{"id":16300,"date":"2020-07-13T14:10:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-13T14:10:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16300"},"modified":"2022-01-04T16:45:45","modified_gmt":"2022-01-04T16:45:45","slug":"i-5-motivi-piu-comuni-per-cui-gli-uomini-hanno-paura-dellamore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-5-motivi-piu-comuni-per-cui-gli-uomini-hanno-paura-dellamore\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi pi\u00f9 comuni per cui gli uomini hanno paura dell'amore"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Sono stati feriti gravemente in passato<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103878\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste seduto in salotto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Che ci crediate o no, anche gli uomini possono essere feriti gravemente. \u00c8 solo che noi, come donne, siamo dall'altra parte dell'equazione e non ce ne rendiamo conto.<\/p>\n<p>I loro cuori sanguinano proprio come i nostri e lasciano inevitabili cicatrici. Cos\u00ec, la prossima volta che vorranno riprovarci, avranno costruito spessi muri intorno a s\u00e9 e non saranno disposti a rischiare di essere feriti di nuovo.<\/p>\n<p>They become so focused on creating this tough image about themselves that nothing can touch them. They don\u2019t talk about their past much; they hardly ever talk about their emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Si chiudono in se stessi in modo che nessuno possa vedere che sono emotivamente devastati.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Le donne li percepiscono come<a href=\"https:\/\/www.learning-mind.com\/cold-hearted-person\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> cuore freddo<\/a> quando in realt\u00e0 desiderano l'amore proprio come noi, ma non sono cos\u00ec desiderosi di parlarne apertamente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Non sono soddisfatti della loro posizione attuale<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103880\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds.jpg\" alt=\"uomo preoccupato in una mente profonda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-in-deep-minds-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>C'\u00e8 l'immagine preistorica dell'uomo che \u00e8 fornitore e protettore; colui che sar\u00e0 finanziariamente indipendente e abbastanza forte da affrontare tutto ci\u00f2 che lo ostacola.<\/p>\n<p>If he is not in a good place emotionally, if he has some family issues, if he is currently unable to find work or he is working some dead-end job he wants to get out of, he won\u2019t even think about dating.<\/p>\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che sentir\u00e0 semplicemente di non essere abbastanza. La sua mente lavorer\u00e0 per risolvere la situazione in cui si trova ora, in modo da poter essere in grado di uscire con qualcuno e sentirsi finalmente degno dell'amore.<\/p>\n<p>Vorr\u00e0 portare qualcosa in tavola e sentirsi all'altezza della donna che frequenta.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hanno uno spirito inquieto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103881\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-holding-hand-on-the-head.jpg\" alt=\"uomo preoccupato che tiene la mano sulla testa\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-holding-hand-on-the-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-holding-hand-on-the-head-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-holding-hand-on-the-head-768x523.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/worried-man-holding-hand-on-the-head-150x102.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Hanno paura che l'amore domi il loro spirito libero e li metta in catene. Ha paura che l'inizio di una relazione possa significare la fine della libert\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Anche questo potrebbe avere a che fare con le sue relazioni passate o con la sua paura di impegnarsi in generale.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line is he will be considered a player regardless if circumstances made him like that or there is something in his spirit that doesn\u2019t allow him to settle.<\/p>\n<p>Una relazione \u00e8 qualcosa che richiede tempo, sforzi e investimenti e alcuni uomini non sono semplicemente disposti a darli al momento.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean they are going to hold on to that opinion forever.<\/p>\n<p>Forse sono ancora immaturi e hanno pi\u00f9 bisogno di avventure che di qualcosa di permanente. Probabilmente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/far-impegnare-un-uomo-usando-la-psicologia-inversa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">impegnarsi<\/a> un giorno, ma quel giorno non \u00e8 ancora arrivato.<\/p>\n<p>RELATIVO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/segni-che-ha-paura-di-quanto-gli-piaci\/\">25 Segni che ha paura di quanto gli piaci (senza rendersene conto)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Non sono disposti a scendere a compromessi<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103884\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio e pensieroso che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/serious-mindful-man-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Gli uomini possono essere molto protettivi nei confronti dei loro spazi. Hanno i loro interessi, i loro amici e la loro routine e hanno paura che se entrano in una relazione questo li faccia uscire dall'equilibrio.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t want to lose game nights with their friends, beer nights every other night, They are in their comfort zones and they are unwilling to leave.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t want to lose their spontaneity and perks of caring just for themselves.<\/p>\n<p>This type of man wants to do whatever he wants whenever he wants and he doesn\u2019t want to accommodate to fit anybody\u2019s schedule.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sono cercatori di perfezione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103885\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing.jpg\" alt=\"uomo bello e serio in posa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/handsome-serious-man-posing-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O, in altre parole, \u00e8 talmente preso dalla fobia dell'impegno che cercher\u00e0 qualsiasi scusa per andarsene quando le cose si faranno anche solo un po' pi\u00f9 serie.<\/p>\n<p>Pregher\u00e0 per i vostri difetti solo per non essere rifiutato.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, il fatto che vi critichi non ha nulla a che fare con voi, ma tutto a che fare con lui.<\/p>\n<p>Ha una bassa autostima e non \u00e8 emotivamente disponibile e non c'\u00e8 nulla che possiate fare per cambiare le sue abitudini.<\/p>\n<p>Qualunque cosa facciate e non importa se rientrate nei suoi standard di perfezione, lui trover\u00e0 sempre un'altra cosa irrilevante di cui essere scontento.<\/p>\n<p>Metter\u00e0 il vostro amore contro di voi, solo per poter sfuggire a qualsiasi tipo di impegno.<\/p>\n<p>Non dovete in nessun caso rimproverarvi o cercare di soddisfare le sue esigenze. Siate grati perch\u00e9 se n'\u00e8 andato.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103877\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Men-Are-Scared-Of-Love-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi pi\u00f9 comuni per cui gli uomini hanno paura dell&#039;amore\" width=\"448\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Men-Are-Scared-Of-Love-pinterest.jpg 448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Men-Are-Scared-Of-Love-pinterest-192x300.jpg 192w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Men-Are-Scared-Of-Love-pinterest-150x234.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 448px) 100vw, 448px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They have been badly hurt in the past Believe it or not, man can get hurt badly, too. It\u2019s just that we, as women, are on the other side of the equation, so we fail to realize it. Their hearts bleed just as ours and leave inevitable scars. So, by the next time they want&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":103887,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Men-Are-Scared-Of-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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