{"id":160480,"date":"2022-11-23T15:06:18","date_gmt":"2022-11-23T15:06:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=160480"},"modified":"2023-11-21T20:46:05","modified_gmt":"2023-11-21T20:46:05","slug":"un-bugiardo-patologico-puo-amare-qualcuno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/un-bugiardo-patologico-puo-amare-qualcuno\/","title":{"rendered":"Un bugiardo patologico pu\u00f2 amare qualcuno? (Spiegazione completa)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Loving someone is probably the most spontaneous and easiest thing to do. It comes naturally to care for them, and you\u2019d do anything to maintain a good relationship. For example, you wouldn\u2019t lie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ma che dire dei bugiardi patologici? Un bugiardo patologico pu\u00f2 amare qualcuno? Come possono amarvi se vi mentono costantemente?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A healthy relationship is all about open communication and honesty, but when these two things aren\u2019t present, can you really expect a good long-term relationship?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Scorri in basso per vedere la risposta a tutte queste domande.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-a-pathological-liar-love-someone\">Un bugiardo patologico pu\u00f2 amare qualcuno?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La risposta \u00e8 s\u00ec; <strong>bugiardi patologici<\/strong><strong> pu\u00f2 amare qualcuno<\/strong>. Tuttavia, ci sono alcune cose da sapere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pathological liars don\u2019t fall in the same scope as other people when it comes to loving someone. They have their own way of doing so, and truth be told, it comes with some problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s state the obvious: <strong>bugiardi patologici<\/strong><strong> mentire per non <\/strong><strong>motivo apparente<\/strong>. So, no matter if you\u2019re accusing them of something or simply asking them what they ate for breakfast \u2013 you\u2019ll stumble across a lie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, even though pathological liars are able to love someone, most of the time, those relationships aren\u2019t successful because constant lies affect your mental health and develop into serious<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/problemi-di-fiducia\/\"> problemi di fiducia.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-signs-you-re-in-a-relationship-with-a-pathological-liar\">10 Signs You\u2019re In a Relationship With A Pathological Liar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many people don\u2019t understand the difference between occasional lying and pathological lying. That\u2019s why, most of the time, people aren\u2019t even aware they\u2019re in a relationship with a pathological liar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But don\u2019t worry, if you suspect your partner has this personality disorder, here are some tell-tale signs you should pay attention to:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-trust-problems\">1. Problemi di fiducia<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-woman-is-sitting-at-a-table-with-a-man-and-they-are-talking.jpg\" alt=\"una donna \u00e8 seduta a un tavolo con un uomo e stanno parlando\" class=\"wp-image-160494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-woman-is-sitting-at-a-table-with-a-man-and-they-are-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-woman-is-sitting-at-a-table-with-a-man-and-they-are-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-woman-is-sitting-at-a-table-with-a-man-and-they-are-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-woman-is-sitting-at-a-table-with-a-man-and-they-are-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-woman-is-sitting-at-a-table-with-a-man-and-they-are-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-woman-is-sitting-at-a-table-with-a-man-and-they-are-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-woman-is-sitting-at-a-table-with-a-man-and-they-are-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-woman-is-sitting-at-a-table-with-a-man-and-they-are-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As your pathological liar has no control over telling lies, it\u2019s normal to expect trust issues in your relationship. They won\u2019t be just white lies but any lie you can think of, with or without any reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lie after lie, and you\u2019ll develop trust issues where you\u2019ll question every sentence, and a romantic relationship like this is most often sentenced to death.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-low-self-esteem\">2. Bassa autostima<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fare dichiarazioni false \u00e8 anche legato all'avere<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomini-con-scarsa-autostima\/\"> bassa autostima<\/a>. Per fare colpo su di voi e tenervi nella loro vita, i bugiardi patologici affogheranno nelle loro stesse bugie solo per dimostrarvi che sono loro stessi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They want to please you and don\u2019t want you to find out the truth because they think you\u2019ll be disappointed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s why <strong>they\u2019ll say what they believe their <\/strong><strong>amata<\/strong><strong> vuole sentire.<\/strong> They may also lie because they\u2019re ashamed of something or want to escape from reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-they-are-irresponsible\">3. Sono irresponsabili<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La menzogna patologica comporta molte difficolt\u00e0 in una relazione. Una di queste difficolt\u00e0 \u00e8 che i bugiardi patologici sono <strong>estremamente irresponsabile.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Their irresponsibility is reflected in their lack of control or restraint. Therefore, they\u2019ll not only lie to you but be irresponsible in the relationship as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, don\u2019t be surprised if you find out your partner is a cheater as well. Maybe they don\u2019t want to cheat on you, but their mental disorder doesn\u2019t allow any boundaries in their life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-they-are-highly-competitive\">4. Sono altamente competitivi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-woman.jpg\" alt=\"donna che parla con donna\" class=\"wp-image-160495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-woman-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-woman-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-woman-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-woman-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anche se all'esterno non sembrano rivali agguerriti, all'interno sono spinti a trionfare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They don\u2019t see your success as their own, and even though they congratulate you when you succeed, they still minimize your accomplishments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Non possono mai essere veramente felici per gli altri, perch\u00e9 sono cos\u00ec insicuri che rendono tutto una competizione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-outbursts-of-anger\">5. Esplosioni di rabbia<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pathological liar doesn\u2019t like to be caught in their lies. They gain control over you by lying about different things, but if they don\u2019t succeed, they may experience outbursts of anger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They\u2019re mad at you because you didn\u2019t fall for their lies and instead confronted them. This outburst can be reflected in the intensity of their defense or attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They can\u2019t control their anger because they don\u2019t have the right coping mechanism.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead, if they don\u2019t find a way out of the situation, they may go for physical abuse just so they \u2018\u2018regain\u2019\u2019 control over you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-need-for-constant-attention\">6. Necessit\u00e0 di attenzione costante<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oltre a tutti gli altri segnali, se il vostro partner<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ragazzi-che-hanno-bisogno-di-continue-attenzioni-femminili\/\"> necessita di un'attenzione costante<\/a>, it\u2019s a sign you\u2019re in a relationship with a pathological liar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neediness is another thing that will slowly destroy your relationship. At first, you\u2019ll be able to maintain their needs. However, as time goes by, this neediness will drain you more and more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They might seem like they care when, in fact, they\u2019ll use <strong>manipolazione<\/strong><strong> tattica<\/strong> to satisfy their needs. You won\u2019t even realize you\u2019re doing whatever they want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-unnecessary-lies\">7. Bugie inutili<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Forse il segno pi\u00f9 evidente di un bugiardo patologico \u00e8 che <strong>they don\u2019t just lie about <\/strong><strong>grandi cose<\/strong><strong> <\/strong>ma anche di piccole cose non necessarie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can expect them to recount a different story each time they speak about one specific event: they need to change it just a little each time so they impress you with something they \u2018\u2018said\u2019\u2019 or \u2018\u2018did.\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So if you catch your partner lying about dumb things that serve no purpose, you can only expect they\u2019re lying about big things too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-secrets\">8. I segreti<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-sits-behind-a-sleigh-and-talks-to-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo siede dietro una slitta e parla con una donna\" class=\"wp-image-160496\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-sits-behind-a-sleigh-and-talks-to-a-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-sits-behind-a-sleigh-and-talks-to-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-sits-behind-a-sleigh-and-talks-to-a-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-sits-behind-a-sleigh-and-talks-to-a-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-sits-behind-a-sleigh-and-talks-to-a-woman-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-sits-behind-a-sleigh-and-talks-to-a-woman-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-sits-behind-a-sleigh-and-talks-to-a-woman-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-sits-behind-a-sleigh-and-talks-to-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Secrets are also a common thing you\u2019ll encounter if you\u2019re in a relationship with a pathological liar. Everyone has secrets; that\u2019s not a big deal, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ma dietro queste bugie si nascondono tutti i loro segreti,<\/strong> che si accumulano giorno dopo giorno. I segreti, soprattutto quelli che vi riguardano, sono una forma di tradimento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If secrets become a normal part of your relationship, you\u2019ll probably grow apart because trust issues will only pile up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-you-feel-like-you-re-being-too-harsh\">9. You feel like you\u2019re being too harsh<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not uncommon that many people with pathological liars as partners experience guilt for being too harsh to their partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Questo accade perch\u00e9 i bugiardi patologici sono<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/gaslighting-in-una-relazione\/\"> Maestri nell'illuminare a gas<\/a> e manipolazione. Di solito accade che <strong>vi fanno sentire come se foste controllanti o pazzi <\/strong>per aver avuto dubbi su qualcosa che hanno detto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They will try to convince you that you have serious trust issues and that the last thing you should worry about is lies in your relationship. But don\u2019t fall for it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-they-aren-t-ready-for-commitment\">10. They aren\u2019t ready for commitment<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Per essere una persona devota, bisogna innanzitutto avere dei buoni tratti di fondo, a prescindere dalla relazione o dall'ambito della vita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nelle relazioni, questo impegno viene naturale quando si inizia ad amare il proprio partner. Ma un bugiardo patologico pu\u00f2 amare qualcuno? Certo che pu\u00f2. Tuttavia, il loro amore \u00e8 un po' diverso dal nostro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They often don\u2019t have faith in your relationship even if their lying is under control. So, this behavior pulls them away from any commitment at the very beginning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-deal-with-a-pathological-liar-in-a-relationship\">Come affrontare un bugiardo patologico in una relazione di coppia<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now that we\u2019ve established that you\u2019re in a relationship with a pathological liar, it\u2019s time to discuss how you can cope with your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It won\u2019t be easy. They want to get better, but most of the time, their mental disorder takes over, and they can\u2019t help but ruin a stable relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-talk-with-yourself\">1. Parlare con se stessi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa seduta sul divano\" class=\"wp-image-160499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Il primo colloquio che dovreste fare \u00e8 con voi stessi, non con il vostro partner. Avete due opzioni: a) potete pensare a una possibile soluzione per risolvere i vostri problemi di coppia, oppure b) potete lasciarlo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Per una di queste due opzioni, \u00e8 necessario sedersi e parlare con se stessi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chiedetevi: <em>Siete felici in questa relazione? Avete gi\u00e0 fatto tutto il possibile per far funzionare le cose? C'\u00e8 qualcos'altro che potete fare?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you don\u2019t see any solution, it\u2019s time to choose option b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-and-then-talk-to-them\">2. E poi parlare con loro<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Try talking to your partner when they\u2019re in a good mood. However, in a good mood or not, be prepared to encounter some problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Parlare con loro sar\u00e0 impegnativo <\/strong>perch\u00e9 attiveranno le loro capacit\u00e0 di manipolazione e di gaslighting subito dopo il vostro discorso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dovete arrivare pronti psicologicamente e mentalmente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-prepare-yourself-mentally-for-everything-that-s-coming\">3. Prepare yourself mentally for everything that\u2019s coming<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Questa \u00e8 la parte pi\u00f9 importante del vostro viaggio con un bugiardo patologico. La vostra stabilit\u00e0 mentale far\u00e0 met\u00e0 del lavoro, ma solo se sarete preparati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Menzogne, manipolazione e gaslighting. Queste sono le cose che potete aspettarvi dal vostro partner. Durante il colloquio, tenete presente che il vostro interlocutore si giustificher\u00e0 per le sue bugie, che saranno anch'esse bugie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-build-a-strong-case\">4. Costruire un caso forte<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/the-woman-is-sitting-at-the-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"la donna \u00e8 seduta al computer\" class=\"wp-image-160501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/the-woman-is-sitting-at-the-laptop.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/the-woman-is-sitting-at-the-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/the-woman-is-sitting-at-the-laptop-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/the-woman-is-sitting-at-the-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/the-woman-is-sitting-at-the-laptop-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/the-woman-is-sitting-at-the-laptop-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/the-woman-is-sitting-at-the-laptop-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/the-woman-is-sitting-at-the-laptop-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anche se cercano di manipolarvi e di ghettizzarvi, <strong>con prove solide, <\/strong>they can never defeat you. Yes, you may break up, which is already a defeat, but at least you won\u2019t question your sanity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Before speaking to them, gather information such as who they talked to, what they said, and any differences you\u2019ve noted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is the only assurance that you won&#8217;t leave this conversation thinking you&#8217;ve gone insane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-ask-for-explanations\">5. Chiedere spiegazioni<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even if they want to, they can never tell you the exact truth because their disorder doesn\u2019t allow them to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you confront them, their disorder will activate, and they\u2019ll feel threatened. That\u2019s why they will tell lie after lie just to get themselves out of a corner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In rari casi, potrebbero anche accettare spiegazioni se vi amano davvero e tengono alla vostra relazione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pertanto, chiedere spiegazioni vi faciliter\u00e0 anche il compito, in quanto <strong>you won\u2019t feel too judgmental and controlling.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-think-about-the-underlying-cause\">6. Pensare alla causa sottostante<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe there is help \u2013 you just aren\u2019t looking in the right direction. Try to think about any underlying causes. What could trigger this behavior?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bassa autostima<\/strong><strong>falso senso di s\u00e9, negligenza, abuso e trauma infantile. <\/strong>sono alcuni degli elementi che possono scatenare la menzogna patologica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So it\u2019s better to find a solution for the underlying cause than only cure the symptom (pathological lying). Try to communicate honestly and openly and get to the root of the problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-you-can-work-things-out\">7. Si possono risolvere le cose<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s also important to show your partner that you\u2019re a team and encourage them to find a solution and make things work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dovete dare loro lo spazio per capire come stanno le cose e fargli sapere che <strong>you\u2019re here for them <\/strong>in ogni caso. Questo servir\u00e0 da grande motivazione per risolvere le cose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You two are in this together, and you should never act as their enemy because they\u2019ll start to lie again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-involve-family-members-and-friends\">8. Coinvolgere familiari e amici<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/two-women-are-sitting-at-the-table-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"due donne sono sedute a tavola e parlano\" class=\"wp-image-160503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/two-women-are-sitting-at-the-table-and-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/two-women-are-sitting-at-the-table-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/two-women-are-sitting-at-the-table-and-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/two-women-are-sitting-at-the-table-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/two-women-are-sitting-at-the-table-and-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/two-women-are-sitting-at-the-table-and-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/two-women-are-sitting-at-the-table-and-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/two-women-are-sitting-at-the-table-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Una buona cosa da fare \u00e8 coinvolgere la famiglia e gli amici nel processo di guarigione, perch\u00e9 i bugiardi patologici non mentono solo nelle relazioni sentimentali, ma in qualsiasi relazione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La famiglia e gli amici probabilmente stanno affrontando gli stessi problemi e vogliono il meglio per loro. Se il vostro partner vede che tutti sono coinvolti, potrebbe incoraggiarlo ad affrontare il problema pi\u00f9 seriamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-get-professional-help\">9. Chiedere aiuto a un professionista<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When neither you, their family, or friends manage to solve the problem, maybe it\u2019s time to get professional help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Il problema pi\u00f9 grande sar\u00e0 <strong>convincendoli che <\/strong><strong>aiuto professionale<\/strong><strong> \u00e8 necessario<\/strong> because, most of the time, pathological liars won\u2019t admit they have a problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So make sure to approach it nice and calmly. Give them time to think about it, and don\u2019t pressure them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-know-when-enough-is-enough\">10. Sapere quando \u00e8 sufficiente<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019ve tried to fix the issue several times and nothing helped, then<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-andare-avanti-10-modi-efficaci-per-lasciar-andare-e-guarire\/\"> it\u2019s time to move on.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A volte, per quanto le amiate, la relazione con loro \u00e8 troppo dannosa. Se questa relazione influisce negativamente sulla vostra salute mentale, dovete assolutamente allontanarvi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-pathological-vs-compulsive-liar\">Patologico vs. Compulsivo Bugiardo compulsivo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-arguing.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo e una donna sono seduti sul divano e litigano\" class=\"wp-image-160506\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-arguing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-arguing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-arguing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-arguing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-arguing-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-arguing-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-arguing-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-sitting-on-the-couch-and-arguing-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esistono due tipi di bugiardi: quelli patologici e quelli compulsivi. Un bugiardo compulsivo spesso abbellisce ed esagera per apparire credibile e rafforzare il proprio debole ego.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Questi sono molti degli stessi fattori che possono indurre un bugiardo patologico a mentire, ma quando lo si coglie e lo si affronta, <strong>continueranno a mentire senza sentirsi in colpa.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un bugiardo patologico aggiunger\u00e0 ulteriori <strong>dettagli ridicoli <\/strong>alle loro storie fastidiose dopo essere stati esposti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They&#8217;ll continue even if confronted with overwhelming proof and all of the proverbial receipts. Additionally, you&#8217;ll feel crazy. This is the behavior of pathological liars.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La menzogna compulsiva aiuta il bugiardo <strong>sentirsi pi\u00f9 importanti<\/strong>. Un bugiardo patologico usa la menzogna come mezzo di controllo per raggiungere i suoi obiettivi, privandovi della vostra capacit\u00e0 di fiducia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perch\u00e9 trovano la verit\u00e0 scomoda,<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/bugiardo-compulsivo-2\/\"> bugiardi compulsivi<\/a> si inventano storie che sembrano non avere n\u00e9 logica n\u00e9 ragione. Le motivazioni dei bugiardi patologici sono egoistiche. Entrambi provano un'estrema inferiorit\u00e0 e vivono in uno stato di illusione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-causes-pathological-lying\">Cosa provoca la menzogna patologica?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I rapporti medici mostrano generalmente che la menzogna patologica ha poche, se non nessuna, cause identificate. Secondo la ricerca medica, la menzogna patologica \u00e8 spesso un segno di un problema pi\u00f9 profondo che richiede l'assistenza di un esperto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La menzogna patologica \u00e8 un sintomo di una serie di malattie mentali, tra cui il disturbo narcisistico di personalit\u00e0 (NPD), il disturbo antisociale di personalit\u00e0 (APD) e il disturbo di personalit\u00e0 di base.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/durata-media-della-relazione-con-il-bpd\/\"> disturbo borderline di personalit\u00e0 (BPD).<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mandare i bugiardi patologici in terapia professionale dopo averli identificati \u00e8 uno dei modi migliori per affrontarli, data la gravit\u00e0 di queste malattie mentali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/durata-media-della-relazione-con-il-bpd\/\">Durata media di una relazione con BPD: L'inevitabile rottura<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-faqs\"><strong>Domande frequenti<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<div id=\"rank-math-faq\" class=\"rank-math-block\">\n<div class=\"rank-math-list\">\n<div id=\"faq-question-655d170d7da71\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question\"><strong>Si pu\u00f2 avere una relazione di successo con un bugiardo patologico?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer\">\n\n<p>S\u00ec, \u00e8 possibile avere una relazione di successo con un bugiardo patologico. Tuttavia, ci sono alcuni aspetti su cui dovrete lavorare per ottenere questo successo.<br \/>Cercate di trovare la causa di fondo della menzogna patologica, perch\u00e9 dovreste puntare a <strong>trattare la malattia,<\/strong> non solo i suoi sintomi.<br \/>Inoltre, <strong>ottenere un aiuto professionale <\/strong>migliorer\u00e0 seriamente la vostra relazione, poich\u00e9 i professionisti conoscono modi efficaci per affrontare il problema.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"faq-question-655d170d7da74\" class=\"rank-math-list-item\">\n<h3 class=\"rank-math-question\"><strong>Come si fa a fidarsi di nuovo dopo essere stati ingannati?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div class=\"rank-math-answer\">\n\n<p>Non \u00e8 mai facile riconquistare la fiducia dopo aver ricevuto una bugia, soprattutto se questa bugia riguarda cose importanti. Innanzitutto, considerate il motivo per cui qualcuno vi ha mentito. <em>Hanno mentito per proteggervi da qualcosa? O si trattava di qualcos'altro?<\/em><br \/><strong>Comunicazione <\/strong>\u00e8 anche una parte importante di questa storia. Se non si comunica apertamente, non ci si potr\u00e0 mai fidare di qualcuno. Anche, <strong>concedetevi del tempo <\/strong>e imparare a perdonare.<br \/>Ma ricordate sempre che le azioni parlano pi\u00f9 delle parole.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-you-have-a-successful-relationship-with-a-pathological-liar\"><strong>\u00c8 possibile avere una relazione di successo con un <\/strong><strong>bugiardo patologico<\/strong><strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00ec, \u00e8 possibile avere una relazione di successo con un bugiardo patologico. Tuttavia, ci sono alcuni aspetti su cui dovrete lavorare per ottenere questo successo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cercate di trovare la causa di fondo della menzogna patologica, perch\u00e9 dovreste puntare a <strong>trattare la malattia,<\/strong> non solo i suoi sintomi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Inoltre, <strong>ottenere <\/strong><strong>aiuto professionale<\/strong><strong> <\/strong>migliorer\u00e0 seriamente la vostra relazione, poich\u00e9 i professionisti conoscono modi efficaci per affrontare il problema.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-trust-again-after-being-lied-to\"><strong>Come si fa a fidarsi di nuovo dopo essere stati ingannati?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Non \u00e8 mai facile riconquistare la fiducia dopo aver ricevuto una bugia, soprattutto se questa bugia riguarda cose importanti. Innanzitutto, considerate il motivo per cui qualcuno vi ha mentito. <em>Hanno mentito per proteggervi da qualcosa? O si trattava di qualcos'altro?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Comunicazione <\/strong>\u00e8 anche una parte importante di questa storia. Se non si comunica apertamente, non ci si potr\u00e0 mai fidare di qualcuno. Anche, <strong>concedetevi del tempo <\/strong>e imparare a perdonare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ma ricordate sempre che le azioni parlano pi\u00f9 delle parole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-bottom-line\">Linea di fondo<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quindi, alla fine, un bugiardo patologico pu\u00f2 amare qualcuno?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People lie for various reasons, but one thing is certain: living in a world of lies is terrible. Most people who lie want to stop lying despite the agony, but it&#8217;s not easy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s why they will lie to you anyway. A good rule of thumb to remember when dealing with a pathological liar is: <strong>Se la loro bocca \u00e8 aperta, stanno mentendo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In some rare cases, you can expect a better ending, but most of the time, that isn\u2019t the case.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Can-A-Pathological-Liar-Love-Someone-Fully-Explained-Pinterest-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Un bugiardo patologico pu\u00f2 amare qualcuno (spiegazione completa) Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-161147\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Can-A-Pathological-Liar-Love-Someone-Fully-Explained-Pinterest-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Can-A-Pathological-Liar-Love-Someone-Fully-Explained-Pinterest-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Can-A-Pathological-Liar-Love-Someone-Fully-Explained-Pinterest-1-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Can-A-Pathological-Liar-Love-Someone-Fully-Explained-Pinterest-1-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Can-A-Pathological-Liar-Love-Someone-Fully-Explained-Pinterest-1-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Can-A-Pathological-Liar-Love-Someone-Fully-Explained-Pinterest-1-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Can-A-Pathological-Liar-Love-Someone-Fully-Explained-Pinterest-1-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Can-A-Pathological-Liar-Love-Someone-Fully-Explained-Pinterest-1.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Loving someone is probably the most spontaneous and easiest thing to do. It comes naturally to care for them, and you\u2019d do anything to maintain a good relationship. For example, you wouldn\u2019t lie. But what about pathological liars? Can a pathological liar love someone? How can they love you if they constantly lie to you?&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":160493,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-160480","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Pathological-Liar-Love-Someone-Fully-Explained-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. 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