{"id":162482,"date":"2023-03-05T21:54:47","date_gmt":"2023-03-05T21:54:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162482"},"modified":"2023-03-05T22:02:07","modified_gmt":"2023-03-05T22:02:07","slug":"perche-gli-appuntamenti-moderni-fanno-schifo-alle-donne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-gli-appuntamenti-moderni-fanno-schifo-alle-donne\/","title":{"rendered":"Care donne, possiamo ammettere che gli appuntamenti moderni fanno decisamente schifo?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Uomini che sono pessimi nel mandare messaggi. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Giocatori.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uomini che ti fanno pensare troppo. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quante di voi, signore, hanno avuto a che fare almeno una volta con questo tipo di uomini o con tipi simili nell'era degli appuntamenti moderni? <\/strong>Uno di troppo, giusto?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve been thinking a lot about this matter and here\u2019s my conclusion: Modern dating SUCKS. Big time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perch\u00e9 gli appuntamenti moderni fanno schifo alle donne?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cOnline dating is like being a shopper at a bazaar in Istanbul. You are greeted by several guys who whistle at you, tell you they got the best Turkish carpets and can offer you Turkish tea to buy them. Some people try to win you over by throwing Hollywood song and dance if you\u2019re European or Bollywood song and dance if you\u2019re south Asian or Kpop dances if you\u2019re East Asian. <\/em>While it is fun to look for some cool items, it\u2019s exhausting to say no to several pushy vendors over and over again.<\/em><\/strong> Except, you can explore a bazaar for maybe a couple hours and then do something else that doesn\u2019t involve pushy bazaar vendors. Dating apps are constantly buzzing 24-7.\u201d <\/em>(Inviato dau\/nouseforaname888<\/em> su Reddit)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

\"Schermata<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It sucks to deal with men who push your boundaries and then accuse you of playing games just because you\u2019re not interested in them. And there is so much more! Here are a few key points why modern dating sucks for women:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u00c8 uno schifo avere a che fare con uomini invadenti in continuazione<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"una<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Some men can be really stubborn and regardless of what you say to them, they\u2019ll keep testing your boundaries. If you ask me, there\u2019s a special place in Hell for such men. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The more polite you are to them, the less willing they are to accept the fact that you\u2019re not into them.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you lose your cool, they accuse you of being a \u201ccareless bitch\u201d who only thinks about herself. Some men don\u2019t take No<\/em> for an answer and that\u2019s what makes modern dating so exhausting! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. \u00c8 uno schifo avere a che fare con i giocatori<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s my \u201cfavorite\u201d kind – players. They will text you day and night only to lure you in and then they will vanish into thin air. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Giocare a giochi caldi e freddi \u00e8 il loro hobby preferito. Troveranno scuse, faranno false promesse e faranno esattamente ci\u00f2 che pensano possa farvi innamorare di loro.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi perseguiteranno e poi vi costringeranno a pensare che ve lo siete meritato. Avere a che fare con i giocatori \u00e8 una delle cose peggiori quando si tratta di appuntamenti moderni, perch\u00e9 \u00e8 uno schifo ENORME!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. It sucks to deal with men who don\u2019t know how to communicate<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"una<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Apart from players, there are also men who don’t know how to communicate either virtually or IRL. Such men will bombard you with questions or write a simple \u201cHi\u201d waiting for you to continue the conversation as if you contacted them first. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some men don\u2019t bother replying to longer texts thus leaving you on<\/strong> leggere<\/em><\/strong>. Some of them force uninteresting conversations and don\u2019t ask the right questions<\/strong> (read: meaningful questions). Well, it sucks to deal with men who don\u2019t know how to communicate!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. \u00c8 uno schifo continuare a sentire che Le donne sono complicate<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Le donne sono davvero complicate o sono gli uomini a complicare le cose a causa degli appuntamenti moderni? It sucks to hear that your wishes and needs are complicated for men to understand when it shouldn\u2019t be so.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I daresay that only low effort men use the word \u2018complicated\u2019 to justify their unwillingness to invest in their relationships. Amen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. \u00c8 uno schifo pensare troppo a tutto.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Care donne, so esattamente come vi sentite:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m so sick of not texting back immediately so that I don\u2019t appear desperate.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m so sick of overthinking when he doesn\u2019t text back for hours.\u201d <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m so sick of receiving unsolicited nudes.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m so sick of keeping track of who texted first in the last few weeks.\u201d <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m so sick of overthinking whether his profile is real or fake, or whether my text message is too long for him to read.\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It sucks to overthink everything and that\u2019s why modern dating SUCKS!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. \u00c8 uno schifo accontentarsi di poco o pretendere troppo.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"una<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Is expecting them to reply to your every text (be it short or long) too much to ask for? Does keeping up with someone\u2019s bullshit means settling for too little? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Modern dating is forcing us to shift from one extreme to the other. The word \u2018balance\u2019 doesn\u2019t exist here. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si \u00e8 costretti ad accontentarsi di poco o a pretendere troppo.<\/strong> Anche essere ripetutamente delusi dalle persone con cui si esce fa molto schifo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. It sucks to pretend that modern dating doesn\u2019t suck<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

And do you know what sucks the most? It\u2019s the fact that we should keep pretending that modern dating doesn\u2019t suck at all. SERIAMENTE?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dobbiamo continuare a sprecare il nostro tempo con gli appuntamenti moderni senza mai interrogarci sulle loro conseguenze?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t enjoy it, my friends don\u2019t enjoy it, my colleagues don\u2019t enjoy it, the friends of my friends don\u2019t enjoy it\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Possiamo ammettere che gli appuntamenti moderni fanno decisamente schifo?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Men who are SO bad at texting.  Players. Men who make you overthink things.  How many of you, ladies, have dealt with these or similar types of men at least once in this modern dating era? One too many, right? I\u2019ve been thinking a lot about this matter and here\u2019s my conclusion: Modern dating SUCKS….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":162486,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-162482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Dear-Women-Can-We-Just-Admit-That-Modern-Dating-TOTALLY-Sucks-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162482","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=162482"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162482\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/162486"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=162482"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=162482"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=162482"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}