{"id":158582,"date":"2022-10-12T11:39:54","date_gmt":"2022-10-12T11:39:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=158582"},"modified":"2023-02-24T09:10:14","modified_gmt":"2023-02-24T09:10:14","slug":"quanto-tempo-e-troppo-senza-sesso-in-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quanto-tempo-e-troppo-senza-sesso-in-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Quanto tempo \u00e8 troppo lungo senza sesso in una relazione?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Before you can figure out how long is too long without sex in a relationship, think about why you&#8217;re asking this question. The answer largely depends on your reason.<\/p>\n<p>Fare <strong>voi o il vostro partner<\/strong> a) credere che esista una certa quota settimanale\/mensile\/annuale da rispettare per avere una vita sessuale soddisfacente, oppure b) <strong>si sentono insoddisfatti della quantit\u00e0 di sesso<\/strong> you&#8217;re having?<\/p>\n<p>Se avete scelto l'opzione a, la risposta \u00e8 semplice:<strong> non ci sono regole per quanto riguarda la quantit\u00e0 di sesso da fare con il proprio partner.<\/strong> Dipende interamente dai partner e cercare di raggiungere un numero arbitrario di volte vi renderebbe solo frustrati.<\/p>\n<p>L'opzione b richiede una risposta molto pi\u00f9 complessa, quindi continuate a leggere per scoprire se il vostro livello di intimit\u00e0 con il partner \u00e8 basso e cosa fare al riguardo.<\/p>\n<h2>Quanto tempo \u00e8 troppo lungo senza sesso in una relazione?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158585\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata per la sua vita intima\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-worried-about-her-intimate-life-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>L'unico modo per sapere quanto tempo \u00e8 troppo lungo senza sesso in una relazione \u00e8 capire cosa significa non fare abbastanza sesso per voi e come si sente il vostro partner.<\/p>\n<p>Se voi o il vostro partner non siete soddisfatti di ci\u00f2 che riguarda l'attivit\u00e0 sessuale nella vostra relazione, <strong>it\u2019s important to talk to each other about it openly.<\/strong> This is the kind of problem that doesn\u2019t go away on its own and needs to be discussed.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 If you\u2019re on the same page<\/h3>\n<p>Se sia voi che il vostro partner siete soddisfatti della frequenza dei vostri incontri sessuali,<strong> you don\u2019t have to worry<\/strong> if you\u2019re not meeting a certain number of times or if you\u2019re exceeding it.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if both you and your partner feel that having sex once a month is not enough, then that\u2019s your answer. If you\u2019re both happy with not having sex at all,<strong> potete ancora godere di un rapporto felice e sano con l'altro<\/strong> senza sperimentare <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segnali-di-frustrazione-sessuale-e-come-cambiarli\/\">frustrazione sessuale.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Having or not having sex just because you believe you should won\u2019t make you happy. Instead, <strong>lavorare sulla comunicazione e sulla vicinanza<\/strong> con il vostro partner per continuare a godere di una relazione emotiva e sessuale soddisfacente.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2022 When one person is unhappy with how often you have sex<\/h3>\n<p>You need to explore the root of your problem to find the reason for your different sexual activity needs. When there\u2019s a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/effetti-della-mancanza-di-intimita-fisica-in-un-rapporto-di-coppia\/\">mancanza di intimit\u00e0 fisica in una relazione<\/a>, <strong>compromise doesn\u2019t work in the same way as it does with other relationship issues.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you want to create a relationship you\u2019re both happy with, the needs of both partners matter. You need to <strong>collaborare con il partner<\/strong> trovare una soluzione che vada bene per entrambi. Qualsiasi altra soluzione pu\u00f2 facilmente sfociare in risentimento e in ulteriori problemi.<\/p>\n<p>Pressuring someone for sex or shaming them for wanting it too often doesn\u2019t help. You need to <strong>affrontare questo problema con empatia, compassione e volont\u00e0 di comprensione,<\/strong> e cercare gli altri bisogni che non vengono soddisfatti nella relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Esplorare tutti i modi per<strong> approfondire il vostro legame e sviluppare l'intimit\u00e0,<\/strong> sessuale e non, \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 importante della frequenza del sesso per la soddisfazione della relazione.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quanto-tempo-si-deve-parlare-con-qualcuno-prima-di-uscire-con-qualcuno\/\">Quanto tempo si dovrebbe parlare con qualcuno prima di uscire? (Una guida)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Perch\u00e9 le coppie iniziano a fare meno sesso?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158589\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia con problemi a letto\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-having-problems-in-bed-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Many variables can affect sexual intimacy. If you\u2019re currently unhappy with the lack of sex in your relationship, <strong>it\u2019s important to explore the reasons and try to understand them<\/strong> because that\u2019s what matters far more than how often it happens.<\/p>\n<p>Provate a considerare se alcune delle seguenti aree potrebbero includere le cause alla base della diminuzione dell'intimit\u00e0 sessuale, applicandole sia a voi stessi che al vostro partner.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Problemi di salute<\/h3>\n<p>La prima cosa da considerare \u00e8 la vostra salute fisica, soprattutto se \u00e8 cambiata.<strong> Molti problemi di salute possono influenzare negativamente il desiderio sessuale.<\/strong> It\u2019s best to visit your doctor and openly talk to them about your situation.<\/p>\n<p>Gli ormoni giocano un ruolo importante nei livelli di desiderio sessuale, mentre problemi come il dolore e il disagio possono far sentire disinteressati.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re taking any medication, check if they have sexual side effects.<\/strong> Many drugs can cause problems such as low sex drive, erectile dysfunction or difficulty reaching orgasm. Your doctor can adjust the dosage of the medicine or give you a replacement if it\u2019s causing you issues.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Problemi di salute emotiva e mentale<\/h3>\n<p>Anxiety and depression can kill your libido. If you\u2019re suffering from any emotional or psychological issues, this might easily be the reason behind your problems with sexual intimacy. <strong>When you\u2019re struggling, sex is usually the last thing on your mind.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Inoltre,<strong> Le insicurezze possono avere un impatto sulle interazioni sessuali,<\/strong> come la preoccupazione per le proprie prestazioni o il sentirsi insoddisfatti del proprio corpo, cosa che spesso accade se il corpo \u00e8 cambiato di recente.<\/p>\n<p>Stress is another area to explore. While everyone is aware that stress can be damaging, most people don\u2019t take it very seriously, even though it happens at home, at work, or in relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Quando diventa troppo,<strong> Lo stress pu\u00f2 influire a livello fisico ed emotivo fino al punto da farvi smettere di <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-segni-evidenti-che-il-sesso-con-il-tuo-partner-non-ti-piace\/\">godere del sesso con il proprio partner. <\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>The brain is your largest sex organ, so if you\u2019re unhappy with your sex life, it\u2019s one of the likely culprits behind the reasons.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Eventi della vita<\/h3>\n<p>Depending on what your relationship with your partner is like and what\u2019s going on in your lives at the moment, <strong>potrebbe trattarsi solo di circostanze.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You might be experiencing a temporary dry spell caused by something that\u2019s going on in your life and not be on a slippery slope leading to a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-matrimonio-senza-sesso-mi-sta-uccidendo\/\">matrimonio senza sesso<\/a> che non hai mai voluto.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re more busy and tired than usual, if you\u2019ve been through a stressful change, if you changed your job, moved homes, if you have family issues or if you\u2019ve had a baby \u2013 <strong>qualsiasi situazione che richieda la massima attenzione pu\u00f2 causare un calo del desiderio sessuale.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important not to become used to the lack of intimacy during these circumstances. This includes sexual intimacy, but also other types of intimacy with your partner that might also be suffering from the current situation.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Problemi di comunicazione<\/h3>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing like a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mancanza-di-comunicazione-in-una-relazione\/\">mancanza di comunicazione<\/a> di causare problemi nelle relazioni. Dalle incomprensioni al risentimento,<strong> non comunicare in modo efficace e aperto pu\u00f2 creare un problema<\/strong> dove si sarebbe potuto facilmente evitare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Problemi generali di comunicazione<\/strong> will often cause a lack of interest in sex. When one partner feels that the other person isn&#8217;t listening or doesn&#8217;t understand or if you argue, criticize or ignore each other, the desire to be intimate with each other goes away.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Non parlare della propria vita sessuale<\/strong> is another likely cause. It\u2019s important to talk openly about sex, your needs and your feelings. Expecting the other person to read your mind and anticipate what you want doesn&#8217;t work.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Problemi di relazione<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158590\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che non parla \" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-not-speaking-2-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What everyone fears when facing problems with physical intimacy in a relationship is that their partner\u2019s feelings for them have changed or that they\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-mio-ragazzo-non-sembra-piu-interessato-a-me-dal-punto-di-vista-sessuale\/\">non sono pi\u00f9 sessualmente interessati a loro.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t have to be the case, but if it is, <strong>sex won\u2019t solve it,<\/strong> indipendentemente dal fatto che lo si assuma ogni giorno o meno. A<strong> La mancanza di sesso pu\u00f2 essere un sintomo<\/strong> of a larger problem, but it\u2019s almost never the only one.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete parlare con il vostro partner e trovare soluzioni che funzionino se volete continuare la vostra relazione ed evitare la rottura.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re having other problems besides less frequent sexual activity, this is what you need to focus on. <strong>No matter how much sex you have with each other, it won\u2019t help unless you deal with the underlying issues.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un'altra variabile importante \u00e8 la percezione che si ha del proprio partner e il grado di connessione che si ha con lui. Se non vi sentite <strong>sicuro e confortevole<\/strong> with your partner, your sex life won\u2019t be satisfactory.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Adattarsi a una relazione a lungo termine<\/h3>\n<p>When you enter into a new relationship, you still don\u2019t know the person well. You\u2019re infatuated with the idealized image you created and hormones are running wild.<\/p>\n<p>Desiderio iniziale nato da<strong> novit\u00e0, risposte fisiche accentuate e fantasia<\/strong> si traduce in un aumento del desiderio sessuale. All'inizio non si pensa ad altro che a fare sesso con il nuovo partner, ma man mano che ci si conosce meglio la situazione cambia.<\/p>\n<p>I sentimenti che provate l'uno per l'altro si trasformano in qualcosa di pi\u00f9 profondo e pi\u00f9 stabile e<strong> il tuo desiderio cambia<\/strong> anche. La maggior parte delle persone che hanno una relazione a lungo termine fanno meno sesso l'uno con l'altro rispetto a quando si sono appena messi insieme.<\/p>\n<p>La convivenza e la vita quotidiana possono far s\u00ec che il sesso diventi l'ultima voce nella lista delle priorit\u00e0. Potreste iniziare a sentirvi come se il vostro partner <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/mia-moglie-mi-ama-ma-non-mi-desidera\/\">loves but doesn\u2019t desire you<\/a>. If you\u2019re unhappy with your sex life and you believe this is the reason, there\u2019s plenty you can do.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Concentrarsi sull'approfondimento dell'intimit\u00e0<\/strong> con il vostro partner parlando con lui con empatia e senza giudicarlo. Dite loro come vi sentite e ascoltate ci\u00f2 che hanno da dire.<\/p>\n<p>Esprimere le proprie esigenze \u00e8 il modo migliore per soddisfarle. Se voi e il vostro partner siete <strong>entrambi disposti a lavorare<\/strong> sulla vostra relazione, questo problema pu\u00f2 essere risolto.<\/p>\n<h2>Come aiutare la vostra relazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158587\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room.jpg\" alt=\"coppia in camera\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-the-room-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Come affrontare la situazione <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quando-lintimita-si-interrompe-in-una-relazione\/\">quando l'intimit\u00e0 cessa?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Il sesso \u00e8 sano.<\/strong> Migliora il benessere generale, aumenta la salute cardiovascolare e riduce lo stress. D'altra parte, tutti questi benefici per la salute sono assenti quando la vita sessuale \u00e8 fonte di ansia.<\/p>\n<h3>L'intimit\u00e0 \u00e8 fondamentale<\/h3>\n<p>If you can pinpoint the reason why you and your partner aren\u2019t having sex, it becomes much easier to work on this issue. When there are other issues affecting your sexual activity, first work on solving them.<\/p>\n<p>Si tenga presente, tuttavia, che <strong>una relazione sentimentale pu\u00f2 essere sana e felice anche senza sesso,<\/strong> if both partners are okay with it. A sexless relationship doesn\u2019t mean a relationship without intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 a questo che si riduce tutto: all'intimit\u00e0. <strong>L'intimit\u00e0 \u00e8 la vicinanza tra le persone in una relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re intimate with someone, <strong>potete essere vulnerabili e aperti<\/strong> con loro. Significa che potete parlare con il vostro partner e lavorare sui problemi di fondo, sui suoi e sui vostri atteggiamenti verso il sesso, sui vostri pensieri, sentimenti e convinzioni.<\/p>\n<p>It means that there\u2019s a<strong> la disponibilit\u00e0 di entrambe le parti a lavorare sui problemi della vostra relazione<\/strong> e fare in modo che entrambi siate felici in esso.<\/p>\n<p>Secondo<a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/article\/10.1007\/s10508-015-0672-4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> un articolo in Archives of Sexual Behavior volume 46<\/a>, la pubblicazione ufficiale dell'Accademia Internazionale di Ricerca sul Sesso,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen it comes to feelings of marital satisfaction, therefore, a satisfying sex life and a warm interpersonal climate appear to matter more than does a greater frequency of sexual intercourse.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Coltivare un'intimit\u00e0 sessuale e non sessuale che vada bene per entrambi \u00e8 fondamentale per una relazione sana. Ci sono molti <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-cose-intime-invece-del-sesso\/\">cose intime da fare al posto del sesso<\/a>, but when it\u2019s as important to help each other meet your sexual needs as well.<\/p>\n<h3>Risvegliare e mantenere il desiderio<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158591\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately.jpg\" alt=\"coppia di innamorati che si bacia appassionatamente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-in-love-kissing-passionately-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ricerca pubblicata in <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1177\/1948550612457185\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">un articolo in Social Psychological and Personality Science journal, volume 4, numero 3<\/a> fornisce i risultati di una ricerca sulla forza comunitaria nell'aspetto sessuale di una relazione. Si afferma che <strong>&#8220;being motivated to meet a partner\u2019s sexual needs sustains sexual desire in long-term romantic relationships.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Che cosa significa e che cos'\u00e8 la forza comunitaria?<\/p>\n<h4>Forza comunitaria<\/h4>\n<p>Motivation to meet your partner&#8217;s needs is called \u201ccommunal strength.\u201d This implies <strong>dare al partner ci\u00f2 di cui ha bisogno senza aspettarsi che ricambi nella stessa misura.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to note that this is different from prioritizing your partner\u2019s needs without considering your own, but about the<strong> equilibrio tra il rispondere alle loro esigenze e l'affermare le proprie.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 gi\u00e0 stato dimostrato che le persone con una maggiore forza comunitaria si sentono bene nel dare al partner e di conseguenza hanno relazioni pi\u00f9 felici. In altre parole, <strong>Fare cose per il proprio partner senza tenere un conteggio rende una relazione felice.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Although communal giving isn&#8217;t about being giving because you expect something in return, <strong>communal motivation also implies that it&#8217;s mutual.<\/strong> People who are motivated to meet their partner\u2019s needs reasonably expect their partners to be motivated to meet their needs as well.<\/p>\n<p>Quando un partner \u00e8 comunitario e l'altro ne approfitta, <strong>il partner che d\u00e0 dovrebbe smettere di dare<\/strong> o riconsiderare la relazione. Le relazioni veramente felici sono quelle in cui entrambi i partner danno senza tenere il conto.<\/p>\n<h4>Forza comune sessuale<\/h4>\n<p>La ricerca citata ha rilevato che le persone con un alto livello di forza sessuale comune<strong> godere delle loro esperienze sessuali<\/strong> pi\u00f9, sentire di pi\u00f9 <strong>soddisfazione relazionale<\/strong> e <strong>mantenere il desiderio sessuale<\/strong> nel tempo nelle relazioni a lungo termine.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando entrambi i partner sono reciprocamente reattivi e motivati, ne traggono vantaggio.<\/strong> They go out of their way to meet their partner&#8217;s needs without forgetting their own in the process.<\/p>\n<p>Avere un partner che soddisfa le vostre esigenze vi fa sentire pi\u00f9 felici nella relazione e pi\u00f9 impegnati nei suoi confronti. Naturalmente, questo vale solo <strong>when it\u2019s mutual.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s say your partner loves a restaurant you don\u2019t particularly like, but don\u2019t really hate. Going to that restaurant isn\u2019t ideal for you, but your partner loves it so much that<strong> la loro felicit\u00e0 compensa i sentimenti negativi<\/strong> che avete sul ristorante.<\/p>\n<p>Al vostro partner, invece, piace dormire con la finestra aperta, ma siccome tendete a raffreddarvi, la chiudono comunque prima di andare a letto, perch\u00e9 per loro il vostro comfort \u00e8 pi\u00f9 importante di una leggera preferenza.<\/p>\n<h4>Come si applica alla vostra vita sessuale?<\/h4>\n<p>Significa: fate sesso comunque.<\/p>\n<p>An example of sexual communal strength would be having sex when your partner suggests even if you\u2019re not feeling desire at the moment. It\u2019s not about doing something you don\u2019t actually want to do but feel pressured to.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s about doing things that will make your partner happy but not at your own expense.<\/strong> Your needs matter as much and communal strength is about figuring out how to meet your partner\u2019s needs without ignoring your own.<\/p>\n<p>When you engage in sexual activity with your partner even if you aren\u2019t already aroused, <strong>I preliminari, l'esplorazione dell'altro e il piacere di stare insieme vi porteranno <\/strong><strong>l\u00ec<\/strong> la maggior parte del tempo.<\/p>\n<p>If they don\u2019t and you decide that you want to stop, that\u2019s also a part of it. At that point, your partner should choose to meet your needs because, <strong>in questo momento, contano di pi\u00f9.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Having sex even if you\u2019re not feeling burning passion at the moment has all the benefits of sex and both of you enjoy it. This is why the result of sexual communal strength is increased and sustained desire \u2013<strong> vi insegna a risvegliarla invece di aspettare che arrivi da sola.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Comunicare i propri sentimenti e bisogni con empatia e comprensione vi aiuter\u00e0 ad arrivare al punto in cui potrete trovare la forza comune di entrambi.<\/p>\n<h2>3 passi per ravvivare la vostra vita sessuale<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-158586\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che si china su una donna per baciarla\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-leaning-over-a-woman-to-kiss-her-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve read the article this far, what follows is already clear to you, but here it is anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Per raggiungere la soddisfazione sessuale, ci\u00f2 che conta \u00e8 una comunicazione onesta ed efficace, l'intimit\u00e0 e assicurarsi che il sesso avvenga davvero.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Comunicare<\/h3>\n<p>Non vi sentite a vostro agio a parlare di sesso o siete impacciati quando cercate di affrontare l'argomento con il vostro partner? Anche se \u00e8 cos\u00ec, dovreste comunque trovare il coraggio di farlo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Condividete i vostri bisogni e desideri e ascoltate il vostro partner quando vi parla dei suoi.<\/strong> Open up to each other and show curiosity without judgment. When problems arise, don\u2019t wait to bring them up. Learn about each other.<\/p>\n<p>Se parlare di sesso \u00e8 particolarmente difficile, l'aiuto di un sessuologo o di un terapeuta sessuale pu\u00f2 essere molto utile per iniziare.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Fare del sesso una priorit\u00e0<\/h3>\n<p>Quando la vita diventa frenetica, purtroppo il sesso viene spesso dimenticato. Dopo una giornata intensa, l'unica cosa che si vuole fare \u00e8 dormire e il tempo per l'attivit\u00e0 sessuale non arriva mai.<strong> Se volete fare pi\u00f9 sesso, trovate il tempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>One solution is to have a set time at the frequency that works for both partners. Planning sex might not seem that romantic, but it\u2019s much more romantic than feeling sexually dissatisfied.<\/p>\n<p>For example, you can decide to have sex once a week and then clear your schedule to accommodate it. It\u2019s <strong>un promemoria per non trascurare questo aspetto della vostra relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s something to look forward to between sessions, but also doesn\u2019t have to be the only time you have sex.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Esplorare l'intimit\u00e0<\/h3>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t have to mean learning how to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-regole-in-camera-da-letto-per-ravvivare-la-vostra-vita-sessuale\/\">vivacizzare la vostra vita sessuale<\/a> utilizzando giocattoli sessuali o nuove posizioni, anche se potrebbe.<\/p>\n<p>Per una vita sessuale felice e una relazione sana, \u00e8 necessario coltivare tutti i tipi di intimit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Quando la frequenza sessuale diminuisce, <strong>intimit\u00e0 fisica non sessuale<\/strong> spesso diminuisce. Oltre a fare sesso, coccolatevi, baciatevi e tenetevi per mano.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t neglect <strong>intimit\u00e0 emotiva<\/strong> either. Share your feelings, support each other and don\u2019t be afraid to be vulnerable.<\/p>\n<h2>Per riassumere<\/h2>\n<p>Quanto tempo \u00e8 troppo lungo senza sesso in una relazione? Quando si tratta della propria relazione, <strong>solo tu conosci la risposta<\/strong> e speriamo che questo articolo vi abbia aiutato a trovarlo.<\/p>\n<p>Se voi e il vostro partner siete d'accordo, la frequenza sessuale ideale \u00e8 quella che soddisfa entrambi.<\/p>\n<p>If there\u2019s a difference in the levels of desire for sexual activity, you can examine the possible reasons <strong>until you find what non-sexual needs aren\u2019t being met in your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Creare una relazione in cui entrambi i partner<strong> focus on meeting the other person\u2019s emotional, physical and sexual needs without compromising their own<\/strong> \u00e8 la chiave per sostenere il desiderio e la felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>La cosa pi\u00f9 importante in tutti gli scenari \u00e8 <strong>comunicazione e compassione.<\/strong> Questo problema pu\u00f2 far nascere o distruggere la vostra relazione, quindi fate molta attenzione a collaborare con il vostro partner.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Quanto tempo \u00e8 troppo lungo senza sesso in una relazione Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162428\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Before you can figure out how long is too long without sex in a relationship, think about why you&#8217;re asking this question. The answer largely depends on your reason. Do you or your partner a) believe that a certain weekly\/monthly\/yearly quota you must fulfill to have a satisfactory sex life exists, or b) feel unhappy&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":158588,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-158582","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/How-Long-Is-Too-Long-Without-Sex-In-A-Relationship-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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