{"id":15958,"date":"2020-06-07T13:17:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T13:17:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15958"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:47:07","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:47:07","slug":"lettera-aperta-luomo-non-sara-mai-mio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lettera-aperta-luomo-non-sara-mai-mio\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera aperta all'uomo che non sar\u00e0 mai mio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non me l'aspettavo proprio. Come potevo sapere che avresti significato cos\u00ec tanto per me? <\/span><\/p>\n

Come potevo non innamorarmi dei tuoi occhi scintillanti quando mi guardavi, del tuo sorriso perfetto e dolce e dei tuoi tocchi che mi facevano sentire come non mi ero mai sentito prima?<\/span><\/p>\n

I admit it\u2014<\/i><\/b>Mi sono innamorato di te<\/i><\/b><\/a>, senza nemmeno saperlo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Mi sono innamorata di te cos\u00ec tanto che ho perso completamente me stessa nel tentativo di farmi notare da te. E per tutto il tempo mi sono rifiutato di credere che non saresti mai stato mio. Sognavo ad occhi aperti su di noi e sulla nostra perfetta vita futura.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensavo che ci saremmo sposati, avremmo avuto dei figli e avremmo vissuto per sempre felici e contenti.<\/span><\/p>\n

I thought that you are what I have been seeking for such a long time and that you will never disappoint me. But you did. And it broke my heart into pieces so small that it can\u2019t be fixed anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sono rimasto con il cuore sanguinante, implorandoti di guardarmi e di guarirmi con un solo tocco.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I was begging you to stay with me because my pride didn\u2019t mean anything to me compared to my love for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

I<\/span> was ready to do anything for the man of my dreams. And I didn\u2019t care what others will say about that as long as I was happy. The thing was that I couldn\u2019t get what I craved the most because you didn\u2019t feel even half of what I felt.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know that I was thinking about you the whole day and that I would totally lose myself when you would pass near me. <\/span><\/p>\n

With every word from your mouth, I was melting, even if it was just \u2018hi\u2019 while you were passing by. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ogni volta che ti vedevo, il mio cuore cominciava a battere pi\u00f9 forte e mi sentivo come se stessi per svenire.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Ero cos\u00ec nervoso nel cercare di fare colpo su di te, ma non sono mai riuscito a raggiungerti abbastanza profondamente perch\u00e9 tu mi prendessi in considerazione.<\/i><\/b>. <\/span><\/p>\n

For you, I was just a cute girl that you would have fun with when your wife wasn\u2019t there. <\/span><\/p>\n

E sai qual \u00e8 stata la cosa peggiore? Mi accontentavo di avere solo un po' di te.<\/span><\/p>\n

Era meglio avere un pezzo di te che non averti affatto. E questo funzionava anche per te. Mi avevi quando volevi e io mi comportavo come se fosse la mia ultima volta ogni volta che stavo con te. <\/span><\/p>\n

Too bad that I didn\u2019t know that you will never be mine\u2014not because it wasn\u2019t possible but because you didn\u2019t want that. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t think about me as someone you can spend the rest of your life with. <\/span><\/p>\n

You just wanted to have me when you wanted and you didn\u2019t think about my needs. And my only need wasn\u2019t that I sleep with you, hug you or kiss you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Il mio bisogno essenziale era quello di averti come migliore amico, anima gemella e met\u00e0 migliore di me.<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Volevo che tu combattessi per me<\/span><\/a>, but you couldn\u2019t even do that. You were a coward for making me fall for you, knowing that you would never reciprocate with the same emotions. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hai visto una grande opportunit\u00e0 e l'hai colta senza nemmeno chiedermi cosa volessi. E io ho aspettato<\/span>il vostro amore. Solo questo. Ma non hai visto quanto ero straordinaria.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see my fun spirit, my cheerful temperament and my support for you when you needed it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non hai visto tutte le cose belle di me perch\u00e9 eri interessato solo a esplorare il mio corpo invece del mio cuore. <\/span><\/p>\n

And the main problem was that we didn\u2019t want the same things.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Eravamo due mondi diversi che non avrebbero mai potuto farcela.<\/i><\/b> And even if I don\u2019t know why our paths crossed, Sono ancora felice di averti incontrato<\/a>. Non per colpa tua, ma per la lezione di vita che ho imparato mentre ero con te.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho imparato che il modo in cui mi hai trattato non \u00e8 il modo in cui un uomo innamorato dovrebbe trattare la sua donna.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ritratto<\/p>\n

Being in love is much more than that\u2014much more love, affection, and support.<\/span><\/p>\n

It means not trying to mold your lady into someone who she doesn\u2019t want to be, just so you could be happy. It is accepting the one you love just the way they are and not trying to change them unless they want it.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you ever read this letter, I want you to know that I was crazy in love with you and I don\u2019t regret that. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, no matter how hard you try, you really can\u2019t control your feelings. You can just go with the flow or let everything go.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho provato entrambe le opzioni e mi \u00e8 piaciuta di pi\u00f9 la seconda. <\/span>Quando ti lascio andare<\/span><\/a>Finalmente ho trovato me stesso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finalmente ho ricominciato ad amare me stessa e, ad essere sincera, questo \u00e8 l'unico amore di cui ho bisogno.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Lettera<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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