{"id":16418,"date":"2018-03-15T07:57:30","date_gmt":"2018-03-15T07:57:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16418"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:55:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:55:05","slug":"la-triste-verita-e-che-non-ce-nulla-che-tu-possa-fare-per-farmi-smettere-di-amarti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-triste-verita-e-che-non-ce-nulla-che-tu-possa-fare-per-farmi-smettere-di-amarti\/","title":{"rendered":"La triste verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che non c'\u00e8 nulla che tu possa fare per farmi smettere di amarti"},"content":{"rendered":"

It may sound pathetic but I never imagined I could love someone the way I love you. I am not talking just about the intensity of my love for you, I am talking about the fact that my love for you is unconditional, in the real sense of that word. I am talking about the fact that I love you more than I\u2019ve ever loved anyone in this world, including myself. And not in a good way.<\/p>\n

When you love someone, you love them at their best and at their worst. But, lately, you\u2019ve only been showing me your worst. I\u2019ve met a side of you I didn\u2019t know existed. You did some unimaginable things to me and you\u2019ve hurt me to the bones. But, despite that, my love for you hasn\u2019t faded away. I still love you with the same intensity I always did. And it is starting to frighten me.<\/p>\n

Cosa devi fare perch\u00e9 io smetta di amarti?<\/strong><\/p>\n

When we first met, I have to admit that I played hard to get. Deep down, I knew you were not the right guy for me, so I tried very hard to fight this enormous attraction and passion I was feeling for you. I kept telling myself that this wouldn\u2019t grow into love and that I was better off without you.<\/p>\n

Ma prima di rendermene conto, ero pazzo di te. E ho pensato eri pazzo di me<\/a> as well. Before I knew it, I got used to you so much that I couldn\u2019t imagine even one day of my life without you in it. And I knew I was doomed. And you knew it too. You sensed that I couldn\u2019t fight my love for you anymore. You felt that I was starting to give myself completely to you, without anything holding me back. And instead of appreciating it, you started using it. You started using me.<\/p>\n

All'improvviso, you weren\u2019t the man I fell for<\/a>. Hai cambiato tutte le tue vecchie abitudini e sei diventato un uomo diverso.<\/p>\n

Un uomo che ha iniziato a darmi per scontata.<\/p>\n

A man who didn\u2019t treat me as a priority.<\/p>\n

Un uomo che ha iniziato a mancarmi di rispetto.<\/p>\n

Un uomo che ha iniziato a mentirmi.<\/p>\n

Un uomo che voleva cambiarmi.<\/p>\n

Un uomo che ha iniziato a usarmi in tutti i modi possibili.<\/p>\n

Un uomo che ha iniziato a tradirmi.<\/p>\n

Un uomo che ha iniziato a maltrattarmi emotivamente.<\/p>\n

E la cosa peggiore \u00e8 che ho continuato ad amarti, nonostante tutto questo.<\/p>\n

Your behavior hurt me more times than I could ever count. You made me a different person\u2014 I\u2019ve become nervous, anxious and I\u2019ve lost trust in people. I never knew where I stood with you, so I never had peace in my life again. You were always playing some weird mind games with me and you ruined my self-confidence. I was never sure of you or our relationship.<\/p>\n

Tutte le persone a me vicine continuavano a dirmi che you didn\u2019t deserve me<\/a>. Tutti mi hanno detto che ti stavi solo approfittando di me e che non avresti mai potuto amarmi come io ti amavo.
\nAnd although I pretended I didn\u2019t believe them, although I was always justifying your behavior because I was ashamed of it, deep down, I knew they were right. I knew you were not the man for me, I knew how bad you were treating me and I knew you didn\u2019t love me enough. And most of all, I knew you would never change.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve tried to leave you a hundred times. But some inexplicable, invisible force kept dragging me back to you. And no matter what you did, I went back to you. I don\u2019t know why or how but before I knew it, I would see you standing by my side, as if nothing had happened.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I couldn\u2019t accept the fact that you had so much control over me. I didn\u2019t want to face the fact that I was like your puppet without my own free will. Because I wanted di allontanarsi da te<\/a>, but I just couldn\u2019t. And the worst part was that you never asked me to stay\u2014 I was fighting all these battles with myself, without you ever being actively involved.<\/p>\n

Volevo allontanarmi da te, ma ti amavo troppo.<\/p>\n

I felt like a teenager who couldn\u2019t control herself when she fell in love. It was ridiculous. I knew who you were and I knew what kind of damage you were you doing but I still stayed by your side.
\nThen it hit me\u2014 there was nothing you could do to make me stop loving you.<\/p>\n

Quando si legge questa frase ad alta voce, sembra piuttosto romantica. Ma nel nostro caso \u00e8 distruttiva e devastante. E non c'\u00e8 nulla di poetico in essa.<\/p>\n

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