e0 alla fuga.<\/strong> It\u2019s like he assumes that you\u2019ll tie him up and take away all of his freedom the moment he agrees to be your actual boyfriend.<\/p>\n Perch\u00e9 ai ragazzi piacciono le relazioni di coppia? Beh, per molti ragazzi, quasi relazioni<\/a> are actually just an excuse to \u201clegally\u201d cheat. Let\u2019s face it \u2013 you can be jealous all you want, but you don’t have the right to express your jealousy because you\u2019re not this man\u2019s official girlfriend.<\/p>\n He might be having casual sex and one-night stands with random girls, and that\u2019s technically not considered cheating. He is allowed to be on Tinder and other online dating apps, and you don\u2019t have a say in it.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re not allowed to check his phone, ask him about his whereabouts, or nag him about girls he follows on Instagram, Snapchat, and other social media platforms. You two are amici con benefici<\/a>e ha il diritto di agire in questo modo.<\/strong><\/p>\n At least, that\u2019s what he says when you confront him about all the other women in his life. Not only that: he reminds you that you agreed to these terms and that you\u2019re free to do whatever you want as well.<\/p>\n And when you come to think about it \u2013 he\u2019s not wrong. I mean, you did choose this kind of love life for yourself.<\/p>\n Agli uomini piacciono le relazioni di coppia perch\u00e9 in questo modo possono mantenere aperte le proprie opzioni<\/a>. Finiranno per uscire davvero con voi? O all'ultimo momento apparir\u00e0 qualche altra donna pi\u00f9 conveniente? Chi lo sa?<\/p>\n In this scenario, a guy is keeping you as his backup plan. I know that this sounds harsh, but he\u2019ll give you the title of his girlfriend if nobody better shows up by the time he gets tired of his bachelor life.<\/strong><\/p>\n E nel frattempo? Beh, \u00e8 libero di fare quello che vuole senza preoccuparsi del vostro benessere.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s another reason men choose situationships: they\u2019re emotivamente non disponibile<\/a>. You meet a guy who is simply not ready for a relationship because he is still not over his ex, or he doesn\u2019t feel capable of opening up to someone new.<\/p>\n It\u2019s a good thing if he\u2019s honest from the start. You should appreciate him telling you the truth and asking you not to expect much.<\/strong><\/p>\n However, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should stick with this man, especially if it\u2019s likely that you\u2019ll build an emotional connection with him.<\/p>\n In fact, most guys who claim to be emotionally unavailable are actually walking red flags. Deep down, they want you to fight for them and give them your everything. At the same time, you\u2019re expected to understand that they can\u2019t give you their love back.<\/p>\n Molti dei miei amici maschi dicono che le relazioni di coppia sono molto pi\u00f9 divertenti delle relazioni vere e proprie. Cio\u00e8, you\u2019re only getting the good parts of the romantic relationship. You get the butterflies, you have the chase, and you have regular sex.<\/strong><\/p>\n But there is no fighting over everyday things, like who will take out the trash or who liked another person\u2019s photo on social media. There is no jealousy, no neediness, and no responsibility.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re in a situationship, you\u2019re not required to see your partner on a regular basis. You don\u2019t have to stay and listen to them nag, and you don\u2019t have to put up with their annoying friends and family.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t have to hold their hand during hard times, and you don\u2019t have to be at their disposal when they need you. Also, when you want to break up, you don\u2019t have to think of how you\u2019ll do it. You just disappear from each other\u2019s lives, and that\u2019s about it.<\/p>\n There is no such thing as falling into a rut. The moment the excitement is gone, you\u2019re gone as well.<\/strong><\/p>\n Let\u2019s get one thing clear: if a man knows that you care for him, but he keeps che ti prende per i fondelli<\/a> con questo rapporto di situazione, he doesn\u2019t care<\/a> sui propri sentimenti. The harsh truth is that he doesn\u2019t love you enough to make you his girlfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n Deve dirvi che \u00e8 non pronto per una relazione<\/a> right now. Well, guess what? He\u2019s non \u00e8 pronto per una relazione con te.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Does he care that he\u2019s hurting you? Absolutely not! Does he feel guilty for ruining your mental health? No! Does he give a damn about putting you through this heartbreak? Also no.<\/p>\n Well, if he loved you, he wouldn\u2019t be immune to your pain. He\u2019d do everything in his power to make you happy. Instead, he\u2019s only making you miserable!<\/p>\n This is something not many men will admit, but the truth is that situationships boost their self-esteem. Of course, I\u2019m talking about the ones they initiate.<\/p>\n If your almost-boyfriend sees that you\u2019re ready to stay with him, even though he refuses to give you what you want and deserve, he sees himself as Apollo. He thinks of himself as irresistible.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re there, begging him to give you briciole della sua attenzione<\/a>. You\u2019re there, loving him despite his behavior and despite the fact that he doesn\u2019t love you back.<\/p>\n Everything happens according to his terms. He can see other girls, while you only have eyes for him. Basically, he can do whatever he wants, and you\u2019ll stick by his side, no matter what.<\/p>\n Questo lo rende un essere umano terribile e tossico? Assolutamente s\u00ec, ma un essere umano terribile e tossico sicuro di s\u00e9.<\/p>\n Perch\u00e9 ai ragazzi piacciono le relazioni sentimentali? Uno dei motivi \u00e8 che quasi tutte le relazioni li sollevano dai doveri di fidanzato.<\/p>\n Your almost-boyfriend doesn\u2019t have to put any effort into keeping you by his side. All he has to do is text you, and you\u2019ll appear on his doorstep in a matter of minutes.<\/strong><\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t have to buy you flowers on a regular basis, nor is he expected to throw you romantic surprises. He doesn\u2019t have the \u201cresponsibility\u201d of sending you a good morning and a good night text every day.<\/strong><\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t have to make time in his tight schedule to see you. He can go on a trip with his friends without even notifying you, let alone consulting you.<\/p>\n The list is pretty much endless, but I guess you see where I\u2019m going. This man invests no energy in your situationship.<\/p>\n A situationship doesn\u2019t always have to be toxic. In fact, it is only toxic when it\u2019s not a mutual agreement. What does this mean?<\/p>\n Well, if you\u2019re in a situationship with a man just because he wants it, then it\u2019s toxic and unhealthy. At the same time, you would give anything for you two to be in a relazione reale<\/a>, but you\u2019re settling for less this way.<\/p>\n You know that if you give him an ultimatum to make you his girlfriend or leave, you will lose him forever. So you assume that it\u2019s better to have him this way than not have him at all.<\/p>\n Naturalmente, sperate segretamente che voi due possiate diventare presto una vera coppia. E lui? Invece di essere corretto e di lasciarti andare, ti tiene come il suo piano di riserva<\/a> nel caso in cui non arrivi nulla di meglio.<\/p>\n Se questo \u00e8 un dato di fatto, non c'\u00e8 dubbio che la vostra relazione \u00e8 tossica.<\/p>\n S\u00ec, situationships can be healthy \u2013 if all people involved agree on having things this way.<\/strong> Sometimes, both you and the guy you\u2019re seeing enjoy spending time together without defining your relationship status. But this is what you really both want \u2013 you didn\u2019t agree to it to protect your egos and not look desperate.<\/p>\n Se tutte le carte sono in tavola fin dall'inizio, la vostra relazione pu\u00f2 essere sana. Naturalmente, se uno dei due cambia idea all'improvviso, bisogna essere onesti al riguardo. Comunicate le vostre esigenze e i vostri desideri e non ci saranno problemi lungo il percorso!<\/p>\n I\u2019ll be honest with you: pi\u00f9 Le relazioni di coppia non si trasformano mai in relazioni a lungo termine.<\/a><\/strong> In fact, the most likely scenario is that you will fall in love with your almost-boyfriend, while he won\u2019t form an emotional connection. Just like that, you are left heartbroken.<\/p>\n Tuttavia, this doesn\u2019t mean that it\u2019s impossible for an almost-relationship to turn into a healthy relationship. In fact, some one-night stands end up in long-term marriages. Basically, it all depends on the couple.<\/strong><\/p>\nPerch\u00e9 ai ragazzi piacciono le situazioni?<\/h2>\n
1. Il brivido dell'inseguimento<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Vantaggi della relazione senza la relazione vera e propria<\/h3>\n
3. Fobici dell'impegno<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. \u201cLegal\u201d cheating<\/h3>\n
5. Mantenere aperte le opzioni<\/h3>\n
6. Uomini emotivamente non disponibili<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n7. It\u2019s more fun<\/h3>\n
8. They don\u2019t love you enough<\/h3>\n
9. Rafforza il loro ego<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n10. Minore impegno<\/h3>\n
Una situazione \u00e8 tossica?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nUna relazione \u00e8 sana?<\/h2>\n
Le situazioni si trasformano in relazioni?<\/h2>\n
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