{"id":16291,"date":"2018-03-13T11:09:26","date_gmt":"2018-03-13T11:09:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16291"},"modified":"2021-09-07T16:07:13","modified_gmt":"2021-09-07T16:07:13","slug":"se-fate-queste-5-cose-bellissime-attirerete-sicuramente-un-vero-uomo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-fate-queste-5-cose-bellissime-attirerete-sicuramente-un-vero-uomo\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fate queste 5 cose belle, attirerete sicuramente un vero uomo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To meet a man is easy but to meet a man you want to date is like winning the lottery. The dating world is like living in a jungle. Only the strongest ones survive and while you\u2019re searching for the right one, there are a lot of deadly wrong ones out there.<\/p>\n<p>Se uno sbagliato ti prende tra le sue grinfie, ti ritrovi a soffocare le tue stesse lacrime, a urlare contro il mondo, arrabbiato per la sua ingiustizia.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s always easier to blame them and their inability to commit, their insecurity and the fact that they are emotionally unavailable, and mostly that is true but it\u2019s not the only factor why you attract the wrong kind of guys.<\/p>\n<p>Some things depend on you, too. It\u2019s true that you can\u2019t change the environment you\u2019re surrounded by but you can adapt yourself. Not change, just adapt, and then you have a chance of meeting an actual real man. Appreciate yourself more and don\u2019t take just anything that comes your way.<\/p>\n<p>Women know to do this out of fear of staying single, so they settle for the first man who is not that awful. This is the biggest mistake you can make. Stay true to yourself, don\u2019t change but adapt by improving.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. Amare il proprio corpo<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>You are just perfect the way you are. Love every single thing about your body because you own it, it\u2019s yours. It\u2019s unique, no one else has it. That\u2019s one of the reasons it has to be special.<\/p>\n<p>Once you learn to appreciate your body, you\u2019ll appreciate yourself more and you won\u2019t<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/non-accontentarsi-mai-della-vita\/\"> accontentarsi di meno<\/a> di quanto non meritiate mai pi\u00f9. Compratevi un bel vestito, magari che mostri di pi\u00f9 le spalle, perch\u00e9 gli uomini adorano vedere le spalle scoperte.<\/p>\n<p>But make sure you don\u2019t dress in something that screams sex on your first date. It will leave the wrong impression or it will just appear that you\u2019re trying too hard.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Don\u2019t act hot \u2018n\u2019 cold<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Real men don\u2019t buy this shit. Real men don\u2019t like playing these games. So, if you want to attract the wrong kinds of guys or an immature mama\u2019s boy, act interested one day and completely ignore him the next.<\/p>\n<p>This works with douchebags and not someone you would really like to date. Don\u2019t act like you\u2019re not interested and expect him to read your mind.<\/p>\n<p>If you like him, tell him and if you feel comfortable and you trust him enough to tell him, then he\u2019s probably the right kind of man you would like to date.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. Trattatevi come lui vuole trattarvi<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A man likes seeing a woman who puts herself first, who is independent and strong. He wants to see that you can take care of yourself and you don\u2019t need anybody\u2019s help.<\/p>\n<p>Ha bisogno di vedere che siete in grado di<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/in-2018-love-yourself\/\"> amare se stessi<\/a> allo stesso modo in cui lui amerebbe voi. Vuole vedere che voi rispettate voi stesse e lui vi rispetter\u00e0 a sua volta.<\/p>\n<p>Cercate di investire in voi stesse il pi\u00f9 possibile. Questo gli dimostrer\u00e0 che vi prendete cura di voi stesse tanto quanto lui.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. Siate gentili<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>This is one beautiful trait most women have and all real men adore. Society and the media have both shown a completely different picture of what men love\u2014 a sexy, dirty badass who doesn\u2019t care about anybody other than herself.<\/p>\n<p>That is true but only to some extent. You have to care about yourself and love yourself, but in addition to this, you have to have compassion for others. And that\u2019s what real men really like.<\/p>\n<p>Who wouldn\u2019t want a nice, kind woman always by their side, a woman they know won\u2019t cheat on them and make them look like a complete idiot? So, yes, kindness works.<\/p>\n<p>Provate qualche volta e vedete voi stessi. Un avvertimento: la gentilezza funziona solo con gli uomini veri e non con i ragazzi.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Lasciatelo guidare<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Smettete di cercare sempre di avere il controllo. Se finalmente avete trovato l'uomo che amate e volete passare il resto della vostra vita con lui, lasciate che sia lui a comandare per un po'. Imparate a prendere il suo posto, perch\u00e9 nessuno pu\u00f2 sopportare una vita intera in cui si \u00e8 comandati a bacchetta.<\/p>\n<p>Also, it leaves the impression that you don\u2019t trust him and you don\u2019t think he is capable of making the right decisions. It\u2019s okay to think that you are right but dismissing his opinions and his input may really <a href=\"https:\/\/www.relrules.com\/10-silly-habits-that-seriously-damage-your-relationship\/\" rel=\"noopener\">danneggiare la vostra relazione<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Avete bisogno di un uomo che sappia prendere decisioni e farsi valere. L'unica cosa che dovete imparare a fare \u00e8 ascoltarlo di tanto in tanto e dargli la possibilit\u00e0 di dimostrare quanto vale.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not the point to change yourself, just to try to make yourself better. If you succeed in this, you\u2019ll automatically draw real men closer to you. And not only that but this will also benefit you and make you the best version of yourself.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To meet a man is easy but to meet a man you want to date is like winning the lottery. The dating world is like living in a jungle. Only the strongest ones survive and while you\u2019re searching for the right one, there are a lot of deadly wrong ones out there. 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