{"id":160743,"date":"2022-11-29T11:35:59","date_gmt":"2022-11-29T11:35:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=160743"},"modified":"2023-02-01T07:42:47","modified_gmt":"2023-02-01T07:42:47","slug":"come-fare-amicizia-con-una-ragazza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-fare-amicizia-con-una-ragazza\/","title":{"rendered":"Come fare amicizia con una ragazza come un gentiluomo in 15 modi simpatici"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s forget about sitcoms and romcoms just for a while. <strong>Anche le ragazze vengono friendzonate. <\/strong>And while it\u2019s difficult to get friendzoned by a man you like, he\u2019s also in an unpleasant situation.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Immaginate questo scenario: un vostro amico intimo o un collega vi dice <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-sapere-se-piaci-a-una-ragazza-segnali-che-e-pazza-di-te\/\">le piaci<\/a>. Even though she is an attractive woman with a rocking personality, you don\u2019t see her that way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quindi, cosa fare adesso? <strong>Come fare amicizia con una ragazza senza spezzarle il cuore e danneggiare il suo benessere mentale?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Worry not because I\u2019ve got a step-by-step guide on friendzoning someone while being a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-cose-da-vero-gentiluomo-in-modo-diverso\/\">vero gentiluomo<\/a> durante il processo. Allacciate le cinture!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-friendzone-a-girl\">Come fare amicizia con una ragazza&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s actually pretty simple: all you have to do is follow each step mentioned below:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-treat-her-like-one-of-your-buddies\">1. Trattatela come uno dei vostri amici<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che tratta una donna come una sua compagna mentre esce con una tazza di caff\u00e8 in mano\" class=\"wp-image-160748\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-walking-outside-holding-a-cup-of-coffee-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Questa ragazza \u00e8 la vostra amica platonica e forse anche il vostro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/anime-gemelle-platoniche\/\">anima gemella platonica<\/a>. And I guess you have other platonic friends as well. If you\u2019re not sure how to treat her, just imagine that she\u2019s a guy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No, you shouldn\u2019t arm wrestle her or invite her to a soccer game if that\u2019s not her thing. I\u2019m talking about your relationship here \u2013 just act the same way you\u2019d act with your male friends.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E assicuratevi che lo veda. <strong>Make sure she realizes that you treat her no differently than your buddies and that, basically, you don\u2019t even notice she\u2019s female.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since you\u2019re a true gentleman, this might be a bit tricky. I know that you respect and appreciate this woman. But even if you didn\u2019t, you\u2019d still feel the urge to open the door for her, buy her flowers on Women\u2019s Day, or pay for her drinks.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have to disappoint you, but if you\u2019re trying to figure out how to friendzone a girl, you must stop doing this. I know you\u2019re just trying to be nice, but trust me, all of these small acts of kindness are easy to misinterpret.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-tell-her-that-you-look-at-her-like-a-sister\">2. Ditele che la guardate come una sorella<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you: if you tell her this, you\u2019re likely to break her heart. I mean, this is probably the last sentence you want to hear from someone you\u2019re romantically interested in.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tuttavia, deve essere fatto. Questo \u00e8 il modo migliore per far capire a questa donna che con voi non ha alcuna possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides, it\u2019s not far from the truth. <strong>Vi importa davvero molto di lei e le augurate il meglio. Sentite l'urgenza di proteggerla, ma non avete <\/strong><strong>sentimenti romantici<\/strong><strong> per lei.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we put it all together, she is like the sister you never had. Too bad she doesn\u2019t see it that way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-set-her-up-with-one-of-your-friends\">3. Falle incontrare uno dei tuoi amici<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you try and set this girl up with one of your guy friends, you\u2019ll kill two birds with one stone. First and foremost, you\u2019ll make it clear that you\u2019re not into her. I mean, if you were, this would be the last thing you\u2019d be doing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But there is one more advantage to this master plan. At the same time, you\u2019ll make this girl feel wanted and attractive.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You\u2019re sending her the message that you think she\u2019s worthy of love \u2013 it\u2019s just that you can\u2019t give her that type of love.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides, maybe she\u2019ll find happiness with your buddy. Maybe he knocks her off her feet, and she forgets you ever existed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The only flaw in this plan is your male friend. To be honest, this arrangement is not entirely fair to him. You know this girl has feelings for you, and you\u2019re trying to set them up regardless.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But hey, it\u2019s not like you\u2019re forcing them into anything \u2013 you\u2019re just giving them a chance to get to know each other better. Everything else is up to them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-tell-her-you-have-a-girlfriend\">4. Dille che hai una ragazza<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che dice a una donna di avere una fidanzata mentre \u00e8 seduto a tavola \" class=\"wp-image-160745\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-at-table-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s a pro tip: if an acquaintance or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segnali-che-una-collega-donna-vi-piace-ma-lo-sta-nascondendo\/\">un collega ci prova con te<\/a> or confesses her feelings for you, the best thing to do is tell her that you have a girlfriend. You don\u2019t have to have \u201cthe talk\u201d with her; it\u2019s enough to casually mention you\u2019re in a serious relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tell her how in love you are with your GF and that you two are planning on taking your relationship to the next level. This way, she\u2019ll be too embarrassed to try <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/canta-una-ragazza-vuole-che-tu-la-noti\/\"><strong>per farsi notare da te<\/strong><\/a><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides, you\u2019ve somehow taken the responsibility off your shoulders. It\u2019s not that you don\u2019t like her \u2013 you\u2019re already taken.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, you can\u2019t use this awesome excuse when a close friend is in love with you. Sooner or later, you\u2019d have to introduce your imaginary girlfriend to the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-talk-to-her-about-your-love-life\">5. Parlare con lei della vostra vita sentimentale<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>But here\u2019s what you can do: you can talk about your past relationship with her. Even if you no longer have feelings for your ex, she doesn\u2019t have to know that, does she?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Basta chiederle una tazza di caff\u00e8 e <strong>tell her that you\u2019ve been thinking about your ex-girlfriend a lot lately<\/strong>. You can even add that you two started talking again and that you\u2019re considering getting back together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you don\u2019t want to drag your ex into this mess, <strong>just start casually mentioning that you\u2019re falling for some new girl in your life. <\/strong>You don\u2019t have to say that you\u2019re in a relationship just yet, but one thing is for sure: you\u2019re in love.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is this cruel? Absolutely yes! It will shatter this poor girl\u2019s heart into a million pieces.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But trust me when I tell you that it\u2019s one of the nicest ways to send her to the friendzone. At least she\u2019ll know where she stands.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-don-t-give-her-false-hope\">6. Don\u2019t give her false hope<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to friendzone a girl, whatever you do, please don\u2019t give her false hope. Trust me, it\u2019s what will hurt her most.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Non solo: roviner\u00e0 la sua fiducia negli uomini e potrebbe persino smettere di credere nell'amore. Volete davvero essere responsabili di tutto questo?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Always make sure that you act like you don\u2019t even notice that she\u2019s of the opposite sex. Yes, you care for her very much, but not in that way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>No matter what, you must tell her straight up. After all, we\u2019re talking about a woman in love who will interpret everything you say or do as what she wants to hear and see in the blink of an eye.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Per questo motivo \u00e8 necessario essere estremamente prudenti con lei.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t flirt with her, don\u2019t make deep eye contact, don\u2019t pay her too many compliments, don\u2019t use her to make other girls jealous, and don\u2019t send any other body language signs that you\u2019re into her.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-imply-that-she-s-not-your-type\">7. Imply that she\u2019s not your type<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che dice alla sua collega che lei non \u00e8 il suo tipo\" class=\"wp-image-160750\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-coworker-1-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Once again, this is a hurtful way to friendzone a girl. But hey, a man\u2019s got to do what a man\u2019s got to do. Remember: you\u2019re doing this to keep her heart from breaking even more.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You have to make this woman realize that she\u2019s not your type. But please, you can\u2019t say anything that might offend her when explaining this.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First of all, you won\u2019t use her as an example at all. Let\u2019s say that she\u2019s blonde. You won\u2019t tell her that you don\u2019t like blondes. Instead, you\u2019ll keep on checking out black-haired women and commenting on how crazy you are for that hair color.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ad esempio, se un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-capire-se-piaci-a-una-ragazza-timida-22-segnali-innegabili\/\">Piaci alla ragazza timida<\/a>, you can casually mention that you\u2019re crazy about extroverted, outgoing girls.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can do the same about different personality traits, but whatever you do, don\u2019t play this game with a body type. Even if she\u2019s the prettiest woman in the world, her insecurities will surely skyrocket.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-no-physical-touch\">8. Nessun contatto fisico<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>La differenza pi\u00f9 grande tra essere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segnali-che-indicano-che-vuole-che-siate-solo-amici\/\">solo amici<\/a> e avere una relazione sentimentale \u00e8 l'intimit\u00e0 fisica.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I mean, you can spend a lot of your time with your good friends, text them all the time, and do other activities together. However, if you\u2019re only friends with someone, you wouldn\u2019t sleep with them, would you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Beh, lasciate che vi dica che il modo pi\u00f9 efficace per fare amicizia con qualcuno \u00e8 quello di rifiutare il contatto fisico. So che questo \u00e8 il vostro <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-segni-che-dimostrano-che-hai-trovato-il-migliore-amico-della-vita\/\">buon amico<\/a>e probabilmente vorrete abbracciarla di tanto in tanto o darle un bacio sulla guancia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fidatevi di me quando vi dico che non \u00e8 questo il modo di rimanere amici. Anche se questi tocchi sono innocui per voi, lei potrebbe interpretarli come segnali del linguaggio del corpo che vi piacciono.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quindi, per favore,<strong> no holding hands, no cuddling, no hugging (except when you two greet), no touching her face, no putting your hand on her knee&#8230; <\/strong>That is, of course, unless you don\u2019t want her to become your romantic partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-don-t-show-her-pity\">9. Don\u2019t show her pity<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Just because you\u2019re wondering how to friendzone a girl doesn\u2019t mean she\u2019s lost much. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying that you don\u2019t have your own set of qualities or that you\u2019re not an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-sapere-se-sei-un-ragazzo-attraente\/\">ragazzo attraente<\/a>. Dopo tutto, si \u00e8 innamorata di voi per un motivo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You might be the biggest catch in the world, but that doesn\u2019t mean that you should feel sorry for her. Even if you are sorry for the way things turned out, never show pity.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trust me, that will ruin her confidence even more than your rejection. And don\u2019t try to act like you feel sorry for her under false pretenses \u2013 if you two are really good friends, she\u2019ll see right through you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you behave like this, she\u2019ll feel even more miserable. Without even being aware of it, you\u2019re sending her an indirect message that she is unworthy of anyone\u2019s love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-use-social-media-to-your-advantage\">10. Utilizzare i social media a proprio vantaggio<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Okay, you obviously won\u2019t put the word friendzone in your post\u2019s caption \u2013 that would be too much and incredibly insensitive. But you can definitely use social media to send a message to this girl in real life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ogni volta che pubblicate una storia o una foto con lei (o condividete un suo post), aggiungete una serie di hashtag o gif sull'amicizia. Potete anche usare<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/stato-di-amicizia-150-didascalie\/\"><strong> a <\/strong><strong>stato di amicizia e didascalie<\/strong><\/a><strong> whenever you\u2019re posting anything involving her online.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This way, all the other girls in your followers\u2019 list will know that she is your best friend and nothing more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s another thing you should pay attention to: don\u2019t reply with fire or heart emojis to her stories and don\u2019t pay her too many <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-fare-i-complimenti-a-una-bella-foto-femminile\/\">complimenti nei commenti<\/a>. Questa \u00e8 un'altra cosa che potrebbe alimentare le sue speranze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides, this is how you treat a girl you\u2019re hitting on \u2013 not your best friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-do-it-as-soon-as-possible\">11. Farlo il prima possibile<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna seduti sul divano a parlare\" class=\"wp-image-160746\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-sofa-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The worst thing you can do is postpone this talk. If you\u2019ve noticed that this woman is falling in love with you, you have to burst her bubble as soon as possible. I know that this is something you\u2019d rather not do, but guess what? Nobody will do your dirty work for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Questo \u00e8 particolarmente importante se lei vi ha confessato i suoi sentimenti per voi. <strong>If she\u2019s just hinting and using <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-segni-del-linguaggio-del-corpo-ragazza-che\/\"><strong>body language signs to show you that she\u2019s into you<\/strong><\/a><strong>, you also can do the same back. However, if she\u2019s spilled her heart out to you, she\u2019ll expect an answer.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides, if this girl was brave enough to tell you she loved you, the least you can do is also be brave and tell her you don\u2019t feel the same way. The longer you put it off, the worse her heartbreak will end up being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, be a man about it, set up a get-together without anyone else, and tell her everything that\u2019s on your mind. Just make sure she doesn\u2019t confuse this invitation with a date!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-explain-your-reasons-for-friendzoning-her\">12. Spiega le ragioni per cui le hai chiesto l'amicizia.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, you don\u2019t have to explain the reasons why you\u2019re putting her in the friendzone. You have the right to be attracted to whomever you want and not to be attracted to whomever you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>However, if you want to remain good friends, it would be nice to explain yourself. Don\u2019t be cruel, and don\u2019t think of only telling her that you don\u2019t like her.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m not saying you should justify yourself. Just tell her that you don\u2019t see her as a potential romantic partner, that you\u2019re still in love with your ex, or that you just want to be single at the moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In questo modo, la sua dignit\u00e0 rimarr\u00e0 intatta. E questa dovrebbe essere la vostra intenzione in primo luogo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She\u2019ll realize that you\u2019re not turning her down because she\u2019s not worthy of your love, because you don\u2019t see her qualities, or because you\u2019re out of her league.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a kind of \u201cit\u2019s not you \u2013 it\u2019s me\u201d situation. And it doesn\u2019t really matter whether what you\u2019re saying is empty words \u2013 the point is to repair as much damage as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-don-t-use-her-as-an-ego-boost\">13. Don\u2019t use her as an ego boost<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s another thing you should never do: don\u2019t take advantage of this girl\u2019s feelings. I know that her love has had a positive impact on your self-confidence but think of the stakes if you start using her as an ego boost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is pretty much how it goes: the girl you\u2019re into rejects you, you break up with the woman you loved, or you\u2019re just going through a dry period. So you end up feeling bad about yourself. Your confidence disappears, and you start feeling unlovable and think that no other woman will ever want you again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E poi ti ricordi di questa ragazza.<strong> Sapete che \u00e8 disperatamente innamorata di voi e decidete di regalarle un anello. O forse <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-stuzzicare-una-ragazza\/\"><strong>stuzzicarla<\/strong><\/a><strong>mandarle dei segnali contrastanti solo per scuotere la barca e ravvivare i suoi sentimenti.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lei vi d\u00e0 una spinta all'ego di cui avete bisogno e voi ve ne andate, continuando la vostra vita. Nel frattempo, lei rimane con il cuore spezzato ancora una volta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So please, be fair and don\u2019t even think about doing this. In fact, make sure you don\u2019t do it unconsciously either, just because her attention suits you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-14-offer-her-your-friendship\">14. Offrirle la tua amicizia<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking.jpg\" alt=\"donna e uomo che parlano\" class=\"wp-image-160749\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-and-man-talking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Now that you\u2019ve established her position in your life, there is no need to cut this girl off. On the contrary, it\u2019s your job to tell her that you two can still remain the same friends you were before all of this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>As far as you\u2019re concerned, you\u2019ll treat her the same way you treated her before she started growing feelings for her. You won\u2019t talk to anyone about this, and you\u2019ll never mention it again.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dimostratele che considerate la vostra amicizia abbastanza forte da superare questo ostacolo. Questa non \u00e8 altro che una fase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides, you love her (as a friend) enough not to let her go so easily. She hasn\u2019t done anything to hurt you, betray you, or endanger your friendship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-15-but-understand-if-she-declines\">15. Ma capite che se lei rifiuta<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>However, you have to prepare yourself for the possibility of this girl turning your offer down. If she tells you that she can\u2019t be just friends, don\u2019t see it as blackmail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Make it clear that you\u2019re sad about her decision, but don\u2019t make a big scene about it \u2013 it will only make things more difficult for her. Don\u2019t try convincing her to stay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Remember that she\u2019s cutting you off to heal in a healthy manner.<\/strong> Sapete come si dice: lontano dagli occhi, lontano dal cuore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, this girl couldn\u2019t stand looking at you without being able to kiss you or text you without telling you she loves you. Most importantly, she couldn\u2019t stand seeing you with other women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pertanto, se lei pensa che sia la cosa migliore, non avete altra scelta che augurarle buona fortuna. Chiss\u00e0, forse torner\u00e0 nella vostra vita dopo avervi dimenticato. A quel punto, potrete continuare da dove vi siete lasciati ed essere di nuovo amici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-a-guy-friendzone-a-girl\">Un ragazzo pu\u00f2 essere friendzonato da una ragazza?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague.jpg\" alt=\"donna che parla con il suo collega\" class=\"wp-image-160751\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-colleague-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>S\u00ec, un uomo pu\u00f2 <\/strong><strong>friendzone di una ragazza<\/strong><strong>e accade pi\u00f9 spesso di quanto si possa immaginare. <\/strong>Anche se i film e la cultura pop, in generale, cercano di persuadere che le donne sono le uniche a fare amicizia con gli uomini, le cose vanno in entrambi i sensi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dimenticate l'idea che un uomo starebbe con tutte le ragazze del mondo se ne avesse la possibilit\u00e0. No, non tutti gli uomini corrono il rischio e cercano di andare a letto con una donna che gli piace.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Alcuni di noi sono abbastanza decenti da dire a una ragazza quello che provano davvero, anche se questo significa ferire i suoi sentimenti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-text-friendzone\">Come si scrive un messaggio alla Friendzone?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to friendzone a girl who you\u2019re texting on a regular basis, you have to start by <strong>mandarle meno messaggi.<\/strong> I\u2019m not telling you to ignore the poor girl completely, but you don\u2019t have to send her a good morning text every day either, do you?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Reply as a gentleman when she texts you, but try to leave it at that. Be as polite as possible, but don\u2019t start new topics or engage in deep conversations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t send her innuendos or flirty jokes.<\/strong> So che per voi pu\u00f2 essere divertente, ma credetemi, lei lo vede come uno sguardo di speranza.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, it would be great if you could stop with heart and kissing emojis. If she\u2019s your friend, I\u2019m sure you have a habit of kissing her good night or replying with a heart reaction to her stories, but that has got to end.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-ask-a-girl-to-be-friend-zoned\">Come si chiede a una ragazza di essere friendzonata?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Se vi confessa i suoi sentimenti per voi, <strong>just tell her that you\u2019d like to be friends.<\/strong> Sarebbe bello se potesse approfondire la sua risposta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, you can tell her that you don\u2019t want to ruin your friendship or that you simply don\u2019t see her in a romantic way. Make sure she knows that you\u2019re not doing this because you don\u2019t find her physical looks or personality attractive.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what if she doesn\u2019t make the first move, but you see that she\u2019s developed feelings for you? In that case, you\u2019ll have to be more subtle.<strong> Just tell her that you have a girlfriend or that you\u2019re in love with someone else<\/strong>. Trust me, she\u2019ll get the hint!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-to-wrap-up\">Per concludere:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker.jpg\" alt=\"donna che parla con il suo collega\" class=\"wp-image-160752\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/woman-talking-to-her-coworker-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Since you\u2019re wondering how to friendzone a girl, I suppose you\u2019re sure about what you\u2019re doing. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not trying to convince you into liking her.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In fin dei conti, avete il diritto di apprezzare chi volete. Tuttavia, vorrei solo che rifletteste bene prima di agire.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019d hate to see you regret your actions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D'altra parte, <strong>if you realize that this is what you really want to do, please, don\u2019t let guilt get the best of you. You\u2019ve done nothing wrong.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Al contrario, questo \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 giusto che illuderla e farle sognare a occhi aperti che finirete insieme. Credetemi, potete essere orgogliosi di voi stessi per aver agito da perfetto gentiluomo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Come fare amicizia con una ragazza come un gentiluomo in 15 modi simpatici Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162319\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/How-To-Friendzone-A-Girl-Like-A-Gentleman-In-15-Nice-Ways-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s forget about sitcoms and romcoms just for a while. Girls get friendzoned too. And while it\u2019s difficult to get friendzoned by a man you like, he\u2019s also in an unpleasant situation.&nbsp; Just imagine this scenario: your close friend or coworker tells you she likes you. 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