{"id":161012,"date":"2022-12-04T15:51:39","date_gmt":"2022-12-04T15:51:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=161012"},"modified":"2022-12-12T11:39:17","modified_gmt":"2022-12-12T11:39:17","slug":"come-chiedere-a-un-collega-di-uscire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-chiedere-a-un-collega-di-uscire\/","title":{"rendered":"Come chiedere a un collega di uscire: 14 consigli con gli esempi migliori"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some people say that office romances are the worst and that they would never engage in something like that. However, I can\u2019t agree with this because, from my own experience, work relationships are often the most passionate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tuttavia, pu\u00f2 essere complicato e capisco perfettamente le vostre preoccupazioni. <em>La parte pi\u00f9 difficile, e quella con cui ci scontriamo di pi\u00f9, \u00e8 come chiedere a un collega di uscire. Ci sforziamo di trovare l'occasione giusta e quale potrebbe essere la proposta giusta per uscire.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fortunately, you can see this article as the end of your struggles because today, I\u2019ll teach you the right way to ask your coworker out on a date. You can thank me later, of course. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-ask-a-coworker-out-14-brilliant-tips\">Come chiedere a un collega di uscire: 14 consigli brillanti<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice che parla al primo appuntamento\" class=\"wp-image-161013\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Dating a coworker can be difficult, but it\u2019s definitely harder to gather the courage to ask them out. To help you out with that, I\u2019ve left you the most helpful tips below that will help you do it the right way and lead you straight to a romantic date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-make-sure-your-intentions-are-pure\">1. Assicuratevi che le vostre intenzioni siano pure<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Oltre alla domanda su come chiedere a un collega di uscire, dovreste considerarne un'altra: Perch\u00e9 volete invitarli a uscire? \u00c8 perch\u00e9 vi piace in modo romantico o avete altre intenzioni?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>If it\u2019s the first scenario, then you have the green light to continue with your date proposal. <\/em>We don\u2019t choose when and with whom we\u2019ll fall in love, and if that person happens to be your coworker, sharing your work environment shouldn\u2019t be an obstacle for you to invite them out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>On the other hand, if there\u2019s any hidden agenda behind your date invitation, you shouldn\u2019t go on with it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Especially if it\u2019s a new job because if they found out your true intentions, it may completely ruin your professional relationship with that coworker and create<a href=\"https:\/\/resources.workable.com\/stories-and-insights\/hostile-work-environment-signs-fixes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> un ambiente di lavoro ostile.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-think-about-the-power-dynamic-between-you\">2. Pensate alla dinamica del potere tra di voi<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with asking your coworker out. However, I don\u2019t think it\u2019s a good idea to invite your boss out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Coppia con un equilibrio <\/strong><strong>dinamica di potenza<\/strong><strong> non hanno mai una buona possibilit\u00e0 di mantenere un <\/strong><strong>relazione romantica<\/strong><strong>.<\/strong> Sooner or later, they allow it to interfere with their relationship, and that\u2019s when they understand they really aren\u2019t compatible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Correlato:<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-il-vostro-capo-vuole-venire-a-letto-con-voi\/\"> <strong>18 segnali nascosti che il vostro capo vuole venire a letto con voi<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-try-to-find-out-what-their-relationship-status-is-first\">3. Cercate prima di tutto di scoprire qual \u00e8 il loro stato di salute.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You should ask around about your coworker&#8217;s <\/strong><strong>stato di relazione<\/strong><strong> prima di invitarli effettivamente a un appuntamento.<\/strong> If they\u2019re already dating someone else, then you can\u2019t expect them to accept your invitation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I\u2019m not saying you should ignore your feelings or give up on them if you find out they\u2019re in a relationship, but you shouldn\u2019t mess with someone else\u2019s relationship. <\/em>Also, there is a great chance that it won\u2019t end well and that it\u2019ll create a hostile work environment between you two.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-try-to-build-a-friendship-with-them-first\">4. Cercate prima di tutto di costruire un'amicizia con loro<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che guardano qualcosa al computer portatile\" class=\"wp-image-161015\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have known them for a short time, you shouldn\u2019t immediately ask them out. You should<strong> cercare di diventare <\/strong><strong>buoni amici<\/strong><strong> con loro prima<\/strong>Conoscerli e stabilire un contatto pi\u00f9 personale con loro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>It\u2019ll allow you to find out what their perspective, thinking, and interests are, which will make it easier for you to win them over.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-wait-for-the-right-opportunity-and-the-right-time\">5. Aspettare l'occasione giusta e il momento giusto<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you think that inviting your coworker out while having casual water cooler small talk is a good idea? You obviously aren\u2019t aware of how wrong you actually are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u00c8 necessario attendere il <\/strong><strong>opportunit\u00e0 giusta<\/strong><strong> di chiedere loro un appuntamento, o la vostra proposta \u00e8 gi\u00e0 condannata.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you notice they\u2019re nervous about something that happened or they\u2019re too busy that day, then you should forget about your date proposal and hope that they\u2019ll be in a better mood tomorrow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-it-s-important-to-be-and-stay-yourself\">6. It\u2019s important to be and stay yourself<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>You should never change yourself to get another person to like you, even if it\u2019s a coworker you\u2019re trying to win over so desperately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dopo tutto, lavorate con quella persona e trascorrete con lei una grande quantit\u00e0 di tempo. <em>You\u2019re so very wrong if you think that your real face won\u2019t&nbsp; come to the surface sooner or later.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-respect-your-workplace-culture\">7. Rispettare la cultura del luogo di lavoro<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Most workplace cultures don\u2019t have any hard and fast rules when it comes to workplace romances. However, they do when it comes to their employees&#8217; behavior at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ci\u00f2 significa <\/strong><strong>collaboratori<\/strong><strong> shouldn\u2019t allow their personal relationships to affect their <\/strong><strong>relazioni professionali<\/strong><strong>. <\/strong>Inoltre, un'altra regola \u00e8 che i colleghi che hanno una relazione sentimentale devono andarsene.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cosa-significa-pda\/\"> il PDA<\/a> tra le loro quattro mura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>So che quando ci si innamora, tutto ci\u00f2 che si desidera \u00e8 stare con quella persona 24 ore su 24, 7 giorni su 7. Tuttavia, \u00e8 necessario rispettare il proprio <\/em><em>cultura del lavoro<\/em><em> sopra ogni altra cosa.<\/em> Once you finish your work and leave your workplace, you\u2019re allowed to do whatever you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-do-it-in-person-not-over-social-media\">8. Farlo di persona, non sui social media<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che si incontrano in un bar\" class=\"wp-image-161016\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>So che oggi questo genere di cose si risolve per lo pi\u00f9 sui social media, ma credetemi, <strong>it\u2019s always better to do it in person than online.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most relationship experts actually agree that inviting someone on a date in person is the key to getting an affirmative answer. If you do it online, the other person may think you aren\u2019t brave enough to do it in person or that you aren\u2019t even sure you really want to go out with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-flirtation-is-a-must\">9. Il flirt \u00e8 un MUST&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to make it clear that you\u2019re inviting them out on a romantic date, then you should flirt with them a bit. <strong>Otherwise, they may think you\u2019re asking them out on a casual coworker hangout and won\u2019t get your true intention.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Compliment them and surprise them with a nice gesture every now and then. That way, they\u2019ll figure out that you like them even before you actually invite them on a date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-offer-them-help-with-something-over-a-dinner\">10. Offrire loro aiuto per una cena<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>You don\u2019t have to make it a romantic date invitation \u2013 you can invite them on a casual hangout. <\/em>That way, they\u2019ll accept even if they don\u2019t like you romantically, and you\u2019ll get the opportunity to change their mind and win them over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just offer them help with a project or something and make sure they really need it, so they can\u2019t refuse your invitation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-just-ask-already-and-don-t-make-a-big-deal-out-of-it\">11. Just ask already, and don\u2019t make a big deal out of it<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I know you\u2019re scared because of all the possible outcomes, but you really shouldn\u2019t make a big deal out of it. The worst thing that can happen is getting rejected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E anche se dovesse succedere, che importa? Basta rialzarsi e continuare ad andare avanti. <strong>After all, if they don\u2019t agree to go on a date with you, it\u2019s their loss, not yours.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Pensate a questo aspetto: se <\/em><em>don\u2019t ask<\/em><em>, you\u2019ll never get a date with them, and the case will definitely be closed. <\/em>D'altra parte, se glielo chiedete, potreste essere rifiutati, \u00e8 vero, ma potrebbero anche accettare il vostro invito e potrebbe essere l'inizio di qualcosa di nuovo e meraviglioso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-don-t-rush-them-with-their-answer\">12. Don\u2019t rush them with their answer<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"uomo e donna che parlano in un caff\u00e8\" class=\"wp-image-161017\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>To be honest, we\u2019re all afraid of office relationships a bit, especially those who aren\u2019t familiar with it or those who\u2019ve already had a bad experience with workplace dating. <strong>That\u2019s why you need to be patient if your <\/strong><strong>collaboratore<\/strong><strong> vi chiede di concedergli un po' di tempo per riflettere sulla vostra proposta.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let them have their time, especially if it\u2019s<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segnali-che-una-collega-donna-vi-piace-ma-lo-sta-nascondendo\/\"> una collega donna<\/a>, because it\u2019s a general fact that women are indecisive and like to keep their men waiting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-plan-the-perfect-first-date\">13. Organizzate il primo appuntamento perfetto!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Quando finalmente si ottiene un s\u00ec dal vostro <\/em><em>collaboratore<\/em><em>Il prossimo passo sar\u00e0 quello di pianificare l'appuntamento pi\u00f9 romantico di sempre, che li travolger\u00e0 immediatamente e far\u00e0 loro desiderare un secondo appuntamento.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your coworker has some good friends at work, you should talk to them to find out what your date likes and what their interests are. That way, you\u2019ll have a better chance of organizing the best date of their life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-14-no-matter-what-happens-don-t-let-it-affect-your-professional-relationship\">14. No matter what happens, don\u2019t let it affect your professional relationship<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Le storie d'amore sul posto di lavoro possono talvolta danneggiare l'atmosfera del luogo di lavoro, perch\u00e9 la coppia pu\u00f2 terminare la propria relazione in cattivi rapporti. <em>Se uno dei due partner tradisce l'altro o se succede qualcosa di simile, tra i due ci saranno molti rancori ed emozioni negative.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s why you need to be aware of it, and no matter what happens, pay attention to maintaining a healthy professional relationship. If you can, <strong>mantenere la propria professionalit\u00e0 e<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-vita-privata-e-una-vita-felice\/\"><strong> <\/strong><strong>vita privata<\/strong><\/a><strong> <\/strong><strong>separato<\/strong>anche se voi e il vostro collega decidete di intraprendere una relazione sentimentale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-ask-a-coworker-out-45-best-examples\">Come chiedere a un collega di uscire: i 45 esempi migliori<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea.jpg\" alt=\"uomini e donne seduti fuori a bere t\u00e8\" class=\"wp-image-161018\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Now that we\u2019ve gone through the theoretical part, let\u2019s dive into the practical one. I\u2019ve gathered the best examples of how to ask a coworker out I could find online and compiled them into the list below. One thing is for sure, these examples will get you a date. \ud83e\udd1e<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1. You seem great; I\u2019d love to meet up sometime. Are you around next week?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2. Spero che questa notte riposi bene. Le andrebbe di vedersi domattina per un caff\u00e8 o una colazione?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3. Ever heard of a backward dinner? We kick start with ICE CREAM and wind up doing CANAPES at midnight. The plan is best executed on Friday night \u2013 does that work ok for you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. Cosa fate venerd\u00ec? Lo fate <\/strong><strong>voler<\/strong><strong> bere qualcosa dopo il lavoro?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>5. I film, tu e io facciamo un piano perfetto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>6. I\u2019ve been gathering the courage for some time to ask you on a date, so I\u2019d be grateful if you could be so kind as to put me out of my misery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>7. I\u2019ve been trying to figure out how I should ask you out. So, I decided to take you out for a date tonight. Meet me at (place) (time).<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>8. Trovare un orario in cui possiamo incontrarci entrambi = incubo. Latte luned\u00ec, affare o non affare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>9. I\u2019m going to see this band on the 1st when it comes to town. Tickets are cheap. Do you wanna come?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>10. How\u2019s your day going? Would you like to have dinner?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>11. Can\u2019t think of a good reason to go out for a celebratory drink . . . but I\u2019m sure it\u2019s someone\u2019s birthday somewhere right now, so we should toast to that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>12. Se qualche volta vuoi rilassarti a casa mia dopo il lavoro, fammi sapere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>13. I\u2019ve wanted to try this new restaurant, and they have your favorite food. What time are you free?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>14. I\u2019d love to grab your number. Maybe we can get a drink or a cup of coffee sometime.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>15. Mi sono divertito molto con te. Posso chiederti di uscire con me?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>16. Dovremmo vederci qualche volta al di fuori del lavoro. Cosa ne pensi?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>17. That just makes me think of ASIAN FOOD . . . Looks like we\u2019ll have to get that this weekend to satisfy my craving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>18. Credo che questo sia un argomento da discutere a cena.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>19. Che ne dite di uscire stasera, solo noi due, e di fare una cena sontuosa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>20. Quali sono i giorni solitamente liberi? Lei <\/strong><strong>voler<\/strong><strong> uscire qualche volta e fare qualcosa di divertente?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>21. Buongiorno! Siete liberi per il pranzo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>22. You\u2019re ridiculously busy. I\u2019m ridiculously busy. Let\u2019s multi-task and do a work date. Just promise not to distract me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia al bar che prende il caff\u00e8\" class=\"wp-image-161019\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>23. Cosa stai facendo in questo momento? Hai voglia di prendere un caff\u00e8?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>24. I think Friday is a legit excuse to enjoy one too many beers\/cocktails. Wouldn\u2019t you agree?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>25. I\u2019m so proud of you and can\u2019t wait to see you. Let\u2019s go out and celebrate!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>26. My phone&#8217;s been acting weird all day. I gotta go to the mall to see if they can fix it. Wanna keep me company?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>27. Hands tired . . . fingers aching . . . all this texting is giving me RSI. Let\u2019s carry this conversation on in person \u2013 is after work good for you?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>28. Mi piace parlare e messaggiare con te e mi piacerebbe portarti fuori.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>29. My friends and I are going out on Saturday. We&#8217;d be happy to have you along.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>30. Koen d\u00e9-Gwener? Asked you out in Cornish . . . Points for originality?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>31. Ho un biglietto in pi\u00f9 per il film che volevi vedere. A che ora devo passare a prenderti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>32. Io e i miei amici ci riuniamo ogni gioved\u00ec sera per giocare a poker. Dovresti venire una settimana.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>33. Benvenuti nella tradizione del gioved\u00ec della sete. Penso che possiate sopportare un bicchierino di CHEESECAKE ALLE FRAGOLE in una serata di lavoro... Allora, vi va di unirvi a noi pi\u00f9 tardi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>34. Ho questo evento in programma e vorrei che mi accompagnaste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>35. What are your thoughts on pizza? A new place just opened up, and I&#8217;ve been looking for someone to check it out with me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>36. I go jogging with some friends every Saturday morning. You&#8217;re welcome to come whenever you&#8217;d like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>37. Let\u2019s link up this weekend. Picnic for good weather, indoors if not.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>38. Hey, I\u2019m thinking about you, dinner, drinks, dessert, and a date. Looking forward to spending some quality time with you and making it a night to remember!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>39. I go to a book club every other week. If you want to come to check it out, we&#8217;re open to new people attending.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>40. My family is getting together this weekend. I\u2019d love it if you\u2019d join me.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>41. The weather is supposed to be great this weekend. If you&#8217;re looking for someone to take advantage of it with, hit me up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>42. Will you be my date tonight? Place: It\u2019s a surprise (I will pick you up at your front door. Don\u2019t be late). If you\u2019re in, text YES.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>43. Is it bad to admit I\u2019m bored at my desk? How about we rename today Madness Monday and make it like it\u2019s Friday night?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>44. My friends think we\u2019d make a cute couple. Let\u2019s prove them right. Will you please go on a date with me tonight? Waiting to meet you at (place\/time).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>45. Questo \u00e8 un promemoria per cancellare tutto il lavoro della giornata e uscire con me.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vedi anche:<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-chiedere-a-un-ragazzo-un-appuntamento-12-consigli-per-il-successo\/\"> <strong>Come chiedere a un ragazzo un appuntamento? 12 consigli per il successo<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-know-if-a-coworker-likes-you\">Come si fa a sapere se si piace a un collega?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che guarda un uomo seduto al bar\" class=\"wp-image-161020\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Most coworkers try to hide their feelings towards another of their coworkers because they\u2019re afraid of being rejected and the possible outcome it may have for their professional relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tuttavia, per quanto cerchino di nasconderlo, alla fine si scopriranno altre cose.<\/strong> Basta seguire questi suggerimenti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ad esempio, se il vostro collega ha <em>linguaggio del corpo nervoso intorno a voi, si impegna in <\/em><em>chiacchiere<\/em><em> con voi frequentemente e inizia a farvi domande personali, vi offre aiuto ogni volta che ne avete bisogno, vi d\u00e0 <\/em><em>trattamento preferenziale<\/em><em>e flirta sottilmente con voi, potete essere certi che<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/20-segni-inequivocabili-di-simpatia-per-un-collega-che-vuole-qualcosa-di-piu\/\"><em> <\/em><em>gli piaci.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The good thing is that even if you don\u2019t figure it out, be sure that some of your other coworkers will, and they\u2019ll share their doubts with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-is-it-ok-to-flirt-with-coworkers\">\u00c8 giusto flirtare con i colleghi?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>It\u2019s definitely not okay to go off randomly and flirt with all of your <\/em><em>collaboratori<\/em><em>. Tuttavia, se vi piace un particolare <\/em><em>collaboratore<\/em><em> and start catching feelings for them, it\u2019s okay to flirt with them.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tuttavia, \u00e8 necessario prestare attenzione e mantenere il proprio <\/strong><strong>rapporto professionale<\/strong><strong> una priorit\u00e0 in ogni momento. <\/strong>Se notate che il vostro flirt li infastidisce, dovete sapere quando fermarvi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you overdo it, you might get a sexual harassment complaint, which may even end in you getting fired. That\u2019s why you need to be very careful and call it quits on your flirtation if your coworker clearly shows that they aren\u2019t into you romantically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-hint-to-a-coworker-that-you-like-her\">Come si fa a far capire a una collega che ti piace?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, you can\u2019t be upfront with them and immediately admit your feelings for them because it\u2019ll be a huge turn-off. <strong>Questo non solo potrebbe allontanarli, ma potrebbe anche influire sul vostro <\/strong><strong>rapporto professionale<\/strong><strong> e creare un <\/strong><strong>ambiente di lavoro ostile<\/strong><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dovete andarci piano e lasciare a loro dei sottili suggerimenti che mostrino quello che provate per loro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Try to look your best whenever they\u2019re around. A little innocent flirting never killed anybody. Make them laugh. Engage in <\/em><em>chiacchiere<\/em><em> frequentemente, il che vi permetter\u00e0 di conoscerli un po' meglio.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Offer them a genuine compliment from time to time but don\u2019t make it work-related. Make your body language cooperate with you and let it do the talking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-to-conclude\">Per concludere<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che prende una tazza di caff\u00e8\" class=\"wp-image-161021\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Now you have it all, both the theoretical and practical parts on how to ask a coworker out. I wish you luck, but trust me, you don\u2019t need it if you follow my tips carefully.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Whether it\u2019s a female or <\/em><em>collega maschio, questi<\/em><em> consigli ed esempi sono assolutamente tutto ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno per ottenere un appuntamento con loro.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Incontri sul posto di lavoro<\/strong><strong> pu\u00f2 essere impegnativo, ma ogni sfida vale la pena se siete compatibili e felici di stare insieme. <\/strong>Tuttavia, dovete tenere presente che la vostra rottura potrebbe creare una situazione imbarazzante tra di voi e un ambiente di lavoro ostile che non sarebbe salutare per entrambi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>So, if you can\u2019t get along together and decide to<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/35-segnali-che-indicano-che-la-vostra-relazione-sta-per-giungere-al-capolinea\/\"><em> porre fine alla relazione<\/em><\/a><em>Cercate di rimanere in buoni rapporti.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spero davvero, dal profondo del mio cuore, che il vostro stato di coppia cambi dopo questo articolo e che la vostra collega si riveli la vostra anima gemella.<a href=\"https:\/\/emojipedia.org\/hearts\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> \ud83d\udc95<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Come chiedere a un collega di uscire 14 consigli con i migliori esempi Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-161543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some people say that office romances are the worst and that they would never engage in something like that. 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