{"id":162469,"date":"2023-03-03T14:06:56","date_gmt":"2023-03-03T14:06:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162469"},"modified":"2023-03-03T14:07:04","modified_gmt":"2023-03-03T14:07:04","slug":"perche-gli-appuntamenti-moderni-fanno-schifo-agli-uomini","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-gli-appuntamenti-moderni-fanno-schifo-agli-uomini\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco perch\u00e9 gli appuntamenti moderni fanno profondamente schifo agli uomini"},"content":{"rendered":"

Breadcrumbing, double-texting, people pretending they\u2019re single, using fake photos, GHOSTING\u2026<\/em> Quanti di voi hanno sperimentato almeno una volta alcune o tutte queste cose quando si tratta di appuntamenti moderni?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I did, my friends did, my colleagues did, the friends of my friends did\u2026  <\/em>
<\/em>Cosa ci dice questo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Le app di appuntamenti e i social media avrebbero dovuto semplificare gli appuntamenti. Invece, hanno reso le cose pi\u00f9 complicate ed esasperanti.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Each one of us goes through different dating challenges in accordance with our gender. Here\u2019s why modern dating sucks for men!  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perch\u00e9 gli appuntamenti moderni fanno schifo agli uomini? <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cOnline dating is like being a stand up comedian except that instead of boos or getting tomatoes thrown at you, you are greeted with radio silence. <\/em>Bisogna essere pronti con foto che vi mostrino come una persona interessante, essere armati di battute spiritose, grandi barzellette, buone storie da raccontare, e si viene ripetutamente ghosted pi\u00f9 e pi\u00f9 volte.<\/em><\/strong> And all of this isn\u2019t for America\u2019s next top model. This is for your regular girl next door. This also reminds me of that LinkedIn post where someone ranted about how companies should expect you to go through five rounds of interviews if they aren\u2019t gonna pay like Google or Facebook does.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n(Inviato da u\/nouseforaname888<\/em> su Reddit)<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n

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U\/nouseforaname888, <\/em>we TOTALLY agree with you! It sucks to be armed with witty lines and great jokes only to realize that (some) girls don\u2019t give a damn about them. And there is more! Here are a few key points why modern dating sucks for men:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u00c8 uno schifo pensare che le donne si aspettino troppo da voi.  <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Uomo<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI need to have the hottest profile pic.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI need to impress women with hilarious jokes and great openers.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMy profile and texts shouldn\u2019t be boring but also I shouldn\u2019t be trying too hard.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cari uomini, vi suona familiare? Scommetto di s\u00ec. \u00c8 uno schifo pensare che le donne si aspettino troppo da voi, perch\u00e9 questo \u00e8 un modo infallibile per perdere la testa quando si tratta di appuntamenti.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because of this, many men don\u2019t even dare to text some women out of fear that they\u2019ll be rejected by them. One can never enjoy dating when they\u2019re convinced that others expect too much from them, and that\u2019s why modern dating sucks!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. \u00c8 uno schifo essere sempre quello che inizia le cose. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

We can argue about this all day long but there\u2019s this unwritten rule that men are supposed to text first, ask out first, and so on. Beh, \u00e8 uno schifo essere sempre quello che inizia le cose!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questa regola non scritta comporta un enorme fardello e rende gli appuntamenti non proprio piacevoli per gli uomini. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u00c8 uno schifo essere vittima di un fantasma. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Uomo<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

This one is connected with the previous one. Given that men are \u201csupposed to\u201d text first, they are at risk of being ghosted more than women. And yes, it TOTALLY sucks to be ghosted! Provate a immaginare un uomo che ha passato met\u00e0 della sua giornata a cercare la migliore apripista su Tinder solo per poi essere ignorato.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not only once but over and over again (depending on how much time he invests in modern dating). I\u2019m sure that three to five ghosting is enough to shake your self-esteem and make you question your self-worth. That\u2019s why modern dating sucks so much! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. \u00c8 uno schifo continuare a sentire che Tutti gli uomini sono uguali<\/em>. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

And then, there\u2019s this famous sentence: All men are the same! Lord knows how many times a woman uttered it when she was disappointed in that one man who was either a narcissistic asshole or a manipulative player. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Noup, non tutti gli uomini sono uguali e non tutte le donne sono uguali. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are still some good men out there and they don\u2019t enjoy being called \u201cthe same\u201d. Just because some of you, ladies, haven\u2019t met one, this doesn\u2019t mean that they don\u2019t exist. Let\u2019s not make this dating thing even harder than it is, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u00c8 uno schifo competere con altri uomini. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Many men won\u2019t admit this to themselves and others, but they have this inherent trait that forces them to compete with other men. Do they enjoy it? Some men do but the majority of them DON\u2019T. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I social media e le app di incontri hanno portato questo fenomeno a un altro livello. The competition between men has never been stronger thus making men feel like they\u2019ll never be good enough for a woman they like. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci saranno sempre uomini che hanno pi\u00f9 successo o pi\u00f9 belli di altri e gli appuntamenti moderni non hanno piet\u00e0 quando si tratta di enfatizzare questo aspetto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

How can a man EVER feel confident about himself when he\u2019s virtually surrounded by thousands of other men ready to do anything to prove to themselves and to the world that they are more powerful, stronger, and so on?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trovare il coraggio di entrare nei DM della ragazza che vi piace non \u00e8 mai stato cos\u00ec difficile, perch\u00e9 sapete che la concorrenza \u00e8 spietata. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. \u00c8 uno schifo passare da un estremo all'altro. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Gli incontri moderni costringono gli uomini a lavorare costantemente per aggiornare i loro approcci. Passare da un estremo all'altro \u00e8 diventata la nuova normalit\u00e0. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dopo essere stato ripetutamente ignorato, un uomo \u00e8 costretto a ridimensionare le proprie aspettative e ad accontentarsi di poco.<\/strong> Quando i suoi livelli di fiducia si abbassano, inizia a vedere le donne sotto una luce diversa. I suoi standard diminuiscono significativamente e diventa timoroso di commettere un errore. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Purtroppo, sbagliare nel mondo degli appuntamenti moderni non \u00e8 mai stato cos\u00ec facile perch\u00e9 gli sms sono il principale mezzo di comunicazione. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. \u00c8 uno schifo essere friendzonati.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"la<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s the truth: Every single woman has friendzoned a guy at least once in her life. With modern dating, friendzoning has become even more popular. Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perch\u00e9 non \u00e8 mai stato cos\u00ec facile fare amicizia con qualcuno! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you want to friendzone a guy, all you need to do is ignore his texts for a while and then let him know that you\u2019re only interested in being friends with him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beh, essere friendzonati fa schifo. Ogni uomo che \u00e8 stato friendzonato sa che essere friendzonati \u00e8 come essere messi in prigione e sentirsi dire che va bene cos\u00ec finch\u00e9 non cambia qualcosa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nella maggior parte dei casi, non cambia nulla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E sapete cosa fa pi\u00f9 schifo?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"coppia<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

All this pretending that modern dating is the best invention since sliced bread. I think it\u2019s high time for men to wake up and realize that modern dating brings more consequences than benefits to them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perch\u00e9 continuare a sprecare il proprio tempo giocando a fare il cabarettista e armandosi di battute spiritose quando le cose possono e DEVONO essere pi\u00f9 semplici di cos\u00ec?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Breadcrumbing, double-texting, people pretending they\u2019re single, using fake photos, GHOSTING\u2026 How many of you have experienced some or all of these things at least once when it comes to modern dating?  I did, my friends did, my colleagues did, the friends of my friends did\u2026  What does this say to us? Dating apps and social…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":162478,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-162469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Heres-Why-Modern-Dating-Profoundly-SUCKS-For-Men-1-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162469","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=162469"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162469\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/162478"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=162469"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=162469"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=162469"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}