{"id":161137,"date":"2022-12-05T12:02:48","date_gmt":"2022-12-05T12:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=161137"},"modified":"2023-01-11T09:53:02","modified_gmt":"2023-01-11T09:53:02","slug":"la-moglie-vuole-un-matrimonio-aperto-a-meta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-moglie-vuole-un-matrimonio-aperto-a-meta\/","title":{"rendered":"14 cose da sapere quando vostra moglie vuole un matrimonio aperto a met\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cMy wife wants a half-open marriage\u201d… I think this is the hardest sentence a man can say out loud. I have nothing against polyamorous relationships when both partners agree to it, but in my opinion, it\u2019s a little difficult when one partner wants to make it one-sided.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, so anche che IF you love your wife, you\u2019ll choose to stay with her, no matter what. <\/strong>You\u2019ll stay married to her even if she suggests a half-<\/em>relazione aperta<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, I also understand you and all of your mixed emotions. It\u2019s definitely not easy to go through something like this, and I want to be here for you and make your journey through this new life path at least a little bit easier. So, let\u2019s do this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14 cose da tenere a mente quando la moglie vuole un matrimonio aperto a met\u00e0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Quindi, se sua moglie vuole questo tipo di relazione<\/a> all of a sudden and you don\u2019t know what to do, I hope these tips will bring you peace and brighten your path so you can make the right decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Pensate ai potenziali motivi che l'hanno spinta a pensare a un matrimonio semiaperto.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I know you couldn\u2019t even imagine this when you were saying \u201cI do\u201d to your wife, but it\u2019s happening, and now you need to think about how you\u2019re going to deal with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se pensate di essere ancora in grado di far cambiare idea a vostra moglie, allora dovete pensare a tutti i potenziali motivi che le hanno fatto prendere questo tipo di decisione.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il tuo <\/em>relazione sessuale<\/em> bene? La scintilla tra voi \u00e8 ancora viva? Ha mostrato qualche desiderio di <\/em>poliamore<\/em> quando uscivate insieme?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

These are all the questions you need to ask yourself to understand your wife\u2019s sudden need for a half-open marriage. And once you come to a conclusion, you should try to fix that part of your marriage or talk to her about it because that might make her give up on the whole half-open marriage thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Confidatevi con il vostro migliore amico<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

I know it\u2019s not easy to go through this all alone, so my advice is to share what\u2019s going on with the person you trust the most. Naturally, it\u2019s not easy to go to your friend and tell them, \u201cmy wife wants an open marriage,\u201d but in the end, if they don\u2019t understand you, who will then?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m sure your <\/em>migliore amico<\/em> sar\u00e0 presente per sostenervi, qualunque sia la vostra decisione. <\/em>Soprattutto, potrebbero anche darvi qualche buon consiglio su cosa fare per aiutarvi a prendere la decisione giusta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dopo tutto, il vostro <\/strong>migliore amico<\/strong> \u00e8 la persona che vi conosce meglio, forse anche meglio di voi stessi.<\/strong> Is there anyone better to consult with regarding something like this than your bf? You can bet there isn\u2019t!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u00c8 sicuro di poter sopportare che sua moglie faccia sesso con altre persone?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You won\u2019t just need to see your wife with a new partner, but you\u2019ll need to accept the fact that she\u2019s having sexual relations with another man<\/a>. Sei sicuro di poterlo gestire?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most men are very protective over the woman they love, and they don\u2019t like to share with anyone else.<\/em> If you\u2019re one of these men, then don\u2019t even try with the whole half-open marriage thing because you\u2019ll freak out the first time your wife tells you she has another sexual partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Aprirsi a lei<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"una<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Direct and open communication is the key to making this type of relationship work. If you don\u2019t communicate all your needs in the beginning, your marriage will already be doomed to fail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever it is that you\u2019re feeling right now, you need to share it with your wife.<\/strong> If at any moment you start feeling that you can\u2019t handle it anymore, you should approach her immediately and admit that you\u2019re having second thoughts about it all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Influirebbe sulla fiducia tra di voi?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Se pensate che questo nuovo concetto nel vostro matrimonio possa portare a una violazione della fiducia, dovete comunicarlo a vostra moglie, perch\u00e9 sarebbe un'enorme <\/em>rompiscatole<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you want to make this work, you\u2019ll need to trust each other above anything else. If it affects the trust between you, you\u2019ll slowly start growing apart and decide to split up sooner or later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. You\u2019ll need to set some ground rules<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Impostazione <\/strong>regole di base<\/strong> e<\/strong> <\/strong>confini chiari<\/strong><\/a> <\/strong>sono necessari. <\/strong>Dovete essere forti e chiari su questi aspetti non appena decidete di iniziare questo nuovo viaggio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you aren\u2019t okay with your wife doing something with new partners, you need to tell her right away. On the other hand, if she doesn\u2019t want you to be involved in her other relationships, she also needs to say that and include it in her boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. E fare controlli regolari<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

As much as it\u2019s important to have open communication, it\u2019s also important to have regular communication. You need to share how you feel often because there will be a lot of mixed feelings along the way, especially when your wife meets her first new partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Controlli regolari<\/strong><\/a> eviter\u00e0 qualsiasi errore di comunicazione tra voi e render\u00e0 l'intera faccenda molto pi\u00f9 semplice. <\/strong>That way, your partner will know how you feel in every moment, and they will be able to sense when something is wrong with you or when you aren\u2019t okay with certain things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Mantenere le aspettative realistiche<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"un<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Right from the beginning, you\u2019ll need to set and maintain realistic expectations. Don\u2019t expect your wife to change her mind one day and go back to having<\/strong> <\/strong>un <\/strong>relazione esclusiva<\/strong><\/a> <\/strong>di nuovo con voi.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che potrebbe non accadere mai e bisogna esserne consapevoli. <\/em>If you can\u2019t handle sharing your wife with other men, just say so right away \u2013 don\u2019t keep those false hopes in because they may break your heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Risolvere tutti i problemi di fondo nel modo giusto e in tempo.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Dopo aver impostato il <\/em>regole di base<\/em>Dovreste anche liberarvi di ogni dubbio che potreste avere su vostra moglie.<\/em> I know you have so many questions running through your head, so don\u2019t be afraid to ask her each and every single one of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll encounter many ups and downs if you decide to have a half-open marriage. And you\u2019ll need to take care of them in time if you want to maintain your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. I risentimenti nascosti porteranno prima o poi al divorzio<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You might immediately accept your wife\u2019s suggestion just to make her happy or to keep her by your side, but this would definitely be the wrong decision. You need to think it through and be ready for everything that comes with it before accepting your wife\u2019s suggestion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Altrimenti, il <\/em>risentimento nascosto<\/em> finir\u00e0 per distruggere completamente il vostro matrimonio. <\/em>If you aren\u2019t honest from day one, you can be sure that you won\u2019t be able to maintain your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. La vostra vita sessuale ne risentir\u00e0 sicuramente<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not sure how, but the fact is that your sex life will be affected by the new concept in your marriage. It may be beneficial, but it will also bring many new issues into the bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why you need to set clear boundaries regarding a <\/strong>relazione sessuale<\/strong> anche. <\/strong>Sua moglie dovr\u00e0 fare attenzione alla sua <\/em>nuovi partner<\/em> and use protection every time to keep you both safe. It\u2019s really the <\/em>regola di base<\/em> per tutti<\/em> <\/em>relazioni aperte<\/em>.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, your wife may learn some new things, and you may start experimenting with different sexual positions and toys in bed. That\u2019s the good side of having a half-open marriage, reigniting the spark between a married couple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Mantenere forte la connessione<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll need to work on your connection constantly. If, at any moment, your connection starts weakening, you can see it as the end of your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You won\u2019t be able to handle the <\/strong>matrimonio semiaperto<\/strong> thing if you don\u2019t keep your connection rock solid. <\/strong>Open relationships are never easy to maintain, but when the couple has a strong connection, they\u2019ll always know clearly what their priorities are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Don\u2019t let other people\u2019s opinions affect you<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u00c8 necessario essere consapevoli del fatto che una <\/em>molte persone<\/em> sono<\/em> <\/em>contro <\/em>poligamia<\/em><\/a> and won\u2019t approve of your decision \u2013 even some of your loved ones may be against it. <\/em>However, the decision is up to you, and you shouldn\u2019t bother about others and their opinions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They have their own lives, and they should focus on them. Don\u2019t let their judgy looks interfere with your decision because you and your own happiness are all that matters in this story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Quello che vuole tua moglie \u00e8 importante, ma quello che vuoi tu \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 importante!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Your wife\u2019s wishes are important, but yours are equally or even more important. <\/em>While you\u2019re making a decision, try to keep that in mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know that you want to make your wife happy and that you would make all of her wishes come true if it were up to you. However, do you really want to be stuck in a marriage where you don\u2019t feel happy for the rest of your life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questo pu\u00f2 essere un <\/strong>momento di illuminazione<\/strong> for you because you might now understand that your wife doesn\u2019t love you the same way you love her. <\/strong>She is more than enough for you, while on the other hand, she\u2019s the one who wants to try new relationships and have a half-open marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un matrimonio aperto a met\u00e0 pu\u00f2 funzionare?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"un<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It can, but even if it doesn\u2019t seem like it, a lot of work and effort is needed to maintain this type of marriage. The truth is, ogni <\/strong>tipo di relazione<\/strong> pu\u00f2 funzionare se la coppia si impegna a lottare per farlo funzionare.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

La cosa pi\u00f9 importante per mantenere un matrimonio semiaperto \u00e8 l'onest\u00e0. Entrambi i partner devono essere sempre onesti l'uno con l'altro e avere un rapporto regolare con il partner. <\/em>check-in<\/em> where they\u2019ll be able to share their feelings.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un'altra cosa che una coppia deve fare in <\/strong>matrimonio semiaperto<\/strong> \u00e8 impostato su alcuni <\/strong>regole di base<\/strong>. <\/strong>Without it, things won\u2019t be completely clear to both sides, and sooner or later, those discrepancies will raise far greater issues and problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, open communication is a must in these types of marriages (it\u2019s actually a must in every type of marriage). All underlying issues need to be solved on time; otherwise, they\u2019ll provoke bigger issues and lead to a potential divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I matrimoni aperti hanno tassi di divorzio pi\u00f9 alti?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a fact that non-monogamous marriages have a low success rate. It\u2019s probably due to the fact that most couples run into it too soon or without thinking it through properly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alcuni studi hanno addirittura dimostrato che 92% di <\/strong>matrimoni aperti<\/strong> falliscono e finiscono con un divorzio.<\/strong> It\u2019s really not that hard to believe this data because it\u2019s very hard to maintain this kind of marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Both partners need to be in it 100%, and if one of them isn\u2019t honest about their feelings, their <\/em>matrimonio aperto<\/em> \u00e8 in pericolo. <\/em>And once a couple decides to try a non-monogamous relationship, it\u2019s hard for them to get back on track and continue having a monogamous marriage. It\u2019s actually close to impossible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il matrimonio aperto pu\u00f2 essere unilaterale?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It can, but it\u2019s very difficult to maintain that kind of marriage. Prima o poi, il partner che desidera avere un <\/strong>matrimonio monogamo<\/strong> inizia a sentirsi a disagio e cambia idea sulla <\/strong>matrimonio semiaperto<\/strong> cosa.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actually, it\u2019s hard to maintain an open marriage, and it\u2019s so much harder and way too complicated when it\u2019s half-open.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I partner devono essere molto liberali, oppure devono essere innamorati perdutamente l'uno dell'altro. <\/em>Ancora una volta, come ho detto, alla fine ci saranno dei ripensamenti e delle rivalutazioni che potrebbero portare alla fine del loro matrimonio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In chiusura<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Affrontare la difficile situazione che si crea quando una moglie vuole un matrimonio semiaperto non \u00e8 mai facile, soprattutto quando il marito \u00e8 ancora follemente innamorato della sua donna. It\u2019s easy for those who\u2019ve stopped loving their wives because they can simply reject their suggestion or respond to it with divorce.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most men want a traditional marriage, and that\u2019s what they hope they\u2019ll get when they commit to one woman. Of course, a matrimonio tradizionale<\/strong> sar\u00e0 sempre un <\/strong>matrimonio monogamo<\/strong> \u2013 <\/strong>non-monogamia<\/strong> non fa assolutamente parte della tradizione.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s one reason most men will struggle to accept this idea, and the wife\u2019s wish for a half-open relationship will, in most cases, lead to divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il fatto \u00e8 che dovete tenere presente che dovete prendere una decisione e, a prescindere dal tipo di decisione, nessuno ha il diritto di giudicarvi. If you love your wife and feel that it\u2019s the right thing to give her what she wants, go for it.<\/strong>On the flip side, if you can\u2019t accept it or think that a non-monogamous relationship would make you miserable, you have every right not to agree to it.<\/em> Anche se questo dovesse costarvi il matrimonio, dopo tutto la vostra felicit\u00e0 e la vostra tranquillit\u00e0 dovrebbero essere la vostra priorit\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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