{"id":1643,"date":"2020-04-21T09:57:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T09:57:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=1643"},"modified":"2022-02-07T10:57:43","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T10:57:43","slug":"uomini-in-fuga-nelle-prime-fasi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomini-in-fuga-nelle-prime-fasi\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 gli uomini si allontanano nelle prime fasi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Qual \u00e8 il problema del sesso \"forte\"? A volte sembra che scappino da tutto cos\u00ec facilmente.<\/p>\n

\u2026 and they call women the weaker sex\u2026<\/p>\n

Capire gli uomini<\/a> can sometimes be harder than understanding women, but we don\u2019t complain that much, do we?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that we\u2019re left wondering what the hell went wrong for the rest of our lives more than we should, but it\u2019s not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

La domanda da porsi \u00e8: Perch\u00e9 gli uomini si allontanano<\/a> nelle fasi iniziali? Perch\u00e9 per un po' \u00e8 tutto un arcobaleno e un sole e poi all'improvviso si spegne?<\/p>\n

Che cosa \u00e8 successo? <\/em>Let\u2019s imagine you were on a date or it\u2019s been a few dates now and he seemed OK-ish or even as if he had a great time and then he disappeared. No phone call, no text, not a sound from him.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you \u00e8 diventato troppo appiccicoso<\/a>; you didn\u2019t have the time to. It can\u2019t be that you read the signs wrong; you\u2019ve been out there for a while already and you know dating.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that your clothes were too much; we\u2019ve passed that period a long time ago.<\/p>\n

1. He pulled away because you didn\u2019t really click<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

At first, one may think \u2018this is it\u2019, but there must\u2019ve been something different happening in his head.<\/p>\n

He might appear as if he\u2019s interested and then he changed his mind all of a sudden, but didn\u2019t bother telling you.<\/p>\n

2. He pulled away because he didn\u2019t like you<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Noi esseri umani tendiamo a creare nella nostra testa cose che in realt\u00e0 non esistono.<\/p>\n

Forse gli piacevi, ma non abbastanza da intraprendere una relazione con te. Quante volte la vostra immaginazione ha rovinato tutto?<\/p>\n

You saw things way better than they actually were. He didn\u2019t fancy you as relationship material and you stated clearly that you didn\u2019t want to be friendzoned, so now you\u2019re nowhere.<\/p>\n

3. Si \u00e8 allontanato perch\u00e9 il suo entusiasmo \u00e8 scomparso<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Pu\u00f2 darsi che abbia aspettato il momento perfetto (e voi lo avevate davvero), ma dopo qualche tempo il suo entusiasmo \u00e8 scomparso.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t feel as thrilled to see you come all'inizio<\/a>. He wasn\u2019t into going on dates with you and he didn\u2019t want to spend any more time with you.<\/p>\n

When that \u2018whatever\u2019 feeling got to him, he decided to disappear as well.<\/p>\n

4. He pulled away because he\u2019s scared of you<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Uomini, spaventati, come se... <\/em>You have to admit, it\u2019s the age of Wonder Woman and you might be way out of his league.<\/p>\n

Non hai problemi a mantenerti e le uniche cose di cui hai bisogno da lui sono il rispetto e l'amore.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not dependent on him and you wouldn\u2019t be under any circumstances.<\/p>\n

It could be the case that he doesn\u2019t know how to behave or how to handle such a strong female, so he\u2019s left with only one option\u2014to pull away.<\/p>\n

In his head, it\u2019s better to leave without a word than to stay embarrassed. It\u2019s a poor decision, but there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

5. Si \u00e8 allontanato perch\u00e9 non c'\u00e8 un terreno comune<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just from two different planets and it\u2019s hard to find any similarities.<\/p>\n

You listen to Adam Levine, while he\u2019s more of a country type, or you enjoy jumping into unknown situations and discovering new things by yourself, while he\u2019s a \u2018play-it-safe\u2019 type of a guy.<\/p>\n

Di solito, Gli opposti si attraggono<\/a>, but it\u2019s not a must. It could be that in your case, the scenario was totally different and there was no other option for him but to pull away.<\/p>\n

The truth is, it would be way less painful if you\u2019d had closure or a final goodbye.<\/p>\n

It would\u2019ve saved you from wondering what went wrong. Maybe it\u2019s not about the pain, but more about what is decent.<\/p>\n

6. He pulled away because he\u2019s too anxious to put himself out there<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

It may sound incredible, but people are fighting their anxiety on a daily basis and sometimes it\u2019s just too much to handle.<\/p>\n

You are an incredible person and he did the best he could to get you to go out on a date with him, but it\u2019s way too much stress for him.<\/p>\n

Although he\u2019d love to continue whatever the two of you started, it\u2019s much easier for him to just give up.<\/p>\n

7. He pulled away because he\u2019s a player<\/h2>\n

\"uomo
\nAnd that\u2019s what players do. He got you interested and now he wants you to chase him.<\/p>\n

Vuole che lo chiamiate, che vi chiediate dove sia e perch\u00e9 non vi richiami.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t do anything wrong, it\u2019s just the way he is and the best thing you can possibly do is to just leave the things as they are.<\/p>\n

8. He pulled away because he\u2019s a scopatore<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

Non ha mai pianificato nulla di serio con te<\/a>Voleva solo avere una fase con te e poi passare alla sua prossima vittima.<\/p>\n

Questo tipo di uomini non si accontentano mai, ma peggio ancora, quando se ne vanno, se ne vanno senza dare una chiusura.
\nQuesto potrebbe essere il motivo per cui si \u00e8 allontanato in una fase iniziale.<\/p>\n

9. Si \u00e8 allontanato perch\u00e9 ha ottenuto ci\u00f2 che voleva<\/h2>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

Nobody\u2019s judging, it\u2019s up to you how far you want to go. If he got what he wanted, that might be the reason he pulled away in the early stages.<\/p>\n

He\u2019d do it the moment he got what he wanted, regardless of how long you decided to wait.<\/p>\n

10. Si \u00e8 allontanato perch\u00e9 ha paura di essere usato.<\/h2>\n

\"uomo
\nPotrebbe essere che non vi siate mai preoccupati di offrire di pagare qualcosa o che abbiate dichiarato di aspettarvi che sia lui a pagare tutto.<\/p>\n

Also, if you said that you expected the guys you date to spoil you and to often buy you gifts so they\u2019d get boyfriend privileges, no wonder he pulled away.<\/p>\n

11. He pulled away because he didn\u2019t want to get broken again<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Forse gli sei apparsa come una femme fatale e lui ha visto che lo guardavi solo come uno strumento per ottenere ci\u00f2 di cui avevi bisogno.<\/p>\n

Mentre lui era a caccia della sua anima gemella, lei sembrava essere uno di quei women who doesn\u2019t settle<\/a> and he realized he\u2019d only get broken if he spent more time with you.<\/p>\n

12. Si \u00e8 allontanato perch\u00e9 spaventato dalle aspettative<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Forse \u00e8 pi\u00f9 un fan di un flirt<\/a> di una relazione. E forse voleva mantenere le cose piccanti, ma non ha mai voluto impegnarsi veramente.<\/p>\n

With commitment comes big responsibilities and certain expectations he\u2019d have to fulfill as your boyfriend and in most cases, men run away from those kinds of things.<\/p>\n

Whatever the reason may be, you at least deserved an explanation. He shouldn\u2019t have left you wondering what went wrong and he should\u2019ve had the decency to be upfront.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t you dare blame yourself or spend endless nights wondering what went wrong.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to stop questioning what YOU did wrong and understand that it can\u2019t be your fault when he didn\u2019t even give you two a chance. If he pulled away in the early stages, it\u2019s his loss, not yours.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t get to know you well enough because he decided to give up early.<\/p>\n

Ti lascia a chiederti cosa sia andato storto e passi ore a riavvolgere il film nella tua testa per capire cosa hai sbagliato.<\/p>\n

Wouldn\u2019t it be better if he could just \u2018man up\u2019 and say what\u2019s on his mind?<\/p>\n

There was no other date, there was no phone call or anything because he\u2019s a quitter. And because of this, he doesn\u2019t deserve you anyway.<\/p>\n

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