{"id":16185,"date":"2020-07-12T11:31:19","date_gmt":"2020-07-12T11:31:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16185"},"modified":"2022-01-09T17:15:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T17:15:20","slug":"non-ho-bisogno-dellamore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-ho-bisogno-dellamore\/","title":{"rendered":"Non ho bisogno dell'amore che devo implorare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pensavo che non avrei mai avuto il coraggio di dirlo, ma ne ho abbastanza. Ne ho abbastanza di questa relazione, del tuo quasi amore e ne ho abbastanza di te.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for me to start putting myself first and it\u2019s time for me to stop begging for your love and attention. It\u2019s time for me to start respecting myself enough to finally tell you that I\u2019ve had it.<\/p>\n

Ed ecco cosa mi aiuter\u00e0 ad approfondire il rispetto di me stesso: Approfondite il rispetto di voi stessi e vivete a partire dal vostro cuore<\/a><\/p>\n

Sai, mi hai sempre fatto wonder why I wasn\u2019t enough<\/a> for you. I\u2019ve tried to meet your standards and I\u2019ve tried to be the woman you wanted me to be.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve tried changing my looks and my personality just for you to like me more, but now I know that there was nothing I could to make you love me.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato doloroso per me accettarlo, ma la cruda verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che love cannot be forced and it\u2019s not love if you have to ask for it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

So I\u2019m here to tell you I don\u2019t need love I have to beg for.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a relationship in which I have to prove that I am worthy of your love.<\/strong> Because, I know my value and I know I\u2019ve deserved your complete love.<\/p>\n

You just couldn\u2019t bring yourself to give it to me and that is your loss. I don\u2019t need a relationship in which I constantly have to wonder why I am not enough for your love.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a relationship in which I always have to chase you.<\/strong> Ed era esattamente quello che stavo facendo da sempre.<\/p>\n

I was chasing you to commit to me. I was chasing you to label our relationship. I was chasing you to put it on the next level\u2026<\/p>\n

And I was chasing you to love me. And that was the most humiliating thing I\u2019ve ever done.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need love I have to wait for.<\/strong> Mi lasciavi continuamente e tornavi da me come volevi. Ma sapevi di avere qualcuno che ti aspettava ogni volta che decidevi di tornare.<\/p>\n

I thought that your coming back to me was proof of your love, but now I realize that you don\u2019t walk away from people you truly care for.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a relationship in which I have to feel like I am pushing you to be with me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

With you, I was always the one initiating everything. I felt like there could pass days without us having a meaningful conversation and you wouldn\u2019t even notice.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a relationship in which I have to ask for you to like me.<\/strong> Se ci penso bene, non ti \u00e8 mai piaciuta la vera me.<\/p>\n

Secondo voi, sono sempre stata troppo sensibile, troppo emotiva e troppo bisognosa.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

And while I tried very hard to change those things about me so you could finally like my personality, I\u2019ve realized that this is who I am and that I don\u2019t need to change for anyone<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you had ever loved me, I wouldn\u2019t have to change the essence of my being for your sake. If you had ever loved me, you would have loved all of me.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need love in which I have to beg for your attention and affection.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Queste cose dovrebbero essere naturali in ogni relazione, ma tu mi facevi sentire come se stessi vincendo un premio ogni volta che mi davi briciole della tua attenzione.<\/p>\n

I was never a priority for you, but you managed to convince me that this was the natural order of things. You\u2019ve managed to convince me that I had no right to ask for more.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need love in which I have to make excuses for you.<\/strong> It took me a long time before I realized that love shouldn\u2019t be like this.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Mi rifiutavo di accettare che non avresti mai potuto amarmi come io ti amavo. Era pi\u00f9 facile per me inventare sempre delle scuse per te.<\/p>\n

In my head, you were this busy man who simply couldn\u2019t find time for me.<\/p>\n

Eri una persona che mi amava molto, ma che aveva difficolt\u00e0 a dimostrarlo nel modo giusto. Ho creduto alle tue bugie perch\u00e9 lo volevo.<\/p>\n

Volevo credere nel tuo amore per me. Ma ora so che non mi hai mai amato veramente; hai amato solo il modo in cui ti ho amato io<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need someone who doesn\u2019t need me back.<\/strong> Ho capito che non ho mai fatto la differenza nella tua vita. Non ti ha mai interessato se sono rimasta o se me ne sono andata e questo \u00e8 stato ci\u00f2 che mi ha fatto pi\u00f9 male.<\/p>\n

Voglio di pi\u00f9 e finalmente ho il coraggio di dirlo ad alta voce. Sono finalmente abbastanza coraggioso da allontanarmi da te e non <\/strong><\/p>\n

guardare indietro.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ho bisogno di un amore totalizzante e duraturo. Ho bisogno e merito attenzione e compassione. Voglio un uomo che mi ami anche nel mio momento peggiore.<\/p>\n

Merito di qualcuno che mi ami con tutto il cuore. Voglio un uomo che si interessi a tutto ci\u00f2 che ho da dire, un uomo che non si tiri indietro nel momento in cui le cose si fanno difficili.<\/p>\n

I want a man who will believe in me, even when I don\u2019t believe in myself, a man who will be the wind for my wings.<\/p>\n

Ho bisogno di un uomo<\/a> che mi aiuter\u00e0 a raggiungere le stelle, un uomo che sar\u00e0 il mio pi\u00f9 grande sostegno e il mio fan numero uno.<\/p>\n

Voglio un ragazzo che mi metta sempre al primo posto e un ragazzo che mi ami, a prescindere da tutto.<\/p>\n

I want love I won\u2019t have to beg for. And I know I will get it, sooner or later.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Voglio il tipo di amore che mi merito. E so che questo non \u00e8 quel tipo di amore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Non<\/p>\n

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I thought I would never have the guts to say this, but I\u2019ve had enough. I\u2019ve had enough of this relationship, of your almost love and I\u2019ve had enough of you. It\u2019s time for me to start putting myself first and it\u2019s time for me to stop begging for your love and attention. It\u2019s time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":102639,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16185","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/I-Dont-Need-Love-I-Have-To-Beg-For.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16185","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16185"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16185\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102639"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16185"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16185"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16185"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}