{"id":159976,"date":"2022-11-10T22:12:25","date_gmt":"2022-11-10T22:12:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159976"},"modified":"2022-12-09T19:06:55","modified_gmt":"2022-12-09T19:06:55","slug":"segni-che-lei-dorme-in-giro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-lei-dorme-in-giro\/","title":{"rendered":"14 segni che lei va a letto con qualcuno: Come riconoscere un traditore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Getting cheated on is awful, but not knowing about it while it\u2019s happening doesn\u2019t make it any easier. In this case, ignorance is not bliss \u2013 Pi\u00f9 a lungo va avanti alle vostre spalle, pi\u00f9 il tradimento si far\u00e0 sentire quando lo scoprirete.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some cheaters never get caught because their partners are determined to stay in the dark. But even if you don\u2019t want to know, there\u2019s always that gut feeling drowning you in uncertainty and doubt. A relationship in which one person is sleeping around isn’t happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you suspect that you might have a cheating girlfriend but you can\u2019t be sure, pay attention to the following warning signs she sleeps around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quali sono i segni che lei <\/strong>Dormire intorno<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Quando la tua ragazza inizia a tradirti, i segnali di allarme potrebbero non essere immediatamente evidenti <\/strong>\u2013 at first, her behavior changes, but the way she acts doesn’t seem like a big deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pi\u00f9 si protrae, pi\u00f9 diventa facile individuarlo. Si abitua a non essere presa, quindi smette di essere attenta come all'inizio. <\/strong>At the point when it first occurs to you that your girlfriend just slept with someone else, it’s probably not the first time that it has happened. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questi sono i segni che lei dorme in giro<\/a> si possono individuare subito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. She’s emotionally distant<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Emotional distance in a relationship can occur for various reasons. On its own, it’s not a sign of cheating, but it’s almost sempre presente insieme all'infedelt\u00e0<\/strong>. It’s often the reason why people start to suspect their partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You’ll be able to easily recognize emotional distance because it’s something you can feel.<\/strong> If your girlfriend is withdrawing from you, acts indifferent and doesn’t show you affection, she’s becoming emotionally distant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if she’s not cheating on you, emotional distance is a red flag that something is not right in your relationship and that it needs work.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. She’s pulling away<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Oltre a creare una distanza emotiva, un traditore cercher\u00e0 di allontanarsi anche in altri modi. <\/strong>She\u2019ll avoid you and try to escape from you whenever she has the chance. The reasons for this are guilt, shame and fear of getting caught.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you approach her, she\u2019ll suddenly remember she has something else she has to do. She\u2019ll stop waiting for you to eat together. If you\u2019re in a new relationship and still not very close, she\u2019ll make sure it stays that way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s getting all the companionship she needs from other men<\/strong>. Because she knows that what she\u2019s doing is wrong, she can\u2019t even look at you, let alone admit it to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

RELATIVO:<\/strong> <\/strong>15 fatti psicologici su una donna che tradisce<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. She’s acting weird<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If something seems off with her, it\u2019s a good sign that it is. Something is going on. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, if she\u2019s acting strange, potrebbe essere in un momento di crisi e non tradirti realmente<\/strong>. Nessuno di questi segnali \u00e8 di per s\u00e9 una prova definitiva, ma se ne notate molti, i vostri sospetti potrebbero essere giustificati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she\u2019s irritabile<\/strong> e litiga con voi senza motivo, se sembra che sul bordo<\/strong> and ready to snap at any moment, or if she\u2019s difensivo<\/strong> ogni volta che le si pone una domanda, she\u2019s probably hiding something<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pay attention to other signs to be able to tell for sure whether or not she\u2019s colpevole di imbroglio<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. She’s obviously lying to you<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

One of the reasons why you might start to suspect that your girlfriend is hiding something is the way she\u2019s ovviamente<\/em> mentire a voi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando le si fa una domanda che potrebbe essere in qualche modo legata alla sua relazione e le sue risposte sono un po' anche<\/em> vago, potrebbe essere a sign that she\u2019s lying<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, she says she was out with a coworker, but she won\u2019t tell you who even if you ask. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or when she\u2019s talking to a man on the phone and you ask who it was, she says it\u2019s a male friend, but doesn\u2019t give you a name. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you ask her where she was after she comes home late, she\u2019ll have an alibi prepared, but it will sound off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes you can just tell that someone is lying, but if you\u2019re having trouble with it, here are some consigli su come riconoscere la disonest\u00e0<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per capire quando qualcuno vi sta mentendo, basta seguire queste tre fasi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Find her baseline<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Everyone has their normal behavior \u2013 their usual body language, facial expressions, tone of voice, etc. To be able to tell that someone is hiding something, you must first know what they’re usually like.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This shouldn’t be a problem because you already know what your girlfriend is like and how she acts when she’s not lying to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Look for <\/strong>bandiere rosse<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

When you know what someone’s baseline is, cercare le discrepanze e le modifiche<\/strong>. Non esistono segni universali di menzogna che tutti manifestano, ma ce ne sono di comuni che potrebbero fare la loro comparsa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Keep in mind that they are only suspicious if they’re different from the way she normally acts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Occhi:<\/strong> mancanza di contatto visivo, ammiccamento eccessivo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bocca:<\/strong> sorrisi finti, labbra serrate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Microespressioni:<\/strong> improvvisi scorci di veri sentimenti che si manifestano sul suo volto per una frazione di secondo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Corpo:<\/strong> agitarsi, sudare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Look for multiple signs<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Similarly to how it’s impossible to deduce that someone is cheating on you if they change only one thing in their behavior, it’s also best to cercare molteplici segni di menzogna<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If her body language is completely different than usual, she’s probably hiding something, but if she’s not much different from her baseline, then it’s probably something else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. She\u2019s manipulating you<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Se la vostra ragazza vi tradisce, she\u2019ll do everything she can to stop you from finding out.<\/strong> It\u2019s a given that she\u2019ll be lying, but there are many other ways of manipulation she might resort to if she\u2019s trying to get you off her trail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alcuni comportamenti manipolativi<\/a> che potreste incontrare sono:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Crying.<\/strong> Scoppia a piangere quando provate a parlarle di qualcosa che confermerebbe i vostri sospetti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Shaming. <\/strong>\u201cHow could you even think that I\u2019d cheat on you? You\u2019re a horrible person.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Emotional blackmail.<\/strong> \u201cIf you really loved me, you\u2019d never accuse me of something like that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Blame-shifting<\/strong>. \u201cMaybe you\u2019re the one who\u2019s cheating.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Gaslighting.<\/strong> \u201cYou\u2019re paranoid, I\u2019d never do something like that. Don\u2019t be crazy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E anche dopo averla beccata a tradire<\/a>, she\u2019ll try to manipulate you into thinking that what you saw was all in your head.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. She’s less interested in sex<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

La maggior parte dei traditori diventa meno interessata al sesso con il proprio partner dopo aver iniziato ad andare a letto con altri. Questo perch\u00e9 Per le persone che tradiscono, il sesso in coppia \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 eccitante del sesso in una relazione d'amore.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most of the time, people who cheat don\u2019t really appreciate their partners, and their view of cheating reflects that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Non tutti i traditori sono uguali, quindi, a seconda della persona, potrebbero tradire per uno o pi\u00f9 motivi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 She doesn’t think of sex as a big deal<\/strong>, so she doesn’t understand why you would be hurt if you discovered that she was cheating. Keep in mind that she’s still hiding her affair, which means that she knows that cheating is wrong, but she doesn\u2019t care enough not to do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 An opportunistic <\/strong>imbroglione<\/strong> cheats because she doesn’t see why she shouldn’t have sex with someone she’s attracted to if she has a chance. This kind of cheater can have sex with people without involving feelings and is okay with having one-night stands even while in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 If she<\/strong> <\/strong>necessita di un'attenzione costante<\/strong><\/a> dagli uomini<\/strong>, she’ll use them to get what she wants. This can lead to her cheating with a lot of guys. Her relationships with them are all about what she can get from them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 She might say that she’s in love with you, but if she’s cheating on you, ama solo quello che le dai<\/strong>. Maybe she believes that she loves you, but if she did, she’d think about your feelings too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Someone who ama l'emozione di muoversi di nascosto<\/strong> will get the thrill of getting away with something from cheating. If she feels bored in the relationship, she’s cheating to shake things up. This kind of cheater gets bored in ogni<\/em> relazione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t really matter why her attitude toward sex makes it easier for her to cheat, but  knowing might help you understand how la sua mancanza di interesse per il sesso \u00e8 il risultato del fatto che va a letto con altri.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. La vostra vita sessuale \u00e8 diversa<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

When you do have sex, you\u2019ll notice that it\u2019s different from what you\u2019re used to. If she\u2019s cheating, she\u2019ll either be enthusiastic and experimental or going through the motions without any real feeling.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, if she\u2019s not into it, it\u2019s because she\u2019s getting enough sex from others<\/strong>, so she\u2019s only doing it with you because she\u2019s trying to deflect your suspicions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It would be weird if she suddenly never wanted sex, so she\u2019s sleeping with you because she doesn\u2019t want you to find out that she\u2019s already had all the sex she wanted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, she might be pulling moves she\u2019s never done before or suggesting things she\u2019d never mentioned before. That\u2019s because she\u2019s done it elsewhere and liked it<\/strong>, quindi vuole rifarlo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or, if she\u2019s not cheating, she might just want to try something new. As always, keep in mind that her actions don\u2019t always have to mean that she\u2019s cheating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if you notice several signs at the same time, you can\u2019t be sure, so you should always first try talking to her about any concerns you might have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Il suo uso della tecnologia \u00e8 sospetto<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Suspicious use of her cell phone and computer is one of the best indicators that she\u2019s hiding something. This is because if you had access to her text messages or call records, you\u2019d probably be able to immediately know what’s going on.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ecco alcuni insegne digitali<\/a> that she\u2019s trying to keep something on her phone and computer hidden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Her phone is always with her or locked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 She keeps her phone on silent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 She’s always texting.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 Her use of social media is different. For example, she goes private on some accounts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 You hear dating app notification sounds or you accidentally notice her using one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 If her phone rings when you’re around, she doesn’t answer or leaves the room to do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 You can’t reach her on the phone at certain times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 She hides her computer use.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 If you come near her when she’s on the computer, she tabs out of what she was doing or minimizes the window.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 She clears her browser history after using the computer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 She uses the computer late at night while you sleep.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2022 She stops using shared devices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Presta particolare attenzione al suo aspetto<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Most people in long-term relationships don\u2019t pay as much attention to their physical appearance as they used to when they were single. Se inizia a preoccuparsi pi\u00f9 del solito del suo aspetto, potrebbe avere un motivo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Paying more attention to her diet and exercise routine might be because she\u2019s trying to lead a healthier life, but it might also be because she wants to look better without clothes on. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il pi\u00f9 grande indicatore che vuole apparire migliore per un motivo \u00e8 se cambia la sua routine abituale.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, if she never used to dress up or wear perfume to go out with friends but now she does all of a sudden, it might be a sign that she\u2019s probably meeting someone else \u2013 qualcuno per cui vuole avere un bell'aspetto<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. She’s always busy<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Has she recently been working overtime every night? Does her boss make her work on the weekends? Is she always going out with friends? Does she have a new hobby she\u2019s never expressed an interest in before?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she\u2019s always busy these days, it might be that she\u2019s spending the time she\u2019s not available to meet her affair partner for secret rendezvouses. Ha bisogno di scuse per le sue assenze, quindi continua a inventarle.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A prima vista, il suo improvviso interesse per l'escursionismo o la ceramica potrebbe non sembrare sospetto, ma un completo cambiamento nella sua routine potrebbe essere uno dei segni nascosti che she\u2019s lost interest in you<\/a> e sta cercando di nascondere una relazione. Detto questo, ecco i luoghi pi\u00f9 comuni in cui i traditori si incontrano per avere una relazione<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una o due differenze nel suo programma sono normali, ma quando si presenta sempre qualcosa, si ha un buon motivo per essere sospettosi.<\/strong> Unless she\u2019s keeping notes of her lies, you\u2019ll notice inconsistencies in her stories about why she\u2019s gone sooner or later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. She doesn’t want to spend time with you<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Is she reluctant to be around you even when she does find the time? If she stands you up to hang out with her best friend after you haven’t seen each other for a week, she might be avoiding you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Potrebbe sentirsi a disagio a passare del tempo con voi se si sente in colpa per avervi tradito. <\/strong>Some people have no problems cheating and feel no remorse, but others still have a conscience, even if they\u2019re doing something that they know will hurt others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D'altra parte, quando passa del tempo con voi, il senso di colpa potrebbe farla comportare in modo eccessivamente gentile e accettare tutto ci\u00f2 che volete. Questo tipo di comportamento \u00e8 un altro segno nascosto di tradimento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. She has expenses she can’t explain<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"Donna<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Avete notato addebiti inaspettati sugli estratti conto della carta di credito? Ci sono meno soldi nei vostri conti bancari? Il denaro \u00e8 diventato un problema?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chiederle di queste spese la porter\u00e0 a mettersi sulla difensiva o a dire bugie evidenti.<\/strong> She’ll claim she bought something which is nowhere to be found or pretend that she doesn’t know anything about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imbrogliare costa,<\/strong> and even if the expenses are mostly covered by her affair partner, you’ll notice an occasional change in her spending habits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

An unexpected large cash withdrawal or an unusual credit card charge would be a good sign that she\u2019s spending money on something she doesn\u2019t want you to know about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Il suo comportamento e il suo atteggiamento sono diversi<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Innanzitutto, il tradimento \u00e8 doloroso per la persona tradita, ma spesso pu\u00f2 avere conseguenze anche per chi tradisce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she’s cheating because she’s feeling unfulfilled, unhappy or for another reason that goes beyond opportunistic sex, potrebbe fare del male a se stessa oltre che a te.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever her reason for cheating is, it’s not a justification, but it might explain her behavior. <\/strong>If she’s fully aware that what she’s doing is wrong and feels guilty, she’s probably showing signs of low self-esteem and bad conscience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D'altra parte, potrebbe anche cercare di razionalizzare il suo comportamento incolpandovi della sua vita sentimentale infelice e quindi del tradimento. If it seems like she’s mad at you for no reason, it’s because she’s trying to make herself feel better about her actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s critical and angry at you on the outside because on the inside, she\u2019s blaming you for pushing her to do it to make herself feel better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. She doesn\u2019t want to communicate<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Talking to someone who doesn\u2019t want to discuss something can be impossible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she\u2019s cheating on you and doesn\u2019t want to deal with it, she might withdraw when you try to interact with her and shut down when you ask her something she doesn\u2019t want to answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L'inganno e il senso di colpa possono facilmente portare a un'interruzione della comunicazione<\/a>. Il senso di colpa e la paura di essere scoperti possono indurla a fare ostruzionismo.<\/strong> and only talk to you when it\u2019s absolutely necessary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, when you say something she doesn\u2019t want to talk about, she might pretend she didn\u2019t hear you, ignore you, change the subject or leave the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando cercate di parlare con lei dei vostri problemi, potrebbe cercare di sviare il discorso con un atteggiamento di rifiuto, accusandovi o ribaltando la situazione parlando di un altro problema.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In conclusione<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"foto<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If you suspect that your wife or girlfriend is cheating on you, there’s probably a reason why you feel that way. Usually there are multiple signs that could indicate that something is going on, and you probably picked up on some of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, a meno che non ci si imbatta nel suo tradimento, it’s almost impossible to be sure that what you’ve noticed are definite signs she sleeps around. <\/strong>Be sure before you accuse her and end up breaking up if you’re wrong.Still, if you’ve noticed many of these signs, something is definitely going on. <\/strong>Even if she’s not cheating on you, you should probably look into your relationship and talk to her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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