{"id":159962,"date":"2022-11-10T22:07:58","date_gmt":"2022-11-10T22:07:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159962"},"modified":"2022-11-23T07:08:14","modified_gmt":"2022-11-23T07:08:14","slug":"quanto-tempo-si-deve-parlare-con-qualcuno-prima-di-uscire-con-qualcuno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/quanto-tempo-si-deve-parlare-con-qualcuno-prima-di-uscire-con-qualcuno\/","title":{"rendered":"Quanto tempo si dovrebbe parlare con qualcuno prima di uscire? (Una guida)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sappiamo subito quando una persona ci piace, ma ci piace abbastanza da iniziare a frequentarla?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The talking stage is all flowers and butterflies until you need to decide if it\u2019s time to take your relationship to the next level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, how long should you talk to someone before dating? A week? A month? Three months? Should you have \u201cthe talk\u201d the moment you start liking them, or should you go with the flow and trust the process?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se volete trovare il momento giusto, vi consiglio di leggere questo articolo e di seguire i consigli!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per quanto tempo si dovrebbe<\/strong> Parlare con qualcuno prima di uscire?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"fidanzato<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Well, don\u2019t be disappointed when I tell you that la risposta dipende<\/strong>perch\u00e9 dipende davvero da questo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In primo luogo, dipende da la seriet\u00e0 con cui si guarda alle relazioni<\/strong>. Una relazione \u00e8 per voi un impegno enorme? Volete intraprendere una relazione solo quando pensate che possa essere un buon partner?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or are you willing to make the relationship official and develop a deeper one? You can tell where I’m going with this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, how long should you talk to someone before dating doesn\u2019t only depend on you. It depends on anche l'altra persona<\/strong>. There are many things you should consider, and everyone\u2019s different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what are those things you should consider? Let\u2019s find out!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14 cose da tenere in considerazione<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"parlare<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It isn\u2019t easy for many of us to simply ease into a committed relationship. Of course, you can never be sure if you have found the right person if you don\u2019t spend enough time with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re all a little different on dating apps and social media than face-to-face. You only see the tip of the iceberg on the first date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ecco un elenco di cose da tenere a mente prima di uscire con qualcuno:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Sono abbastanza maturi?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

La maturit\u00e0 \u00e8 un aspetto importante quando si decide quanto tempo parlare con qualcuno prima di uscire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La maturit\u00e0 influenza la qualit\u00e0 della conversazione<\/strong> e quanto si prende sul serio quella persona.<\/strong> \u00c8 il fondamento di ogni relazione e matrimonio di successo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The level of trust, dependability, and support from your partner is defined by how mature they are. So, if you see that they aren\u2019t mature enough, it\u2019s best to wait a little longer or not make things official.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. O emotivamente stabile?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Emotional stability is also an important quality of a person. Everyone has some emotional damage, and nobody\u2019s perfect, but it\u2019s much easier with persone emotivamente stabili<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siete pronti a iniziare una relazione seria<\/a> with someone with anger issues, a lack of empathy, who never admits they\u2019re wrong, and who runs from their problems?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Potreste aspettare mesi per vedere direttamente questi tratti, e chi lo vuole? Cercate quindi di coglierli in piccoli atti e di leggere il pi\u00f9 possibile tra le righe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Si pu\u00f2 dire che ci si pu\u00f2 fidare di loro?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"giovane<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

S\u00ec, La fiducia \u00e8 qualcosa che costruiamo<\/a>, and you can\u2019t simply trust someone you just met.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, vi sono alcune situazioni in cui si potrebbe concludere che they aren\u2019t trustworthy<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you catch them changing little details of a story they\u2019ve already told you or if they keep hiding their profession, past, friends, or any other significant aspect of their life, it\u2019s a sign they aren\u2019t trustworthy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s best not to start an exclusive relationship with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. E le loro relazioni precedenti?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Our past doesn\u2019t define us \u2013 however, ci forma.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although talking about previous relationships is a big no if you\u2019re looking for a new romance, if you\u2019re spending time with them, it\u2019s natural for this topic to arise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c8 possibile individuare se they\u2019re <\/a>over their ex through this conversation. Also, a good trait for a potential partner is if they don\u2019t talk badly about their exes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although not a rule, it\u2019s a strong indication they won\u2019t talk badly about you and keep all<\/strong> i vostri segreti per loro stessi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Quali sono i loro interessi di vita?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"il<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

La bellezza della vita \u00e8 nella sua diversit\u00e0<\/em>. It is good that everyone has different interests, but if you want to start a new relationship with someone, it\u2019s best to have similar interests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The phrase \u2018\u2018opposite attracts\u2019\u2019 is a myth. Gli interessi comuni sono un'altra base importante per una relazione di successo.<\/strong>e tutti gli esperti di relazioni lo confermeranno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

With common interests, you\u2019ll be able to have more fun together because you like the <\/strong>stessi hobby, cibo e intrattenimento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This will give you a better insight into their personality and make things easier. So, ask yourself whether you are ready to have the exclusivity talk with someone you don\u2019t share any interests with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Avete conversazioni di alta qualit\u00e0?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Le conversazioni di alta qualit\u00e0 sono spesso il riflesso della vostra maturit\u00e0, interessi e valori comuni.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They are a sign that you\u2019ll have una relazione sana<\/a> con loro perch\u00e9 la comunicazione sar\u00e0 aperta, e you\u2019ll form a strong connection<\/strong> con loro fin dall'inizio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you come home after every date and feel like that person gave you a good brain massage, congratulations, it\u2019s time to talk about the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Vi rispettano finora?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t need a relationship coach to tell you how important respect is in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unpleasant comments about you and your loved ones, constant lies, comparing you with others, and flirting with others are signs they don\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se si individua segnali di un partner irrispettoso<\/a> at the beginning, then it\u2019s obvious you shouldn\u2019t have the exclusivity talk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Siete amici?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Quando si decide quanto tempo parlare con una persona prima di uscire, \u00e8 importante sapere se siete stati amici in precedenza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se avete iniziato come amici e dopo qualche tempo avete capito di provare qualcosa l'uno per l'altro, it\u2019s normal that you won’t wait too long.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You already know each other quite well, and now it\u2019s time to get to know them better from a romantic perspective. So feel free to make the relationship exclusive any time you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Do you love each other\u2019s energies?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, you just know they\u2019re the right person. It\u2019s il vostro istinto<\/a> that tells you they\u2019re the one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe there isn\u2019t something specific you love about that person; it\u2019s just that you feel like you\u2019re always in the right frame of mind to spend time with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you felt a deja-vu feeling when you just met, an instant click, you finish each other’s sentences, and have a synchronized body language \u2014 that\u2019s it, feel free to make things official.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Avete gli stessi valori?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The same values are a good sign that it\u2019s time to stop the \u2018\u2018solo casualmente <\/em>uscire<\/em> sometimes\u2019<\/em>\u2019 and start making them an important part of your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having similar values will keep you connected when things are going well in your relationship and when they’re not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I valori possono essere modificati, ma non alterati. Vi danno la vostra identit\u00e0.<\/strong> Le coppie che non hanno gli stessi valori saranno sempre deluse e risentite l'una dell'altra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. C'\u00e8 passione nella vostra relazione?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Passion is not the only thing that defines if you\u2019re ready to start dating someone, but it matters quite a lot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll know you\u2019re passionate about them if you can\u2019t wait to see them again and if you constantly think of them and look forward to a future together, even if you just met.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you can be vulnerable around them without feeling that they might hurt you, it\u2019s a jackpot because you\u2019re already inconsciamente impegnati nella relazione.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Quali sono gli argomenti da evitare?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s best to avoid certain topics, which most often refers to argomenti politici, umorismo nero e tutto ci\u00f2 che potrebbero trovare inappropriato.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you meet someone new, you don\u2019t know to what extent their humor goes. You may say something they\u2019ll find offensive, and because of this, they\u2019ll immediately cut you off, no matter how compatible you two are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The same goes for political topics and something they might take offense to. It\u2019s better to get to know someone and make certain statements after you\u2019ve made it clear you\u2019re on the same page.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Che dire di <\/strong>bandiere rosse<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Quando si inizia a parlare con qualcuno, ci si dimentica facilmente dei fattori di disturbo e delle bandiere rosse, perch\u00e9 l'eccitazione e il legame iniziale ci accecano.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se volete una relazione impegnata<\/a>\u00e8 necessario prestare attenzione alle bandiere rosse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some red flags should send you running for your life, but don\u2019t ignore your personal bandiere rosse<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anzi, non ignorateli mai because they\u2019ll hugely impact your further relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Sei un ripiego?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Se voi o il vostro potenziale partner avete appena rotto con qualcuno, l'ultima cosa che volete \u00e8 rimanere bloccati in una situazione malsana. relazione di rimbalzo<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know how they say you\u2019ll forget someone faster if you find someone new? Most of the time, this isn\u2019t the case.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you notice they talk about their ex constantly, compare you to them, and keep things superficial, it\u2019s a sign they aren\u2019t ready for a relationship, and you shouldn\u2019t talk about making things official.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando \u00e8 il momento giusto?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Solo voi saprete qual \u00e8 il momento giusto per rendere le cose ufficiali. Dipende da il vostro legame, gli interessi comuni, lo stato d'animo, se la vostra relazione \u00e8 stata finora a distanza.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There isn\u2019t even a rough rule that says: \u2018\u2018Okay, after these two months of talking, it\u2019s time to go official.\u2019\u2019<\/em> Se vedete che sono interessati a voi quanto voi a loro, sentitevi liberi di iniziare il discorso sulla relazione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most people say it\u2019s normal to make things official in the primo e secondo mese del <\/strong>palcoscenico parlante<\/strong>ma bisogna sempre tenere conto di tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 stato detto in precedenza nell'articolo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cosa succede se si inizia subito a uscire con qualcuno?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dating someone just after a few dates might turn out well, but most of the time, it doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you start a relationship right away, you don\u2019t know who you\u2019re dating. It might turn out they\u2019re the complete opposite of what they\u2019ve told you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe you\u2019re only a rebound to them, or they\u2019re trying to use you and then break up with you. There are thousands of possibilities, and none of them are good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s best to get to know them in general, their past, friends, and interests, and then decide if they\u2019re a good match for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cosa succede se si aspetta troppo?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Se aspettate troppo a lungo e nessuno dei due inizia a parlare di relazione, potrebbe sembrare che you aren\u2019t interested in one another.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It may become stressful and damaging to your relationship, even though you really like each other. That\u2019s why potrebbero iniziare a frequentare qualcuno<\/a> un'altra persona che \u00e8 pronta a iniziare una nuova relazione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe they won\u2019t even find someone new, but what then? Are you ready to essere nella <\/strong>palcoscenico parlante<\/strong> all'infinito?<\/strong> This is emotionally draining, and in the end, you\u2019ll ruin something that started great.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per riassumere<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Quanto tempo si dovrebbe parlare con qualcuno prima di uscire? Il depends on you, the person you\u2019re talking to, and your connection.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There isn\u2019t an exact, universal time you should wait for. We\u2019re all different, and we all have our preferences, needs, and ways of thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, dovreste ignorare qualsiasi periodo. Ci\u00f2 che conta sono le esperienze che condividete, non il tempo trascorso con loro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Li avete visti arrabbiati, tristi, delusi, nel loro momento peggiore? Come hanno reagito quando erano gelosi e felici per voi? Sono compassionevoli? Per farla breve: don\u2019t count minutes, count moments.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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