{"id":16301,"date":"2018-03-13T11:57:30","date_gmt":"2018-03-13T11:57:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16301"},"modified":"2021-12-20T16:15:10","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T16:15:10","slug":"ti-meriti-di-piu-di-un-messaggio-di-merda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-meriti-di-piu-di-un-messaggio-di-merda\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti meriti di pi\u00f9 di un messaggio di testo di merda"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi meritate di pi\u00f9 di messaggi vaghi.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are not supposed to have to find ways to interpret someone\u2019s \u2018<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hi\u2019. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are not supposed to be left on \u2018<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">seen\u2019 <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e aspettare a lungo che qualcuno ti risponda. Non dovreste lottare contro l'impulso di rispondere a qualcuno che vi manda un messaggio... <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018I miss you\u2019<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when he feels you\u2019re slipping away. You are not supposed to lose your mind <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-risponde-ai-messaggi\/\">when he doesn&#8217;t text back<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Invece, vi meritate qualcuno che non vi far\u00e0 mai <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/meritano-di-fissare-lo-schermo-vuoto\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fissare uno schermo vuoto<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, wondering when he will text back. You deserve someone who will find a way to let you know that everything is okay. That you two are doing great and there is no one out there he\u2019d rather text than you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You deserve more than crumbs of someone\u2019s online \u2018love\u2019.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All those times when someone left you in the gray area of love, stuck in the labelless limb of a relationship. All those times you were fighting windmills, trying to understand what to do then, what to do with all the love and not being able to define what the hell was going on. And all those times when that person who put you through hell liked your photos, knowing what it would do to you. Knowing you would be left wondering once more if there was maybe a chance for the two of you to make it happen. If maybe there was hope after all. You don\u2019t deserve to be played with. You deserve someone who will let you know that you are loved. Someone who will be honored to have you in his life and someone who won\u2019t have to prove his affection with the number of likes on social media, because he <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/aspettare-luomo-fa-sentire-bella\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vi far\u00e0 sentire bellissime<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ogni singolo giorno che trascorrete insieme.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi meritate di pi\u00f9 di qualcuno che vi tiene in attesa.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non siete stati messi al mondo per elemosinare l'amore e il tempo di qualcuno. Non siete nati per essere manipolati e messi da parte. Meritate di pi\u00f9 e sapete di meritarlo. Meritate di pi\u00f9 che aspettare che qualcuno si ricordi di voi. Pi\u00f9 che dover aspettare che qualcuno trovi del tempo per voi. Perch\u00e9 l\u00e0 fuori c'\u00e8 qualcuno che vi dedicher\u00e0 tutto il suo tempo. Qualcuno che vi porter\u00e0 ad appuntamenti veri, invece che a Netflix e a rilassarvi nei rifugi. Qualcuno che vi porter\u00e0 delle rose, invece di mandarvi emoji di una melanzana. Qualcuno che ti guarder\u00e0 e vedr\u00e0 la vera te, invece di cercare un modo per ottenere i tuoi nudi.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-16302 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/11.jpg\" alt=\"Ti meriti di pi\u00f9 di un messaggio di testo di merda\" width=\"467\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/11.jpg 467w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/11-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/11-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meriti di pi\u00f9 che essere illusa.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avete il diritto di sapere dove si sta dirigendo la situazione e di sapere se questo \u00e8<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/un-giorno-si-rendera-conto-che-la-lotta-vale-la-pena\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> vale la pena di lottare<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Men who lead you on, only to get the things they\u2019re interested in, are not worth it. Men who shower you with online attention but refuse to give it to you in real life are not worth it. Men who are incapable of committing and are hiding behind all these apps and emojis, I repeat,<\/span><b> non ne vale la pena. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You deserve that kind of man who won\u2019t hide behind his phone, who will open up to you and let you in. You deserve that kind of man who will lower his walls, because he\u2019s ready for you and your love. Because he is ready to leave the virtual world and create one with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meritate di pi\u00f9 di una relazione quasi telefonica.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi meritate l'amore vero, quello che dura tutta la vita. L'amore che ti fa sorridere quando apri gli occhi e che ti fa ascoltare le pi\u00f9 belle ninne nanne quando vai a dormire. Meriti quell'amore che guarda con te una maratona di telefilm per tutta la notte e annega nei biscotti con gocce di cioccolato. Meritate di avere qualcuno che potete chiamare alle 3 del mattino sapendo che vi risponder\u00e0. Meriti di avere qualcuno a cui puoi mandare strani messaggi di testo, sapendo che capir\u00e0. Meriti di avere qualcuno che ti risponda davvero, che ti mandi un messaggio... <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018Good morning\u2019<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and won\u2019t let you go to sleep without <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018Sweet dreams\u2019<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Qualcuno che non vi illuda e non vi faccia promesse che non pu\u00f2 mantenere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ti meriti di pi\u00f9 di un messaggio di merda.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meritate di pi\u00f9 di codici criptati che vi lasciano perplessi e feriti. Meritate di pi\u00f9 di un telefono silenzioso e di uno schermo vuoto. Pi\u00f9 di <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/goodmenproject.com\/featured-content\/stop-accepting-crumbs-attention-relationships-sdywr\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">briciole d'amore<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and a trail of likes that leads to another heartbreak. You deserve more than crappy text messages taken from Pinterest and cheesy movie lines. You deserve honesty, loyalty and a love that\u2019s real when nothing else is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-16303 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/template-za-pin-39.jpg\" alt=\"Ti meriti di pi\u00f9 di un messaggio di testo di merda\" width=\"467\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/template-za-pin-39.jpg 467w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/template-za-pin-39-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/template-za-pin-39-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You deserve more than vague messages. You are not supposed to have to find ways to interpret someone\u2019s \u2018Hi\u2019. You are not supposed to be left on \u2018seen\u2019 and wait ages for someone to text you back. You are not supposed to be fighting the urge to get back to someone who texts you \u2018I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":16304,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16301","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pexels-photo-392747.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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