{"id":16265,"date":"2020-09-13T10:18:16","date_gmt":"2020-09-13T10:18:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16265"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:12:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:12:44","slug":"rose-di-cioccolato-grande-vogliono-qualcosa-di-reale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/rose-di-cioccolato-grande-vogliono-qualcosa-di-reale\/","title":{"rendered":"Rose e cioccolato sono fantastici, ma voglio qualcosa di vero"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ho sempre sognato un amore che ti porta la cioccolata quando sei triste e le rose quando esci.<\/p>\n<p>Un amore che ti conquista con gli orsacchiotti e si appiccica con lo zucchero filato. Un amore che ti fa venire le farfalle e ti fa ballare la mattina quando ti svegli.<\/p>\n<p>Ma in questo momento voglio qualcosa di reale. Voglio che sia reale quando tutto il resto non lo \u00e8.<\/p>\n<p><em>Voglio un amore che mi tenga stretta quando il dolore mi fa a pezzi.<\/em> Un amore che ha il potere di tenermi tutto intero, un amore che dura e rimane.<\/p>\n<p>I want that love who will make me feel wanted even when I don\u2019t want to be around myself. I want that love to give me a reason to fight and hope it\u2019ll last.<\/p>\n<p><em>Voglio un amore che mi vizi con la fedelt\u00e0, non con i regali.<\/em> I want to feel like I\u2019m the only woman in the world and to go to bed without wondering if I\u2019m good enough.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119524\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6.jpg\" alt=\"coppia in piedi all&#039;aperto che si abbraccia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-standing-outdoor-hugging6-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ne ho abbastanza di giochi e bugie. Ne ho abbastanza di sentirmi tradita e umiliata con regali che dovrebbero farmi sentire meglio.<\/p>\n<p>Non ci sono abbastanza rose in questo mondo che possano riempire il buco nel mio cuore che il tradimento ha lasciato.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 diamante abbastanza grande che possa nascondere il fatto che la persona che doveva stare al mio fianco mi ha tradito.<\/p>\n<p>E non c'\u00e8 cioccolato abbastanza dolce che possa lavare via il sapore amaro che il dolore lascia in bocca.<\/p>\n<p><em>Quindi, voglio un amore che mi vizi con gentilezza e amore.<\/em> Quel dolce tipo di amore che scaccia le mie paure e i miei incubi.<\/p>\n<p>That love who will love my scars and love me for who I am. I don\u2019t want expensive dresses and fake compliments.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119525\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing.jpg\" alt=\"coppia nella natura che si abbraccia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-in-nature-embracing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to hear how I would look better if I wore this and that. Because I love myself this way. I love my skinny jeans and my superhero t-shirts.<\/p>\n<p>Amo le mie lentiggini e i miei capelli folli e fulminati.<\/p>\n<p>It took me too long to love them as they are to let anyone take them away from me, to let anyone change any aspect of who I am, just because I don\u2019t fit into their mold of perfection.<\/p>\n<p><em>Voglio un amore che mi veda. La vera me.<\/em> Voglio un amore che veda il fuoco nei miei occhi e il blu nella mia anima. Voglio un amore che veda la passione e l'amore dietro queste mura.<\/p>\n<p>E voglio che quell'amore li faccia crollare. Non con parole dolci e regali, ma con amore e cura.<\/p>\n<p>Con le azioni. Con un caldo abbraccio, un tocco gentile e una voce dolce. Con onest\u00e0 e lealt\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119526\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing.jpg\" alt=\"coppia felice a letto abbracciata\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/happy-couple-in-bed-embracing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>I want a love that will stay. I don\u2019t want another fling with an expiration date.<\/em> I don\u2019t want another relationship where I give parts of myself to make the other person whole.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t keep on rebuilding myself, picking up the pieces once they\u2019re gone and trying to make it through another heartbreak while they dance away with everything I gave them.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want another give-and-take relationship. I don\u2019t want another game of power where I have to prove my worth and my love.<\/p>\n<p><em>Voglio un amore che sappia.<\/em> A love who knows that when I laugh away the compliments, it\u2019s not because I want to insult them, it\u2019s because I\u2019m not used to them.<\/p>\n<p>Un amore che sa che quando ho bisogno di stare da sola, lo amo ancora. Un amore che sa quando condividere il silenzio con me e quando stringermi forte.<\/p>\n<p>Un amore che sa che siamo fatti per lottare insieme, per combattere e amare insieme e non per prosciugare le emozioni e la forza l'uno dell'altro.<\/p>\n<p><em>Il cioccolato e le rose sono fantastici. Ma io voglio l'amore vero. Voglio quell'amore sempreverde.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-119913\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Rose e cioccolato sono fantastici, ma voglio qualcosa di vero\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I always dreamed of a love who brings you chocolate when you\u2019re sad and roses when you\u2019re going out. A love who wins you teddy bears and gets sticky with cotton candy. A love who gives you butterflies and makes you dance around in the morning when you wake up. But right now, I want&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":119523,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16265","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Roses-And-Chocolate-Are-Great-But-I-Want-Something-Real-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16265","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16265"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16265\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16265"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16265"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16265"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}