{"id":16129,"date":"2020-09-12T09:18:49","date_gmt":"2020-09-12T09:18:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16129"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:15:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:15:32","slug":"non-potra-mai-perdonare-di-aver-ferito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-potra-mai-perdonare-di-aver-ferito\/","title":{"rendered":"Non potr\u00f2 mai perdonarmi per averti ferita"},"content":{"rendered":"

Chi dice che non esiste un uomo perfetto non ti ha mai incontrato. Sei stato il pi\u00f9 vicino alla perfezione che un uomo possa mai avere. Sono stata abbastanza sciocca da non rendermene conto in tempo.<\/p>\n

Ho avuto la mia parte di esperienze dolorose prima di incontrarti. Gli uomini prima di te mi hanno ferito in modi che non puoi immaginare.<\/p>\n

They used me, disrespected me and none of them actually loved me. You already know that\u2014 my il dolore ha definito chi ero<\/a> and you couldn\u2019t help but notice it.<\/p>\n

Ma invece di servirmi da lezione, quegli uomini mi hanno fatto diventare uguale a loro. E questa \u00e8 la mia pi\u00f9 grande sconfitta.<\/p>\n

Quando sei arrivato nella mia vita, ho pensato automaticamente che fossi uguale a tutti gli altri.<\/p>\n

Pensavo che la tua unica intenzione fosse quella di approfittarsi di me<\/a> o per manipolarmi emotivamente.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Continuavi a dimostrarmi che eri diverso, che le tue intenzioni nei miei confronti erano oneste, ma niente poteva dimostrare che mi sbagliavo.<\/p>\n

Hai cercato in tutti i modi di dimostrarmi quanto mi amavi, ma io mi sono rifiutata di crederti.<\/p>\n

I admit it now\u2014 Sono sempre stato egoista quando si trattava di te.<\/strong> Ero possessivo, controllante ed eccessivamente geloso.<\/p>\n

I never opened up to you completely\u2014 I always kept a part of my personality for myself only. I was constantly running away from you and your love.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, se ci penso, probabilmente stavo scappando da me stesso e dal modo in cui mi facevi sentire.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean I didn\u2019t love you. Because I did, very much.<\/strong> I know it\u2019s hard for you to believe that now but I was crazy about you.<\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

Pensavo che avresti cambiato il tuo comportamento nel momento in cui io avessi cambiato il mio. Pensavo che avresti smesso di amarmi nel momento in cui ti avessi mostrato il mio amore.<\/p>\n

E pensavo che avresti smesso di impegnarti nella nostra relazione non appena avessi mostrato interesse.<\/p>\n

What I didn\u2019t realize is how much I was hurting you<\/strong> in the process. I didn\u2019t understand that I was doing to you exactly what all of those guys from my past had done to me.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t want to see that you were taking the blame for every guy who had ever done me harm. And none of it was your fault.<\/p>\n

Most of all, I didn\u2019t realize how much I was hurting you. You gave me your love, your attention, your respect, your compassion and care and you got nothing in return.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, hai preso la mia amarezza, la mia negativit\u00e0, la mia mancanza di fiducia e tutti i demoni del mio passato.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

When I come to think about it, you never asked for anything in return; you didn\u2019t want my gratitude or admiration.<\/p>\n

You just wanted me to love you back and to appreciate everything you\u2019d been doing for me. And I couldn\u2019t even give you that.<\/p>\n

Ti ho dato solo dolore e rifiuto.<\/strong> Ed \u00e8 una cosa che non potrei mai perdonarmi di aver fatto.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t expect for you to accept my tearful apologies,<\/strong> because I have no one else to blame but myself for losing you. And I don\u2019t expect you to understand me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve deserved this guilt I\u2019ve been feeling for chasing you away. Nothing and nobody can help me get rid of this guilt.<\/p>\n

E niente, a parte questo, mi ha aiutato ad affrontarlo: Scoprite il segreto per affrontare i sensi di colpa<\/a><\/p>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t even expect your forgiveness. Even if you ever find the strength to forgive me, I want you to know that I can never forgive myself for hurting you and for losing you.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve had my heart broken<\/a> in pezzi molte volte, ma niente mi ha mai ferito cos\u00ec tanto. Aver infranto il tuo cuore \u00e8 stata una delle cose pi\u00f9 dolorose che ho fatto in vita mia.<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t expect your compassion for that. It was all my fault and it\u2019s time for me to deal with the consequences of my actions.<\/p>\n

Sono un esempio vivente che non si sa mai cosa si ha finch\u00e9 non lo si perde.<\/strong> I didn\u2019t appreciate you enough while I had you and now I regret it more than anything.<\/p>\n

Now I know that you were the best person I\u2019ve ever met. I know that a man like you will never cross my path again.<\/p>\n

You were the only one who had any intention of giving me everything I ever wished for but, sadly, I didn\u2019t know how to take it.<\/p>\n

Ora so tutto. But it\u2019s too late now.<\/strong> E non si pu\u00f2 fare nulla al riguardo.<\/p>\n

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Those who say that there doesn\u2019t exist a perfect man never met you. You were the closest to perfection any man will ever be. I was just foolish enough not to realize that in time. I had my share of painful experiences before I met you. Men before you hurt me in ways you can…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":120454,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16129","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/I-Can-Never-Forgive-Myself-For-Hurting-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16129","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16129"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16129\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120454"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16129"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16129"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16129"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}