{"id":162547,"date":"2023-03-06T10:01:13","date_gmt":"2023-03-06T10:01:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=162547"},"modified":"2023-03-06T10:01:19","modified_gmt":"2023-03-06T10:01:19","slug":"cose-di-cui-parlare-prima-di-iniziare-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/cose-di-cui-parlare-prima-di-iniziare-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"7 conversazioni da fare prima di iniziare una relazione di coppia"},"content":{"rendered":"
A dire il vero, se non si presta attenzione a questi argomenti prima di iniziare una relazione, questa sar\u00e0 sicuramente condannata a morte prima ancora di iniziare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sappiamo che l'onest\u00e0 e la comunicazione aperta sono la chiave di ogni relazione sana e di successo. Ma quali sono gli argomenti e le domande reali in cui si dovrebbe essere 100% onesti? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
First things first, don\u2019t be afraid to ask tough questions because if you don\u2019t, the whole course of your relationship might be altered, unfortunately, in the wrong way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Chiss\u00e0, forse quella conversazione potrebbe essere l'inizio di qualcosa di bello. Quindi, perch\u00e9 non provarci? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Qual \u00e8 il vostro punto di vista sul risparmio e sulla spesa?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
You\u2019d be surprised, but money is the second leading cause of divorce. Why? Because a lot of people get uncomfortable talking about money as if it\u2019s some taboo topic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you don\u2019t discuss your money viewpoints early on, you\u2019re not going to figure out what you\u2019re not aligned on until it\u2019s too late.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
So talk about equal say in financial decisions no matter who makes more money. If the financial decision power isn\u2019t equal it\u2019s going to bring up feelings of resentment or inadequacy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Talk about short and long-term financial goals and make sure they\u2019re also aligned.<\/strong> Hanno intenzione di acquistare una casa? Come pensano di andare in pensione e come stanno risparmiando? Hanno debiti? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It might be too much to ask for this kind of information, but they\u2019re definitely an important aspect of a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Come siete cambiati negli ultimi anni?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Self-awareness is another important part of your relationship. Asking your potential partner how they\u2019ve changed in the last few years says a lot about them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A partner who\u2019s aware of their growth and feelings is a partner with whom you\u2019re going to have a healthy relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Il cambiamento \u00e8 costante e chi \u00e8 consapevole dei propri difetti \u00e8 l'unico che un giorno potr\u00e0 diventare una versione migliore di se stesso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Quindi, chiedere informazioni sul loro passato, sui loro difetti e sulla loro crescita vi dar\u00e0 una chiara visione di ci\u00f2 che potete aspettarvi da loro come partner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Cosa si intende per imbroglio?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Watching porn? Liking other people\u2019s posts on Instagram? Commenting on a girl’s TikTok? Talking to your ex? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
What\u2019s considered cheating? And how does this impact your relationship?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
It’s not about what YOU feel you do is cheating. It’s about what your PARTNER feels about what you do with others. That\u2019s why defining what you count as cheating is one of the crucial parts before entering a relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c8 solo un atto fisico? Un atto emotivo? O entrambi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ognuno ha una propria definizione di ci\u00f2 che conta come imbroglio.<\/strong> Once you\u2019re done with this conversation, you should be on the same page in terms of what\u2019s considered cheating and what’s not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If this isn\u2019t the case, don\u2019t ever proceed with the relationship because it might end sooner than you think. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. Ci sono dei segreti che dovremmo tenere per noi?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Qualcuno potrebbe dire che l'onest\u00e0 \u00e8 la migliore politica. Vi avvicina e vi aiuta a entrare in contatto con un livello emotivo pi\u00f9 profondo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Others will say that some secrets should never be revealed. So how can you know what\u2019s the right thing to do? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Anche in questo caso si tratta di una decisione che dovete prendere voi come coppia.<\/strong> Rivelare i propri segreti pu\u00f2 aiutare a raggiungere una maggiore intimit\u00e0, ma al contrario pu\u00f2 anche creare sentimenti di costante paura e sfiducia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
So what\u2019s the right thing to do? Comunicate apertamente!<\/strong> Definite i vostri confini: devono esserci e fino a che punto? Siete autorizzati a mantenere segreti con il vostro partner che coinvolgono i vostri genitori o i vostri amici? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you don\u2019t discuss these things with your partner, secrets might ruin every relationship you start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. Le vostre aspettative su di me o sulla relazione cambiano?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Uscire insieme \u00e8 una cosa, ma avere una relazione impegnata e a lungo termine \u00e8 un'altra. Quindi, come cambia la vostra relazione dopo che siete diventati esclusivi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Are you hanging out more? Are you each other’s primary emotional support? Are you each other\u2019s emergency contact?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Going official brings up a lot of these questions. Some people like the way things are in the talking stage, while others expect a more serious approach once you\u2019re official. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And both of those options are okay, as long as you\u2019re on the same page. But how will you know if you don\u2019t discuss it, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. Quali sono i vostri obiettivi a lungo termine?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
L'amore non \u00e8 sufficiente. L'amore non \u00e8 sufficiente per far funzionare appieno una relazione sana e impegnata a lungo termine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
We\u2019ve been told our whole life that love is all you need and it\u2019s not true. VALORI, OBIETTIVI E STILE DI VITA. <\/strong>Sono queste le cose di cui avete bisogno, oltre all'amore. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s not just about what you want to do this weekend, but what you want to do with your life. Parlare di obiettivi a lungo termine \u00e8 come giocare una partita a scacchi. <\/strong>You\u2019re both looking ahead, planning your moves, and strategizing for the future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you talk about long-term goals, you\u2019re discussing the moves and strategies for your relationship. You\u2019re looking at the bigger picture and considering how to make sure that your relationship is successful and full of joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. Sesso?\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Sex. One of the most important parts of the relationship. When it\u2019s good, it\u2019s only like 20% of the relationship. When the sex is good, you don\u2019t care about it that much. You\u2019re not thinking about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ma quando il sesso \u00e8 cattivo, pu\u00f2 occupare 80% perch\u00e9 ha molto a che fare con i vostri sentimenti e il vostro desiderio effettivo di stare con quella persona. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sexual preferences and experience aren\u2019t crucial, but they are important. When you love someone, you will selflessly adapt to their preferences, but only to the extent that your comfort zone allows.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what should you do when you have completely different preferences? And for one reason or another, you just can\u2019t adapt to them? Will the love fade? The emotional connection? Probably yes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Quindi parlate di sesso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t Forget<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
I heard numerous stories of how people ended several years-long relationships because they didn\u2019t talk about the right things when they needed to and I\u2019m sure you don\u2019t want to be one of those couples. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
So what\u2019s the right thing to do? PARLA!<\/strong> Talk about the important things. Sex, finances, self-awareness\u2026Those are all things that will become a problem later on if you haven\u2019t discussed them at the very beginning. But asking those questions isn\u2019t enough. Don\u2019t forget to bring honesty with you!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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