{"id":15853,"date":"2018-03-06T13:27:22","date_gmt":"2018-03-06T13:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15853"},"modified":"2022-03-04T10:52:24","modified_gmt":"2022-03-04T10:52:24","slug":"significava-rimanere-insieme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/significava-rimanere-insieme\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fossimo stati destinati a stare insieme, saremmo rimasti insieme"},"content":{"rendered":"

I was always someone who believed in fairy tales. I thought true love could conquer and defeat everything and everyone, just if it was strong enough. I don\u2019t think I looked at life through rose-colored glasses<\/span>\u2014<\/span>Mi aspettavo che fosse difficile e impegnativo, ma credevo nel lieto fine.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma soprattutto credevo nel nostro lieto fine. <\/b><\/p>\n

Credevo nel destino. Ho sempre pensato che nulla accade senza una ragione e che ogni persona che incrocia il nostro cammino ha uno scopo nella nostra vita. Credevo nel destino e nel fatto che tutto ci\u00f2 che accade nella nostra vita \u00e8 predestinato ad accadere.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma soprattutto credevo che tu fossi il mio destino.<\/b><\/p>\n

Credevo nell'anima gemella e credevo che ci fosse solo una persona destinata ad essere per tutti. E non importa cosa succede e dove ti porta la vita, questa \u00e8 la persona giusta per te.<\/span>\u2014<\/span>questa \u00e8 la tua persona per sempre<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma soprattutto credevo che tu fossi la mia anima gemella.<\/b><\/p>\n

Credevo che tu fossi quello giusto per me. Credevo che fossimo destinati a stare insieme.<\/span><\/p>\n

When we first met, I put all of my cards on the table. When I saw you, I felt like I\u2019d known you for my entire life. I felt like you were the one I had been waiting for all along<\/span>\u2014<\/span>eri il mio pezzo mancante. Ho visto tutti i segni che indicavano che eri sicuramente la mia anima gemella. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quello che avevamo era<\/span> mozzafiato. Lo pensavo allora e lo penso ancora oggi<\/span>\u2014<\/span>abbiamo avuto un amore senza precedenti. Noi <\/span>si sono completati a vicenda<\/span><\/a> in modo strano, come se fossimo un'anima sola in due corpi. Tutto era come nei film<\/span>\u2014<\/span>we finished off each other\u2019s sentences, we understood and supported each other. And most of all, ci siamo amati<\/a> incondizionatamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come ho detto, tutto era come nei film. Tutto, cio\u00e8, tranne la fine.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando si vedono due persone che condividono un amore e un legame cos\u00ec intenso come il nostro, ci si aspetta che finiscano insieme. Ci si aspetta un lieto fine. Ma il nostro \u00e8 stato tutto tranne che felice.<\/span>
\n<\/span>If someone had asked me why we didn\u2019t work out, I swear I wouldn\u2019t know the answer. All I know is that we both got tired of fighting all the time. We got tired of each other\u2019s stubbornness, of each other\u2019s jealousy and each other\u2019s hot temper. We were so much alike and we started to hate our own flaws once we found them in one another. But if someone had asked me what the last straw was that killed us, I wouldn\u2019t know. <\/span><\/p>\n

So solo che per molto tempo ho odiato me stessa per non essermi impegnata di pi\u00f9. Ti ho odiato ancora di pi\u00f9 per essere andato avanti<\/a> con la tua vita mentre io cercavo ancora di raccogliere ci\u00f2 che era rimasto di me. E odiavo l'universo. Davo la colpa al destino per tutto quello che era successo, perch\u00e9 ero certa che eravamo destinati a stare insieme.<\/span><\/p>\n

You were my soulmate, my forever person, my love, my Mr. Right, so how come we didn\u2019t work out?<\/span><\/p>\n

Durante uno dei miei lamenti, un amico mi disse: <\/span>\u201cIf the two of you were meant to be, you would have stayed together.\u201d<\/b> All'inizio mi arrabbiai con lei. Chi era lei per dirmi una cosa del genere? Certo che eravamo destinati a stare insieme<\/span>\u2014<\/span>for God\u2019s sake, we were made for each other, everyone could see that. She just didn\u2019t understand it because she had never experienced something similar to our love.<\/span><\/p>\n

But after a while, I grew to realize that she was actually right. It was one of the hardest things I had to face in life, that we were really not meant to be. For me, it was more difficult to accept this notion than the fact that we didn\u2019t work out. <\/span><\/p>\n

Questa consapevolezza mi ha aiutato di pi\u00f9. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ho capito che non avrei mai potuto andare avanti finch\u00e9 non avessi smesso di guardare al passato. <\/span><\/p>\n

I realized I had become trapped in thinking what could have been and what might have been. I was mourning all the years we wouldn\u2019t spend together more than the time we did spend side by side. I was crying about the house we would never move into, about the kids we would never have and about the future we would never have together. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ero certa di non poter pi\u00f9 amare fino a quando questo mi ha aiutato:  <\/span>Riconquistare quel sentimento speciale e imparare ad amare di nuovo<\/a>. E poi ho capito che tutto questo accadeva a causa della mia fissazione che io e te fossimo destinati a stare insieme. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ma in realt\u00e0 non lo eravamo. Mi sono reso conto che <\/span>you weren\u2019t right for me, per quanto desiderassi che tu lo fossi.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that we didn\u2019t love each other, because we did. We were just not made for each other. It is quite simple<\/span>\u2014<\/span>Chi \u00e8 destinato a stare insieme, sta insieme.<\/b><\/p>\n

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