{"id":159993,"date":"2022-11-11T08:51:26","date_gmt":"2022-11-11T08:51:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159993"},"modified":"2022-11-24T12:28:24","modified_gmt":"2022-11-24T12:28:24","slug":"un-narcisista-puo-essere-fedele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-narcisista-puo-essere-fedele\/","title":{"rendered":"<strong>Un narcisista pu\u00f2 essere fedele? Tutto quello che c'\u00e8 da sapere<\/strong>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Un narcisista pu\u00f2 essere fedele? Tecnicamente, s\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you think of being faithful as not cheating, then, sure, a narcissist could probably be in a relationship and never sleep with someone who isn\u2019t their partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But just because a narcissist isn\u2019t cheating, <strong>it doesn\u2019t mean they feel love and commitment<\/strong>. The reason why they\u2019re being faithful is that they\u2019re either still getting what they want from their partner or that they\u2019ve never had an opportunity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Essere fedeli non significa solo non tradire.<\/strong> Fedelt\u00e0 significa <em>amare qualcuno con tutto il cuore<\/em> and choosing them over everyone else in the world. But a narcissist isn&#8217;t capable of that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Continuate a leggere per saperne di pi\u00f9 su narcisisti, amore e fedelt\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-a-narcissist-be-faithful-here-s-why-the-answer-is-no\">Can A Narcissist Be Faithful? Here\u2019s Why The Answer Is No<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo sorridente con occhiali che scrive al cellulare\" class=\"wp-image-159994\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissists are far more likely to be cheaters than the majority of people. They believe that rules that apply to others don&#8217;t apply to them. This is why they can have sex with someone who isn&#8217;t their partner without a second thought.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Even if a narcissist never sleeps with someone other than their partner, the answer to the question, &#8220;Can a narcissist be faithful in a relationship?&#8221; is <em>no<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A narc might not be sleeping around, but they\u2019re not faithful out of love and loyalty \u2013 it\u2019s only because it\u2019s in their best interest. The only reason a narcissist isn\u2019t cheating is that they\u2019re still getting what they need from their partner or a chance hasn\u2019t presented itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To understand why that is, let\u2019s first learn more about narcissists.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-are-you-in-a-relationship-with-a-narcissist\">Avete una relazione con un narcisista?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>People often use the term \u201cnarcissist\u201d to describe someone who has narcissistic traits, such as being self-centered, but narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition that involves more than a single personality trait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissism is a spectrum. Having a slightly overblown ego is common, and simply being arrogant doesn\u2019t mean that someone has narcissistic disorder. <strong>Someone with narcissistic tendencies is capable of healthy relationships, but someone with NPD isn\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Come si fa a capire se l'altro ha tratti narcisistici o se ha un disturbo narcisistico di personalit\u00e0? <\/em>Solo un medico pu\u00f2 diagnosticare una condizione di salute mentale come questa, ma ci sono alcune bandiere rosse che chiariscono le cose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-superiority\">\u2022 SUPERIORITY<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The quickest way to know that you\u2019re with a narcissist is to pay attention to the way they treat others. <strong>A narcissist believes that they\u2019re not like other people.<\/strong> Tutte le loro relazioni si basano su ci\u00f2 che possono ottenere dagli altri, compreso voi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un narcisista sacrificher\u00e0 la vostra felicit\u00e0, i vostri interessi e il vostro benessere per i propri e non vedr\u00e0 alcun problema in questo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Potrebbero anche non essere consapevoli di quanto sia distorto il loro pensiero perch\u00e9<strong> vedono se stessi come l'unica persona che conta e tutti gli altri come strumenti utilizzati per ottenere ci\u00f2 che vogliono.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-entitlement\"><strong>- <\/strong>ENTITLEMENT<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>They feel entitled to whatever they want because they think they\u2019re special, and <strong>hanno bisogno di una costante convalida<\/strong> per ricordarglielo. A questo scopo, <strong>sfruttano gli altri<\/strong> senza curarsi del loro benessere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Il narcisista ritiene che il mondo gli debba le cose che desidera. <\/strong>Admiration, attention, success, acknowledgment \u2013 whatever it is that they crave, they expect to be given because they believe they\u2019re entitled to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-abuse\">\u2022 ABUSE<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When you&#8217;re in a relationship with a narcissist, nearly every day is a struggle to find hope in the face of narcissistic abuse. <strong>Il narcisista sfrutta le vostre insicurezze e le vostre paure,<\/strong> poi distorce la realt\u00e0 per farvi credere che il loro comportamento sia colpa vostra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Il gaslighting \u00e8 una delle armi principali del narcisista. <\/strong>\u2013 they\u2019ll never admit to a fault or a mistake. Instead, they\u2019ll make you doubt yourself and your perception. They must always preserve the image they hold of themselves, and your sanity isn\u2019t a too steep a price to pay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>RELATIVO:<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cose-che-i-narcisisti-dicono-durante-una-discussione\/\"><strong> <\/strong><strong>52 cose manipolatorie che i narcisisti dicono durante una discussione<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-a-narcissist-genuinely-love-someone\">Un narcisista pu\u00f2 amare veramente qualcuno?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna che ride con l&#039;uomo sul picnic in natura\" class=\"wp-image-159995\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You could say that the only person a narcissist loves is himself or herself, but that\u2019s not quite true.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissists don&#8217;t really feel self-love. What a narc feels underneath all the superiority is <strong>self-loathing and low self-esteem they&#8217;re trying to fight against at the expense of others.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is why narcissists need constant affirmation from those around them that they&#8217;re as great as they&#8217;re trying to convince themselves they are. Everyone appreciates attention, but for a narcissist, it\u2019s the only way to feel good about themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A differenza della maggior parte delle persone, i narcisisti sono incapaci di raggiungere la realizzazione dall'interno.<\/strong> La loro autostima dipende interamente dalla convalida esterna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Si pu\u00f2 capire come questo vada di pari passo con l'imbroglio.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When their partner can\u2019t give them what they\u2019re looking for, they seek attention elsewhere. They don\u2019t feel bad about it because <strong>il loro comportamento \u00e8 interamente basato sul sentirsi bene.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you try to confront them, you\u2019ll be faced with a complete refusal to take responsibility. The narcissist will use manipulation and emotional abuse to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ecco-perche-i-narcisisti-hanno-un-disperato-bisogno-che-tu-dubiti-di-te-stesso\/\"> ti fanno dubitare di te stesso<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A narcissist can\u2019t feel real love because they have no interest in other people\u2019s needs and feelings or the willingness to understand them. But <strong>I narcisisti possono mascherare il loro abuso come amore<\/strong>. They can be hurting you and make you feel like you&#8217;re the one hurting them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-narcissistic-traits-and-cheating\"><strong>Tratti narcisistici e tradimento<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Una delle caratteristiche che definiscono<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-tratti-narcisistici-che-potreste-non-riconoscere-subito\/\"> tratti del narcisismo<\/a> \u00e8 un <strong>mancanza di empatia<\/strong><strong>. <\/strong>Ci\u00f2 significa che il narcisista non \u00e8 in grado di relazionarsi con gli altri, il che gli rende impossibile amare un'altra persona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I narcisisti hanno un <strong>grandioso senso di autostima. <\/strong>They believe that everyone is beneath them and expect special treatment. For a narcissist, other people only have value if they serve a purpose, so they don\u2019t think twice about taking advantage of others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hanno un <strong>senso di <\/strong><strong>diritto<\/strong><strong> <\/strong>and believe that they\u2019re owed things, most of all <strong>ammirazione, attenzione e <\/strong><strong>convalida<\/strong>. They use manipulation and abuse to get what they want if it\u2019s not given.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Tutti questi tratti rendono il tradimento irrilevante per un narcisista, come lo sarebbe qualcosa che non fa male a nessuno.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They don\u2019t see cheating any worse than, for example, hanging out with a friend when you\u2019re lonely and your partner is busy. If a narcissist isn\u2019t getting attention from their partner, they\u2019ll cheat on them as easily as if they were calling up a friend for drinks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But even if a narcissist can\u2019t see <em>perch\u00e9<\/em> they shouldn\u2019t be unfaithful to their partner, it doesn\u2019t mean that they don\u2019t know that what they\u2019re doing is wrong. They\u2019ll hide the infidelity, not because they don\u2019t want to hurt their partner\u2019s feelings, but <strong>so that they don\u2019t have to bear the consequences<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-sexual-narcissism\">Narcisismo sessuale<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che si bacia nel letto\" class=\"wp-image-159996\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Il narcisismo sessuale si compone di quattro parti: <strong>sfruttamento sessuale, senso di abilit\u00e0 sessuale, diritto sessuale e mancanza di empatia sessuale.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In other words, a sexual narcissist feels they&#8217;re great in bed and believes they\u2019re entitled to sex. They\u2019re willing to use people and don&#8217;t care about their sex partner\u2019s experience. This is consistent with all other aspects of narcissism.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Significa che un narcisista \u00e8 probabile che faccia sesso occasionale e sesso senza legami emotivi. <strong>Secondo un<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/article\/10.1007\/s10508-014-0282-6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong> ricerca sul narcisismo sessuale<\/strong><\/a><strong>, it\u2019s also tightly linked with infidelity.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Narcissists are likely to cheat because they don\u2019t place value on others unless in terms of what they can get from them. They use sex to prove to themselves that they\u2019re superior at it, but also to fill their need for attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>It\u2019s of no consequence to a narcissist how their romantic or sexual partners feel. <\/strong>They easily justify to themselves sex outside of the relationship as something they\u2019re entitled to because they\u2019re better than ordinary people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If they can\u2019t get what they need from one person, they see no problem in looking for it with multiple partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-does-a-narcissist-want-in-a-relationship\">Cosa vuole un narcisista in una relazione?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s only one thing a narcissist wants from a partner, and that\u2019s to use them to fulfill their own desperate need for attention and admiration. <em>How can a narcissist be faithful when they can\u2019t genuinely love someone?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I narcisisti non sono mai veramente fedeli ai loro partner in nessun modo importante. Per un narcisista, una relazione \u00e8 finita quando non ha pi\u00f9 nulla da guadagnare dalla sua vittima, quindi non si impegna mai veramente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>They\u2019re unfaithful because they&#8217;re always keeping their options open in case you stop giving them what they need<\/strong> \u2013 limitless attention, admiration and feelings of superiority.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-narcissistic-supply\">Offerta narcisistica<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che parla sul letto di casa\" class=\"wp-image-160000\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Le relazioni con partner narcisisti possono durare da pochi mesi a diversi anni. Per capire come funziona un narcisista, \u00e8 utile familiarizzare con il concetto di <strong>offerta narcisistica<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I narcisisti hanno bisogno di continue conferme. Ricevere un trattamento speciale \u00e8 il modo in cui compensano le loro insicurezze, per cui devono sempre avere <strong>una fonte che fornisca loro l'ammirazione e l'attenzione di cui hanno bisogno<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They&#8217;re incapable of real bonds with people, so they target those around them who can fulfill their needs. <strong>Per mantenere la loro fonte di approvvigionamento narcisistico, manipolano e abusano delle loro vittime.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-narcissistic-relationship-cycle\">Ciclo della relazione narcisistica<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c8 cos\u00ec che funziona la relazione con un narcisista: <strong>Prima ti agganciano, poi ti distruggono e, alla fine, ti gettano via.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As long as you serve your purpose, you\u2019re useful. This is how the idea that a narcissist can be faithful can seem plausible: even if they\u2019re abusive, they could still be faithful because what they\u2019re getting from their victim is <strong>alimentando la loro fornitura<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le tre fasi del <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/modello-di-relazione-narcisistico\/\">ciclo della relazione narcisistica<\/a> sono:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-stage-1-idealization\">Fase 1. Idealizzazione<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you believe in true love at first sight? Maybe you don\u2019t, but then you meet <em>l'uno<\/em>. La vostra anima gemella. Una persona cos\u00ec perfetta per voi che il tempo trascorso insieme sembra una favola.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quando un narcisista ha bisogno di qualcuno che gli fornisca le attenzioni necessarie e trova qualcuno abbastanza vulnerabile da usare, lo mette su un piedistallo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I narcisisti idealizzano le loro vittime perch\u00e9 vogliono credere che la loro offerta provenga da una fonte preziosa, non perch\u00e9 le amino.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At this stage, a narcissist might even believe that they feel love, but they don&#8217;t. They&#8217;re creating a fantasy version of you that can do no wrong so that they can deem you <strong>degno di essere il loro fornitore<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019re probably faithful at this point because they\u2019re getting what they need from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The narcissist learns what their victim wants and presents themselves as the ideal partner. They give their victim what seems to be intense love and affection \u2013<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-di-un-bombardamento-damore-e-non-di-un-vero-amore\/\"> ma in realt\u00e0 sta facendo una bomba d'amore<\/a> \u2013 to get their trust so that they\u2019ll let their guard down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-stage-2-devaluation\">Fase 2. Svalutazione<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane coppia seria seduta sul divano\" class=\"wp-image-160002\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Soon enough, a narcissist realizes that you aren&#8217;t the person they made up inside their head. They think in absolutes \u2013 you can be either flawless or worthless. <strong>You can&#8217;t keep up with the demands of the narcissist, so you lose their value to them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even worse, if you love a narcissist, they&#8217;ll think of you as inferior and worthless. They transfer their feelings about themselves onto you. This is how they see themselves deep down, so if you love them, something is wrong with you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The narcissist devalues their victim and puts them down because they don&#8217;t belong on the pedestal any longer.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/abuso-narcisistico\/\"> <strong>Abuso narcisistico<\/strong><\/a><strong> \u00e8 la punizione per non essere quello che immaginavano e per non essere in grado di dare loro ci\u00f2 di cui hanno bisogno.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Minacce di violenza, gaslighting, violazione dei vostri confini e isolamento dai vostri familiari sono alcuni dei comportamenti abusivi che un narcisista potrebbe usare per punirvi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A questo punto, <strong>potrebbero essere infedeli se hanno gi\u00e0 trovato un'altra fonte di approvvigionamento<\/strong>. If they haven&#8217;t, they might appear remorseful and restart the cycle to get what they need from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-stage-3-discarding\">Fase 3. Scarto<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When a narcissist can\u2019t exploit you the way they want any longer, they first punish you, then discard you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prima di disfarsi completamente della vittima, per\u00f2, non si pu\u00f2 fare a meno di notare che la vittima non \u00e8 stata uccisa,<strong> a narcissist wants to make sure that they\u2019re punished the way they deserve. <\/strong>Invalidano i vostri sentimenti, fanno la vittima e conducono campagne diffamatorie per rovinare la vostra reputazione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Often, even after they discard their victims, a narcissist still leaves the door open so that they can come back in case there\u2019s still more for them to take from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tutto si riduce al fatto sconfortante che un narcisista \u00e8 incapace di amare. <\/strong>Alcuni di loro potrebbero credere di <em>pu\u00f2<\/em> feel love, so when they inevitably become disappointed in their partner, they\u2019ll place the blame on them and look for someone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After discarding their old, \u201cfaulty\u201d significant other, a narcissist moves on to a new romantic partner, but in reality, all they want is another supply.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-tell-that-a-narcissist-is-unfaithful\">Come capire che un narcisista \u00e8 infedele?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo sorridente seduto sul divano e intento a guardare il cellulare\" class=\"wp-image-159997\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Questo dipende dal tipo di tradimento che il narcisista mette in atto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, all they\u2019re trying to get is more attention from their partner, and sometimes they want attention from whichever source they can get it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-types-of-infidelity\">Tipi di infedelt\u00e0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Some narcissists are satisfied with emotional infidelity, while others sleep with everyone who\u2019s willing. Some are serial cheaters, and others have affairs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If a narcissist doesn\u2019t give as much value to sexual conquest as they give to, for example, wealth, business success or popularity, <strong>they might stay faithful, but only because they wouldn\u2019t gain anything from infidelity.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-physical-infidelity\">1. Infedelt\u00e0 fisica<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Infedelt\u00e0 fisica significa che il narcisista fa sesso al di fuori della relazione. <strong>Si pu\u00f2 andare da una relazione a lungo termine a un'avventura di una notte. <\/strong>This is what we usually think of when talking about infidelity, but it\u2019s often connected to other types as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-emotional-infidelity\">2. Infedelt\u00e0 emotiva<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>L'infedelt\u00e0 emotiva si verifica quando qualcuno diventa emotivamente intimo con una persona diversa dal proprio partner. <strong>Sviluppare un legame emotivo con un'altra persona pu\u00f2 essere dannoso per una relazione tanto quanto una relazione sessuale.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, because a narcissist isn&#8217;t capable of really bonding with others, an emotional affair to them can mean different things than it does to an ordinary person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-cyber-infidelity\">3. Infedelt\u00e0 informatica<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo sorridente seduto sul pavimento che digita sul cellulare\" class=\"wp-image-160001\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>L'infedelt\u00e0 informatica di solito significa <strong>utilizzare i social media e le app di incontri <\/strong>stabilire un qualche tipo di relazione intima con un'altra persona o <strong>consumo eccessivo di pornografia<\/strong>. It can stay on the level of just liking someone\u2019s sexy pictures or escalate into sexting or video chatting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-object-infidelity\">4. Infedelt\u00e0 dell'oggetto<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>While it\u2019s not often thought of as cheating, focusing on something to the point of obsession and neglecting your partner is a form of infidelity. This includes, for example, <strong>someone who\u2019s so focused on their work that their relationship suffers.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se un narcisista trova la convalida di cui ha bisogno nell'avere successo nel lavoro, potrebbe ignorare il partner per cercare di ottenere ancora pi\u00f9 ammirazione dal successo negli affari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-micro-infidelity\">5. Microinfedelt\u00e0<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>La microinfedelt\u00e0 pu\u00f2 rovinare una relazione nel lungo periodo, per quanto possa sembrare innocua.<strong> Si tratta di azioni apparentemente insignificanti che danno fastidio al partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, if someone constantly flirts even though their partner doesn\u2019t like it, the longer it goes on, their partner is more likely to get hurt, even if there\u2019s no intention of taking it further.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>RELATIVO:<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/49-segni-di-un-partner-che-tradisce\/\"><strong> <\/strong><strong>49 segni di un partner traditore a cui prestare attenzione<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-warning-signs-of-infidelity\">Segnali d'allarme dell'infedelt\u00e0<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"bel giovane che cerca da parte all&#039;aperto\" class=\"wp-image-159998\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are the signs that show that a partner might be cheating on you, regardless if they\u2019re a narcissist or not. The main difference is that a narcissist will be much more defensive if you confront them and take their gaslighting to another level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lack-of-interest-in-sex\">\u2022 Lack of interest in sex<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>If your partner suddenly loses interest in sex, it&#8217;s possible that they&#8217;re getting enough sex elsewhere. For any cheater, and especially a narcissist, sex outside of the relationship is far more exciting than sex with their partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-changes-in-sexual-behavior\">\u2022 Changes in sexual behavior<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When your partner suggests something they\u2019ve never even mentioned before, it might be a sign of cheating. They might have tried something with the person they\u2019re cheating with and liked it, so now they want to do it again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-claims-to-be-working-all-the-time\">\u2022 Claims to be working all the time<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Suddenly having to work overtime or on the weekends might be an excuse, especially if your partner can\u2019t give you answers to questions you ask them about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-going-out-with-friends-more-than-usual\">\u2022 Going out with friends more than usual<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>If your partner is meeting friends more often than usual, they might actually be meeting their affair partner. It\u2019s especially likely if the things they tell you about hanging out with their friends are vague.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-doesn-t-want-to-spend-time-together\">\u2022 Doesn\u2019t want to spend time together<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>If your partner is avoiding you, they might be trying to hide something from you. It\u2019s much easier to not talk at all than to talk and accidentally let something incriminating slip out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-unusual-behavior\">\u2022 Unusual behavior<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When your partner is acting oddly and you feel that something is off, it might be a sign that something is going on. For example, if they\u2019re more irritable than usual, defensive when you ask them anything or if they blame you for everything that goes wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-suspicious-technology-use\">\u2022 Suspicious technology use<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Hiding their phone is one of the first signs that your partner might be cheating. If their phone is always on silent, if they leave the room to answer a call, if you sometimes can\u2019t reach them on the phone, they might be sneaking around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-paying-attention-to-appearance\">\u2022 Paying attention to appearance<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>If your partner has started paying attention to their appearance more than they used to, it could be because they want to look good for the person they\u2019re cheating with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-suspicious-spending\">\u2022 Suspicious spending<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Addebiti insoliti sulla carta di credito o prelievi di contanti inspiegabili potrebbero significare che il vostro partner sta spendendo denaro per il suo partner e sta finanziando il suo tradimento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-final-thoughts\">Pensieri finali<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"uomo bello con i capelli ricci che sorride all&#039;aperto\" class=\"wp-image-159999\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, a narcissist\u2019s victim isn\u2019t even aware that what they\u2019re being put through isn\u2019t okay. A narcissist works hard to <strong>normalizzare i comportamenti abusivi<\/strong> and make their victim believe that they deserve credit when they\u2019re not being hurtful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, finding comfort in the fact that they\u2019re not cheating on you is a result of their abuse. <em>But can a narcissist be faithful to their partner when they can\u2019t really love them?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>La risposta \u00e8, purtroppo, no.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A narcissist only uses people for their own gain. Even when they believe that they love someone, it\u2019s temporary, on their own terms and only depends on what they can get from them. Sooner or later, they become disillusioned and move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re in a relationship with a narcissist, you won\u2019t be the one to change them. <\/strong>Nessuno pu\u00f2 e l'unico modo per uscire dal ciclo di abusi \u00e8 andarsene il prima possibile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Un narcisista pu\u00f2 essere fedele? 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Technically, yes. If you think of being faithful as not cheating, then, sure, a narcissist could probably be in a relationship and never sleep with someone who isn\u2019t their partner. But just because a narcissist isn\u2019t cheating, it doesn\u2019t mean they feel love and commitment. 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