{"id":16428,"date":"2020-07-15T08:40:24","date_gmt":"2020-07-15T08:40:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16428"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:05:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:05:25","slug":"al-mio-migliore-amico-con-il-cuore-spezzato-non-e-stata-colpa-tua","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/al-mio-migliore-amico-con-il-cuore-spezzato-non-e-stata-colpa-tua\/","title":{"rendered":"Al mio migliore amico con il cuore spezzato: Non \u00e8 stata colpa tua"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/lady-vinia-feliciano\/2017\/05\/dear-best-friend-thank-you-for-making-everything-better\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><b><i>La mia cara amica,<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Seeing you crying over someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you hurts me more than you can imagine.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t understand how life is so unfair and how it always sends the wrong people to the good ones.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you were one of those less lucky girls who had to go through a heartbreak but there is something I want you to know: It wasn\u2019t even your fault.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Tutto il tempo \u00e8 stato incentrato su di lui.<\/i><\/b> He was the one who didn\u2019t want to put in any effort for the two of you. He was the one who cheated on you and he was the bad one.<\/p>\n<p>So, stop wondering if you could have done some things differently because even if you gave your best it still wouldn\u2019t have been enough to him.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t you dare think that you aren\u2019t worthy or enough. Don\u2019t listen to his toxic stories to win you back.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105983\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-comforting-her-sad-friend.jpg\" alt=\"donna che consola l&#039;amica triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-comforting-her-sad-friend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/woman-comforting-her-sad-friend-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t deserve to be with a jerk like him. I am sure that once your heart heals, you will be able to find someone who will make all the pain go away.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>C'\u00e8 un uomo che ti amer\u00e0 come me e non ti dar\u00e0 mai per scontata.<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b> So, please don\u2019t waste your tears on someone who couldn\u2019t even fight for you.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t turn those pearls from your eyes into mud.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Don\u2019t cry over someone who was a coward to not even admit that<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/13-undeniable-signs-doesnt-love-anymore\/\"> <b><i>he didn\u2019t love you anymore<\/i><\/b><\/a> . Lo ha fatto in modo diverso, andando a letto con un'altra ragazza e facendo in modo che tu lo scoprissi.<\/p>\n<p>Questo gesto dimostra solo quanto sia egoista e crudele. So che lo amavate e che era il mondo per voi, ma \u00e8 solo un narcisista sotto mentite spoglie.<\/p>\n<p>He is an emotional vampire who doesn\u2019t know to make himself happy but he needs to suck other people\u2019s energy out. And that was what he did to you.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Si \u00e8 approfittato di te. Ti ha prosciugato. Ti ha picchiato fino a farti morire emotivamente. <\/i><\/b> E poi \u00e8 passato a un'altra vittima.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105984\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-1.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna che piange\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/young-woman-crying-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know that you can\u2019t understand my words right now because there are thoughts that just keep rushing through your head.<\/p>\n<p>Ma quando le cose si calmeranno, vi renderete conto di ci\u00f2 di cui ho parlato per tutto il tempo.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Quindi, se sentite qualcosa che esce dalla mia bocca, voglio che smettiate di singhiozzare per lui.<\/i><\/b> Tenete la testa alta e asciugate le lacrime.<\/p>\n<p>You are way stronger than a man who couldn\u2019t even admit that he stopped loving you. You have love for the whole world and he doesn\u2019t know what he is missing.<\/p>\n<p>Ma una volta rimasto solo, si render\u00e0 conto di ci\u00f2 che ha perso quando ti ha lasciato andare.<\/p>\n<p>Vedr\u00e0 che nessuna donna \u00e8 come te e che nessuna lo amer\u00e0 come hai fatto tu. Cercher\u00e0 di trovarti in ogni altra ragazza, ma non ci riuscir\u00e0 mai. E alla fine rimarr\u00e0 solo e triste per averti lasciata scappare cos\u00ec facilmente.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105985\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"uomo triste seduto sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/sad-man-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b><i>E tu?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>So che siete intelligenti e che andrete avanti. Lo lascerete alle spalle con orgoglio e l'unico momento in cui vi guarderete indietro sar\u00e0 per vedere quanta strada avete fatto.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t suffer about him anymore and you will start a new chapter of your life. And when you stay alone, you will realize that he actually helped you.<\/p>\n<p>A man you cursed so much helped you to realize how not to treat a lady. He made you realize that you deserve the world and that you shouldn\u2019t settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, andate avanti, godetevi la vita e rendete felice qualcun altro. Questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che sapete fare meglio e sono sicura che un vero uomo lo apprezzer\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Tesoro, spero solo che quello giusto ti voglia bene quanto me!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-105981\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/To-My-Best-Friend-With-A-Broken-Heart-It-Wasnt-Your-Fault-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Al mio migliore amico con il cuore spezzato: &quot;Non \u00e8 stata colpa tua&quot;.\" width=\"467\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/To-My-Best-Friend-With-A-Broken-Heart-It-Wasnt-Your-Fault-pinterest.jpg 467w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/To-My-Best-Friend-With-A-Broken-Heart-It-Wasnt-Your-Fault-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/To-My-Best-Friend-With-A-Broken-Heart-It-Wasnt-Your-Fault-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My dear bestie, Seeing you crying over someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you hurts me more than you can imagine. I don\u2019t understand how life is so unfair and how it always sends the wrong people to the good ones. I know that you were one of those less lucky girls who had to go through&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":105987,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16428","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/To-My-Best-Friend-With-A-Broken-Heart-It-Wasnt-Your-Fault.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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