{"id":16205,"date":"2020-03-12T12:57:56","date_gmt":"2020-03-12T12:57:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16205"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:35:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:35:53","slug":"7-modi-per-mantenere-vivo-linteresse-di-un-uomo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-modi-per-mantenere-vivo-linteresse-di-un-uomo\/","title":{"rendered":"7 modi per conquistare un ragazzo (e mantenerlo interessato)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Probabilmente starete pensando: perch\u00e9 dovreste fare tutta questa fatica per cercare di conquistare un ragazzo, perch\u00e9 o gli piacete o non gli piacete.<\/p>\n

Come ormai sapete e avete imparato, le cose non sono mai cos\u00ec facili.<\/p>\n

Nothing is white or black and there is a big grey zone in which you just don’t know what to do.<\/p>\n

Well, actually that\u2019s the beauty of life. It would be extremely boring if you knew every time what to do.<\/p>\n

Se si vivesse secondo le regole e queste regole portassero esattamente gli stessi risultati promessi.<\/p>\n

The thrill would be gone and the chase wouldn\u2019t exist. And I think we could all agree that the chase is too good to be thrown away that easily.<\/p>\n

If a guy doesn\u2019t show he is interested in you right away, it doesn’t have to mean it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Maybe he\u2019s scared of approaching you, maybe he just got out of a terrible relationship.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, qualunque sia la ragione del suo ripensamento, ci sono alcuni modi che lo aiuteranno a decidere cosa fare.<\/p>\n

Ma devo mettervi in guardia. L'uso di queste tattiche pu\u00f2 essere estremamente utile, ma anche molto dannoso se le usate nel modo sbagliato.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push too hard or overdo things because you\u2019ll come across as a crazy stalker who doesn\u2019t let him breathe.<\/p>\n

Play this \u2018womanly\u2019 smart and with decency, and you\u2019ll get just the result you were hoping for.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you have to try a bit hard to get what you want and believe me, guys love to be chased, but they won\u2019t admit it.<\/p>\n

Ecco quindi alcuni modi per inseguire<\/a> un ragazzo a sua insaputa e di conquistare il suo cuore:<\/p>\n

1. Porre domande<\/h2>\n

\"coppia
\nA nessuno piacciono le persone che parlano continuamente di s\u00e9. Ok, capisco che siete orgogliosi di voi stessi, ma dategli la possibilit\u00e0 di chiedere prima di dirglielo.<\/p>\n

E per rendere le cose pi\u00f9 interessanti, fategli domande sul suo lavoro o sui suoi hobby e mostratevi interessati.<\/p>\n

It would be great if you actually are interested in what he does and if you\u2019re not, you should probably stay away from him because that relationship won’t have a bright future.<\/p>\n

2. Dimostrargli che siete fatti l'uno per l'altro<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

This is a bit sneaky and it borders with manipulation, but if you do it the right, \u2018sweet\u2019 way, you\u2019re definitely going to pull it off.<\/p>\n

Of course, I don\u2019t have to repeat that if you really don\u2019t think you want to spend the rest of your life with this person, don\u2019t manipulate him into thinking that you do.<\/p>\n

Se non siete sicuri di ci\u00f2 che volete, lasciate perdere finch\u00e9 non saprete esattamente cosa fare.<\/p>\n

Se pensate veramente di essere fatti l'uno per l'altra, fate una conversazione informale e attirare la sua attenzione<\/a> menzionando le cose che avete in comune. Non inventatele perch\u00e9 non ha senso farlo.<\/p>\n

3. Non cercare mai di cambiarlo<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Many people make this mistake at the beginning of the relationship. They try to change the person they\u2019re with.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not talking about small changes that don\u2019t matter because you can live with them.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about big changes\u2014changes of his personality or the way he thinks.<\/p>\n

Questo tipo di pensiero \u00e8 tossico per la relazione e se provate a farlo, lui potrebbe diventare frustrato e arrabbiato e voi sareste terribilmente infelici e deluse.<\/p>\n

Not to mention that your relationship will go down in flames, sooner or later. Either accept him for who he is, or don\u2019t bother to date him at all.<\/p>\n

4. Show him it\u2019s okay to be vulnerable<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Non solo dovete mostrargli che lo spazio intorno a voi \u00e8 una zona sicura in cui pu\u00f2 essere esattamente ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 senza dover fingere o indossare una maschera da macho coraggioso, ma sarebbe perfetto se poteste anche mostrargli il vostro lato vulnerabile in modo che possa fidarsi di voi e delle vostre intenzioni.<\/p>\n

Show him that you won’t judge him or nag him, but that you\u2019ll always tell him if you think he did something wrong\u2014but not to humiliate him, to help him.<\/p>\n

Mostrategli che ha una spalla su cui piangere, perch\u00e9 tutti ne hanno bisogno. Tutti piangono.<\/p>\n

5. Farlo ridere<\/h2>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

La risata cura tutto. Non c'\u00e8 niente di meglio della sensazione positiva che si prova quando ci si alza al mattino e la giornata inizia con una risata o quando qualcuno ci regala un sorriso mentre andiamo al lavoro o a scuola.<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t that make your whole day? Tell him a stupid joke, embarrass yourself if you have to, but farlo ridere<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Lo far\u00e0 sentire meglio e rimarr\u00e0 scolpito nella sua memoria, perch\u00e9 le cose positive sono quelle che rimangono pi\u00f9 a lungo nella nostra mente.<\/p>\n

6. Accettare gli amici e la famiglia<\/h2>\n

\"Amici<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t get to choose your family or your boyfriend\u2019s, and that\u2019s why the best thing you can do is make peace with the fact that they exist and there\u2019s nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t like his family, tough\u2014you have to put up with them, and if you do like them, then the problem solves itself.<\/p>\n

E per quanto riguarda gli amici, devi capire che i suoi amici erano l\u00ec per lui molto prima che tu entrassi in scena.<\/p>\n

They are somewhat like family\u2014people he loves and respects. If you don\u2019t respect the people he does, then you automatically don’t respect him.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t like them, show him you can live with the fact he\u2019ll hang out with them and never forbid him to do so because if you do, it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n

And if you really like them, show him that as well, but don\u2019t do too far because he might even get a bit jealous if you try to establish too close of a relationship with his friends.<\/p>\n

7. Riuscire a fargli cambiare idea su qualcosa<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Nothing will impress him more than this, especially if he is stubborn and doesn\u2019t want to listen to anybody\u2019s suggestions about anything.<\/p>\n

Tutti noi abbiamo cose che amiamo. Lui ha qualcosa che lo rende felice e anche voi lo avete.<\/p>\n

Potreste anche avere alcune cose uguali o simili che vi rendono felici, ma non tutto.<\/p>\n

Try to convince him to try your favorite food or watch your favorite show. Who knows\u2014maybe he will like it and you will really impress him.<\/p>\n

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