{"id":16332,"date":"2020-06-14T07:48:00","date_gmt":"2020-06-14T07:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16332"},"modified":"2022-01-20T22:00:14","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T22:00:14","slug":"9-scioccanti-ragioni-per-cui-gli-uomini-rinunciano-a-fare-sesso-durante-una-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-scioccanti-ragioni-per-cui-gli-uomini-rinunciano-a-fare-sesso-durante-una-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"9 motivi scioccanti per cui gli uomini rinunciano al sesso quando hanno una relazione"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-sara-la-vostra-prima-volta-con-lui-secondo-il-vostro-segno-zodiacale\/\">Uomini che rinunciano al sesso<\/a> sembra l'inizio di una pessima barzelletta. Sembra qualcosa di impossibile perch\u00e9, per stereotipo, gli uomini sono interessati solo al sesso. Ma che ci crediate o no, pu\u00f2 succedere.<\/p>\n<p>And women can\u2019t help but wonder what the hell has happened now and does it have anything to do with them?<\/p>\n<p>Lo scenario pi\u00f9 frequente \u00e8 che l'inizio della relazione sia stato fuori dal mondo.<\/p>\n<p>The new couple couldn\u2019t help but keep their hands of off each other all the time. Sparks were flying.<\/p>\n<p>The chemistry was so powerful you could almost touch it. And they probably couldn\u2019t remember a date that didn\u2019t end up with their bodies intertwining and all of a sudden everything slowed down or their sex life became nonexistent.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto \u00e8 che le scintille iniziano a spegnersi un po' quando una relazione diventa un po' seria e di solito si tratta di qualcosa di spontaneo che entrambi i partner della coppia concordano silenziosamente. Ma cosa succede quando gli uomini rinunciano al sesso?<\/p>\n<p>Per rispondere a questa domanda, abbiamo individuato alcune possibili ragioni:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\"><a href=\"http:\/\/torontosun.com\/2017\/09\/08\/suffering-from-sex-overload-me-too\/wcm\/18157734-812d-46ac-aa31-0076e4011fd7\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Sovraccarico di sesso<\/a><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95818\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-lying-on-bed-next-to-sleeping-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa sdraiata sul letto accanto a un uomo addormentato\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-lying-on-bed-next-to-sleeping-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-lying-on-bed-next-to-sleeping-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/pensive-woman-lying-on-bed-next-to-sleeping-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 una ragione che nessuno vuole dire ad alta voce, e di solito nessuno lo fa, ma accade pi\u00f9 spesso di quanto si pensi.<\/p>\n<p>To be specific, it happens when man\u2019s and woman\u2019s sex drive are not synced and there is always one side that wants or needs sex more.<\/p>\n<p>All'inizio di una relazione, la coppia pu\u00f2 fare molto sesso o, per meglio dire, troppo, tanto che dopo un po' pu\u00f2 provocare dolore sia fisico che emotivo.<\/p>\n<p>A volte una quantit\u00e0 eccessiva di una cosa buona pu\u00f2 rivelarsi dannosa per voi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Una mente appesantita<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95819\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/upset-man-sitting-on-bed-while-his-girlfriend-lying-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"uomo sconvolto seduto sul letto mentre la sua ragazza \u00e8 sdraiata sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/upset-man-sitting-on-bed-while-his-girlfriend-lying-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/upset-man-sitting-on-bed-while-his-girlfriend-lying-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/upset-man-sitting-on-bed-while-his-girlfriend-lying-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se un uomo \u00e8 stressato al lavoro, ha problemi familiari, sta combattendo contro la depressione o qualsiasi altra cosa che lo abbatta e lo distragga, molto probabilmente non sar\u00e0 disposto a fare sesso.<\/p>\n<p>He will be more focused on the thing that\u2019s bothering him then he will be on the woman he is with. So don\u2019t jump to conclusions in thinking that you guys lost your passion or that he is uninterested.<\/p>\n<p>Osservate attentamente la situazione in cui si trova ora, perch\u00e9 potrebbe avere un'elevata influenza sul suo appetito sessuale.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Imbroglio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95820\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-kissing-against-the-wall.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che si bacia contro il muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-kissing-against-the-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-kissing-against-the-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/couple-kissing-against-the-wall-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 uno dei motivi a cui pensiamo per primo e che temiamo di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p>Se un uomo si rifiuta di fare sesso con una donna con cui ha una relazione, la ragione potrebbe risiedere nel fatto che ha gi\u00e0 soddisfatto i suoi bisogni altrove e che non c'\u00e8 bisogno di averne altri a casa.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t become paranoid either\u2014just because it\u2019s the first thing you think of doesn\u2019t make it true.<\/p>\n<p>Si renda conto della situazione in cui si trova e ne parli con il suo uomo senza fare accuse premature.<\/p>\n<p>Andate a fondo della questione, ma con intelligenza. Se \u00e8 davvero<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/fedele-in-realta-non-imbrogliare\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> barare<\/a>, there is no need to stress about it in advance\u2014you are bound to find out eventually.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dipendenza dal porno<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95821\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-lying-on-bed-and-watching-adult-videos-on-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"uomo sdraiato sul letto che guarda video per adulti sul computer portatile\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-lying-on-bed-and-watching-adult-videos-on-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-lying-on-bed-and-watching-adult-videos-on-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-lying-on-bed-and-watching-adult-videos-on-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some mensuffer from porn addiction. They satisfy their needs while watching pornographic material, so they don\u2019t have the need to have actual sex with their partners.<\/p>\n<p>And while they look at porn as a quick and efficient way to satisfy their needs and get what they want, they don\u2019t realize that they are missing out in real life and by doing so, are making their partners unhappy.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, il porno pu\u00f2 creare aspettative irrealistiche sul sesso, per cui ogni interazione reale sembra noiosa.<\/p>\n<p>If you are on a good path emotionally, not lacking his attention or care, you might want to check his news feed or talk to him about the subject matter. Staying quiet won\u2019t change anything.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Paura di non essere in grado di soddisfare il partner<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95822\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Depressed-young-man-sitting-on-bed-and-having-problems-with-his-girlfriend-in-the-room.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane depresso seduto sul letto e in difficolt\u00e0 con la fidanzata nella stanza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Depressed-young-man-sitting-on-bed-and-having-problems-with-his-girlfriend-in-the-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Depressed-young-man-sitting-on-bed-and-having-problems-with-his-girlfriend-in-the-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Depressed-young-man-sitting-on-bed-and-having-problems-with-his-girlfriend-in-the-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se un uomo ha paura di non avere buone prestazioni a letto o di aver avuto qualche piccolo incidente durante il sesso, potrebbe essere molto consapevole di questo. Potrebbe anche voler abbandonare del tutto il sesso.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t get any feedback from his partner about his performance, a man might think he is not good enough and unable to satisfy his partner, and it can have a major influence on his ego and his desires might decrease.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La caduta della passione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95823\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Couple-With-Problems-Having-Disagreement-In-Bed.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia con problemi di disaccordo a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Couple-With-Problems-Having-Disagreement-In-Bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Couple-With-Problems-Having-Disagreement-In-Bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Couple-With-Problems-Having-Disagreement-In-Bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is usually a trap of long-term relationships or marriages. After some time, the sex life becomes a routine\u2014something predictable and even slightly boring that the couple does out of habit.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi devono lavorare per ritrovare la passione perduta e rimettere in sesto la loro vita sessuale.<\/p>\n<p>Ma se c'\u00e8 amore e comunicazione aperta, le coppie non avranno problemi a vivacizzare le cose.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Interruzione della connessione emotiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95824\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-beside-man.jpg\" alt=\"donna pensierosa sdraiata sul letto accanto a un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-beside-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-beside-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/thoughtful-woman-lying-on-bed-beside-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>L'uomo pu\u00f2 essere come <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/13-adorabili-segni-di-attaccamento-emotivo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">emotivamente attaccato<\/a> come le donne quando si impegnano a fondo in una relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Inoltre, alcuni uomini separano il sesso dalle emozioni. Cos\u00ec, mentre alcuni uomini fanno sesso senza nemmeno considerare le emozioni, altri hanno bisogno di quel legame emotivo con la propria partner per rendere il sesso straordinario.<\/p>\n<p>Once they experience that, they won\u2019t have it any other way. So, if a lack of intimacy is the reason why a certain man is <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-motivi-per-cui-dovreste-aspettare-di-piu-per-fare-sesso\/\">trattenere il sesso<\/a>allora c'\u00e8 una questione pi\u00f9 profonda da affrontare prima.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Insicurezze<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95817\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/unhappy-man-looking-at-the-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"uomo infelice che si guarda allo specchio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/unhappy-man-looking-at-the-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/unhappy-man-looking-at-the-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/unhappy-man-looking-at-the-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Anche gli uomini possono sentirsi in imbarazzo o insicuri del proprio aspetto.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebbero diventare calvi, mettere su qualche chilo di troppo o sentirsi inadeguati per la mancanza di una confezione da sei.<\/p>\n<p>Qualunque sia il motivo, potrebbe influenzare il loro desiderio di spogliarsi anche di fronte a una donna con cui sono stati intimi in precedenza.<\/p>\n<p>Provate a fargli qualche complimento o a sostenerlo in qualche cambiamento che ha gi\u00e0 deciso di fare. Una parola gentile pu\u00f2 significare molto per la sua autostima.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Problemi di salute<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95816\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-taking-a-pill.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che prende una pillola\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-taking-a-pill.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-taking-a-pill-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/man-taking-a-pill-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The reason behind a man\u2019s low desire or no desire for sex can be of a medical nature.<\/p>\n<p>Un basso desiderio sessuale potrebbe essere una conseguenza di alcuni farmaci che sta assumendo (ad esempio, antidepressivi), conseguenze di un intervento chirurgico che ha dovuto subire o qualsiasi altro stato fisico o psicologico che potrebbe influenzare la sua capacit\u00e0 di avere prestazioni sessuali.<\/p>\n<p>Gli uomini che si trovano in questo tipo di situazione potrebbero sentirsi in imbarazzo a parlarne con le loro partner, ma sicuramente si rivolgeranno a un medico se vedono che la situazione non migliora.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-95814 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/9-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Hold-Off-Sex-While-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"9 motivi scioccanti per cui gli uomini rinunciano al sesso quando hanno una relazione\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/9-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Hold-Off-Sex-While-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/9-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Hold-Off-Sex-While-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/9-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Hold-Off-Sex-While-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/9-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Hold-Off-Sex-While-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/9-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Hold-Off-Sex-While-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/9-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Hold-Off-Sex-While-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Men holding off sex sounds like the start of a very bad joke. It sounds like something impossible because stereotypically, men are only interested in sex to begin with. But believe it or not, it can happen. And women can\u2019t help but wonder what the hell has happened now and does it have anything to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":95815,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29649],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16332","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-girl-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29649,"label":"girl talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/9-Shocking-Reasons-Why-Men-Hold-Off-Sex-While-In-A-Relationship.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Inna Williams","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/inna\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29649,"name":"girl talk","slug":"girl-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29649,"taxonomy":"category","description":"This place is reserved for all the spicy insights about the steamy details between the sheets, male fantasies and ways to make him crazy about you.","parent":29643,"count":180,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29649,"category_count":180,"category_description":"This place is reserved for all the spicy insights about the steamy details between the sheets, male fantasies and ways to make him crazy about you.","cat_name":"girl talk","category_nicename":"girl-talk","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16332","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/34"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16332"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16332\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95815"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16332"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16332"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16332"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}