{"id":16359,"date":"2020-09-14T10:36:04","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T10:36:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16359"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:02:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:02:17","slug":"alla-ragazza-che-ha-attraversato-linferno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-ragazza-che-ha-attraversato-linferno\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla ragazza che ha passato l'inferno"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro Lei,<\/p>\n

There you are, thinking badly of yourself. Seeing yourself as someone who doesn\u2019t deserve to walk this earth.<\/p>\n

Seeing yourself as someone who has no reason to continue this life when all you\u2019ve got in this life was pain.<\/p>\n

You have no more strength to fight because everything you\u2019ve been through has made you feel drained.<\/p>\n

When you look at yourself in the mirror ,all you see is a tired person who doesn\u2019t know how to continue. You know what I see? I see a warrior. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Vedo una persona che ha passato l'inferno, ma anche una persona che ha vissuto l'inferno. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Lived. You are alive. That\u2019s your biggest sign that nothing is over yet.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Paulo Coelho said that life has many ways of testing a person\u2019s will\u2014either by having nothing happen at all or by having everything happen at once.<\/p>\n

With you, it was this second case. Life threw everything at you and it threw it all at once. As if it was testing you, to see if you\u2019re strong enough to withstand the storm.<\/p>\n

Con tutte le cose che la vita vi ha riservato, avete avuto difficolt\u00e0 a far funzionare le cose per voi.<\/p>\n

At some point, you stopped and took a glance at your life and you didn\u2019t like what you saw. Because it was just too much to handle.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Not a trace of light was there in sight\u2014only dark days that were coming one after another, never giving hope that they\u2019ll end eventually.<\/p>\n

But no storm lasts forever. Regardless what the storm is about, it doesn\u2019t last forever.<\/p>\n

And what you need to do is hold onto things until the storm ends or even better, learn to dance in the storm. Because if you want to see the rainbow, you\u2019ll have to learn to love the rain.<\/p>\n

Nella vita nulla \u00e8 come sembra all'inizio. So che ti vedi come una persona che isn\u2019t good enough<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I know you think you were brought to this world to suffer and nothing more, but you\u2019re wrong. Life is just making you go through hell, so you\u2019ll know how to appreciate heaven.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been hurt too many times, probably most of them you haven\u2019t deserved. You have been hurt by the people you thought wouldn\u2019t do anything in their lives to make you cry, but yet they did.<\/p>\n

You trusted them and your trust got broken. But there is a silver lining there if you just choose to see it. People who hurt you showed you whom you can trust and whom not, and it\u2019s up to you what you\u2019re going to do with that lesson.<\/p>\n

The worst part of the hell you\u2019ve been through is the fact that you became too good at goodbyes. Nobody in this life should get used to seeing people constantly walk out of their lives and yet you have.<\/p>\n

Ma voglio che sappiate una cosa. Non tutte le persone che entrano nella vostra vita sono destinate a rimanere. Non tutte le persone che volete che rimangano saranno buone per voi.<\/p>\n

Sometimes what you see as a curse is actually a blessing in disguise. So, all the people who walked out of your life are the ones who didn\u2019t actually deserve to stay in your life to begin with.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019ve been through hell but you should never allow your wounds to turn you into a person you are not. You should never despair because of the things that happened in the past. <\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00ec, la vita \u00e8 stata dura con voi, ma dovete ricordare ci\u00f2 che il vecchio detto d'oro ci insegna sulla vita: Mai un fallimento, sempre una lezione.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Tragedy depends on the way you see it. If you choose to be a victim of the world, anything which happens to you will feed that dark side of your soul, where you consider yourself wronged, suffering, guilty and deserving punishment. If you choose to be an adventurer, the changes \u2013 even the inevitable losses, since everything in this world changes \u2013 can cause some pain, but will soon thrust you forward, forcing you to react. – Paulo Coelho<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Alzatevi in piedi e ridete del vostro dolore. Ridete perch\u00e9, anche se voleva distruggervi, vi ha reso pi\u00f9 forti.<\/p>\n

In the end, you\u2019re the winner, but you\u2019re the winner only if you choose to be a winner.<\/p>\n

Trust me when I tell you\u2014this isn\u2019t the end of the road. Not yet. Because you\u2019ve been through hell and now the best is yet to come.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, let the pain go. You\u2019ve crossed the hardest part of the road. Now it\u2019s time for the good things. Don\u2019t be afraid to embrace them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Che ci crediate o no, anche voi meritate di essere felici. E lo sarete.<\/p>\n

Il segreto \u00e8 non arrendersi alla vita. Siate pazienti. Il vostro momento deve ancora arrivare.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Alla<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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