{"id":159752,"date":"2022-11-14T20:04:57","date_gmt":"2022-11-14T20:04:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159752"},"modified":"2023-02-09T08:01:31","modified_gmt":"2023-02-09T08:01:31","slug":"domande-da-porre-a-un-truffatore-di-storie-damore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/domande-da-porre-a-un-truffatore-di-storie-damore\/","title":{"rendered":"18 domande rivelatrici da porre a un truffatore di storie d'amore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Truffe di incontri online<\/em> e le frodi sono diventate sempre pi\u00f9 comuni su Internet. Succede praticamente ogni giorno a centinaia di persone in tutto il mondo.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And it\u2019s not that those people are stupid or naive. It\u2019s simply that scammers have become genuine online <\/strong>artisti della truffa<\/strong> e professionisti.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per proteggervi, ho deciso di raccogliere queste domande rivelatrici da porre a un truffatore di appuntamenti e ho scritto questa guida per aiutarvi a smascherare ogni volta un truffatore di appuntamenti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actually, you shouldn\u2019t only expose them, you need to outsmart them, and I\u2019ve left you a few tips for that too. My only goal is to make you online dating scams-proof, and I hope I\u2019ll achieve that with this article!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10 domande di riscaldamento da porre a un <\/strong>Truffatore romantico<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t immediately hit them with some tough, exposing questions. \u00c8 necessario riscaldarsi con un po' di regolarit\u00e0,<\/em> <\/em>domande personali<\/em><\/a> in modo da poter eseguire un <\/em>controllo dei precedenti<\/em> mentre loro pensano ingenuamente che voi vogliate solo conoscerli meglio.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ecco quindi le domande pi\u00f9 comuni che le persone dimenticano di porre ai loro potenziali appuntamenti sui siti di incontri e che possono aiutare a smascherare un potenziale truffatore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Qual \u00e8 il vostro <\/strong>secondo nome<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll agree that this isn\u2019t a very common question people ask each other when they start texting and Conoscersi meglio<\/a>. But that\u2019s the point, to catch them by surprise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They may come up with a name immediately \u2013 that\u2019s not difficult. <\/strong>However, you need to ask them a few more questions about their middle name, and you\u2019ll see how nervous it\u2019ll make them if they\u2019re lying to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ad esempio, si pu\u00f2 chiedere loro come hanno avuto quel nome, chi glielo ha dato o qual \u00e8 il significato di quel nome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they take some time before replying, it\u2019s a <\/em>bandiera rossa che<\/em> cercavano il significato del nome su Google e cercavano di inventare una storia su come avevano ottenuto il loro nome. <\/em>secondo nome<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Quanti anni ha?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Okay, I know what you\u2019ll say now. It\u2019s easy to make up a number and lie about your age to some unknown person online.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, there are some ways you can figure out whether the person you\u2019re texting is really lying about their age or not. For example, you can check whether that number matches what they wrote on their dating app profile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Dove abita?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Questa domanda appare inizialmente molto comune quando due persone si stanno conoscendo<\/a>. Tuttavia, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che si pu\u00f2 scoprire molto da esso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re dealing with a <\/strong>truffatore di incontri<\/strong>, they\u2019ll probably choose a different city than yours because they don\u2019t want you to know you live in the same city.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, when they say in which city they live, you should Google it and pretend you know a lot about it because you\u2019ve visited it or went on a holiday there once.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Oh, conosce (inserire nome)?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Se dicono di vivere in una piccola citt\u00e0 o in una zona della citt\u00e0 che conoscete, potete chiedere loro di un personaggio famoso che vive l\u00ec o di alcuni edifici famosi, ristoranti, ecc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they don\u2019t know that person or building, it\u2019s a <\/em>bandiera rossa<\/em> they\u2019re lying to you.<\/em> Ma \u00e8 necessario pensare a qualcosa che sia noto a quasi tutti coloro che vivono in quella citt\u00e0\/area.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Dove \u00e8 nato e dove \u00e8 cresciuto?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s okay to ask someone you\u2019re getting to know where they currently live. However, it\u2019s a bit strange to ask them where they were born or spent their childhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you notice that the other person avoids that question or misses some details when talking about their childhood, it\u2019s a potential <\/em>bandiera rossa<\/em> you\u2019re dealing with a <\/em>truffatore d'amore<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Dove ha terminato <\/strong>scuola superiore<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

In realt\u00e0, dovreste chiedere loro quando e dove hanno terminato la scuola superiore. Quando si ottengono questi dettagli, si pu\u00f2 andare su quel sito <\/strong>scuola superiore<\/strong> e chiedere in giro informazioni su di loro.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If it\u2019s a real person, someone there will know something about them. And this question shouldn\u2019t make them suspect anything because it\u2019s just a common question people ask when they\u2019re getting to know someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Che lavoro fa?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

The truth is, if it\u2019s not un profilo falso<\/a>, this question may be strange to them. They may start thinking that you want to know about their finances because you\u2019re into material things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, if you have already encountered a few red flags that you\u2019re texting with a romance scammer, you need to ask them this question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se dicono di lavorare presso <\/em>McDonald\u2019s<\/em>si dovrebbe chiedere loro dove, quale <\/em>McDonald\u2019s<\/em> e andare l\u00ec a chiedere informazioni agli altri dipendenti. <\/em>If they say they don\u2019t know anyone by that name, you can consider yourself a potential victim of a romance scammer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t just allow them to mention what they do, what their business occupation is because they may lie about it.<\/strong> For example, if they say they\u2019re an oil rig worker, you need to bombard them with a few follow-up questions that will reveal more info about their job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Qual \u00e8 lo stato attuale della sua relazione?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019ll probably say they\u2019re single because otherwise, it would be awkward if they have a dating site profile. However, you need to interrogate them about their love life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How many partners have they had, when and why did they break up with their ex-partner, what kind of people are they into, and what qualities does their future partner need to have…<\/em> All those questions will help you realize what kind of person you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Avete animali domestici?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

This is a very common question people ask when they want to get to know someone. However, these kinds of details from their private life may really help you figure out whether they\u2019re making things up about themselves or if they are who they say they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And don\u2019t allow them to answer your question with a simple yes\/no answer.<\/strong> Chiedete loro ulteriori dettagli, come ad esempio dove hanno preso l'animale, come si chiama e questo tipo di domande.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Com'\u00e8 la vostra giornata?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll ask them this question just to find out more information about them, how they spend their day, where they go, where they eat, and those kinds of things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They may lie about all those things, but they may also tell the truth because they won\u2019t think you\u2019re asking them these questions because you have doubts about their true identity.<\/em> E questi dettagli sulla loro vita privata possono aiutarvi a rivelare la loro vera identit\u00e0 e a smascherarli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vedi anche: Un truffatore pu\u00f2 innamorarsi della sua vittima? La verit\u00e0 svelata<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8 domande esplicative da porre a un <\/strong>Truffatore romantico<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

After you\u2019re done with these regular warm-up questions, you should heat things by starting to ask some revealing questions. If you notice too many red flags in their answers, you\u2019re probably dealing with a fake dating profile, and you should block them before they scam you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Pu\u00f2 darmi il suo <\/strong>numero di telefono<\/strong> in modo da poter essere <\/strong>in contatto<\/strong> regolarmente?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re dealing with a romance scammer, they will probably make up an excuse not to give you their real phone number. If they\u2019re a professional <\/strong>artista della truffa<\/strong>, they may buy a new phone and a new number that they\u2019ll get rid of once they finish scamming you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, if they give you their phone number, you should send them a text message when they least expect it. And also, give them a call at an unusual time because it\u2019s a way to catch them in their lies \u2013 IF they\u2019re really lying to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. What\u2019s your <\/strong>famiglia come<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u00c8 necessario farli parlare della loro famiglia. Possono costituire un <\/strong>storia di fondo<\/strong> about their family, but they\u2019ll miss some details. <\/strong>That\u2019s why you need to focus on those precise details.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dovreste anche guardare le foto sul loro profilo e verificare se ci sono dei loro familiari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or, you can ask them to send you a few. If you think it\u2019s too weird to ask them that immediately, you can send them a pic of your family, and if their profile isn\u2019t fake, they\u2019ll probably reply with a photo of theirs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Chi \u00e8 il vostro preferito <\/strong>membro della famiglia<\/strong> e perch\u00e9?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

The point is to get the names of their family members, so if they\u2019re really a scammer, it\u2019ll be easier for you or the authorities to catch them through their family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dovreste farli parlare della loro famiglia e dei loro amici e cercare di ricordare o scrivere i nomi che menzionano. <\/strong>You can also search for their family members on social media platforms and see whether they\u2019re real or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Dove ha frequentato l'universit\u00e0?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Se la persona o il suo profilo dicono che si sono laureati, dovreste chiedere loro dove hanno frequentato l'universit\u00e0. Se menzionano <\/em>Harvard<\/em> o un'altra universit\u00e0 prestigiosa, potete verificarlo alla fonte o cercare il loro nome nell'elenco di quelle scuole.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Possiamo passare la nostra chat a <\/strong>Hangouts<\/strong>, Facebook o un altro <\/strong>sito di social media<\/strong> hai un profilo su?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to ask them whether they have any other social media profiles. Of course, before you ask them, you can do your own little search.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they\u2019re a true professional scammer, they might also have fake accounts on other <\/strong>piattaforme di social media<\/strong>. <\/strong>However, in most cases, they won\u2019t bother with those kinds of things, and they\u2019ll simply say they don\u2019t like social media sites or something like that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Possiamo <\/strong>video chat<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If they\u2019re a real person, this shouldn\u2019t be a problem for them, especially if you\u2019ve been texting for a while. On the contrary, they should be eager to see you on video.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the flip side, if they\u2019re a <\/em>truffatore di incontri<\/em>, they\u2019ll make up some excuse and avoid going on <\/em>video chat<\/em> con voi. <\/em>The reason is obvious: they don\u2019t want you to see their real face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. What are you doing right now? Send me a selfie \ud83d\ude0d<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Or, you can send them a selfie, and they\u2019ll do the same if they don\u2019t have anything to hide. On the other hand, if they send you a pic of an attractive person, and you realize instantly that the pic was taken by a professional, you should run it through the reverse image search on Google.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If it\u2019s a fake profile, and they\u2019re using photos from another person, they don\u2019t even have to be a scammer \u2013 they\u2019re already committing a felony.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Using someone else\u2019s photos without their consent is considered the same as stealing their identity, and it\u2019s a crime.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe they have another reason they\u2019re using pics from another person, and you should give them a chance to explain themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you notice they are still lying to you, you should immediately report their profile as a fake one and make sure the dating site knows they were using another person\u2019s identity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION \ud83d\udea8: When can we meet <\/strong>faccia a faccia<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

This is the most important question you need to ask them. And don\u2019t ever share any personal information about yourself before actually meeting them in person. Also, most importantly, don\u2019t send them your <\/em>conto corrente bancario<\/em> o denaro in qualsiasi modo finch\u00e9 non accettano di incontrarsi con voi.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se evitano di incontrarsi <\/strong>faccia a faccia<\/strong> and always have some lame excuse for why they can\u2019t, you can be sure that something is off with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Block their profile, forget that they ever existed in your life (even if it was only virtually), and move on. You definitely don\u2019t need those kinds of troubles in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Che cosa fa un <\/strong>Truffatore romantico<\/strong> Vuoi?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I truffatori di appuntamenti hanno obiettivi diversi, ma la maggior parte di loro vuole una cosa sola: i soldi, ovviamente. Il loro obiettivo principale \u00e8 ingannare le persone e convincerle a dar loro del denaro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si registrano su diversi <\/em>siti di incontri<\/em> sotto <\/em>profili falsi<\/em> e raggiungere persone diverse. <\/em>They make sure to gain their complete trust by texting them 24\/7 and getting to know them. Then they make sure the other person falls in love with them, and that\u2019s when their real operation starts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dicono di <\/strong>ti amo,<\/strong> e la cosa successiva che fanno \u00e8 chiedere il vostro <\/strong>conto corrente bancario<\/strong>.<\/strong> If that doesn\u2019t go well with their victim, they ask them to send them gift cards or make donations to unreliable sites or associations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re professional con artists who can make others believe in their sob stories or how they\u2019re head over heels in love with them, even though they\u2019ve never seen or met them in person. Then, they take as much money as they can from you and leave you completely heartbroken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Come si rivela un <\/strong>Truffatore romantico<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"persona<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Queste domande rivelatrici da porre a un truffatore d'amore vi aiuteranno sicuramente a smascherarlo e a scoprire le sue vere intenzioni. They\u2019ll probably have a <\/strong>storia di fondo<\/strong> for some of these questions, but they definitely won\u2019t be prepared to answer them all if they\u2019re indeed scammers.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Inoltre, si pu\u00f2 provare con <\/em>Verificato<\/em>, TruthFinder, Instant Checkmate e simili. <\/em>controllo dei precedenti<\/em> siti. <\/em>\u00c8 possibile utilizzare le foto che hanno sul loro profilo di incontri e scansionarle attraverso la ricerca inversa di immagini su Google.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In fin dei conti, se continuano a evitare di incontrarvi di persona, dovreste considerarlo un'enorme bandiera rossa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give them some time, but if they still don\u2019t want to go out with you, the only logical explanation is that they don\u2019t want you to reveal their true identity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Come superare in astuzia un <\/strong>Truffatore romantico<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

After you\u2019ve exposed a scammer, the next step is to plan how to outsmart them. You need to do everything in your power to make them go on a video call with you or meet with you face-to-face (even though I\u2019m pretty sure they\u2019ll never accept a meeting in person).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nel momento in cui si presentano, \u00e8 necessario scattare una foto, oppure un'idea ancora migliore sarebbe quella di registrare il vostro <\/strong>video chat<\/strong>\/chiamata.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il punto \u00e8 ottenere una prova della loro vera identit\u00e0. Una volta ottenuto ci\u00f2 che volete, potete divertirvi con loro e dirgli che sapete tutto della truffa romantica che stavano progettando.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tell them that you\u2019re going to report them to the authorities immediately with all the evidence you have against them. <\/em>Oh, do take another pic of them at that moment because I\u2019m sure their expression will be priceless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naturalmente, dovreste sempre denunciare alle autorit\u00e0 la truffa degli appuntamenti o qualsiasi altra truffa di cui abbiate le prove. Per essere pi\u00f9 precisi, dovreste segnalarlo alla Federal Trade Commission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Potete anche avvertire i servizi di incontri su cui il vostro truffatore ha dei profili che il loro profilo \u00e8 falso e che dovrebbero cancellarlo o rimuoverlo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Principali risultati<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Online dating sites are unfortunately full of fake identities and profiles. There are many dating scammers who operate on those kinds of sites and social media platforms, and it\u2019s impossible to catch them all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Truffe online<\/em> sono diventate una cosa normale e molte persone si sono imbattute in questo tipo di esperienze spiacevoli.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why I hope from the bottom of my heart that this list of personal questions to ask a romance scammer will help you expose those online dating scams and frauds. I would be eternally happy to know that I helped someone expose a scammer and saved them from a broken heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fate attenzione al mondo online!<\/strong>Pay attention to what you post on your social media sites, and don\u2019t ever reveal too much about yourself on dating apps. The moment you notice red flags about a person, do a background check on them or report them to the authorities immediately and let them do a check-up on them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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