{"id":164488,"date":"2022-05-20T20:07:00","date_gmt":"2022-05-20T20:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=164488"},"modified":"2024-05-20T20:08:40","modified_gmt":"2024-05-20T20:08:40","slug":"4-fai-sempre-questo-che","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-fai-sempre-questo-che\/","title":{"rendered":"4. \"Fai sempre questo\/quello\"."},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1.jpg\" alt=\"Giovane coppia felice che parla insieme seduta su un divano\" class=\"wp-image-164489\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Young-happy-couple-talking-together-sitting-on-a-sofa-1-1200x801.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Quando si inizia una discussione con questo, lo si accusa immediatamente di qualcosa, sottintendendo che fa sempre qualcosa di sbagliato.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Non \u00e8 questo il modo di avere una conversazione sana e gli far\u00e0 scegliere solo la via della difesa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead of making sweeping accusations, focus on the thing in question and the present. If he has to defend himself all the time, he\u2019s just not going to take it that much longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"hide-grow-widget\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you start an argument with this, you are immediately accusing him of something, implying that he always does something wrong. That is not the way to have a healthy conversation and it will only make him choose the defensive route. Instead of making sweeping accusations, focus on the thing in question and the present&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":1,"label":"Blog"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":1,"name":"Blog","slug":"blog","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":497,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1,"category_count":497,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Blog","category_nicename":"blog","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164488","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164488"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164488\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":164490,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164488\/revisions\/164490"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}